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Today it's Clio De La Llave taking the reins along with Kaitlyn who is suffering at the hands of Susan (her stomach). Join in with the ladies as they discuss their favorite parts from their trip to Mexico. A lucky Vino gets a second chance to tell her own drunken Mexico story. And of course they make sure to answer all your questions!

Stassi
00:52:43 10/26/2022

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Alright. I'm gonna keep this simple. Welcome back to Straight Up with Stasi. I'm Stasi Schroeder Clark. Let's do this. Do you watch House of the Dragon? No. You don't? I haven't you're gonna defriend me now. I haven't even seen Game of Thrones. So you don't know what I'm talking about when I go, Dracares, b***hes. Well, I know that I know I've first of all, I've never heard you say it. I don't say it like that. It's new. I used to say, Dracarys, b***hes. Okay. That sounds weird like that. But now that House of the Dragon is out, they all the characters say Dracarys in in different ways, and they're like, Dracarys. And now I'm just like, I wanna open the show every week, just not even b***hes. Let's take b***hes out of it. Just be like, Like, whisper it into the microphone. Wait. Do I need to watch Game of Thrones? No. Well, I'll tell you something. It gave me anxiety. Hit that. It gave me anxiety. Like, I started it, and, like, all I could like, even now picturing it, I hear, like, the horses galloping and, like, my heart rate heart rate going up and, like, a a murder. And, like, before bed, that's awful. Like, you that's like a bed night, a bedtime, a bedtime I can't speak. A bedtime lullaby for you. For me Yeah. 100%. My heart rate goes up. It's like a little anxiety producing for me. Okay. I understand that. Like, I get why people don't watch, like, horror movies right before bed or something like you know, I I get it. It's just if you're looking at me and asking me right now Right. You're not the person to if you should watch Game of Thrones. You're not the person to be like, no. No. Yeah. I don't think it's your vibe. Yeah. It's everyone's vibe. Okay. It's everyone's vibe. Okay. Okay. You guys, I'm so f**king excited right now because Amanda Hirsch is the number one person that I go to on Instagram to find literally anything out. Like, before I find before I actually even go to, like, Daily Mail, TMZ, any of the things, I literally wake up in the morning and go to your Instagram to find out about pop culture. Like, you're that much of an authority for me. Oh my god. Like, it's a like, I realized that. Like, oh, we this is so weird. I don't even check, like, normal news sites. I check at not skinny but not fat. Like, that's find everything there. Yep. That's how I get all the info. So to have you here right now and also, I mean, I'm not gonna pretend like we don't know each other. Like, we've we've hung Yeah. A few times. Yeah. I really dig you. I dig you. And I think I was wondering before we came today. I was like, how did we become I think you and Katie did he you did each other's podcasts, then you came to LA to interview a Kardashian. Yeah. And because why else do I come? And we had DM ed. You and I DM ed and stuff. Right. And so then there was, like, a dinner that I think Katie organized between you 2, and it was like, okay. I'll I'll be there too. Yeah. And then you became friends with the my bestie of all time, Taylor Strecker. Yeah. She's, like, friends with everyone, so does it count? I don't know. Sometimes I'm like, she's friends with everyone. Who? Taylor Strecker. Oh, yes. It counts, and she's not friends with everyone. Really? No. I don't know. I wouldn't say that at all. Contemplating our friendship right now. Interesting. Yeah. Why? Because she's friends with everyone. Like who? Like, who like, name someone besides, like, Claudia Ashre that's, like, another one of her best friends. Right. And me. Right. Who else? That's a good question. Maybe, like, maybe, like I don't know. No. And Okay. Taylor doesn't Sometimes I need more attention. I think that's it. Sometimes I need, like, more attention. You know what I mean? So does Taylor. So I wonder if she is can be friends. If she's wondering the same thing right now. About okay. She's coming to stay with me in a couple of weeks, and I will I'm gonna ask her this question. To ask her if she gives me an and she'll be like, no, I do. And she's like, oh my god. I love her. I'm obsessed. I can't believe she would even say that. She just always sounds like she's packed cigarettes deep, and I love it. No. She's the best. She's actually one of the best people I've met, I feel like, in this, like, industry, if you will. You know what I mean? It's just like, she's such a good person. She's such a, like, hype girl. She's just one of the best. She's gonna be one of the best. So she's gonna she's gonna be like, I listened to your podcast and I loved it. And then she she will only listen she will only have listened to this first part because yeah. We're the 100%. All day. She deserves it. She really is, I feel like, one of the best people, like, the f**king Agreed. Yeah. Agreed. Yeah. So then we got to hang out in New York. Right. And that's when I realized you are like, cool mom, and I'm not. Like Really? When we were thinking of, like, where to go to brunch, me and Taylor were like, Amaranth, of course. Oh my god. The old people place? Yes. Yeah. Old peep old people places just make me feel like I'm thriving. Okay. I did that. No. After I went there, I got it. But, like, you're in New York. There's so many restaurants. There's so much food. There's so much like, why eat a chicken paillard at f**king Amaranth on 62nd and Madison? Well, first of all, it's like right near Bergdorf's. Okay. I was gonna I thought you were gonna say, like, right near my hotel. Like, it was, like, near, like, things that, like, I I love, And it's like old school. It's so old school. I love anything that feels like Old. A gentleman's cigar room. So you don't like, like, trendy places? Not really. I mean, I guess not me. Like, I'm not that like, I don't, like, go out a lot. I mean, it looks like you do. Really? Yeah. You and the husband you guys go to dinner often. Well, think about it. We have a built in babysitter for nighttime. Like, my mom can't really help us during the day because she works, but, like, my mom and sister live in the same apartment building. Yeah. So whenever we wanna go out at night, that's never a problem with Noah. Do you understand? Because, like, my mom will come up, Ariel will come down, whatever. Yeah. So for nighttime, like, we're set. Anytime we wanna go, we can go. So you are hip mom. I mean, if that makes me hip, but not really. I think I I think I, first of all, thank