Episode 4: Norm Pattiz, Chairman and CEO of PodcastOne & founder of Westwood One.

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See Bright Motor Group, Dot, IEEE Forward Slash Hyundai I hate gift giving and receiving receiving gifts is so weird. What do you say? Thank you. This is coffee convos with Kail Lowry and Lindsie Chrisley. I really want you to be in your field scale. That does not interest me whatsoever. I feel very attacked by you. A spirited discussion about motherhood, friendship, family and life in the public eye. I'm just not with the fakery anymore. There's a fakery bakery around here. Here's Caitlin Lindsey. Happy birthday to Susie. Today is Susie's birthday. Happy birthday, Susie. First of all, people, I'm not going to say all people. Some people were upset at you calling her boozy Susie. Yeah, I know. I saw I read comments that were like, It really shows your character that you call your mom boozy. Susie. First of all, I didn't come up with that nickname. Second of all, she probably at this point in her life, she probably accepts it. And honestly, it's probably the nicest out of all of the names that we could have called her because she did matter. So like, we could call her Matthew Susie, like, you know, when I saw when I saw those comments, I said, You know what, if you don't want to do the time, don't do the crime f*gs. That's like, I will forever be someone that has multiple baby daddies and can't close my legs because that's my legacy. Like Susie's legacy is her drugs of choice. Like, Can I get you to sing Happy Birthday to your mother? Why did that was me singing? That's as far as it goes, but you just said, Happy birthday. Yeah, that's all I got on me. No, you have a voice, so I need to hear it again. Are you good? You can't right now. Listen. I had Chris, so Kristin did her magic in locating Susie Q and shut up. We found her. She I think we as I'm involved. Uh huh.. And unbeknownst to me, my mom has so many aliases, and I always thought that was so funny. Like when you're filling out paperwork or like taxes or any of that stuff and it's like aliases like or like seed names, I sometimes I think when I started going by kale, I would put Kale Lowery just in case my mom put every variation of spelling and last name combination of Suzanne Lowery, Suzanne Irwin, Suzanne, whatever her husband's last name is. And I was just dumbfounded. It was literally like four pages long. I know someone like this that has done this, and I can't give away the person's name because if I started to spell it, then people would be able to, like, figure out the name. But it's a name that has multiple different spellings. So like there might be like a p h or like something like that, you know? Uh-Huh. Yeah. Yeah. And their aliases is all the ways to spell that name. And it's like, first of all, that's not f**king you. So like, why are you trying to bamboozle all of these people like that is not you? Yeah, people with multiple aliases really freak me out. Like, it freaks me out to know that like I could technically go by like Lindsay Brooke, Chris Lee, Lindsay, Brooke Campbell. Like all the different variations, like with all the names that freaks me out. Well, and like, can other people do that because like, just say you could do that? I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure we just like decided to start doing it. That's scary. That's like that girl. Lexi Treviso, her mom. I was like watching. Tick tock, deep dives on her and her family and her mom has like 100 aliases, too. What's that song where it's like I still do for private jets with the do you know? Never heard that. No hired. OK, well, and I just need to let you guys know if you're seeing this. If you see my nipples. Mind your business. It's a little blurry for me, but it'll come out clear later. I don't see your nipples. Lindsay, what the f**k is the drama going on with your siblings? First of all there, did you see that on your Instagram? Tell me what you saw. And I'm not sure know if it wasn't a Q&A. I think it was a Q&A. Yeah, and I'm like, I knew you blocked them all or something. Hold on. Let me go. See if it's still there. Did you? Did you block them all? Oh yeah, you do. I blocked everyone in an argument, since I don't want to deal with it. So it's my fault. My bad, no drama. Though everything is fine. We're all fine. I don't believe you. Everything is not fine. Why? First, we all fight like this. First of all, everybody we block and everybody. So that's number one. Like, we give everybody. First of all, I didn't even do anything to anybody at one time. And then somehow I got blocked on Todd Christie's Instagram, and then he told me that I walked him and I'm like, Bro, like, I'm looking at my block list and you ain't there. So like, figure out your own s**t. Yet he blocked me and had to go like all the way to the top of Instagram to figure out how to get me off because I was blocked for so f**king long. So like, I didn't start that war, I didn't start the blocking game. I just feel like, you know, if people are just going to, like, squeeze on you and stuff and be upset by shot you post. Then they just didn't see it. Is this what it's like for all siblings? Because I just OK, I just feel like it's exhausting. I actually was in a group chat with one of my girlfriends and her husband last night, and she was like, I totally can relate to this. She was like, I saw your story today and laugh because I do that s**t all the time with my siblings and family group techs. I leave it like once a month, and then I got all of these messages from other people saying that they do it to their family group text as well. But then they're the same. The same people who block were the same people who asked to be added back in. Yeah, always. It's the same. Yeah, but what I don't understand is like yoga. It's not like this is like a cheating scandal like between significant others. And you don't want the other person to see or get caught like you guys are siblings. What the f**k do you do who? You don't care what Chase and Savannah are doing. They don't care what you're doing. We just be petty spaghetti all the time. We were raised like we were raised to fight each other. And so you guys are like beta fish on land, essentially. Yes. And I mean, everything's fine. Like, it was just like a funny thing for me to do. I was like, Ha ha, gotcha. Yeah, I got to first. I got you a w***e. You got me because honestly, this is the real deal. OK? Had I not been the blocker, I would have been blocked. So better to be the petitioner than the defendant. Yes, exactly. So that's what that's what happened. I saw this like most hilarious thing on Facebook right before we got on here, and I was like, first of all, I need to tell you all this because she's going to one hundred percent agree it says Dear Victoria's Secret make coochie part on the P.A. sugar. This ain't no. Twenty two. I got a whole block sign that p customer. That's like the episode of the Kardashians when Khloe and Kourtney and Kim sit down and Khloe is like, I have a bone to pick with you, Kim. Like, like you made the SKIMS thong like this. What? I don't know what she was saying, but she's like, My pussy doesn't fit in there. She's like, I need to put his pussy doesn't fit. So he says this to Kim. Oh gosh. And she's like, upset because the SKIMS doesn't fit her coochie Oh God. Well, I don't even wear underwear, so I don't know. I'll see you dancing. Talk when I can. I need you to see. I need you to send me. The TikTok also got a lot of questions about this because people are like, Lindsay, why are you ghosting social media like all weekend long these days? And then sexy Lexi shout out to the sea legs and our Kitty Gang chat. You know who sexy Lexi is? She's sexy, sexy, and she's got like this symbol on her thing. Show me her and like, show me her profile. Well, hold on. I need to read this message. So she says, I'm just curious