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00:30:19 12/26/2024

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You remember when you were younger and used to go to sleepaway camp or day camp or have, like, sleepovers with your girlfriends? Even in your early twenties when you were single and there was no kids and there was no real life and there was no worry about what your paid time off was, that's kind of what we're getting back to at Lady World. Lady World is a 3 day podcast and music festival, but it's really just a lady camp. We're gonna be doing Pilates and yoga and walks on the beach. We're gonna lay in the sun. We're gonna do crafts and beading and painting and drink wine, and we're gonna have gifting, and then we're gonna hang out with our friends, and we're or we're gonna make new friends. And then at night, we're gonna listen to, like, some nineties music or maybe the main and watch our favorite podcasters like Stassie or Caitlyn or LadyGang. And then we're gonna go to bed at 10 o'clock, and we're gonna wake up and do it the next day, and maybe we'll have a pickleball tournament with Becca. It's literally all the lady camp of your dream is at Lady World. It's gonna be an incredible time. We're so excited. We are deep in planning. There's gonna be more announcements coming early this spring. Please head over to ladyworld.coladywor ld.c0. You can find all the information about how to score your weekend pa*s. We can help you with accommodations. The flights are not bad if you book early, and so we're so excited. And if you're in that area of the world, Atlanta, it's like a 3 hour drive for you. Atlanta LadyGang, come to the beach with us. We're so excited to see you at Lady World, and we can't wait for you to see what we have planned. Ladyworld.c0 for tickets, passes, accommodations, and more. It's time for a quickie. Podcast 1 presents the LadyGang, the Hollywood girl posse with LadyGang Quickie. Here's Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin, and Jac Vanek. Let's make this quick. Hello. Hello. Hello. Welcome to LadyGang Quickie. I'm Becca here with Jac and Keltie. Hello. Hi, guys. I'm wearing our troop LadyGang. Did you see the Reddit thing where someone stole this idea, although we stole it from troop Beverly Hills? Yeah. You did? No. But you've told me about it. Another influencer made, like, a version of this exact thing in the same colors, and then but that's Beccause it's the True Beverly Hills colors. Right? Yeah. Mhmm. And then it said their brand. And someone was like, Lady Yang already did this, but, like, technically, true we stole it from True Beverly Hills. Anything. You can't steal from the stealer. You know? Nope. But this is one of my favorite sweatsuits that we've ever made. It was really cute. And, I started a new thing. I think I don't know if I told you guys this, but I'm hanging my sweatsuits now as a sweatsuit. I like that. So, normally, I used to do, like, sweatpants on one shelf and then the sweatshirt over here. But, like, realistically You're wearing it together. If I have it in a set, I'm wearing it as a set. Mhmm. So now I hang the pant, like, it's as if it's a suit. But it is a suit, but it's a sweatsuit. See, I'm trying to figure out what I'm gonna do for my new closet with Are you doing a room into a closet, or is it just closet? Both. I think I'm doing it with Modern Twig. Oh, fun. Yeah. What's that? They did my bathroom. Yeah. They work with, like, IKEA Bases. Bases, and then they do custom, like, coverings for them. So they look high end, but they're, like, IKEA. My bathroom is them. Yeah. But wait. Are you taking a bedroom and turning it into a closet? Yeah. Oh. It's gonna be, like, a closet slash, like, office. Like, I'll put, like, a desk in the middle of it. Oh, and that real, like, Zoom? Probably, yeah, podcast and stuff. Put it that in front of the window so you get the best light. I know. Great. I've already thought about it. But, anyways, I wanna figure out what to do Beccause all I have are, like, sweatsuits and T shirts. Like, that's all I wear. Yeah. So I'm, like, I wanna figure out what to do, how to hang them or organize them. Well, you think a a t shirt and a sweatsuit should be in a drawer, but, actually, it's way more useful just to have all your t shirts out so you can find your Harry Styles t shirt or Matt Nathanson t shirt, which I'm very upset. A few months ago, I gave you a Matt Nathanson t shirt. Have you ever worn it again? I think you took it back. I did. I think you did. I only have ever give one away. He gave me 2 he gave me 2 of the same one. Oh. And