you. You're welcome. But I think we both are. I don't know that I am. Like, when people come to town, they're like, where are we gonna go to dinner or lunch? What are we gonna do? I'm like, I don't I'm I don't know. Like, I don't know where to go anymore. Yeah. Like, when I think of, like, fashion and stuff, like, I don't know what's cool anymore. You're out there, like, starting trends with, like, your your UGGs and some, like, some of the things that you posted up, like, everyone becomes obsessed with. I'm like I know. What the f**k? This is, like, not cute s**t. Like, UGGs, I have them, but they're not cute. UGGs, do you have the platform ones, though? No. And I thought about it. But I thought about it. Have you been I didn't do it. Courtney's stylist, Danny x Michelle. Wasn't she your stylist too for something? Yes. So I've started to be because the UGG thing, I start like, started talking about it. It became a thing. Everybody's buying and tagging me, whatever. And then I started, like, being, like, wait, what if I hate them? Because I haven't even gotten mine yet. Yeah. And, like, how I'd be, like, you guys and so sorry, blank acts on that. But then Dani x Michelle posted it, and she looked so cute in that. And you had said no black UGGs, and she wore the black one No, she didn't. I think. Right? No, she didn't. She didn't? No, she would never. I like black UGGs. Really? I Let's take a poll. I don't know what's like okay. First of all, I'm here All the supermodels are in the chestnut, just saying you've looked at it. Of them. Okay. Okay? I'm here to say that UGGs, no matter what, are fugly. They're fugly. That's true. So, like, let's not pretend that they're chic. Okay. Like, I'm not Let's not. I'm over that. Let's not. But do I love them? Yes. Tell you what here's the thing about me, and I feel like it's that's, like, goes with everything that I do. I'm not here to say I've invented anything. I'm not here to say that I was TMZ at the, you know, paparazzi location. I am very observant. Mhmm. Okay? Okay. And I pick things up quick. So it's like, I'll notice that, like, Gigi wore how this whole started was, like, Gigi did, like, a pop up for her new Gigi Hadid did a pop up for guest and residence, her new cashmere f**king clothing thing. And nobody, like, knew about it. It wasn't like I don't know who was invited. I don't know if it was, like, people came to the store. I don't know how it worked. But, like, I saw a clip of her there, and she was wearing, like, like, a jogger set, like, a blue jogger set, and the the UGGs, the new ones, the platform. I was like, what are those UGGs? I go to research them. I posted about them. I was like, do we need these? Then boom, I saw Bella Hadid wearing them. Boom. Then I saw Elsa Hulks, whatever f**king name. I saw those f**king bulks. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Above your name. And literally only 2 weeks later, like, Who, What, Where posted about it, Vogue posted about it. Like, all the models are wearing this where I, like, just noticed it right away. Do you get what I mean? Yeah. Totally. And the pony bun The pony yeah. The pony bun. I, like, can't do the pony bun just because you're making it so much of a thing. You had, but then do it because of that. And tag me. No, but if you have, I just got it done. So I did the podcast with Courtney. And when I had, the hair and makeup guy come in the morning, I was like, debating between things, and I was like it's spelled the same as you. I was like, I wanted to see the pony bun, but I've been talking about it so much. But then for me was, like, leaning in. Yeah. I actually I think you made the right decision because you've posted about it so much. You said, but I'm not gonna do it? Yeah. I totally agree. I would feel like a fraud. Good. It's gonna look good with your hair length and color. I'm not doing it. It also looks uncomfortable. I don't think I would like Bradley would do it good. I just don't think I like the feeling of the hair down my neck. But I need to show you how did it. I felt like it was good, and it's like an effortless look. Kim and the other people that I saw doing it, they have really long hair, so it's like a very long pony bun. Okay. It's like a horse. Right. They're like, can I just go? It's like like the bun is, like, small, and then it's like a long train of hair with Where are different variations? Different variations of money. But the thing is, like, I like Nuance. I like the minutia of s**t so much that, like, I could repost people in pony buns all day, but, like, I know it'll drive people crazy. So at some point, I'll stop. But I feel like it's just such a connecting, fun thing when everybody just becomes obsessed with, like, something so small. No. I think that that's, like, part of your magic. Yeah. I think it totally is part of your magic because there's how many of what do we call ourselves? Can we come up with a new word for f**king influencers? You know what I said to my driver yesterday? I almost vomited on myself. But like, I don't know why I was feeling con I felt confident with him because he was like a 65 year old, like, you know, who doesn't know me. So it's like, where else are you gonna Yeah. Okay. Are you guys ready for this? Yes. Like, Internet personality? Like, I don't maybe, like, pop culture personality? I'm a pop culture personality. Was personality in there, which I don't know where I came up with that. But it's true. But, like, how would you say he's an older gentleman, and he was like, who are you? Like, what do you do? Because he was taking me to to the Let me event. I would say I'm a podcast. I would I said pod I said I have a podcaster. But here's the thing with me, Tassie, like, I didn't start as a podcaster. So it's hard for me to just say I'm a podcaster. But I did say, I said I have a podcast, and I'm a internan. Imagine I was, like, sensation. Like, is that a lot of people? Well, but do you know how there are those people on Instagram that put Entrepreneur. Well, that, but also public figure, and they're never public figures. Yeah. It's always like a girl you went to high school with. 100%. I'm like, babe. Wait. Can I tell you that I have this cringe story that, like, I literally, I know that, like, Lowe's looking at me right now thinking being like, if you don't tell the story, that that wasn't as bad? I feel like I took Hartford to the doctor recently to, like, get her heart checked. This was a new doctor. Okay? I've never met him, and he was so chatty. Okay? He wanted to know everything about me, everything about Hartford, everything about Beau. And then he was like, so what do you do? And I now where would I say it? You might not think it's cringe. I want you to sit in it. Okay. Now it's set. I go, I'm an