on your boundary because I am working on some. When a friend takes you on the weekend, small talk like, How hey, how are you? Are checking on you? Do you reply on Monday or do they eventually get that you're putting them off on the weekend intentionally? Or are they all where you don't respond on weekends? I'm curious. Add people in my life that would be offended. I was just talking about like trying to work really hard on. I don't give a f**k. If someone's offending, offended, offending, offending and predicting. I was talking about setting proper boundaries and being off of social media on the weekends, like I want to be able to enjoy my time presently, like wherever I'm at and whatever I'm doing instead of being focused on, like what's being posted next or caring about what someone sees. Like, I've talked about this before that I will take photos of stuff and just have my phone, take photos of it, and then everyone's still seeing the same thing. But it's just respecting the time that I have on the weekends and then posting it during the weekday. Yeah, I used to be a person who did not. I if I if I took a picture on a Saturday, I needed to be posted right away. I just felt like it was old and like, I couldn't say that it just didn't feel the same if I posted on a Monday now uploads that s**t next week, like, I don't care. And also, if I don't respond to a text and someone's offended, I don't care. I'm offended that you think that you can be offended over that. I just I feel like we all live our own lives and do I see text messages that come through on my phone? Sure. Not going to lie and say that I don't. But at the same time, if it's not like, urgent or super important, then I don't feel like it's urgent to get back to. It goes back to that saying that I said, if everything's a priority, nothing is. Hmm. So if I'm prioritizing my time on the weekends to intentionally spend it with the people that I'm sitting on the weekends and I don't need to be on my phone and someone needs me that bad, they will call me through the focus and I know it's probably an emergency. I'll text Christian a hundred times on the weekend because she also doesn't typically answer on the weekends, and I'll just send her like a tick tock, some funny s**t things for Monday, just like random s**t. And she I know she's not going to answer and I'm not offended by it. I don't care. I don't care if you don't answer me for three days, like eventually you'll get back. Yeah, we're too old to be offended by someone not answering text messages. And I just feel like that's a that's a you problem. That's not a me problem. Yeah, that's a that's an insecurity on someone else's part and doesn't get become my issue that I'm taking on. 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And I just don't know, like in tight quarters like that, what if it rains and then everyone's stuck in the like? It's just like a little scary. I I started freaking out this morning because I'm like, Oh my God, like, we just have to eat hamburgers and hot dogs for a week. Like, we're just going, That's all there is like. That's all we can have. So I texted my one of my friends, that's going to be at the campsite, and I was like, Hey, like, what do we do about food? And she's like, Kill your camper has a f**king stove. Goodbye. Oh, you can bring like, I mean, I don't think that this is like the best thing, but you could bring like family size like Lozano's, and I'll cook it in the bucket in the oven. Does it have a refrigerator in them? I want one. So what if you guys like meal prep stop before you went? So like pre-check things? Yeah. And like your spaghetti that you make with the cream cheese like you could like pre do that and put it in a thing. And then why do I think of that? Like, I'm out here at like Lincoln asked me this morning, he's like, What are we going to eat? And I was like, Oh my God, what are we going to eat? I can't eat hamburgers and hot dogs for six days of seven days, and my kids are not eating that for breakfast, lunch and dinner. No, you've got to get creative, honey. You got to. I've never been camping. You got to think outside the box. Like, I'm thinking, OK, like the easy Mac. Like in the pre things like that. Super easy and you saw it very easily. Yeah, I know nuggets fruit, but so much fruit. I mean, and Elijah was like, Oh, we need to go outside. It's literally a hundred degrees here, and you can cut the humidity with a knife right now. So I'm like, I'm not going over to the camper and like checking what we have. I'm absolutely not doing it today unless the Sun goes down and it cools down like it's not happening. So that's a good idea. I mean, we did have we have two big coolers that we can bring for, like drinks and stuff, so it'll be fun. There's a lot of stuff to do on the site. Evidently, there's like the water park, there's basketball courts, like it's not like camping in the woods where you're like in a tent. So there are what is that thinking of is like circa 2003 2004. Jessica Simpson with her Louis Vuitton in a camping chair around like a campfire in a tent. Yeah, I'm not doing that. I'm also not doing that. You know how we talk about me being like a seven year old grandma and shopping on QVC in a dress and all the time? Yeah. So sometimes I buy stuff on there that like I don't need like seven vacuums. That's offensive because you are just like you called me out. My parents have also called me out coming over to this house like Lindsay, what are you doing with seven vacuum cleaners like? Well, I don't know. They each do a different chore. So like one might be a crumb, get her upper and the other one might be a deep carpet cleaner like f**k off. You know, Dyson got to be Dyson, and she's got to be Chakan. So I saw this really cool thing on the air and I was like, I should just probably get that. And it's a heated camping chair. And it was one hundred and sixty dollars, and I feel wasteful because here's the reason I thought that I could potentially use it during football season. And if I'm going to like a tailgate or a bonfire, my boyfriend asked me, Lindsay, what was the last time you actually went to a tailgate or a bonfire? And I was like, specifically 2012. So I don't really have a reason to use it, and now I feel like I need to do activities to justify the purchase. I will show you a picture of it actually does work, and it does hit your tushy, so you should get one. But camping for me is in the summertime, so I don't. Why do I feel like you would use it during like winter football season? Because those nights are cold football nights, especially as Lincoln gets older and gets more competitive. You're right, because I used to not miss a practice because but now that I mean, we would have like those heated hand warmers, gloves, blanket everything. Yeah, you're right. You're right. Yeah. So I think that you should get a little really heat your tushy they have there has to be cheaper options. There could possibly be. I got one. And it's like, Olive, I felt like it was like pretty neutral, so it'll match every outfit of whatever I want to wear when I'm sitting in it. Yeah, definitely. So I really just I like it a lot, and it's specifically sitting in my four year. You're what, four year our foyer. Your foir? Yeah. What do you call it? A foir? But you say, Why are you laughing? You said Freuler. My foir. I don't know how to say it. I think it's foyer, but nobody says nobody ever says for you off of Righteous Gemstones. I was watching an episode with my boyfriend not too long ago, and she was like, What the f**k are you doing here? I got him foyer with foyer. What looked like you were watching Righteous Gemstones? Have you ever watch it? No. Is it a show? I'm funny as hell. It's a show. It's funny as hell. Like, I'm literally text Kristen as if it was an emergency to get her HBO Max or now Max log password. Because, like I needed to watch it, I was feeling. You