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Book whoever you want to be on Booking.com. Booking.com Yeah. It. Hey, everybody, and welcome back to when reality hits with Jackson and Britney Jacksons in Canada. I'm like, He's here. So today we have one of my very best friends and valley cast members, cast mates. How do you cast members, cast mates, Janet Caipirinha? I'm so excited. I know I love you. I'm so happy that you're here. I can't wait. This is fun. So the valley. Oh. It's been a wild ride. Been crazy. It's your first. I mean, you were. So everybody listening needs to realize Jane has been around for a very long time. She's also been in a lot of things on Vanderpump Rules. If you look closely in the background, I will say I'm a non playable character and NPC, like I'm just kind of in the background, like having a drink or eating birthday cake or something. But I'm never speaking at my wedding. You know, you're like, Oh, I was crying. Yes, I forgot about that scene. Yeah. So Jeanette has a been around, and she's absolutely amazing. I want to get to the very beginning of you getting to know this crazy world that we're in. Yeah. So let us know how you came to be in L.A.. Well, OK. So I was getting I was married in Ohio. I got married when I was like in my 20s and too young, and I was getting divorced in Ohio two or separating. And I have family here in L.A. So I even had an uncle who I'm really close with. You've met and been over at their house. And so I actually filmed an episode of Vanderpump Rules at their house. Yeah. No way did we. Yes. Isn't that the one where we were like, yes, we filmed like at the at their pool or something on film that I remember being at the pool. I don't remember filming it, but it didn't make it on. Then I think it did because there was like the glass mirror doors that were in the thing and we were all like sitting down. I forget, I don't remember exactly right. Or was it la la la was with us? Somebody was having a breakdown. Oh my god, I feel like a rewatch research before this, but I think I definitely know that we filmed there. Well, so they live out in Los Angeles and I was like, I want to move somewhere where like, I have family, but I can get away from like Ohio in my marriage and life and all of that. So I came out here and when I was looking for places out here kind of secretly like my husband didn't know at the time that I was actually like looking for places and like planning my out. I was out here for a long weekend and I met Sheena at the pool at a pool party. Actually, I rented an Airbnb that was walking distance to this bar, the Sycamore. It was like this, like whatever. So my friend Ali, who you've met, who has been one of my friends from home, we walked up to the Sycamore for brunch and then we asked the bartender, like, where should we go for like a fun day? Like, what's what's cool that we can get into? And he was like, The Mondrian has this like cool pool party. And like, I was like, Do we need to like, know someone at the door? And he's like, No, you can just go. And so we went, and then I saw Sheena there. I had seen her on the show and I was like, Oh my God, she's getting divorced too. Or like she had already. Rob was with her at this point, so she had already gotten divorced. But like what was airing at that time and like, what I knew of her was like, Oh, this is a girl who's like pretty young, also getting divorced. So like, after a couple drinks, I was like, I was like, I'm not going to say anything to her. Like, It's fine. And my friend, I was like, Yeah, you might as well. Like, Let's go, let's get a picture. So I literally like, went up and said, like, love you on the show. Yeah, I know you're getting divorced now, too. Or she was like already, and she actually is my boyfriend, and I was like, Wow, all right. So things worked out for you clearly. And we, like ended up hanging out all day. Like once I told her I was like going through a divorce. Sheena, super nice to people when they come up to her. My gosh. Yeah. So she ended up she's like, Let me buy you a drink and like, we like, talk to, like, end up taking about shots, getting like wasted at the pool. And it's funny, like Ali and I laughed and I was like, It was nice to meet you, whatever. I think we exchanged information, but I was like, I'm never going to hear from that girl again. And here we are seven years later. Yeah, and she was like one of my best friends and the reason that I know everybody else. So like after that, I remember she, like, texted me a couple times like random stuff. And then when I moved out here shortly after, I actually ended up moving in with the bartender who told us where to go, which is wild. But when I moved out here, then it was like the first week out. Here is my birthday, and Sheena took me to Disneyland and like, treated me. And then I always say, like, I literally, oh, meeting my husband. So I oh my child, I know all my friendships. Now, in a roundabout way, my job quote unquote, like, you know, all this, I'm like, If it weren't for meeting Sheena that one day, I wouldn't have any of this. And it's, you know, I recognize give credit where credit is due. Like, I am very thankful because she really, like, introduced me to a whole new life out here. Yeah, I always think, like if that bartender would have told me to go to a different pool or a different spot, like what my life would be like now. Like, I wouldn't have Jason, I wouldn't have my baby. What have you? Yeah, and I'm like, trust me, I think about that all the time too, like if I wasn't in Vegas at the same, yes. Yeah. Kerry's birthday that Sheena was celebrating her birthday. Yeah, I've never met Jack. Obviously, we're going through our stuff like this. My life will be completely, totally different. Totally, you know? Can we clear, for the record, because I just saw somebody else say Janet stocked she just like Britney that was hijacked, so blessed me that was going to be right. Next thing like explained the people that like nobody stalked anybody. It was something I always try to be very open and honest. Like, Yes, I had seen the show I Yoshino was when I went to, I wouldn't have just randomly gone up to her. I did not see the show, but my best friend Kara. Yeah. And so it's like, yeah, of course. Like, we went up, you know, to them and were, like, introduced ourselves. Yeah, but it wasn't like this one. I wasn't stalking Sheena. Like, I didn't know she was there. When I went there, I just saw her there, and once I saw there was like, Oh, that's that girl from Vanderpump Rules. She's the one who's getting divorced. I'm going to go say hi to her after a couple of drinks and be like, I'm going through a divorce. Yeah, yeah. Like, that's not that you haven't called me, and I feel like there's a lot of friends not necessarily in our group, but in like adjacent to the Vanderpump crew that started like who met people because they had seen the show and like, went up to them and whatever. And they don't admit it. Yeah, and I think that's shady. I'm like, I'm not going to hide. That's very, you know, I would rather just straight up tell people like, Yeah, I'd seen the show. I went up to Sheena and we ended up becoming friends. It's wild and weird, I know, but it's the truth. No, and that's amazing, because I think that's very important