author. Okay. Now sit in it for a second. Okay. No one who's a writer Yeah. Calls themselves a f**king author. No one says that. You say I'm a writer. Okay. And so there was a moment of just, like, me just, like, looking straight at him. Like, are we gonna call it? Are we gonna do this? We're making eye contact. Are we gonna call out that this was awkward? Are we gonna skate across it? Are we gonna pretend it didn't happen? Let's pretend this didn't happen. And we pretended like it didn't happen. But I think about it all the time Really? Because I am so mortified. I'm so embarrassed. I here's the thing though. I think which, like, I love making fun of it and being like, I don't know what I am. Right? Mhmm. But there's a side of it that I wanna be like, you know, cheugy girl boss energy and be like, no. Say what you are. Like Yeah. You like I see what you're saying. Did write books. Like, you authored them. I authored them. You Would you feel cooler if you said writer, or would you feel like that's try hard, like, living in a loft in Brooklyn vibes? Like It's it's it's too yeah. It to me, it it feels a little too try hard. I think the the issue is also, like, I used to just be, like, I'm on a show. It was very easy. I'm on a show. I'm on a show. And, like, if they asked further questions, I would expand a little bit more, and then I'd I could explain. I also have a podcast, and so it's Right. But, like, I'm not on a show anymore. Right. So the last, like And you don't wanna say, like, I used to be on a show. No. You can't say, like, when someone says, what do you do? You can't say, I used to be on a show. Yeah. So I'm like, what what do I do? I'm like, what am I doing right now? So, like, there's, like, things in my head. I'm like, well, okay. I just wrote a book, and, like, I have a podcast books, like, on Patreon. So, like, do I he won't be able to just, like, easily access it? I'm hoping I'm lying because he won't be able to find it anymore. So, like, author is what I is always the only thing I could come up with. Yeah. But we need I need an answer. We need to I know we need an answer, and we need to feel more confident Agreed. In what you do. Because I I'll always remember this when I started my Instagram. There was another Instagram that's very huge today that started at the same time. And I remember I did a podcast with them with whoever owns that account, and they were like, we're a media company. Like, they gave really huge names to themselves. And I remember being, like, judgy, like, how they're calling themselves a media company? Like because you know how it is in life. Like, it used to sound so big for someone to say that they even, like, have an LLC. Right? You'd be like, how are you gonna have one? And so, like, every anybody could open a brand. I could call myself right now, like, a CEO, founder. I could call myself all those things. You know what? Founder. We are f**king founders. That's what I'm gonna start saying. I'm sorry. I am a founder. I'm a founder. I'm a founder. I'm a founder. I mean, think about, like, pee like, stay at home moms have to answer this question too. And it's like, what are they supposed to say? It's I feel like it's just a annoying question to be asked. What do you do? No. It is my it's one of my least favorite questions to be asked. It's it's basically like being like, how are you? Or, like, what are you doing for fun? A graphic designer, then it's an easy question to be asked. You know what I mean? Totally. I guess you're right. It is only TikTok that's like, I'm an accountant. I'm an accountant. Nobody oh my god. It's so funny. It started actually with, like, sex work. It started from a sex workers thing that it's basically a TikTok, and I'm not on TikTok. I don't know. I saw this one specifically. It made me laugh. But, like, it's like, if somebody asks you what you do and you say you're an accountant, nobody's gonna ask you further questions. No one's gonna say which accounting firm. Wow. No one's gonna Yeah. If we hadn't have come up with founder, I would have been like, accountant, it is. I know. But, like, there's just something unique I just wanna stop. Mumbling about it. Yeah. I, I have an interim where people follow me. You know what? It's And it's like It's what are you saying? It's because our jobs are so new. They're weird. Right. They're so new. They're not jobs that can be studied in school right now. Right. So it's That's why when people ask ask you, like, did you manifest this specific thing? And it's like, did I manifest being in this industry a 100%. Would I ever think that it's, like, in this weird twisted way? No. How would I have known that? I didn't even know what podcasts were 5 year it's 7 years ago. That's really interesting you say that because I literally have the word manifesting Mhmm. On my notes right now because you give me manifesting energy. Yeah. But at the same time, have you ever taken the the test to see what you know, there's like the what's it called again? Enneagram? No. It's the it's the personality word design. The human design test. Haven't. So it's like they have, what are they again? Generators, manifestors, reflectors. Oh. And and, like, you can put in the time and everything that you were born, and it'll tell you whatever. Oh, wow. But, like so there's a certain percentage of the world that are manifestors. You give me that vibe. I am technically a manifestor based on my birth chart. Yeah. But, like, I don't sit there and think, like, vision board. This is exactly how I'm gonna But I don't either. Exact so, like, when do people ever ask you about Like, how I manifest it? Yeah. No. Because I think that I've described it, like, on my podcast where because sometimes people are really cute and they were like, you're not giving yourself enough credit. I'm like, no. No. I totally am. You're not getting it, and maybe I'm using it wrong. But no vision boards for me. I don't even have a Pinterest. Like, so definitely no borders. Have a Pinterest? I don't even know how to work it. You're missing out on so much fun, so much wholesome fun. I know. So I don't have a Pinterest, so definitely not vision boards. I think more like your whole life wanting something so badly, believing in at least a part of your brain that it can happen and you can do it, and also using a part of your brain to take action to do those things. That's how I describe it best. And you gotta have a little sprinkled delusion in there because if you're not delusional and you don't think that you could if you're coming out to Hollywood to be an actor, if you don't think, like, that you could be the next George Clooney, like, like, you're probably not gonna be the next George Clooney. But if you're literally crazy enough to think that it might happen, like, you