sound like me and Elijah. We started watching Paternity Court on shut Amazon Prime. No, but I'm invested in these stories like I'm so invested in paternity court and I'm just like, I no shade to anyone listening to Coffee Commerce podcast that this has happened to. I'm not throwing shade at you guys. This is my experience. Despite what people think about me, I know that I'm in the public eye. Therefore, specifically, I would never put myself in a position where I don't know who the dad is. Not that I would do it if I was off TV. But being on TV gives me more of a reason to never want to do that right? And so I'm just like in some of these people are so funny because they are f**king convinced that this person is the guy or this person is the grandma. Oh my God. And I'm just and the ones with that are like old white people that have no teeth. And I'm just like, good by being here. Like, there was a 31 year old woman on there who wanted to know if this man was her father and the father was like denying her saying that she wasn't. Why did it take you thirty one years to get a paternity test period? You know what I used to do when I was a kid? OK, we know that I used to sneak and watch sex talks with Sue Johanson. She saw a lot. Yeah. And if you like Google Photos of her, it's absolutely hilarious. Like she's just holding up like these massive dongs. She is so funny. OK, but I would also sneak and watch like Jerry Springer and Maury, and like all the salacious shows, because I just felt like I needed to be invested in these things like and these people term that I didn't even know and like they were fighting and carrying on. And I was like, Oh, that person's definitely going to beat that person's a*s and like, Oh, f**k, Todd's coming on TV to have us not having a paternity court. We've also started watching killer cases on, I think it was Hulu. Oh, I saw that come up, and I was wondering if anybody's watch that? Oh yeah, a season three. Yeah, it's pretty good. I get really frustrated by these people because I'm like, I personally would never be able to commit a murder. However, if I did, I'd be able to get away with it because I watched enough f**king crime TV. These people do the dumbest s**t and think that they're not that they're getting away with it. First of all, criminal. What are you thinking and like? Like some of these things, I'm like, You could just got a divorce? Yeah. Like what? That's what I've always wondered. Those are the most sketchiest ones to me. It's like, OK, I don't want to deal with you anymore. So I'm definitely going to leave you like, I'm not going to kill you. Especially when there's no kids involved. Like, there's not like, it's not like, this is going to be like a f**king custody battle. That's, you know, going on for ages. It's literally like there's no assets together, no kids, but you still kill them. Like, that's that's one thing in mind. Not that worth it. He'll said That's the same thing that I was talking about with my boyfriend about. Like, if you are in a dating relationship or let's just say you're married, but like you have no children together, your finances are all separate, whatever, like number one, why are you cheating? Like, just get the f**k out. Just get out. What are you doing? Call me right before you do it. Just be like, Hey, we're broke up because I'm about to f**k this b***h. Like, No, but there was this one, and I have. I don't know what it maybe is. Just like my. I'm a little bitter about the whole military experience, like I didn't get to join. Have you got to join whatever blah blah blah goodbye. And so I'm a little bitter about it. He got the experience. I didn't realize it was also in, and like he talked to, he told me about like all the infidelity in the army, and I was like, I'm pretty sure army is worse than airforce. But anyway, this episode that I watched on killer cases was a husband and wife in the army. OK, wife cheats on husband with a third member of the army in Korea. So they're. All stationed in Korea, wife and boyfriend plot the murder of husband. Mm-Hmm. He dies in her arms. She cries about it. Boyfriend does not implicate her. Say anything to these investigators. They call her in and they're like, Oh, he he he threw you under the bus and she was like, Oh, and she tells all. And she said, the big pop. Yeah, oh, she loves you. She talks. She admits it. She has no f**king remorse. And she says it was all for his $400000 life insurance policy. And there's two things here that I have one four hundred thousand in today's f**king world is not getting you anywhere. It's going to maybe last two or three years. But here's my next thing. If you married your boyfriend, he'll kill you. Four. You have hundred thousand dollar policy like it delivered to your husband. He's going to kill you next. First of all, I'm not getting involved with some shady s**t like that. Like, there's got to be a better way. There really just has to be a better way. And in this day and time I have. I continue to say this. I will continue to say this. If you think that you're going to outsmart anybody with technology in today's time, you're dumb. Yeah, you're you're literally by sharp the tallest. What is it? You're not the sharpest tool in the dullest tool creature in the box. OK, so any tell you something, someone? Listen to our podcast and I'm not going to say who someone did, and she doesn't like it. And she said that basically the only thing we talk about in here is bot plugs. And I just want to say that many know my nanny loves this podcast, so it's a woman who doesn't like. Was it Savannah? No, I mean, I don't know if she likes it or not, but like, I was a Julie Chrisley. She tells my dad all the time, Well, she used to listen to the podcast. I don't know if they can still listen, but she used to be like, Todd, just do not tune in like I wish I didn't. So I can get the see, she told my dad. She was like, I listen so I can get the tea, but you don't need to listen. You don't need to know that she never needs to listen because we'll be talking about necking on here like all kinds of s**t. Like, he never needs to listen. No, this this person just said that they didn't like me talking about ex-wives and butt plugs. And I was like. And then proceeded to say, Make sure she brings her butt plug. And I'm like, First of all, I never said that I had a plug that was just one of my kitty gang members. And unfortunately, they got it stuck in their a*****e and had to get it removed, and it had a diamond on it and it was not mine. Imagine it's like a Swarovski crystal export Swarovski crystal, and I don't need about plug. I don't want one. Not going to judge anybody who uses a plug, but just saying if the game is good enough, I don't feel like I need it. So I'm going to continue to talk about you. Better text me right now. I'll text you right now. I can't say it aloud. It's very dangerous to. I know this person. It's just a troll. Oh, No, I did it. Oh yeah. And I'm like, Hi. Outside of that, while we're kind of on the topic of butt plugs and s**t, I saw Sophia Franklin. She guested on a podcast and she was discussing her number one gripe with men and their lack of foreplay and how it takes longer for men to think. She was saying that she feels like foreplay should be at least 10 to 15 minutes. But for women, it's so much more mental to get into the mood. So I want to know your thoughts on this. And if like foreplay is a thing for you or if you want to like, go straight into it, I feel like our listeners definitely are going to love this. So I it really depends. I mean, I'm just now getting my I came off my antidepressants and for four, right now I do have a prescription for Wellbutrin, but anyway, I haven't started taking it yet. I there there's a time and a place where you sometimes have to go right into it and there's not time for foreplay. But for me, especially in the state of mind that I've been in, like