to be like open and honest that I actually did not see the show before. But my best friend and you're like, Oh, about it. Like, yeah, like, I wasn't aware total, obviously. And if it weren't for kerosene it, you probably wouldn't have approached them and been like, Hey, what's up? Are like, partied with the I wanted to take a photo with Katie, so I literally took a photo of Katie and Cara together. That's so funny. Words comes up. We go to the bar. He's like, They're all like, Let's take a shower together. Katie was so nice. So we went up to the bar, took a shot. That's when Jax walked up and down the Jax. And then that was that was the beginning of everything. That's that's how we stalked our way. Yeah, I'm like, Doc anybody. And I think a lot of people got me confused with Harmon because I do believe I might be wrong. I do believe that Carmen deemed Jax, and that's how they met. So like, I think a lot of people were like Brittany deemed Jax. No, I didn't. I didn't him following him or anybody from Vanderpump or anything. It's a thing you can give people like a little bite of it, and then they're always thinking, there's more to the story. And I'm like, I'm telling you the whole story here, right? And I'll be open, honest, I could be like, Oh, I never knew who she was. I just happen to know. The truth is, I had seen her from the show. I approached her because of that. And but we developed a genuine friendship that when people are like, she just use Sheena to get in this group. I'm like, You think I've been wasting seven years of my life to use, you know who I'm friends with? Like, why did I did she now? I don't remember that. And then I'm using Sheena then to get and I'm like, That's also insulting to Sheena, but to make it sound like I would. I don't know. Yes, I owe this. I like to use her two to seven years later. Now we have the valet, and Jane is a main cast member. No, I like me and Jane met and we we had an instant connection as well. So you were single. I moved out here, obviously, when I was going through like, do you remember the first time you met me? Yes, you and Jax were broken up. It was during that period of time you were living in a like a hotel suite. Yep. And Sheena and I came, we were going out and we were like, Are we like out? And about one night we came to your hotel to like, meet up with you, you were getting ready and then we were going out somewhere. I forget where we went. I could probably find like a picture from the night or something in my phone, but we all went somewhere like a bar or an event or something like that. And I was the first time I met you, and I just remember being like, Oh my God, her accent makes me feel like at home or like, I know that like, I went to school in southeast Ohio for college at Ohio University, and it's like you start to get close to the Kentucky line or like down south and like, you get that accent. I was like, Oh, she reminds me of my my people from home. And I think one of the first that wasn't the first time I met you, but one of the first times we all went to Disneyland. It was like, Jamie, me, you. I think like Sheena, sister and mom, and we all spent a day at Disneyland. And I love Disney, but you and you and Jax were like, broken up temporarily at the time, and she had traveled a lot during that time. She's, she knows, a really good friend to be single with. Oh yeah, she was like, Let's go, let's go. That's so funny, though, because now, like me and Jane are so close. Yeah. And you know, this is seven years later, seven years. And obviously, even when we started talking about, oh, you know, there might be a show that's, you know, based around like you and Jack's friend group in like our neighborhood kind of thing. Obviously. Also, I had a long conversation with Sheena about like, how do you feel about this? Do you think I'm right for this? Like, you know me really well, like, do you think I should do this? Like, Yeah, it wasn't just like, All right, tuna have gotten what I. Oh, my goodness. I don't know. I need to stay out of the comment section clearly. Yeah, get out of the comment section did not listen to anybody because people can be so mean people are. There's been a lot of nice stuff, but just as much. I'm like, like, I don't know, just some of the stuff I see. I'm just like, Oh my gosh. Yeah. I mean, people can be like horrible in the comment sections, but like, of course, there's so much more love. Yeah. Like, people are really loving the valley. We're so grateful for that, obviously. Yeah. But I just wanted to like, make it clear how you came around this group. Yeah. And then obviously, whenever you marry Jason like Jackson, Jason got close like, you know, it's very like real and organic. It's not like we were like, Oh, Janey was stalking. So, you know, so now we want her to be like, No, that's not how it. I been super famous, because that would be like, wouldn't that be a good like true crime story if I ended up, like, we were like killing you, everybody or it it was like some sort of like cool. 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Like, Yeah, and I feel like you sacrifice yourself often, but you have, like, made a boundary in the sense, like a physical boundary that you have moved out like and you're like, No, I'm not, you know, coming back to the house anytime soon. So I think having boundaries is really important, like your own space and just telling the person, like, we don't get to talk maybe every day or all day, every day. Like, I know you and Jax actually have really good communication about Cruz right now. I think that's good. But having boundaries of like this is where I sleep at night. You can't call me for every little thing, like really establishing good boundaries. And then I always say, like, I like, don't like if somebody is being a jerk, like let them, don't react to it and become a bigger jerk. So like if Jax is, like, annoying you one day instead of being like, bah bah bah bah bah and like popping off on him, just be like, All right, like one thing I need to do better at because like if we get into an argument, I'm going to pop back on. Yeah, so it's like I got to like Real that end. It's hard because and it doesn't make you feel good afterwards, you know, like, I should've just let him be a jerk today instead of being like that. I, you know, told him often this and this, and now I feel bad that I'm the jerk. Like, I don't actually feel like over time I'm starting to like, get better. And then, you know, I'm starting to like, let go of a lot of things. Yeah, and then just I also, I think like embrace sadness, like separation, divorce, like all of it is like a sad time. Like, it's like not what any, but you never go into a marriage thinking it's going to end never. So, you know, also, just like if you have a sad day, like, let yourself cry, like, let yourself listen to a sad song and like, have that moment or and then reach out to your friends and be like, Alright, right now I want to go to dinner and be happy. But like when you do have moments of sadness, like, don't push him away. Yeah. And I definitely have those moments. You have seen me. Yeah, see me. Whatever I've been like breaking down in tears. Yeah, but I'm also like feeling very good and very strong. And yeah, I have like, I don't know. I feel very good at where