might do it. So I think I was never a 100% committed. Right? I'm not the the singer that slept in their car. I've never inconvenienced myself. Right. Right? Which is like, I don't know manifesting gods, how you work that, but I didn't. Like, I remember even I used to go to auditions when I lived in Israel because I lied to them that I went that's part of manifesting US to lie, by the way. I don't know if you guys know. Wait. Really? No. Oh, okay. Because I I took that so literally. I'm so literally. You were so convincing with the way that you said that. Okay. Anyway, carry on. When I was in Israel living for a few years, I lied to, like, agents that I went to acting school. I might have said Juilliard. And I got some roles because of that. And, but here's my thing. Like, I remember getting sent auditions, and I wouldn't go if it's like, wasn't a part that I liked or, like, wasn't, like, an audition that was easy for me to get to. Yeah. Or wasn't a time that I could take off work because I've always had, like, jobs and was making money the normal way. So that's why I said, like, parts. Like, for me, what manifesting is to me is, like, I know for sure that my whole life, I've been loved the entertainment industry, loved movies, loved Hollywood, loved celebrity gossip, loved knowing that stuff more than anything, read magazines, read blogs, like went through all the, like, different steps that, like, have evolved from Yeah. Where it started. Mhmm. And and so I think that for me was the manifesting, like, having such a strong passion for something, knowing that that's what I want. But also, obviously, the same thing, like, you can't win the lottery if you're not playing, right, is like, I always tried. It's like if it was like sending headshots for I don't know. I look back. I'm like, what was I trying to do? Like, be a model? Like, the headshots, what did it say on that? Like, application for runway? Like, today, I'm like cringe for real, you know, because then comes a day where I do what I do now. It's like, then you get the agent, you get the stuff, and it's like, why was I looking for an agent? Like, what was I being agented for? Like, what did I think was gonna happen? But there's the delusion. You know what I mean? 100%. Yes. There's the delusion. There's the delusion. Like, there was no, like, I wanna be a model. I wanna be an actress. I want there was nothing there was no craft you were working on. Well, no. There was I wanted to be an actress. Okay. Like, if that was, like, that was my little girl dream, right, of, like, being in that world that I'm so obsessed with in that way. So that's what I'm saying. So I couldn't say, like, I manifested what I'm doing today, but But it all, like, came together. Like, my love for that world, my love for reading about these people that are doing it, like, it all just came together. No. Totally. Yeah. I absolutely get that. I think that there's, like, this this thing attached to the word manifesting where people think that, people who talk about manifesting are just, like, totally in their rooms with, like, poster boards, like, making charts and things like that. Right. And it's not like that. Yeah. Literally, like, I always just knew I'm gonna live in an old house in the Hollywood Hills. I just knew it. Like, it was something like Been from when you were, like, lived not in LA? I yeah. I used to spend my summers in LA. Mhmm. I was baptized in LA. Okay. So, like So it wasn't new. Okay. Yeah. It wasn't new. And I knew I wanted to go to college here. Mhmm. And so, like, it was always just something that, like, I know that that's gonna be my life. Mhmm. Now I wish back then, I had been like, I know I'm always gonna live in a 10 bedroom house in the Hollywood Hills with a gated community. And, like, I wish I would have, like, imagined it. Something more specific. Yeah. I wish I would have. Like, that's the only way I can think about man, if if you put it out, it's like if you make the decision, like, oh, I need to earn this amount extra every month. Like, I just, like, have like, I have to in order. It just, like sometimes it just happens because you put forward the steps because in order the steps. In order to start doing it. Think it hard. It's not about making something come out of nowhere. It's about literally, like, living and breathing something until it happens. Yes. That's what it is. And and putting all your energy towards and that's why I I have to say, like, today when people ask me, like, how aren't you freaking out? Like, how aren't you thinking this is crazy? I'm not an overnight TikTok sensation, people. I'm 34 years old. You know what I mean? I've worked a lot of jobs. I've done a lot of stuff. And this specific stuff that I'm doing, I've been doing for 6 years. So when I'm in this place now, I can be confident about it and think that I deserve it, and I should be here, and it's and and it's so it's I'm not like, oh my god ing every second of the way. You know what I mean? Like, I've oh my god ed the hell, and I'm still a fangirl, and I'm still the same b***h, but it's also like, but I'm here. You know what I mean? No. Absolutely. And you've been working on it for you are like you said, like, you it wasn't an overnight thing. Real talk. When people ask me what's the hardest part about being a mom, I'm like, mealtime because I'm a horrible cook and trying to come up with, like, balanced meals 3 times a day is, like, mad hard. Luckily, Beau is normally like, that falls under his responsibilities. He's in charge of meal time, but he's not here every single moment of the day to make all of the meals. So sometimes that falls to me, and I panic. 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One of Hartford's favorite is, the there's like a penne pasta that's like Sicilian with mushrooms and tomatoes and all of that. But it's so easy to make. So having those meals in my refrigerator ready to go for me to cook easily when it's my turn to cook dinner has just been so incredibly helpful. And it also saves money because I'm not going to the grocery store buying all of these ingredients to make a Sicilian pasta when I already just have it there. Seriously, it makes life so easy. So this is something that you and your family would be interested in. Go to hellofresh.com/stassy65 and use code Stasi 65 for 65% off plus free shipping. That is hellofresh.com/stasse65, and use code Stasse 65 for 65% off plus free shipping. I mean, there's a reason that people call it America's number one meal kit because they're helping people out everywhere. Seriously, thank you, HelloFresh. How do you get the news? The I need to know this, though. Like, how do you get the news? I don't get it before other people. I do. Because I check you your account. Yeah. And