I need foreplay or this is not going to work, I'm never going to get aroused. I feel like for just this is for me personally. If I don't want to do foreplay with you, I don't f**king like you. Like if it's just go and do said right to that. And that's I said, if I don't want to do foreplay, then I probably don't. That's a problem. Yeah, I like. But like I said, sometimes, you know, especially if you have a lot of kids or something like that, you might only be able to have like a quickie with no foreplay. And obviously that's an exception. Yeah, I mean, I think that's an exception to the rule, but I agree with like this 10 to 15 minute period of like foreplay like whatever is going on. Like, I don't know, like maybe a vibrator might be a finger, might be a tongue like have no idea what it might be a butt plug with Swarovski crystals with what? Swarovski? I've never been able to say that was for off. So is it. We're only Googling horror stories since at its Swarovski natural ski. No, I'm right Swarovski. OK, well, whatever it could be, it could be any of the above. Like, I'm not going to say whatever we do because that's just like personal in it, but like, right? It could be any of those things for like 10 to 15 minutes before the real sex game ensues. Agreed. I think that's a good but also like too much for playing. They might have an explosion before anything happens, or they might get blue balls. Goodbye. OK, wait. Wait. OK, I need to ask you this. OK, so if a guy goes down on a girl and she gets off, she still wants to have sex, right? Say, let me know if a guy goes down on a girl and she gets off. She still wants to have sex. Correct? Not always. OK, that's a snooze now. Always. Like, No, that's just like the appetizer of the situation, right? So I mean, that is the answer. We need the entree now. If I if some of Eliza goes down on me and then I get off. And he obviously probably doesn't. From that, I'm going to have sex with him for him, but I'm not going to get off again. OK. This is just led down a whole drippy path. OK. So I feel like for some women, once they get off the first time, it's easier for them to keep getting off for some licking your eyeballs. I wish everybody could do. For some, it's like a one and done like it's not happening again. That's me one and done. That's not me. So I could just be like a continuation of whatever. So, no, we need the steak dinner after that so that you're exhausted by the time you are done. Yeah. Exhaustion, which is a great feeling because it's like, OK, all the things have been done and then we're really going to bed. All, you know, things have been done, OK, but back to the point of he get you off. You still have sex for you. You don't really want to, but you still do to get him off. If you I'm trying to think about the most proper way to say this, but it's just going to be if you suck his dick and he gets off. Chances are that's not going to be like a fun time. So it's like you've got to give him just like a little bit, right? One hundred percent. Is that right? Yes, I agree with that. I do it like, you're not like, go until it goes like you're just it's just a little bit for him. Yeah, right, right. Right, right. Like it can't it can't be the full experience because some guys and I'm not saying all but some guys can't go back to back. So you you have to decide, OK, like before we start doing this is just just going to be just like B.J. City or are we going in the fall or we go on the full course meal? Right, right. I need to know in advance. Yeah, I would agree with that. I definitely agree with that. All sloppy, talky little slob on my knob. Slob on my knob. Like corn on the cob. What's the word? Next lyrics? Sorry, my dear. No. Check in with me and do your job right. Is that it? I thought it was. I made it. Slob, on my lyrics, I'm going to need you to sing it to me. No, that's right. Check in with me and do your job, lay on the bed and give me head. Your lyric doesn't come in until I don't even see your lyrics. 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Also, I am on Lexapro, so I'm sure that probably messes with my libido, but I can't do it anymore. I like the idea of being intimate, but it doesn't feel great anymore. Has anyone experienced this? I just went through this. This is why I came off Lexapro, so tell me more. I had an appointment with my psychiatrist and I. After six or seven weeks of upping my dose to 20 mg, I thought maybe my sex drive would start to come back and it didn't. So I told my my, not my therapist, my psychiatrist, and he laughed and he was like, You know, a lot of people wouldn't come tell me this like, thank you for being honest. And he's like, It's an easy fix. I thought he was going to say to go back down to 10 or maybe 15 milligrams, but he ended up saying, We're just going to take you off. He said Typically, and I'm not a medical professional professional. Definitely check with your doctor on this if you feel comfortable talking with him or her about your sexual situation. We tapered me off, and he typically said that, or he said that typically Lexapro does not have like the withdrawal symptoms that some other drugs have. And so I was able to taper off. I'm not currently taking the Wellbutrin yet because I feel pretty good right now. And I just want to give it some time before I start something else. But I think your best bet is to talk to your, your doctor, your prescriber, because whether they take you off and change you or they lower your dose, or maybe they can give you something to get your sex drive back, it will come back. But I it probably is the Lexapro more than it is your body changing, in my opinion. Also, I don't have any experience with Lexapro, but I just want to say, like, life is really f**king hard. And when you have kids, I have one. So I can't relate to people who have multiples and my hat's off to every person that has multiples that is doing it and finding time to do all of the other recreational things because just it was hard with me to do it with one whenever I was married. So multiple kids isn't a thing for for everybody. We know that. But I think that when you just have like a lot of life s**t going on and the last thing you do is get in the bad and you're like, Oh great, now it's time for me to be intimate with my husband and I'm exhausted after all day. I think that I don't want to say like, you need to like, plan it, but I have started like really disengaging in my phone after like five o'clock and kind of like getting my mind into just like the mode of my partner, my son, things going on in my house. And that, to me, like helps. So I think sometimes you're like a lot of things mentally going on and like a mom's mind that she can't like, get into that mode. Does that make sense? Yeah. I also think depending on the partner, sometimes they can feel like an obligation or kind of like you owe it to them. And I'm not saying that that's OK because it's definitely not. But sometimes you feel like you're getting the pressure from your partner. So that's one thing. The other thing is, you may have a really supportive partner, but your guilt might be taking over and they actually fully understand and you're out here stressing about not having sex with them because you know what they could be feeling. But really, they might not be bothered by it. So just have the open conversation with your partner. And definitely, I mean, I was so relieved when my doctor laughed and he didn't laugh and like in a mean way, he was just like, I just didn't expect you to say that, you know? He said most people don't talk about it, and I think I think you should talk to your doctor about it, whether it's a guy or girl, because you know, you don't want to feel like that forever. I will say from the people that have shared with me that they are on Lexapro, and I have several girlfriends who have shared this and know somebody who's a little bit