I'm at right now, and it's not all or nothing. Yeah, I mean, it's not. You're all happy or you're all sad. It's like, of course you're doing really well right now and being strong and like, you know, doing your own thing. But I'm sure you still have moments where you feel weak or sad and it's OK to like it's, you know, you don't have to be all stronger all week. It's like you're always going to be somewhere in the middle. Yeah. And that's that's definitely what I'm noticing. Yeah, I've the ups and downs. Like big time. Yeah. OK, let's switch gears. OK, so this is your first time be in like a main cast member on a reality TV show. I know there's a lot of things that come with being on reality TV. Obviously, you've done it for a lot of years. What is your favorite parts and least favorite parts of what you have experienced so far? So I'll end on a good does. At least favorite first, I would say, is the trolls in the heat. Like, you know, and being sometimes misunderstood, you kind of always see, I think on shows like two sides to every story and you, you know, there's we don't see people what people say in their like interviews and confessionals until it airs. So hopefully sometimes there's things that happen. I'm like, No, wait, that's not what I meant or like. That's and, you know, being a little misunderstood sometimes or just having people, you know, having one of your bad moments caught and then people being like, Wow, she's really bratty and you're like, Damn, I was really bratty in that moment and like, Wish you could take it back, but you can't. You can't figure it's out there. So like having people hate because, you know, or say, be like, Oh my God, she is horrible de la. I'm like, Damn, I was horrible in that moment, but that's not who I am all the time. It was just one bad moment. It was a bad moment. And that's what I think a lot of people need to realize. Like, if you had cameras follow you around during your hard times, you're having a breakdown while you're pregnant or break down while you're fighting with your husband and like, you're going to have bad things, you're going to say things you don't mean to do things that you don't mean. Yeah. And we just we have to rewatch TV over. Yeah, I keep saying there's one comment, too that's gotten to me a little bit where people are like, she's just hiding behind her pregnancy while she's like conducting all this evilness and I'm like one. I haven't used my pregnancy as an excuse for anything yet like yet. Like, yeah, I might in the future, you know, I might have at some point, but you know, I felt like I was like, I'm like, I'm fine. But you know, seeing seeing the negative comments is not fun. I will say the positive is like getting brands that you kind of like. There's like a couple of brands I've always like, followed or purchase their stuff before and like having them slide into. IDMs, big, can we send you a package of like. You're going to you're going to send me like, you know, cookie dough and a stroller? Awesome. So like, that part's fun and it's fun also to have, you know, all of us hang out. We're all obviously real friends in real life, but we would normally like when we're not filming each other like once a week or like twice a week, whatever. It's kind of fun, like when everything's going on, we see each other like all the time, like, it's like almost every day is like something fun an excuse to get dressed up or or dress down and hang out. But like it, really like bonds. You even more because I feel like we get to see each other like even more. Yeah, now that's so true. That's like, it's definitely a lot of fun. Yeah, it's fun. It's fun to get to plan stuff. And yeah, OK. So now we all know that you are a new mother. Yes. Little baby. So let's go into some of that. How are you feeling as a new mom? I'm feeling good. Honestly, I felt like everything went almost too well for a while. It was really like I had a my birth, you know, was labor was hard, but nothing horrible happened. The first part of the first three months, I was like tired and all that, but I got through it. It actually the first time I actually started feeling like any sort of, I don't know, postpartum anxiety or feeling just like, not myself. A little bit was at three months postpartum, and it's still kind of trickling in now. But that was the first time where I felt like a genuine drop off, almost where I just felt really weird and off, and I couldn't pinpoint where the feeling was coming from. And then I started Googling, of course, like, I'm so grateful that there's such a mom network out there. But like I said, people actually talk about postpartum. I feel like they did for a very long time because I Googled I'm like three months postpartum like hormone shift. And it was like, this whole thing about science, about how like, yes, at three months you do normally experience like this drop off and shift in your body changes a lot. And I'm like, Oh, I didn't experience it early on, but I'm feeling it heavy now. So overall, I feel like I'm super grateful for everything, and healthy and happy is like all I care about, and I have a healthy, happy little cutie that I'm like, fully obsessed with. But for me personally, I did notice a big shift at three months that I'm still like working through. I just started therapy again because of it, but it's it's hard, but it's the best thing I've ever done in my life. Like, there's always struggles, but like, it's the love that you feel is incredible. And I'm so grateful, obviously, for you, for all of our little mom network that we've made, like so good that we have each other. My baby loves you. Like, he's like polio. He like smiles. He loves pretty pretty. He's like always smiling at you. And it's like, been really cute to see Cruz and him interact like Cruz, like was like staring at him the other day and he has pacifier fell out. My baby's pacifier fell out and Cruz, like, walked up and put it back in when he was like fussing. And I was like, Oh, you as like, you knew what would help him. I know like little sweet things like that. To see them grow up together is going to be amazing. I'm so excited. I'm so happy for you to think what has been your biggest struggle as a new mom? I would say that like three month hormones, shift was like hard getting used to not sleeping like I'm breastfeeding and pumping. So like, I'm up every three hours. Even if you sleeping through the night, I'm up. So just being tired and then getting used to bringing him places and feeling like even just comfortable, like it's literally like, you're like, Am I do I have all this stuff I need? Am I going to be OK? Like, even just like putting him into the car for the first time? I'm like, I didn't hit the stroller break. And he, like, started rolling off and I was like, Oh my god, oh my God, the worst mother in the entire world. What if he would have rolled into the street like, you know, just get it. You can't. You caught him immediately. But it's still like this mom. Mommy is like, very yeah. And the hard is when I'm like, really tired instead of like, you know, I've been trying to do a little neighborhood walk with him in the stroller every day. But on days when I'm exhausted, sometimes I'm like, I'm not, I can't do it. And then I'm like, Oh, I'm the horrible mom. All he did all day was like, Sit