it is up there before it's on Daily Mail. Like, I swear to god. Like, I swear to god. Do you agree with this? I feel like where do you find everything out? I don't even know what to tell you. I have no, like I literally was asked to go on this podcast. I'm not gonna say the name of it, but it has to do with, like, what you do every day and whatever. And I when I found out the theme of it, I was like, I can't do this. I don't have, like, a set thing that I do or, like, it's just first of all, I seek it out. Right? So I'm constantly looking like, what's new? Who's posting what? Who's commenting what? Like, on Instagram. And then I don't like Google celebrity news. But, like, I'm, like, really I I need I know this thing. Also, I'll tell you what else really helps. It's, like, my people. Like, I love going through my DMs. I wish, obviously, I can't go through all of them at all. But, like, even if I scroll a little bit, somebody will send me A tip? No. No. No. I don't do tips. I'm not doing all. But okay. Fine. I don't mean a tip as in, like, spotted. No. But somebody would send me, like, a photo that I wouldn't have seen because I don't follow that celebrity, for instance. Okay. Or, but you just also okay. Think about this. Hilaria Baldwin just gave birth, right, to a baby named Eilaria. Wait. Yeah. Sit in that. Wait. No. Do you not check your do you not take in what I say to you? We DM ed about this, and I told you that I had to take one of my baby names off my list now. Oh my god. Because I was getting Ossie, o s s I e, Google it. It means god's spirit, which I think is beautiful. And I put that on my baby name list for boys, and now I'm gonna have to take it off because Well, now you're gonna have to take it off because you said it. Well, yeah. I mean, it wasn't the number one hitting. It's not the it's not the as bad as Hilaria, and he that's a letter. I actually really like it. I think it's sweet. I think it's her final baby, and I think that Babe, she's psycho sobbed. She's literally a psychopath. I wanna love her. I'd I I kinda love her. I kinda love her psychopathness. You know what I mean? I love her. Fan. I'm a fan. Like, I just think I was fascinated by the whole story. I was so well, that's also that was a huge thing for me. Like, for example, with with oh, so what I was gonna say about Hilaria is that she gave birth. I saw that in the first 20 seconds probably that she posted it because I'm on Instagram all the time. So I can just put it on my story. Whereas, like, news sources, it'll take a bit. Do you get what I mean? I think that's the difference. You know what I mean? Totally. Need to get anything edited. I could just ugly f**king post it. You know what I mean? You're right. And then it's like even if it's 2 hours later, that feels like a lot of time in this world because if you saw it on my pay you know what I mean? But obviously, I don't get everything and see everything, but that's fine. And that's why I'll scream from the rooftops. What you said is super nice, and it compliments me that that's where you're getting your news. And I do think that a lot of people feel that way, but I also think that a lot of people come for, like, my comment. Like, even people will DM me, like, have you seen this? I'm waiting for your commentary on it. Oh, yeah. Seen it already, but they wanna hear what I have to say about it. So that's what I can promise you that I'll, like, give you what I think about stuff. I won't always know the stuff. I won't always watch the stuff. I won't always see it first, but, like, I'll tell you what I think about it. No. And I love when you tell me what you think about it. I I especially love when you put on captions because I have to I can't watch your stories if I have to always listen to it because I have a kid who wants to grab my phone. And sometimes, I really wanna hear your opinion on something, and I see that you didn't put on the captions and I'm like When I don't when I don't, Sassy, it's because it's probably not worth it. If I'm just like you guys, I don't know. And I'm like, this is not worth captions. Captions are too dramatic for this, like, random strain of thought. That's when I don't put them. Good to know. Yeah. Because people do get mad at me and I'm like, listen, this isn't worth your time. Okay. It's worth whoever, like, happened to have their audio on and whatever, you know? Okay. Well, how do you even have the time? I wonder this. Yeah. On the reg. Okay. You were posting 247. All the time. 247. You are also it's very clear with your child 247. Yeah. Like, I don't see a nanny anywhere. I don't see, like like Well, people hide their nannies, but I actually don't have one. Well, I know you don't. Like, and I can see that you don't. Yeah. But you're always still checking your phone. Yeah. And Will that make me sound bad? No. You respond to my DMs very quickly, but also in person. Every time I've seen you, you've never been the person to take out your phone at dinner or lunch. True. Oh my god. How does she do it? So when the f**k are you doing this witchcraft? Because when I tell you, like, I can only respond to people 2 times a day, really. And it's once in the morning when I wake up before Hartford's gotten up. And if she happens to wake up at the same time as me, everyone's f**ked for the day. I'm not responding to anyone. Not opening anything, not seeing anything, texts, calls, emails, DMs, all of it. Or if I'm feeling like, okay. I have a little bit energy in me right before I go to bed. But throughout the day, I'm like out. Like, I can't check my phone. My mental and emotional emotional capacity to, like, welcome in communication with other human beings, like, I just Really? I can't. I'm, like, drained. I can't and I can't get into a conversation with somebody. So, like, that's why I don't even wanna respond because I'm scared that my phone's just gonna then continue, like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. And there's if there's only so many, like, hours or times throughout the day that I feel like I can do that Mhmm. Much less than much less than record myself, find things to post. I do know that when I record myself, like, Noah's, like, could be right next to me, like, banging on my head, pulling my hair. Secrets. Like, that's how it's How do we even focus? I can't even I can't like, I'm in awe Yeah. Of Well, do you know, here's the other thing. This is not manifesting, but this is, like, was it something that I promised myself and that I followed through with and feels, like, good is, like, when I was scared to get pregnant because I just, like, didn't feel like I, like, made what I wanted to make yet and, like, do what I wanted to do yet. I was, like, not where I am now. And, then finally, I was like, you