older. That's like a parent age that's also on Lexapro that is shared with me. It's a it seems to be a very common trend that it's a struggle with the sex life. So I would also say talk to your health care provider outside of that sex being an obligation. I have never felt the way that I currently feel in any other relationship than what I'm in and it not feeling like an obligation. I've always kind of felt like that's just something that like you need to do because your partner like wants to do it. Hmm. And like, even if you're not in the mood, you should just do it the way you want it. Yep. And now I don't feel like that anymore, and it's a really good feeling. I just feel like that's such an added pressure on our relationship, right? When you feel like, Oh, I have to do this. Well, just on women in general, and I'm not saying men don't go through it, but I think that falls through the cracks a little more for women. I feel like we're just expected to do it. And it's it's definitely like an unsaid unwritten expectation. Or so it feels like I'm also in a position where I don't feel obligated. I mean, I feel obligated, but not because of him. I feel obligated because, yeah, I feel bad. You know what I mean? Yeah. And so and he's like, It's OK, like he he doesn't make me feel bad about it. I think a lot of times and this is just like life in general, not just about our sex lives, but a lot of times when you feel like the choice is taken from you. Mm hmm. That's what makes it hard, like when you feel like I have to do this versus I want to do this. Mm hmm. Yeah, that makes life hard. I am so tired today. My kids didn't. I didn't sleep last night. My kids slept in my bed. They came home, they slept in my bed and I was just like on a sliver of the bed. I didn't sleep. I was up all night and I thought I could just like, get through the day and I have nonstop and yawning, so I apologize. And now my allergies, I don't know what's going on. Listen, allergies have been so bad this year for every single person that I have talked to. I can't get rid of a narrow strip and kill, can't get rid of yawning so wide, like I'll get like that post-natal like congested out of nowhere and then it'll just clear up out of nowhere. And then in the same thing the next day, it's the weirdest thing. And then I'm all of a sudden like, OK, am I getting a cold? Should I stay away from people? Or is this just like a flower about take me out, right? Can you tell us all about why you had to cancel your dermatologist appointment so some of the Kitty Gang already knows since we talked about it a little bit in the group chat. For those of you who don't know and are not in the gang group chat. A couple of weeks ago, I had a dermatologist appointment that I waited like two and a half months for, and I haven't really been a super coffee drinker lately, like very occasionally. So I chugged some green tea and I thought everything was going be fine, not realizing the caffeine that's in green tea. And I'm talking like a cold green tea. Not like a woman. I don't either. Oh, you don't neither. Oh my god, I love it. I really love the cold green tea better. But my stomach felt a little weird, but I was like, I'll be able to like, at least get to a gas station or go to the bathroom. Like when I get to the appointment, I didn't even make it off of my street, like my road that I live on before I called Christine and Natalie, and I was like, I need just cancel my appointment, reschedule it because I just s**t my pants. And I was especially pissed off because Eliza put that toilet in my trunk. I took a portable toilet and he bought it for me and like, put it in there, but it's collapsible. And I didn't. I didn't have the time under the pressure that I was under to try to figure out how to pop it up and like, sit in the trunk and like s**t in it. Yeah, that's what I was saying. Like, that's so much work. Like if you have the s**ts that hit you in the way that you have, the s**t hits you, the thought of being able to get pulled over on the side of the road. Go to your trunk right, pop up your s**tter. Get on it and s**t. That's a whole lot of things that are going on. I was under the impression that this thing was placed underneath like maybe your driver's seat so you could easily just like pull it out, drop drawers and s**t? No. Well, so I told Elijah about the situation. I was not. The underwear that I was wearing was not salvageable. Thankfully, no one was home when I got there and I told Elijah what happened and he he actually popped up the toilet in the trunk. So it's already popped up with it, but with the liner in it. And then he found another one that's like not a collapsible situation. And he's like, Do you want this one? It has like a toilet. It's so stupid, so thoughtful. It had like a toilet paper holder on it, and I was like, No, we're not spending eighty dollars on a toilet when you just put up the one that's in my trunk. So now it's there, it's popped up, it's lined. It's ready to go. However, my dirt, my next dermatologist appointment is not until September, and I do have some questionable spots on my on my legs and stuff that are new and I am nervous. So I was like, I just don't. I can't miss the next one, so I will not be drinking green tea the entire week leading up to that appointment. I just think that you should just exit green tea out of your life because but not everybody very quickly. I have IBS with constipation. 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Oh, it's about the news and how these elderly people. I'm so alarmed. I know you already probably saw this. It was about these elderly people, and this is another word that I probably say wrong. Massachusetts. Massachusetts. Massive Massachusetts. Just say ma*s. Just say yes. In Newton, Ma*s. It's tragic. They were. These elderly people were set to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary and then were found dead in a triple stabbing tragedy that is sad on so many f**king levels. So when I first saw the initial article that that popped up about it, they had not like they didn't have any leads or anything like that. And I immediately was like, OK, any person that's celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. There was no signs of breaking and entering. Immediately, I'm like, OK, it's someone who knows them, and it's like a targeted job. And now it says that a suspect has been charged with the murder in connection of the deaths of this husband, wife and her mother. It says on a press in a press conference on Monday night they have arrested Christopher Ferguson, 41, in connection with the attack. Ferguson is currently charged with one count of murder, as well as assault and battery with a dangerous weapon, weapon and burglary. Further charges once autopsies are completed on all three victims, a letter from family members sent out by the Sacred Heart and Our lady's collaborative. The victims were named as Jill and Bruno de Amore and Jill's mother. I don't know how to say her name, but it says that the letter described them as an integral part of the church and community. And longtime members and investigators said that they believe the attack on the family was random. They have the suspect in custody. I'm going to go out on a limb and say that maybe it's not as random as what they think. My first thought was, this isn't random. This at my first thought is because, I mean, I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but just in terms of like society and where we are today. I just I just feel like you're taking a huge risk to potentially do this to a family that you have no idea what you're going to get. And if this was a burglary, you have to know what is inside to stand stabbing someone. That's a different way to go. That's a different that's a whole other level of murder. They talk about that being like an intimate way to kill somebody. And then what do they say? It's like