with me and walk around like I strapped him to my chest and we walked around the house together. I'm like, I'm the worst. I'm like, Actually, all he wants to do at this stage is be with, Yeah, honestly. And that's you're doing an amazing job. I'm so happy and so proud of you guys. You know, switched gears yet again. The other night we had a dinner party that was super at my new Airbnb, and it was a chef, Gino. Oh my God, he's a cutie patootie. He's so cute. But I want people to know that whenever, because actually, Jane and I played this together and whenever we were talking about this, it was because our episode on the Valley in Malibu. Chef Gino was actually in Malibu as well, and they just didn't show that part of our girls night, they didn't show us eating. Yeah, they didn't show up before and after and after whatever. I'm like shaking my Denise in Michelle's bathe. Well, they had to make room for that. Yeah, they had to make room for that. And my like mile long story about crab walking in the ocean. My God, I loved that so much. I was dying. I was dying, which I keep saying, I will say this all night at the girls that are always like, this show is called walking me like they are showing. My thesis is browsing modules frozen for a majority of the season. That was my own fault. And yes, I'm addressing it again because people seem to still not understand why my mouth looks like that on my head. I had that Morpheus done. When you told me you were doing that, I was like, I was like, Are you sure you're right? Yeah, it's a quick turnaround. And I was like, I don't know. I don't know. You should do that. And now it's like all season long. Like, it's my biggest regret. But I mean, not really my biggest regret because I love how it looks now. But the regret is that I was not. You didn't do it a couple of weeks. I didn't do it a couple of weeks earlier, a month earlier. Actually, you would have been and then I would have been fine. Like you can tell in my interviews versus on camera, like the difference, like I'm back to normal. My interview, right? And then on camera, it's like, you're downturned. Yeah, but people can continue to ask me, why is your face look like you're frowning all the time? I'm like, Did you not watch the show like I literally showed? And that's so frustrating for me because I feel like I feel like half the time people know what happened and they're still just wanting to call me about it. Jesus said this the other day. It's me because I was like, I was like, I didn't see that there was something I didn't see that Krista did. And I'm like, Why is everyone keep asking me if I said this and this and this and Jason's like, you know how you are when you watch TV, you're on your phone, you're half paying attention, you look up, you miss something, and then you just think something else happened. He was like, So just give people the benefit of the doubt, you know, they're going to make stuff up. But that is very true. But still back to the court blocking, you know, obviously what Hawkeyes are watching, I mean, maybe there's some Hawkeyes watching Bravo, but you know, it's mostly the girls in the game. Yeah, true. I know. But still, I'm like, Gosh, we didn't. We have chef Geno on there. But we had to be talking about the pooping in the ocean. And when the door out, let me let me make something clear, really fast. Whenever this happened on the boat, we were like out in the middle of the water. Like, what are you? Do you have to go? And I was scared. So Jax was like around me, but no worries. No people around me. Honestly, that's the nicest thing he's ever done. Yeah, that's why he's like one of the best things he did for me. But nobody else was around me like, I'm mortified that I did that, obviously. But that was like, You got to go. I'm telling the truth. You got to go. You got to go. s**t happens, everyone. You know, I think I don't know if I've told the story publicly, but I s**t my pants in front of Jason on our couch and Jason cleaned it up. Oh my god, I'm such a sweetie. I came out. I was a real I. When are you pregnant? No, it was. You weren't even pregnant. Was that time? Remember, like, it was like, I think 2020 or 2021. Katie had everyone over for Thanksgiving and everybody got COVID. Oh, it was like her Christmas party that weekend. Yes. Yes, yes. Yes. I always had Thanksgiving. And then she would have like the Christmas. The Saturday after there was like 10:00 or there was like 15 of us there and like 10 people got there. So like everyone got COVID. I was sick all week, had been like dress gross, whatever, and I finally started to feel better. So I put these like cute silk pajamas on and we were sitting on the couch about to eat and I thought I was have a cute little poop fart. Like, Do I look like a little fluff? I say, Yeah, I was like, This is like a cute little fart. So I just like, turned it, you know, lifted up a half a chicken and let it out what I thought was going to be a super cute little fart instead. It was hot liquid lava. Was a chart everywhere, not just a chart. Like it was liquid. Like just like I peed out of my butt and I immediately jumped up and then I looked at the couch and there was like a little brown spot on the couch and we had Jesus. I had cooked dinner and I had made like chicken with like mushrooms. So there was like a brown sauce on our plate. De Jesus looked at me really confused, like, did you just? And what he meant, I guess, was like, spill on the couch. And I went, Yes, I s**t my pants, OK? And I ran. I waddled. Rodell ran out of the room into the bathroom. I peeled my poop clothes off of me, got in the shower, rinsed off and everything, called my mom from the bathroom and I was like, This is it. This is the end of our relationship. Jason's for sure, leaving me like I pooped our couch. My mom was like, Oh no, well, he's a nice man. So hopefully he is nice. Maybe he understands that I walked back out and Jason goes, I cleaned it up with soda water. You think that's OK? And I was like, You're a dream. I was like, Thank God for you. Truly, Hasan is so sweet, but I love that you just hold that because it makes me feel while other mayors, because it almost looked like on the show that I always just like pooping in front of jacks, that is not the case at. No, and I like I like the whole thing was that Michelle goes the lobby. Yes, we poop in the closed bathroom in our view. And we'll be in the closed bathroom in a room and Jackson will still walk in there to tell me the smallest thing. And I'm like, Get out of here. This is what he's done since day one. And he was off. I was year round. He followed the rabbit in the bathtub. Anything like he is like, walk, that's to me, like basically just like wanting to have a conversation with me. So that's what I meant whenever this was on the show is in the fact that Michelle would like if they stay in a hotel together. She would like go downstairs, like, if I'm dating a brand new man, I'm probably going to do that too. I'm not just going to like, let it all out in the back of the bedroom. You're kinder than me, I think. Also, Michelle doesn't just go to the lobby, it's not like she's like, All right, Jesse had to poop and more in the lobby. No, she like, pretend she's getting coffee. She's going to go pick up some coffee and like a magazine from the