know what? Like, there's never a right time kind of vibe. And then Noah literally brought, I feel like, so much blessing in every capacity, but also in the professional. Like, I feel like things started happening more when he came if that Right. Even makes sense. So but I remember promising myself, like because I've seen so many moms, including, like, my sister where it's like, you become a mom and you're a mom now. Like, you don't do the same things. Some moms never, like, go back to, like, their line of work specifically. And and if they go back to work, they'll sometimes go back to, like, work and kids stuff. And it becomes, like, part like, who they are, and I'm not saying anything against that. I personally knew that's not what I wanted for me. And I wanted to be that's why I did, like, the dumb b***h mom merch. Like, I still wanna be the dumb b***h person that I am, and I don't want having a kid to change that or take me off my tracks. And it was literally and I literally kept my word to myself. It's like, Noah has me 100% right? I'm on my phone a lot, but he's still getting so much for me. It's like he's growing up, like, with me 247. Right? And I don't go to a 9 to 6 job. Like, I'm with him all the time. So, yeah, I have to be on my phone some of the time, but he's like, you know, it's part of it's part of how it is. I'm also very quick. Like, my husband will sometimes make fun of me because I'll be like, okay. Today, I need to record, like, 2 ads. So, like, I'm gonna need you be to be, like, real present. I'll go into the room, come out after, like, 3 minutes, and I'll be like, you made this sound so dramatic. Because in my head, it's like something that I have to do. Right? Yep. I have to go record this ad. Why are you laughing? Because you too? Yeah. Because because we literally will, like, put it on the to do list and be like, we gotta record this ad. Heavy on you. It weighs on heavy. It does. And then it takes 2 seconds. But it but then it takes 2 seconds. You're like, welp. Should I go out there? Or Or do I stay in the bathroom and hang out? Yeah. No. So I think that, like, obviously, as much as I wanna say, like, I do work very hard and, like, what I do is in my life, it's still not rocket science, and I don't need to be, like, focused on brain surgery. Okay. So it's manageable. But to somebody like me, I can't just like Well, you have, like, ADD. You need to just put the headphones on to focus. And I'm not somebody with ADD, which is interesting. I feel like I'm really good at focusing. Maybe I'm not. I'm a I'm a having another But also you're not you're not an Instagram person as much. No. I'm not, but I just feel the pressure that I'm like, I should be putting out more content. Do you see? Hate that for you. Yeah. Hate that you feel bad. I hate it too. I know. Because, like, I don't feel like it. Right. And then you And I don't want to. And then you're in the position because, like, I just had Steph Shep on my podcast who I find so interesting, and she was just at fashion week. So I asked her about, like, fashion week. And she's so cool. Right? Like, doesn't seem like she'd even use the word content maybe. Yeah. And then she was, like, basically, like, she needed content. Like, she was, like and that really, like, fascinated me. She was, like, I I I wasn't, like, posting, and I knew that going to fashion week would, like, give me more things to post. And, like, for me, it's wild, and here's my gift, like, why I'm lucky. I don't have to talk about myself all the time. Right. I talk about other people. Right. So the content isn't me being like, what should I do today? Should I make a TikTok of me, like, flipping an egg? No. I know that That makes me feel so much better about so true because everyone my situation that is like you where, like, your brand is you. Right? Like, it's not really other stuff. Right. Mine is me, but also I talk about celebrities. I talk about entertainment. So I could even not post myself for a day, 2 days, whatever, and just post celebrity news if I'm feeling, like, under the weather or whatever. So I feel so grateful that that because I don't know if I could handle the the pressure of it just being me. Like, me, me, me. People wanna see me and, like, you know, my makeup and my whatever, and they do. And I'm glad that I have my part because I wouldn't like, my ego is way too big for me to, like, be a non or something. Right? So like, of course, I love that, like, people want to know about me and see me, right? But it's like, the reason I'm able to produce so much and people in your situation are, like, how do you do it? It's like, it's not about me. I get it. Like, the amount of relief I felt when I was canceled in 2020 that I didn't have to post for a while. That was real. But that's I feel so bad for you guys. That was it. I thought that posting is like a chore It is. And that you guys feel like you have to and all these things which I get. Right? But for me, it's like, I have to stop myself from posting so much. That Like, my stories get to too much a day. I wish I so badly wish I had this problem, low, I know wishes that I she's sweet. The same. Do you get what I mean? That's why. No. I know. It it's just it it the fun is sucked out of it for the rest of us. Yeah. I wish I could just, like, go on my Instagram and just, like and want to just, like, talk Yeah. About things. Like, I just Do you feel like when you do because you do do that sometimes. I feel like sometimes you are, like, you'll have, like, a thought. Not planned. Right. It's not planned. Yeah. Do what's the response like to it? People love it now? I think so. Because I'll that's when I will, like, I'll, like, hardcore spend a good chunk of time, like, going through my DMs to try and respond. You know? Yeah. And I think so, but, like, I just don't always feel like I have something to say. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like, it it's just like I think it's just different when you live your life like there are people that are different on Instagram. Like, you're not you didn't start as, like, an Instagram personality. You know, when you started In on a reality TV show and you would post, like, pictures of yourself on Yeah. How wild is it though that when you guys started, like, you weren't really, like, influencers? No. Uh-uh. Instagram, I like, way later. I I signed up for Instagram, like On the show? Yeah. I'm pretty sure it was, like, on the show. It was definitely it was was not before. It was after. Imagine? Well, what do you mean imagine now? I guess, like, we don't have to imagine. We'll see it for real. What? But I guess, like, the people on the show, yeah, they didn't really become like influencers, the new people on the show. I don't think so. I don't know. Is that wild? I'm not sure. I've never because today, people go on reality TV to become influencers. Like, the whole bachelor thing. Okay. Wait. You still watch the bachelor? No. I don't. I stopped. Really? Because I feel like I've been seen on your stories, updates about Bachelor. No. I mean, no. I here's the thing. Like, the reason I was loyal to it for so long is because I wanna be in the loop because then things happen with them in real life and I, like, wanna know. You know what I mean? Okay. But I had to stop watching, and I didn't watch this last season with the 2 bachelorettes or whatever. I couldn't do it. But now it's like there's gonna be Bachelor in Paradise and how am I gonna know the players? Because I didn't watch. I just I love a good like, I loved The Bachelor and The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise specifically even more back in the day. Back in the day. But, like, up until, like, 2008 like, once I hit, like, 2018, I would say, is, like, when it just started, like and and maybe 2019. I'm not sure. But I can't it's first of all, it's, like, every f**king night And it's bad. It's a thing. 3 hours. And they bad. Yeah. They draw out the shots and, like, it's the same watched it recorded. I was like, you guys are literally sick if you think I'm sitting 3 hours. So it's 1 and a half. Like, imagine how crazy. It's 1 and a half without commercials, like, if you can DVR it or whatever, on demand it. But then I realized that it's, like, until the final weeks, until, like, the final 4, it's like torture. And it's like a chore, like the way posting is a chore for you. So it became a chore for me. And I'm like, who am I doing this for? And I do, like, a poll. I mean, it's gonna be like, who's watching? And it'd be like, a 30% yes. Like, that's not I'm not gonna watch for 30%. No. Totally. I also didn't even factor video. You don't have the time. No. But I don't. So here's the thing. Like, I was telling you, like, Bravo thought I was, like, a bravoholic. Yeah. Not. Yeah. Like, not. Like, disinvite me from Bravo gun. Okay. Well, do you watch any shows then? Well, no. I'm gonna watch I'm gonna watch v Vanderpump. Like, I watch gonna say Game of Thrones. Oh, what did you wanna ask if, like, in Oh, no. I thought you were gonna say you said it with such Well, I wanna watch Game of Thrones. I really do. But for Bravo, I only watch Vanderpump, Summerhouse, and I wanna watch Southern Charm. This season, it's, like, so forced. It's hard, but I like I I've loved it at the beginning because it was also kind of a Vander bump. It was like the 6 year old is marrying an 18 year like, it was also wild storylines Okay. With, like, Katherine and Thomas Robin now. I'm like, who are you talking about? Like, exaggerated with Asians. But yeah. Are there any shows that you watch, like, in private that you don't post about that you're like, this is what fit my brand? Israeli shows. I my husband, the double life that I live that my husband is Israeli, we speak in Hebrew at home, We watch Israeli shows a lot. Yeah. That's like I mean, people will know it on my Instagram and, like, hear the language and, like, I'll say it sometimes. It's like, they don't that can't be part of it because I'm not not gonna just put a foreign language that, like, most people don't know on here. But that's a big part of my life. Like, I love we watch Israeli Big Brother. It's, like, the best f**king show, literally. Like, I'm just watching people Big Brother. In Israel. Okay. I mean No. Israel has great shows. People are a lot, like, when I do post, people are like, how are you watching this? Like, they would love people want more TV to consume, like, with subtitles, but I'm like Yeah. We watch, like, it you know, we have the channels, like, illegally and s**t. So not everybody could do that. Alright. Because anyway, that's a huge part of my life that isn't on, you know, that not enough people would care would care about it. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. It makes sense. Yeah. I mean, but do you watch is there anything then Like American? No. No. Or no. You can even Israeli in a show that is a sci fi. Like, is there something that is, like, so reality? No. That's off brand. That's off brand. Well, I love well, there's the Israeli show Fauda, which is really good. It's on Netflix. Like, people have seen it about? Like, terrorists and, like Okay. So it's, like, a serious suspenseful. Yeah. Serious suspenseful. That's really I think only Israeli shows that, like, my husband wants to watch are off brand. Otherwise, I'll watch, like, all the s**t on Netflix that everybody's watching that I need to know, like, what it's about. Right. You know what I mean? No. Yeah. I absolutely know what you mean. Like, but it but but I really don't have the time. Like, how do the bravoholic for real people watch all The Housewives? I wonder the same things. Like, that's wild to me. If you can watch every housewife show Yeah. That's a full time job. No. Completely agree. I mean but you also have to watch Kardashians. Oh, it's once a week. Yeah. Okay. For a job. Can we before we wrap up also, let me just say if anyone's watching this, well, the people who are watching this on Patreon, they're gonna be like, why are you at Dear Media right now? Mhmm. We were supposed to podcast at my house today. It has been a s**t storm of power outage hell this week. And at the last minute, Amanda was able to Unangle this little this little shock, you know? Studio. So, no, I'm not with Dear Media. This is not like a this is not a thing. Yeah. But before I let you go, because you are the f**king Kardashian whisperer Yeah. Really, there's been no one like you Yeah. That's been able to just, like, come from the outside and just, like, infiltrate Yeah. Don't know how to do it. It's fascinating. It it really is. Somebody should do, like, a doc. A doc on you. Yeah. That could be a new course that people study. And I feel like you know how many messages I get from people that, like, now in college, which is, like, how old are we that college was, like, what, 10, 12 years ago? Like, now people in college, like, will talk about this stuff. Yes. Like, I've had people send me like, they've used me in, like, papers. I've heard that too about, like, Vanderpump Rules and things. I'm like, what the f**k is this? I remember I thought it was badass when I was, like, trying to make something about fashion in, like, a women's history course. Like, now it's literally like this influencer. You know? It's, like, wild, but, but it's interesting, and it's the future. So but, anyway, we heard of the future. We're the founders. The founders of the future. The authors. The future. Of the future. I wanted to know. Yeah. No. This isn't, like, pick your