a crime of passion, a crime of passion. And I oftentimes think about it's come out about co-worker that the defense is saying he didn't have any connection to those victims, and it kind of makes me think the same thing with this guy. You just go in, stab somebody in their home that you don't know that you have zero connection to. Like, I just don't believe that maybe he didn't know them, but he knew like he would have been a stranger to them, but they weren't a stranger to him because he probably scoped out the scene, stalked them, did surveillance on them, just like co-worker. You know what I mean? So, like a co-worker was was very familiar with the people in that house, you know? And so this guy that did it to this elderly couple probably, you know, knew what was going on and probably, you know, watched for a significant amount of time because I just I can't see you just like stabbing three people to death, not knowing what's even in their house if it's a burglary. And it's kind of like how that Nashville school shooting, like not too long ago came about. While the attacker might not have had a personal connection to any of the students who passed away. There was some type of connection there. So like these people were very involved in the church. They had three children, I think, and five grandchildren. Yeah, three children, like five grandchildren. So I'm just wondering if they're going to find some type of connection to, you know, possibly like one of the children or something like that. These people were very involved in their church, too. Right. So this could be like some type of religious talk. It could be anything but to go into someone's home, stabbed them to death. There something more to it. I will make sure when this episode goes live that we post article so you guys can read more. But my prayers go out to this family and this community. I just have one last thought on that. Mm-Hmm. The thought of being this is about to be morbid. Shot, I feel like a lot of times, more often than not, at least for as far as gunshots and stab wounds go, you're going to die a lot quicker. Maybe before you even realize you know what's going on. I mean, I'm sure there are slow, agonizing ones, but like, imagine being stabbed everywhere and you're just like internally bleeding before and you realize, like, you know, you're about to die because you have minutes, you know what I mean? Just the thought of being stabbed to death is one of my worst fears. I hate knives. I don't keep a knife block. I don't keep locked in a drawer. My kids can never find a butcher knife. They are high up where I can't touch them. My kids can't touch them. The only one that has access to them is Elijah. And I promise you, if you ask anyone that comes to my house, I do not f**k with knives. I don't f**k with them at all. I'm just gonna go out on a limb here and say, if I was going to be, I was about to say killed by accident. Nobody's just going to kill you by accident. But maybe I will slaughter. My last choice would be killed by stabbing literally my worst fear. The the pain is like bleeding out and like the pain of it, like hitting you. You see this scar right here. This was this little tiny scar right here. This was Kyle Chrisley who stabbed me right here in my hand because we were fighting a repeat and I got the last one and a peach. He stabbed through it in my hand and it went through my hand. That was one of the worst pains, absolutely ever. So I'm just basing it off of this little tiny scar that was basically nothing. Did it bleed? Yes. And did it hurt? Yes. And was he trying to stab the peach and not my hand? Yes, yes. He didn't intentionally like stab through my hand, but still a stabbing, right? The thought of someone coming in and brutally doing that to me, like repeatedly over and over. Absolutely not. Just take me out in one fell swoop and like, make sure you get literally. Please take me out quickly. I don't even want to know that you're about to kill me like I do not want to know. No, ma'am. I want to talk to you about this one other thing. And I know that this is not relevant to you because you wouldn't be blending families with anyone because you're not going to date a man with children. But I saw this video and it was about blending families and how hard the process can be. Once you're set in your ways and kind of have like your own things figured out and your routine and it kind of walk through why the reasons why you wouldn't want to blend a family post of worse and how people often romanticize what it looks like to move on post-divorce. Kids often don't like blending families and moving in with others and liked it better having their parents to themselves and how there's a whole like management process and how it takes its own time to handle blended families on top of all the other things you're juggling, while also expecting the kids involved just to like it. And then it went into this whole process on how there's other options besides moving in together, creating conscious decisions, living apart together models that don't disrupt your children. And it made me think of way back when when I think when Kourtney Kardashian started dating Travis Barker and she was talking about how like she enjoyed having her own place and him having his own place and how like they'll spend the night there and then spend the night at her house. While I don't think that that's ideal. It does make total sense to me now that I am dating someone so intentionally with children, and I hate to use the word date because we are in a full blown relationship. But I feel like I wouldn't want to just like, automatically move in with someone because they have like their normal and you have your normal. And I think like doing all of that, plus putting the relationship onto the kids, they all got so much at one time. It's even a lot if they're if the other person doesn't have kids, that's a huge adjustment to the children alone. Yeah, tell me like your experience a little bit with. Yeah. So you know, there was a huge adjustment for, I would say, Isaac and Harvey. And then once they kind of established their relationship, it was almost almost as if Isaac looked at Hobie as more of a dad. So then he was really, really affected by the divorce. And I don't think that I'm not saying that Isaac and Lincoln didn't like Chris, but I definitely was not what they were used to, and it definitely wasn't one of it. They probably wouldn't have chosen it if it was up to them. Mm hmm. And then same thing for anybody else, you know, Malik and you know that situation. I don't think that they would have chosen it. Lux also really struggles with it. I mean, he's recently expressed to me in the last couple of days, well, he was with his dad last week, but before that. He said. And he's never really. Well, he said, I just wish you and my dad lived in the same house, so I don't have to switch. I think that's very normal. My other kids have never said that to me. And you know, he doesn't have a problem with Elijah. He doesn't have a problem with Christmas, other baby mom. But I think it comes from a place of just like he wants his parents in the same house so that he can be with both of his parents at all times. Yeah, and that makes sense, because I think that out of all of your kids, I think that Lux is I would go out on a limb and say, from what I know, Lux is the closest to you. Mm hmm. And I think he also likes being a dude, dude, which you can do that with his dad. With his dad. Yeah. You know, and so he's probably struggles knowing that he misses the nurturing part from you when he is with Chris. But he gets to be a bro when he's over there and then doesn't have both of those parts so that out of all of your children makes total sense to me. Why Lux would say that? Yeah. And then it's just, you know, even though Eli's was good to the kids, I mean, I'm sure they have their feelings or their reservations