shop, do you need anything? And then and I'm like, Girl, you're better than me. Like, I if I could have a wife, Michelle, I would say I think I would to pick her because I'm like, Damn, that's like, so considerate. Yeah. Like she like crazy. And after like Jesse Michelle's been been together exactly three months less than Jackson. Wow. So what I'm thinking whenever she says that is like, you still do that to this day. This many years later, I get it in like the first like year of your relationship, like my ex-boyfriend would. Never, he would never. I would never like. It was never around each other, whatever. But like Jax was just the opposite. He's just like immediately pooping with the two weeks in. I'm washing my hair in the shower and he has to come in. Oh God, it was where we lived. I think there was actually on better people, an apartment or one bathroom in your apartment. But that's the difference because I know it was like on water. I was like, They're like, Do you agree with Britney or Rochelle? Hold on. Like, I don't know, this is not an open door policy or the lobby. There's a middle ground, and that's where we are. Exactly, especially after nine years. Yeah, like that's like a big difference. But still, that was so funny. Yeah, so. Oh yeah. Yeah, we got into pooping. OK, wait. So back. We have a chef. I know chef Gino. We booked him here because we thought we were going to watch him or see his beautiful food on the episode. We missed it, but we did have some delicious food that night. We had some delicious food here. It was so awesome. It was amazing. And you know, you knew Gino from like our crack eggs, which we love Craig in L.A. He was a server there. And then during when during COVID times, he started posting on his stories that he was doing food drops and then he like where he would literally like, make those on you and you could go pick it up if you were friends with him. He was just like testing out food and then he became a private chef, basically because of that. So anytime we can use a private chef. Yeah. And he's sweet as a button and really nice to look at. Really nice look. It was really nice, yes, but it was such a good time. Like, you know, we had all the girls and the guys here, and it was like very fun and we got to well, we eventually got to watch the show. It was a whole day and couldn't figure out how to get it on the T I like. We can't figure out how to get our own shows on the TV show launched. You know, we're here. We can't figure any of it out, but Ocean was here and cruise was here, and it was just so cute because Ocean is like building her little magnet tile house and crews kept knocking it down. And she I was sitting with her and I was. She was like, Build this one. And she, like, showed me pictures of it, and crews kept eyeballing us like I could tell he was like, Those are my magnets. Like, what are they doing? But he was playing with like dinosaurs or some something else, like sitting right next to us. And I was like, he kept kind of eyeballing them. And once I built this thing, she was like, Yeah, it's great. And then also, Chris walks over and he just pushes it because it they fall apart. You know, it's like Lego ish, like smoosh. Is it an ocean furrowed up or facing US cruise? And she did the eyeball thing like from Meet the parents. Yeah, and those grooves, I'm watching you. And I died. I was such a low wall thing to do. It was so cute. Lala claims she doesn't do that. She was like, I don't know where she saw or learned the I think from where she's like fingers pointing and looking at, you know, Oh, I feel like I've seen Lala do that. But like, I actually had to. Maybe she doesn't realize she does. She probably doesn't realize, yeah, but it melted me. And then Cruz was like, Look at it. Ocean playing with her like little angry face. I was like, Oh, you guys like Cruz is like, Wait, what? What's going on? These are my magnets. It's my little ocean. When reality hits is brought to you by progressive insurance, most of you listening right now are probably multi-tasking. Yet while you're listening to us talk, you're probably also driving, cleaning, exercising or maybe even grocery shopping. But if you're not in some kind of moving vehicle, there's something else you can be doing right now getting an auto quote from progressive insurance. It's easy, and you can save money by doing it right from your phone. 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Oh my God, everything to the house because I want to make sure still, if Cruz's there like, yeah, but I'm starting to like back off, like the longer that we've been separated, like I'm starting to back off or doing those things more. But for me, like whenever he got this like edit to where he looks like he cleans the whole house and like, does I'm like people, I need you to understand. And if Jax was here today, he would say the same thing. He would say the same thing. I already talked to him about this like, he does not know how to turn the wash in, like the washer dryer does not know how to do. Any of that doesn't ever has never swept the floors, wiped off the countertops, done anything like that. So what he does do, though, is if we are planning a party and having people over, all of a sudden he's OCD and has to like, it's like a weird thing that he does to aggravate the s**t out of me. Seriously? I understand it's like kind of like a show off, like, Oh, I'm doing all this stuff. And it's like, I don't know who the host under my photo of me on the interview couch or whatever where I was looking very hot. My wife and they said something like, Oh yeah, so Britney comes out hung over and Jax is cleaning the whole house. I was like, Oh, oh my gosh. Absolutely not. No, I literally clean that house top to bottom. I do everything for them, and Jax would say the same thing. So, yeah, he was that day being aggressively like cleaning and stuff, but he does that anytime. We have, like in a like a party at our house, we would have a pool party and then he makes everybody feel uncomfortable whenever they get there. Yeah, it's like you're done with that drink. Let me throw that away. But he doesn't do that normally. So that's the thing I wanted to make clear because I was like, This is not how our life was at all. Give him the leaf blower credit. You're not using that leaf blower that you can give him your credit. Yeah, that's his thing. Yeah, he's supposed to take care of the art. Yeah, take care of the inside the family, everything like that. Yeah, he is the yard person. He's I'll give him leaf blower and I'll give him if you're stink needs plunged, which I didn't even know you could do, he may. What's happening? I guess that's his job, too. But the rest I will say is you for sure. I mean, I've plunged all the toilets. I've done it all too. So yeah, trashcans, trash cans, getting the mail and leaf blower in the yard, those are good. Those are good tasks for him. Yeah, it's not like he does nothing. Sometimes he'll do the dishes. Yeah, there. But I still I was just like, Oh, no, no, no. When you have the power that a big time now everyone's home. When you go back to your house, I know you go for like Cruz's speech therapy and like some of that stuff or like to grab stuff. Is there ever times where you walk in and you're like, Oh my God, and you're like, still