On today's show, Emily is joined by writer, producer and author Jacob Tobia to talk about their book Sissy: A Coming of Gender Story. They clarify the differences between gender, sex, and orientation and what it means to be gender neutral, as well as "gender-chill." Plus, the journey we go through to find our identity - because it's not always easy, and inspiration to live our lives and feel sexy & confident - no matter what turns you on! Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Adam & Eve, pjur, Boston Scientific, SiriusXM, Veritas Farms. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more info on Jacob Tobia, click HERE.