about it. And it's just it's so hard and and I there's no rules. There's no handbook. I do think, too, when you as as a mother have kind of gotten set in your own routine. And I'm just going to say, like post-divorce, right? Because you had the two kids and then you divorced and then that was probably like your most stable home environment up until now. And that would be really hard with like the change in the transitions and as many kids as you have all of the opinions because they probably all feel a different way. Yeah, I would be really hard. I mean, what do you do in that situation, like if one of the kids you know between you and your boyfriend were to say, You know, I really don't want this or I really don't like this, it's like, you know, they don't get to make the decisions. But how how much are you considering those types of opinions and those feelings when making your final decision in something, whether it be moving in or a sleepover or the role that you guys play in each other's kids' lives, like, you know, the kids are not the boss, but you should consider at least how they feel when making your decision. So I don't even know what that would look like for you guys. I will say something came up last night that Will had had a conversation with Jackson and his biggest concern now because the only other person that I've introduced him to is suburban dad. And Jackson's biggest concern and reservations on anything. And this would be with anyone, not just my current boyfriend, but I think it's just like a life concern. I'm afraid mom is going to get cheated on. And so when I called her, I was like, Oh my gosh. And so, you know, Will is very much like, be a kid and worry about kid things. And, you know, if something like that happens, that's where your mom to handle and like not for you to be involved in, but at the same time. While I agree with that, it also impacted Jackson's life in some way, right? Because he was introduced to suburban dad, to his children, to his ex wife like they were a part of our life. And so I think that he probably has some reservations of, if you know, mom continues in this relationship and something like that happens, will they just like forever go away? Right, right. And it's hard because I think that's his biggest will and something's things that. Biggest concern. Well, as I mean, I would understand that too. It sucks because it's one of those things where, you know, there are adult problems you don't want to put on the kids, but this couldn't have been prevented. That's something that you guys know. No, nobody could have protected him from. And so he he came to those feelings on his own, and they're very valid. Yeah, I mean, I do think it's very valid. I will say I would not be in a rush situation to do any type of like move in situation, I think, with my boyfriend and him going through his divorce. He's more newly divorced than I am, so I feel like allowing that process to take place and then to get into like their their very normal and routine schedule, which I feel like they have. But it takes time. You know, divorce and the after effects of divorce takes time. I know because I've done it, you know, because you've done it, not moving in together. And I also think that there's something if if you can and you have the ability to be able to move in together, if that's the choice that you make in a neutral territory where it was never theirs or never just yours. I think that also helps because there is a less territorial aspect of like, well, this was my. I play room, but now it's all of our playroom. You know, I think if you kind of start fresh and I'm a big believer of starting fresh and new energy with, if you're taking that next step, I think that that's super healthy and you probably feel that way a bit with Elijah in your new house. Yeah, I mean, and I will say to it probably depends a lot on the kids ages as well. I think the older they get, the harder it can be because they they are able to express themselves more and form their own opinions. And, you know, when they're toddlers like Creed, he. I mean, if he has any feelings about it, he won't really know how to express them. I don't feel like I know, and it's not that he he doesn't have any feelings, I'm sure, because I think it's just based off of his age. The way that he would express would be very different. Maybe it would be less N-word and more in behavior. And that's why they very much encourage for children who are going through an adverse childhood experience if you can do play therapy with them. They talk about how great that is because they kind of act out the way that they're feeling through play. And so I'm very much like it was crazy when Jackson started play therapy post-divorce, the way that he would play with things was like there was always a mom and dad and the mom and dad. If they were dinosaurs like the mom and dad slept in one room and the baby dinosaurs slept in another room, and the dad dinosaur played basketball and the dinosaur cooked and the mom dinosaur took him to school and like very much indicative of what his life was. When you told me that you had Jackson and play therapy, I looked up at play therapists around here, and I hate that everything where I live is so few and far between. I think the nearest play therapist is forty five minutes to an hour away. And I just get so frustrated because if that's the only play therapist within like a driving distance, they're probably booked. I am going to try to get the littles in there just because I feel like, you know, if Lux is having those feelings at five years old and you know, like you said, the behavior stuff with create, I mean, he hasn't really changed his behavior, but I think it could be really good, at least for them as an outlet. The only time I knew about play therapy prior to you saying something to me was when I saw it on law and order. Like I didn't know play therapy was a thing. Yeah, no, it's it's a real thing. I believe in it. Very much so. I was able to gather a lot of information just as a parent from the way that he played and play therapy. And if it makes you feel any better play therapist or a few and far between. There's a lot of other certifications that come along with being a play therapist versus just being a traditional therapist. They have to be. It's basically like a specialization. And I would highly encourage it for anyone if if you can do it to do it, you're going to learn a lot and it is time consuming. And if you have to, that's very time consuming would be interesting if they would want them to play together, since they're kind of like experiencing the same thing with the same two parents or if they would want them to play separate separately or maybe an elimination of both. Definitely worth the investment, in my opinion, for sure. I also drove forty five minutes, if that makes you feel any better. OK, that does make you feel better because I was like, If this is going to be, I just feel like finding finding people in Delaware is more difficult than maybe in like a more urban area like Atlanta or Nashville or. And so I just feel like I'm always going crazy out of everybody's way to accommodate and whatever. But yeah, I'm def- I'll definitely check out the play therapist. I saw it on like a sign or whatever right by Natalie's house, and it said, like you said, like I play or something like that, I'll reach out and see. Hopefully they're not too booked. We'll keep us updated on that. And with that being said, foul play, foul play. First of all, I'm a huge fan. I deliver mail, so I listen to all the podcast. I love you, girls. You keep me laughing. Last weekend, me and the family were heading south for a weekend of camping in chaos. And let me tell you, it surely did not disappoint. Not even 10 minutes into our road trip, my 16 month old baby starts to gag himself and proceeds to throw up milk chunks all over his car seat. Of course, we