picking stuff up? I can tell since I've not been sitting there all the time how different it is, like just like the counters and like, I'm very little things like little things like that. I can tell the difference and the fridge writer's not stocked o groceries aren't. I can't imagine he's not stopped. I can't imagine there is a while where the top of your freezer had like almost smoke marks coming out of it, because in Jackson, I don't know what's up with this thing. And I was like, Have you seen how much food you guys have? That thing's working overtime. I do it a little overboard, but like my mama has been very much like that because like I, as a lot of people know, listening like we all live close to each other on the farm. So it's like my mama is the person who has everything right. And I think I grew up thinking that and like, that's how I am. You're the host house. Yeah, and I love being the host house and I'm still even my baby. I'm going to be, though. I'm like, There's still all the snacks here. I love it. Like my pantry and fridge is the here. Yeah, but like, that's like, it's weird to see that, you know, whenever I understand wanting to keep stuff stocked for Cruz because I know you don't want him to go without all of his favorite stuff that's like stuff he needs. But you do have to just eventually. That's another boundary tune that I feel like you're going to have to put up of vaccines to figure out what's on the grocery list and make sure that he has the stuff for Cruz. Yeah, you make sure you have the. He's been texting me like, Hey, what groceries do I need to get for Cruz? Because I'm starting to, like, try to back off and he, you know, he obviously wants to recruit. I'm not trying to bash him in that way. That's why I mean, he's capable. Yeah, he will do it. He will. But I just wanted to make it clear that he does not clean the frickin how I was like, I can't believe that. And the fact that people actually said that. Well, sometimes you catch one moment of somebody and they people think that's how it always is. And it's like, maybe Jax is picking up this one time, but that's not the norm. Exactly. I also just felt like every time that the show has been showing me. My jaw is already frozen, I was maneuvering my outfit. I'm hung over like in my mom's car or like eating chips in the car, like, Oh my God, the chips in the car. We were stuffing our faces. I was like, I was like, You know, the drive, if you know, the drive from the valley to Malibu is like an hour long. Yeah. So, you know, when you have cameras in your car and you know all that, I'm like, I'm like, we could eat in the middle. They're not going to show this. And of course they do. They show us stuffing our faces with bunions. Yeah, yeah. And also, like they filmed me and Janet going into like a gas station. Yeah, getting all the snacks and then like getting liquor to bring to the party. And like all that, and then we're just like eating the whole way, stuffing our faces. I think I was married on some Funyons on that drive. It's so funny because like Jane is like narrating being like we just had a very nice plane. I forget all the words that you use. You're like, Happy, healthy girl, whatever it was. Well, honestly, that girl's night was the first. I'm so happy we had that night because it was the first time in a while where everyone wasn't screaming at each other. We kept getting together as a group and there was always unresolved stuff. Everybody had a feeling or something had to say. And this is the first time where we were just like, Forget it. Let's just check into this house. I swear it also has something to do with seeing the ocean. When you have the ocean view outside, you can't be an a*****e. Trust me, I agree. It was amazing, Chris, not her tits out. Yeah, which I will say as much as Chris and I have our moments. That girl has the nicest boobs I've ever seen. She's she told me that Luke was so upset over that. Really, I was wondering, is the thing I remember when I saw because I wasn't, I wasn't drinking, obviously this whole summer. So any time everybody started getting lit, I was like, I, I loved it. I was like laughing at everybody, like, you got to be sober and watch us all be crazy. It was just like, I'm like, Oh, I'm going to remember all this. And I remember when Kristen, all of a sudden she turned around. She had this robe out, or she had robe in her like boobs were out. I tried. I was like, Kristin, I think it's like in one of the trailers you hear me go like, Yeah, yeah, yeah, and that's me. And I because you, I guess you don't see and kind of some behind the scenes. It's like there's like ten other people in the room filming this and listening to our audio and all this. And I'm like, I'm like, Oh dang, the camera guys are getting a treat today. She like, she looked great, too great. I was watching. She looks great on watch. I'm glad, too. I was wondering if Luke was going to get a little bit like nothing like crazy, but I definitely think he was a little Dell Dell. But still, it's just funny. I mean, I'm so happy about the show. I think it's going great and I've said multiple times like how proud I am of all of you guys like brand new coming on the show and showing as much of your life as you have and like putting it all out there, I know it can be hard sometimes like, ah, like overall. Think we've made such a great show? Well, I just I think everyone came on very raw and yeah, like like Neha's stuff, this last episode of sharing her postpartum. I'm grateful for that now because just slightly having feelings like that and being unsure of what I liked that she yeah, I wasn't like, Oh, I'm not going to just diagnose myself with depression like I'm. It's maybe more than baby blues, but I don't want to put a label on it yet. Like, I understand that like not really being sure of what what is going on and how to describe it. So like, I really her putting that out there, I think is amazing. I think Jessie and Michelle putting their therapy sessions and stuff in and talks like that about their marriage, they could have easily come on. And same with you and Jax. Everybody could have come on and been like, We're perfect, everything's fine. Don't worry about it. We're just going to play it up and know everybody, like truly was really real. And we're like, We're not going through the best time, and this is what life and marriage is. Yes. And that's why I think our show is so relatable because like, these are real life things that all of us are going through. Yeah, and I appreciate it so much from you guys. Like I've said it so many times, like how because I know what it's like to be brand new on a show. Like all the pressure that you feel, bringing it back into pop was already like I was came on season four. Like, I'm so glad. Like, this is brand new. Yeah, like for me, it feels like really awesome that this is a brand new show today, and it feels, I guess, refreshing in that way. Like, you know, we don't see each other's, you know, moments all the time until it airs sometimes. And so when I see other people's stuff, I'm like, Wow, like like, this is really real. Like, I'm happy that everybody's sharing stuff. I think like in a couple episodes, there was a moment that you're going to see where I have a breakdown over something. And I remember in that