favorite. That's not what I mean at all. Who do you which Kardashian or Jenner do you relate to the most? And it can change, like, because it's October, it's spooky season. It's like you could make your own witch's brew or potion of, like, I'm 30% this or whatever percent this. I wanna know what it is, or maybe there's just one in particular that you relate to. Again, not about, like, it's your favorite. Yeah. Who do you relate to? Yeah. I think I I can say that I relate to Khloe because I feel like she's not me at all. No. No. No. I love Khloe, but here's a difference. Feel like I relate to Khloe so much. Well, we're different on a lot of things. I feel like a lot of time we think that we're, like, same as them a lot, but a lot of times we have, like, different which is fine which is fine. Obviously, it's fine. Obviously, it's cool. It's totally fine. But what I'm saying is I think Khloe is so lovable and the most amazing, but I don't think I have her qualities, which are like, she's so f**king strong. I don't feel that strong. She's so, like, you know, able to take in everybody else and be there for everybody else, and I feel like I'm not always that person. Mhmm. And she's just like that. Like, my sister is Khloe, Ariel. I post my sister a lot. She's, like, the best person. The way Kim talks about Khloe now, if you guys watch the new season, it's really interesting because I feel like Kim has now discovered Khloe, because she'll just be like, Khloe, you're the most amazing person I know, blah blah blah. That's how I am about my sister. So I don't I can't feel, like, that way about myself. I do relate. I have to say, and I said this to you before, like, Kourtney was my OG because think about, like okay. Think about how Khloe and Kim dress on the street. Like, you wouldn't wear that. Right? No. When Kourtney maybe not her style now with Travis Kourtney used to be on my Pinterest board to all my those when she started working with Dani. Her style with you but she still works with her in her style chain. So it doesn't have to do it's like her personal taste now. You know? Yeah. And, actually, even before Dani came along and when you look, like, Courtney's style was always my favorite. Yeah. Because it seems the most like, oh, I tried to buy Dickies because she bought Dickies. Spoiler alert. Didn't look cute on me. Like, looked like literally a construction worker on me. But, like, she wears Doc Martens and Dickies and, like, you know, she she has like a she has more attainable style usually. So and I always, for some reason, I still have this feeling deep inside that she feels, like, different than her family, like, maybe she wasn't meant for this life Yeah. And that she's not this like, the nails. Like, she doesn't have all those things. Totally. It's her hair now. It's, like, short hair. It's her hair. You know what I'm saying? She gets the least work done. So it always was Courtney for me. And after meeting her in real life and spending time with her, it still is Courtney, the most real like, that I relate to. And I love that she's, like, honest about work stuff. Like, she she's not building a business a day, you know, she just came out with a business. She's so proud of it. And she'll still say like, her kids are her top priority. Like, she's very who she is. And I respect that. And I think it's okay that she's not this like, and I think that that's how I used to be now. I love what I do so much that it's not considered like a job and it's not dramatic. But I love being being able to say like, you don't have to be this like, go getting Mogul. Mogul. But this is the thing. When you look at Kourtney Kardashian outside of the Kardashians, she is She is. Right. We're putting her in an impossible f**king situation, an impossible platform for her to, like why are we comparing her Right. To ever And you know what she said on my podcast? She said literally that her sisters, like trying to push her to do that made her less want to do you know, how your mom wants you to do something you don't want to do it because she wants you to do it? It's like that kind of vibe. So I think she's definitely still the most relatable. But I have to say, all of them are literally so nice. You met Khloe in your life. Right? Like, they really are so nice. No. When when I say that, like, Khloe has been, like, granted, this was a a while ago, but she had responded to my is there a story or something like that? She d she DM'd me. Okay? And it was put it out there, you guys. There was a slide. It was, like, the most thoughtful, long, like, DM that, like, she had no reason. Yeah. She had nothing. I don't know if it was after she, like, either something with my book. It was something that, like, referenced the Kardashians, referenced them, and she was just so kind and thoughtful. And I'm like, the amount of time that, like, it looks like she spent in this message, I was like, that's, like, not of the normal I don't respond like this to my mom. No. I know. She writes beautifully and to her sisters, and I've also gotten DMs like that from her. And it's like you don't even know what to do. So, yeah, they're all very, very, very nice. So that's why, you know, they get I mean, living in their life is f**king crazy. Every day, Whenever, like, I deal with something small on the Internet, I'm like, think about the Kardashians. So, like, every move that they make, every breath that they take, every everything somebody will find something negative to say, but on a very large scale. Totally. And they, like, live with it and they own it. No. I agree. I love the Kardashians, and I love that they now have a f**king whisperer. And that's you. Oh. The Kardashian whisperer. Okay. You didn't catch that? No. But I love it. I love that there was a moment of, like, wait. Who is that? It's you. It's Tricarius. Tricaturius. Tricaris. Okay. There it goes. Okay. Amanda, thank you so f**king much. At not skinny but not fat, she has a podcast too. I just did her podcast. Right. Listen to both of ours. Totally different, I feel like. Yeah. Do you know that I wouldn't do a swap back to back for f**king anybody? I hope you know ever ask my producer. I'm always, like, back to back hell to the f**king no. Yeah. But, like, I knew it would be easy for us. Do you know what I mean? Yeah. And it wouldn't feel like work. Okay. But, like, truly, I am sorry about the chaos of that involved my home and having to find a place Oh my god. To podcast. I do feel like I'm gonna faint. It's really hot in here. I know it is. Okay. Oh, you noticed Yeah. That I was gonna faint? No. That it's hot. Okay. Don't worry. You're not gonna faint. You have full flush cheeks. Thank you. Alright. Thank you. Love you. Love you.

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