are packed in like sardines because we had to have the whole house to go for two days. I mean, we can relate to that with a 16 year old like taking everything in your house? Yes. I immediately get him out to clean him up. And finally, after changing him and scrubbing the car seat down, I go to snap him back into his five point harness. And yes, you guessed it, the leftover juice from the milk throw up and the baby wipes literally splashed me across the face of. Into my mouth. No, the way that I would have thrown up everywhere, I screamed my daughter next to the baby seat, screams the baby screams, not even playing. I snapped the other side and it does the same. I can't even make this s**t up. I relate to my life. I relate in my life, mainly to counter chaos. Thanks girls for banks. Girls for the daily laughs. I support every one of you I. The way that I would probably throw up the milk chunks that exploded in my car last week. Scooter, Keith, Natalie, son, he threw up smelling it. That's how bad it was. So I can only imagine what she went through. And it's no. If it was on my face, I could throw up. I throw up. I remember. I remember one like Chase and sitting in our little and we had a mini minivan. We called it the marshmallow. It was like white and it had like tan on the bottom looked like. Did Todd drive this? No. Julie drove this. I have no idea what Todd was driving. Probably Mercedes. I have no f**king idea. But Julie drove this van, and there is nothing worse than being an older sibling to siblings who are seven and eight years younger than you that throw bottles all over the car and the milk clobbers and it smells like actual death. Like, it's what I would imagine now a death would smell like. And it's all chunky and like, just like knit. Mm hmm. I cannot, and I know that you are responsible for going through the van of the back and like getting out the bottles and the diapers and like, absolutely not. Like, No, somebody should be sued for that for making me do that. I had to have my vehicle detailed. Scooter came the next day and detailed the f**k out of it, and my car's been clean ever since. It smells brand new. I I promise you, when each and every one of these f**king kids gets a car, I'm going in there and I'm going to spray milk on all of them, and I'm going to just step on all these f**king cheese that's in their back seats. Listen, my parents used to say that all the time they were like, swear, like when you all get cars like, I'm f**king up your s**t, it's like, first of all, you're you're paying for it also. So like, you're going to f**k up your own s**t that you paid for. OK, next foul play. Oh, first of all, I loved it. This girl does not have any desire to be kept anonymous. Hi, guys. I'll start by saying, I love you both so much. I never miss an episode. OG Kitty Gang fam. Truly, I think kill is my soul sister anyways. Zero desire to be kept anonymous because this is gold. Maybe not as far as it can get, but my husband and I are still laughing about it. OK, Brooks met on Father's Day. We put we put the kids to bed and decided to put on Fifty Shades of grey. Well, let's just say things got spicy. My husband and I started doing the deed and we learned our lesson. I had him hop up and shut our door. When I tell you, as soon as you shut the door, my eight year old daughter's door flew open. She runs down, the hall, starts banging on our door, screaming open. Quick, panicked. I flew out of bed, threw my shorts on backwards inside out, ripped the door open and immediately tried to figure out what was wrong. She was screaming My nail. It stuck in my nose wheel. Earlier that day, we went to Clippers and she begged to get the stick on nails. Oh my god, s**t. She had put them on earlier in the day and she was picking her nose and that and one of the nails popped off in her nose and she couldn't get it out. I grabbed grab the tweezers, pull it out of her nostril. Needless to say, it was ruined. Thanks so much, ladies. Love you guys so much. Do you remember I was just thinking about these nails? I was in Walmart the other day and first of all, pressed on nails have come so far from like, well, they treated us like they've come so far. Used to the adhesive was just like, this trash rank was like a stick like trash trash. You would be eating popcorn, a bag of chips. One of your nails might fall off and you might forget it. Not know that it's in there and the next person that's eating it finds it picks it up. My dad's brother's wife. God rest her soul. She passed away, but she used to do my nails with press ons, and I thought I was the absolute s**t. It was like the French manicure ones. Yeah, listen, you need you Dollar General and got them. They were so good now. They're just like so much better and so many people use them and they all look so great way better than I ever remember, like mine looking back on the day. I just want to say anything that gets stuck up. Your kids knows that was one of the most terrifying crevices that I was worried about with a little child. I shall, because I've heard I've heard crazy stuff like people, their kid shoving like dimes up there, like the little like round batteries getting stuck up there happened to go to children's health care of Atlanta. Like, not my thing. Like, I'm not trying to do that. Your health care of Atlanta? Shout out. I shoved a marble at my nose, I was way too old to be doing this because I was like six or seven, like, why was I doing that at six or seven? I wasn't three, I wasn't for I wasn't five, but it came out right away because it was kind of big. So I just like whatever. But it's so funny that this is a foul foul play because last night, Elijah's mom was at the house and she was telling me how he lives just stuck a popcorn kernel in his ear. And he had to they had to be put him asleep to get it out because he wouldn't sit still for them to pull it out like they saw it. But he was like erratic or whatever, so they had to put him to sleep to pull it out. Shut up. Kids are what? They're bored. I don't know what the f**k like. Why do we shove things in places? Although this girl and the foul play, she didn't mean to do it. You know what I mean? Like, she was just like, Let me just get this gold out of my nose real quick. No, but it's just like further. First of all, picking noses is just disgusting. Like, it's something that you do in the shower and I'm going to stand by that. I know that you and I have talked about this before. Like, I think the only time I ever pick my nose is in the shower because I get every smart like, it's like snot rockets happen to shower. That's it. It's happening nowhere else. Mm-Hmm. Absolutely terrifying that this happened. But can you just imagine that you're like in the mood to be like you've watched Fifty Shades of grey, like you really want to like hop on that deck and then know your kid comes in screaming because they have an acrylic. It's like up your nose, like for a press on. Absolutely not. And it probably hurt, too, because the press sounds are thin. Yeah, right? I can't even imagine. God bless. God bless this person. So we love you all. And on that note, I think I'm going to try to share it with you. That's what I've got to be doing. Actually, I'm just lying. I'm going to T-Mobile. I have to go and get a new phone and I need to go to the gym and I need to go to the grocery store. So basically trying to do mom s**t OK and get myself together. If you guys have not followed us on our Coffee Combos podcast on Instagram, make sure you follow us over there. Make sure you subscribe to our show from any podcast app wherever you get your podcasts and always first at PodcastOne. Hope you guys have a great week and we'll see a. See what hit blockbusters are streaming free during popcorn summer movies on Pluto TV? Watch the first four Indiana Jones movies, or Minari and Maid of Honor. 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