moment all I wanted to do was escape from everybody, from the group, from the cameras, from everything. And I ran away and I sat for a second and I thought, I can either lock this door right now, not let anybody in and have my full meltdown, or I can embrace that. I agreed to share my life. Yeah, and let the moment happen where they're going to see me, maybe ugly crying and being really mad at. And all this stuff, and I remember being like, Oh, I might regret this, but all right, I'm not going to lock the door and are going to chase me in here and we're going to we're going to see the moment and that's like, awesome that you're like willing to do that because that's what it's hard to say. And it's so hard. Like, you have to like, realize that you're going to like, let your whole life out there for people to judge. Yeah, no matter what, like. And they will. As you become on a reality TV show, they're going to judge you the way you look, the way you act. Yeah, the way you talk, the way you dress, the way you anything like your entire life is up for grabs. And judge you based on how other people that you're around perceive you and the things they're saying about you. Someone else can say, Oh, she's like this, and then people judge me on that. Exactly. So it's a whole crazy thing. It's a weird experience. Let's talk about something funny, really fat because you were there and it went viral. Cake balling my birthday party. I was dying at that. You know what? I didn't tell you this at the time, but when they said we were at. What's that place called Sky Zone? 'Cause it's like a trampoline park. Really fun for like the three year old crowd. And when they they brought this like, you know, a party table in and they were setting it up in front of you guys to put the cake on. And when they were setting it up, it looked wobbly for me. But I hail from afar. I'm a control freak, so I always think like, Oh, is that? Is that right? It's like, Should I go? And in my head, I was like, Should I go like, make sure, like I go under the table and make sure that it's like upright? And I was like, No, you're crazy. Leave them alone. The sky's own employees are perfectly capable of putting a cake table together. It's going to be fine. And as soon as it bailed out, I was like, I should have told you guys, I obviously didn't notice because I'm like picking up crews, trying to find him rally the troops. Yeah, get ready for cake doing all this. Like, I didn't notice anything and I love sarcasm. They were amazing. They felt so bad that the table fell like, I'm not blaming them at all. No, it actually made like lifelong memories that, like everybody at the party, will probably like a three year old's birthday party you might not remember was like 20 years. But now, but now everybody's going to remember this. You know what I mean? Like, like, it almost made it better in a weird way, but well, and the cake was saved because it landed on the table. So at the end, it didn't explode. So it just like the layers just tilted over. It was like actually very good, and we were still able to serve it to everybody at the party. But it's so funny because I feel like in the video, you can tell. For those of you who haven't seen this video, we are. There's a table put up in front of like our balloon wall and everything, and we're singing Happy Birthday to Cruz and Cruz could like care less blowout as well. So me and Jax are like, OK, let's blow it out for him. So we both like, lean in. But I'm holding on to Cruz, though Jax, like, puts his hand on the table and I think just that extra weight, just medicine ball over. But also Cruz's beat. We're like, kind of like, yes, you know, it was just a mixture of everything going on. The table collapses, the cake bounces. That was so wild. How about but I just cracked up. Yeah, I love that you had a good time because a lot of people in that situation might cry or freak out or something. And you were just like, Oh my God, I just laughed. Like, I was like, it was also the end of the party. Like, I just thought it was funny. You know, and now it was just it was just a memory that everybody's going to have. Yeah, the funny. Like, we love Sheena, obviously, but a lot of the comments afterwards, like, I wonder how she this feeling about, Oh my god. People keep saying that. Did you see her tweet responding to these comments? Somebody after there was a New York earthquake said, Oh, I wonder how she knows. Has anyone checked on Sina after the New York earthquake? And she responded to it and said, I actually don't go to New York until next week, but thanks. And I was like, Yeah, I was like, Yes, I think she has a sense of humor. Oh my gosh. Though funny, she's so funny. When the cake first fell, though, maybe I remember looking, and then I saw that it all fell into the tablecloth and I shouted out Jason, like, said something to me later about this. I was like, I was the lead. It was like I was. I made that statement. I was like, No kids were hurt. The cake is still edible. We're good. I kept saying, It's fine. It's fine. Yeah, it's fine. And it was and it was delicious, fun, fatty cake. Yes, it was really good. It was really good that it's called like, you know how I don't know how to pronounce things get ghetto. Oh, you put it somewhere, OK, every time you tag them, I contacted him. Let me, let me say it out loud. Well, we say it out loud. The ghetto shore is a how you say ghetto, folks think it's t h e gates orks society, a u x ghetto. I think that might be ghetto. OK, something like that ghetto shop. They're great, though. They've made. They made his Rookie of the Year cake to his feet. I remember that. Yeah. Like, they're they're amazing cake makers. I love it. I love it. No, the party was so funny. It was. Yes, that was a. I've never seen so many children in my entire life running around. It's like I was like, Oh, there were a lot of people there with guys on. It's such a fun place for kids. Yeah, you guys belong there, right? Because I remember Jack's being like, Oh, we normally take him here, like during the week when it's a little less busy. He was like, I don't know if I've ever seen it this busy before. I was like, Oh my. It was. It was a wild, wild place. Yeah, I mean, kids are crazy. They like in a blink of an eye, they can be gone like two seconds. So when that many kids are around, it's like terrifying. A little bit like Disney, anything like that, especially with a toddler. The other day I was at Target, going to find US Weekly magazine cover plug and like, I had crews with me and like, he's holding my hand and I take a video like, here we are getting it, and I let go of his hand for one second, pick up it, pick it up. And he had darted off running. And you know how fast is really fast? So he darts right into the closed. It's like hiding underneath, like the circular things with the clothes saying that it's great again. Bruce, Bruce, Bruce Almighty freaking out like on it. All of a sudden I start here and he, he and I knew it was coming and I was like listening for the laughs. And he was just running around. Yeah, it was terrifying. He probably had the time of his life. Oh, he thought it was hilarious. He thought it was a game. But like, the sliding doors aren't that far apart. I was scared he could run out like it was just like, that was