I wore it, and then I got makeup on it, but the makeup will not come out. I've tide sticked it. I've washed it. It's checked, but I think I gave it back to you. If you were at home, but that's fine. I would know if I had 2 Beccause I would be so thrilled. Check. Anyway, but I I do think hanging in the sweatsuit is the new Yeah. Black. I'm into that. Okay. I like how you say it's like a suit. It is. It's a suit. Yeah. It's a sweatsuit. Well, I'm always sad Beccause when I wear my Live Love LadyGang sweatsuit, and I see you wear the pink one sometimes, I get sad Beccause that's when I poop my pants. And You can have mine. I'm never gonna wear it. I just donated mine. I donate a lot of lady LadyGang merch too. You did? Uh-huh. I have a room. Every single thing we've ever made. See, I love that. You can have my pink suit. Yeah. You can add it to the collection. So if you are new listener to LadyGang, I pooped my pants when we were on tour, like, 3 years ago in Ohio. Wild. And I poo I was wearing the pink sweatsuit. Jac made 3 only pink sweatsuits for just the people for us, Lady Game On Tour, just the people on the podcast. I pooped my pants in mine, and I Threw it away. We were on a bus, so there was nowhere to wash it. And I wasn't gonna bring the poopy sweatpants back in. Yeah. And then without the bottom, the top made no sense Beccause I like it as a suit. Yeah. So okay. Can I have your pink one, though? Beccause I will wear it. Cheers. Yes. I hope I still have mine. Okay. So exciting. Okay. 2024 was quite a year, and we've decided to tell you a a few months ago, we did an episode where we went down all the Gen z slang, the skibbity toilet, the Yeah. You know? But I recently found a Instagram that said all the words of the year that they're, like, trying to see about putting in the dictionary. K. And so I thought we would go through them, really talk about them, decide what we think the LadyGang word of the year is, which is obviously star baby or Booyah. Or the. We already know our words, but these are, like, the regular people words. Star baby. Star baby. So we will We should write a book called Star baby, like a children's book. I love it. Oh, that's a great idea. You're a star and you're a star baby. You're a star baby. You're a star baby. I think the title of my book should be Keltie Knight Tries Too Hard. No. We've will you yes. Yeah. And a a memoir of desperation and rejection or something. It's so funny. There's someone in Hollywood writing a memoir right now, and it, like I was in a room of probably 5 people. And there was some controversies throughout, as there always is. Before the book comes out, they find, like, the best things to tease the book. And so we were talking, and somebody came late to the conversation. They said, what are you guys talking about? And we said, oh, so and so's memoir. And they go, who's asking for that? And then I thought, how that's kinda the case for most people. Every Yes. Who's asking for a memoir? Well, I'm From someone who hasn't changed the world. I'm asking. I've never talked about a memoir in my life. Love a memoir. I love to read a memoir. I I just went back and read Sarah Ferguson's memoir from the nineties when she was married to prince Andrew. It's fascinating. See, but that's fascinating. That person has lived a not fantastic, but a different life. She's one of so few. Yeah. That makes sense. But now with every I mean, every single person has, like, some version of it of, like, influence and fame or, like, the the pool of people, I guess. No. It's true. But I'm like, it's not a niche thing anymore. Need a memoir from every single actor in the world. No. Like No. I don't need a memoir, but I enjoy a personal essays book. Like, I love a Danny Pellegrino book. I love a Chelsea Handler book. Different. They're comedians. Okay. They're funny. They make you giggle. Are you saying I shouldn't do Keltie Knight Tries Too Hard? No. I think will be By the time you're, like, 80, maybe. Right. Like the Cher memoir, I'm ready for. For sure. That's like Cher. She's Cher. She's an icon. Yeah. So you're saying we're not the same? No. Not yet. Not even though you got your Bob Mackie crown? No. Not yet. She's like, I'm sorry. Although, Jessica Simpson, I will say That was a great memoir. But here's the thing. Beccause she was one of so few people that had that life experience. Yeah. Now There's also a difference. Like, I wanna hear about people's lives in the nineties and early 2000. I don't wanna hear about their recent lives. Yeah. Like Beccause we saw them on Instagram. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. There was It was like there was something about that album. Mystery anyhow. It was like untouchable. To them. Yeah. Yeah. Beccause if Jessica and Nick were going through the divorce in the the age of TikTok, she would be playing, like, the world's smallest man and dancing in the background, and then you know exactly where she stands. You're not actually interested now. Yes. Beccause you're like, oh, great. It's just like all of us. She's all of us. Yeah. And then back then, it was so mysterious. Yeah. And now you get to hear her side, and it's just so fun. Yeah. Okay. Sorry to No. No. No. This is great. So first word of the year, obviously, is brat. Brat? Okay. So this is asking, do they wanna put a different dictionary, like, every name for brat? What? Brat is already in the dictionary, so they're trying to add, like, another meaning. Brat into, like, in the way we know it, the Charlie xcxbrat. But my question is, what even is that definition? You're being Well, you should Google it. Brat is it's a it's a way of life. It's a star baby. It's it's a it's a way of life. Like, brat is you don't give a you're doing whatever you want. They're they're they're they can't put it in Beccause they've just taken a noun and they've taken an adjective and made it urban dictionary. Okay. I'm not talking about the dictionary dictionary. K. Sorry. According to charliexcx, a brat, even though I don't think it's you are a brat. I think it's just brat. You're a brat. It's sassy summer. It's brat summer, like, the adjective. But she said it's that girl who is a little messy and likes to party and maybe says some dumb things sometimes. So Rat. We're not sure about it. Next. Next. I do I think Charli XCX is so interesting, though. That girl? I know nothing about her. I mean, all I she's, like she's not older. She's way younger than us, but she's, like, millennial. She's not Gen z. She's already having her second coming. Appeals to Gen z. Mhmm. And, like, her whole thing, her whole gist is, like, she just, like, does cocaine all the time. What a brand. Yeah. That's a brat. And, like brat. That's brat. No. That is brat. But then I I I don't know. It's just very weird to me. And then talk about doing cocaine all the time? Yeah. And, like, references it a lot in her songs, allegedly. Like, I think she does. I think so too. She does. I mean, I was very turned on by that Billie Eilish video about the underwear when she's, like, lick it, bite it, slide it to the side, and get all up in it. And I was, like, oh, do I want Billie Eilish to go down on me? Like, I I don't know. I'm sorry. That's allegedly. But, like, she's hot in the video. I love her. Do you know the do you ever watch the video? No. I don't watch the video. There's a video Charlie Sash has a song called Guess, and it's like, you don't have to guess the color of my underwear. What's under there? Like, it's it's very brat. And Billie Eilish has a a verse on it, and she's, like, I wanna lick it, bite it, slide it, pull it to the side, and get it all up in it. And she's, like, kind of doing this. Like, she's pulling the underwear aside. Oh, metaphorically. Pull an underwear aside, Jac? Yeah. Okay. You know? Fine. Yeah. Of course. It's very hot. Okay. Next, this knot for this. Brain rot. Brain rot is stupid stuff on the Internet that rots your brain, I think. And then there's bed rot. What's bed rot? You're rotting. When you're in the bed too long and you get sore. Rot. Yeah. Well, it's like I need a day a rot day. Oh, bed rot. Yeah. I think that's just rotting. But there's, like, bed rotting and then rot day. It's like bedrock, like the Flintstones. Bedrock. I like rot. I like rot too. I like Beccause it's very it's very destructive, and you know exactly what you're talking about. But it like, I think rotting is self care. Like, I think rotting is a positive. We must rot. Yeah. We must rot. It is our right to rot. It's like our way of, like, regenerating. Yes. Beccause sleeping is not doing enough. Not enough. Okay. So brain rot is a slang term that refers to the negative psychological and cognitive effects of consuming low quality content online or the content itself. Exactly. Really near in Webster. Listening to from AI. If you're listening to this podcast, it is brain rot. For sure. Yeah. So the term is often used to describe the digital habits of generation alpha and is associated with other slang terms from that generation such as skibbidy. Skibbidy toilet. Yeah. That's so weird. Impacts and sick. It's so weird that alpha is now the young one. So there's a gen z. Gen z is like, oh, we're so old. Okay. The next word is Wait. Sorry. I love it Beccause gen z never thought that they were gonna get old. I know they were like, you're so old. And I was like, it's You'll be there too. Time stops for no one. Not a single person. For gift that's always on time and last an entire lifetime, it can't do better than master cla*s. I actually gifted this last year to my father-in-law as a gift, and he has not stopped talking about it. With masterclass, your loved ones can learn from the best to become their best. 