the scariest moment for me. Don't you remember being a kid, like losing your mom in the grocery store or like, I lost my dad or my mom and Winn-Dixie once and I, I literally say, call her over the intercom. Oh, right, I would come as my mom. But Cruz can't do that. Yeah, so like, he's just running around sometimes, like, he's like having a game with me. It was tear. Janet, when I say I was, I was scared to death. I was scared to death and it was like within like five seconds that I found him. But I'm scared for that guy. I mean, kids will be like, gone. I let go of his hand for one second. Oh, said Dart. Yeah, he's a fast little boy right into the clothes. He's fast. It was. It was crazy. Oh, OK. Before we sign off, I'm going to ask Janet a couple questions from people who wrote in OK. This is from hell underscore thenI. Is Janet friends with Kristen. Still, Kristen and I saw each other for the first time in a while at the premiere party that we had at Jack's Bar, and we spoke for a little bit and we were friendly. Kristen and I look, we've had a long history and we've had a lot of ups and downs, and right now might be a little more of a down moment. And it's easy. It's hard to rewatch everything and relive a lot of the annoyances and arguments and all that. But at the end of day, I always wished Kristen well. I, you know, I care about her deeply, you know, even if she drives me crazy sometimes or I drive her crazy or whatever it is, I do wish her well. And right now, maybe our is not in the best place, but we'll see what happens. I definitely think you guys could get back to some sort of friendship, you know? See? We'll see what happens. I think, you know, with with time heals all and who knows, say, oh, when we get to season two to be considered, then to be continued. Okay, this is from Casey and Dot Mick Rawson. Can you see Janet to talk about her relationship and how they have prioritized it since the baby? Mhm. Well, Jason, one, I'm the difficult one. Okay? Since Jason's an angel and he truly is like I every day. I'm grateful for him. He is an amazing husband, an amazing father. Prioritizing our relationship has been hard the last four months since having a baby like it's something we're definitely like. Yeah, like, you know, having sex is harder. Like, we're you know, it's we've done it, but it's like much harder to like. You're like, All right, he's sleeping. Do we feel like doing it right now or do we want to go? Yeah, do we want to go to sleep? Yeah. And I don't feel the best. My body is still not back to trust me, but it was my stomach makes me very insecure. And Jason, you know, tells me that I'm beautiful, makes me feel good. But it's still it's like inside. I, you know, I don't feel like, you know, that's my biggest struggle, so I completely get it. So that part's hard, but we try to take time. Both of our moms have been super helpful in coming down and my mom's moving here soon, but she's been here for like a couple of weeks at a time Jason's mom's flown in. So when grandmas are here, we try to do a date night, even if it's with other people or whatever we try to, like, kind of have a moment and do something fun. But it's hard. I mean, we're still, I mean, any advice, send it my way because we're still figuring it out, too. And it's it's difficult. Yeah, it definitely is difficult. But I think you and Jason are doing a great job like you guys are great parents. I'm so happy for you all. Yeah, I haven't been the greatest dad. Oh yeah, you guys are such new parents. I love it. All right. One last. Question this is from Kale's underscore, Jane, do you agree with Jack's saying you are like him when it comes to stirring the pot? My God, I have never been more offended in my life. Just kidding. I mean, look, I do agree Jack's night, and I think everyone in our friend group and all of the valley people that you're seeing, all of us like to gossip. I think Jack's and I admit it like Jack say like, well, like, do you like her a little bit more loud or about or upfront? Like, maybe you bring things to say about anything because we're open about it like a jack? Oh, I got something. You want to hear it? I'm a clear idea what you what you got. But I also think there's a difference between fun gossip like fun. Gossip is like, Oh, did you hear that like Katie Mack slept together? You know what I mean? Like stuff like that. That's like, it's just like fun stuff. And I think there's also not appropriate things to gossip about, like people's marriages and when there's kids involved and stuff like that, that stuff I don't want to gossip about. And sometimes it gets dragged to kind of right in front of you, and that part's not fun. So I think it's I think everybody in our friend group, well, it should admit that they like little fun gossip stuff like I'm not definitely not as much like is definitely the way bigger gossip than I am, but I still like to gossip. Jack's likes to be the first person to tell you something, so if I keep it in no matter what. But if Jack's years news, he will tell it, no matter what happens, I'll just be the first person to tell you exactly so like he's done to you many times. Yes. Yeah, totally. So I think Jackson, I are similar in that way. I do think, though Jack's has a lot of stuff to work on that were very different in a lot of ways. Or you're not like the same at all, but like, you know, Jack said that Jack said that in a bite. So I thought that was a great question. I was more mad that he called me a silent killer. I was like, What the hell does that mean? Like, I'm like, Oh my gosh, you guys are like, I'm like, Jack Jackson, Chris. And there's a couple of things that they've said like that that we're all pawns and Janet's evil stuff. And I'm like, Damn, like, you guys are making me sound like, I'm like, this evil, malicious person a lot more. I'm like, I don't have time for that. I'm like, if I had time to go to make all these people are pawns in my plan, whatever plotted all out, I'd have them be organized in my closet, cleaning out like I have a storage unit that needs cleaned out. If I could control people, make people my pods, I wouldn't have them destroy things. I'd have them help me clean it up and doing a bunch of other stuff. It's not how I would use my powers. Oh my gosh, I love it. All right, Jane, I love having you here. I love you. This is so cool. Jane has a new podcast out as well. Tell everybody about that. It's Jason, Jared Lips and I. It's called This Side of the Hill everywhere that you can find podcast, Spotify, Apple Podcasts. All that, and it's really funny it gets released on Wednesdays. Yes, and your Instagram. Janet Elizabeth with an axe at the end because some old lady has Janet Elizabeth. Maybe one day you'll be able to take it back. All right. I love you so much for having me here, and thanks to everybody for tuning in to when reality hit. We'll see you next week. She talks about etiquette. Get your fingers out of your mouth. She talks about where to find a deal. You know, if you sell me something on Instagram, I buy it. Whoever markets to me does a fabulous job. She talks about the economy. We used to joke that will be the thing to send them to therapy. OK, we're creating jobs. Can we look at it that way? She talks about parenting. 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