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I don't mind it if there's a funny like, I'm in my brain rot era. Like, I'm just putting garbage on the Internet. Like, that's funny. Nope. Okay. DeLulu. I like DeLulu, but it's just an abbreviated version of delusional. But I feel feel like it makes it cutesy. It does. So, like It does. Then It feels less mental illness and more, like, kitschy. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's like you don't wanna be, like, you're delusional. You just wanna be, like, you're so delulu. Yes. Well, and it's, like, I think people self describe themselves as DeLulu. Are you the most DeLulu about in your life? I don't feel like I'm a DeLulu person, really. Everything top to bottom, 9 to 5, the amount of water I drink in a day, how beautiful I am, my level of fame, my worth, how satisfied my husband is. I mean, it's a lot. Lulu about eating healthier than I really do. A 100%. Right? For sure. Beccause I think about it, and if my doctor or somebody, you know, whatever's is asking, like, what are you what are you how do are you a good healthy eater? And I'm, I guess, relatively to the rest of this country, which the bar is really low. I am a healthy eater. Yeah. But in my mind, I think that on a like, the majority of my days are healthy, but I think it's more the minority of my days are the healthy days. Yeah. 100%. And that's hard to come to terms with. I'm pretty DeLulu about that. I'm definitely like that too. Yeah. And the amount that I drink. Alcohol. I'm not a big drinker, but but I will say it's very rare I'll go through an entire weekend without having an alcoholic beverage. Oh, never. So I'm kind of delulu about that. Beccause in my mind, I think I probably have 2 drinks a month, but, really, it's probably 6. That's still nothing. Yeah. But drink a week. That's, like, on the that's on, like, the occasional side at the doctor's office. Yeah. It is. But I'm but I'm, like occasional side. The fact that you know that is so Jac Vanetti. Oh, I'm definitely delusional about, like, my alcohol consumption when it comes to going to the doctor. Like, when they're like, how many drinks a week and I'm like lying. 3? But I don't actually know I'm lying when I say that I barely drink. Yeah. Beccause it's not barely drinking. That's drinking. Yeah. That's drinking. That's yeah. So delivery. Not a lot. The next word is yapping. Love to yap. That's not new. But it's it's definitely, like, spread your it's back. It's back. It's back. Yapping is having a moment. What is yapping? It's just doing what we're doing. Well, you're just chatting. We always say Beccause my dad obviously, I'm sitting at my parents' house right now and close quarters. And so my dad, like, works from his room Beccause he was working from home, and he doesn't wanna, like, work in the common space. Yeah. But he yaps. Like, all day, every day, he is he does, like, sales. Like my dad I mean, that's, like, Zach on the phone. Yeah. Chris Knight on the phone. Phone. All guys had to divorce him during the pandemic. I Yapping. Hate the sound of a man on a business call. Yapping. It is it gives me not at the ick. It gives me the rage. Oh my god. The rage. The rage. Why is their voice coming through every vent? They can't be in a room. Booming. Like, I could be in this office, which is in the basement on the way left side of the house. Yeah. 5 25 100 square feet away on the top level opposite side, I still hear, oh, I'm not now. Oh, god. And, of course, I feel like he has a quiet voice. He does. I can when he's talking to you in the kitchen and then Same. I can barely hear him. I know you have an inside voice. He does. And Zach mumbles so badly that I I, like, I count how many times I'm allowed to say what to him. I never hear Beccause I know it's annoying. You hear pronunciation, and then he's on a business call, and all of a sudden, we are There's a friend of mine there's a friend of mine who has a husband who I'm unable to understand Beccause he speaks at such a low level. I can't do a monger. So but I I turn into the person that just, like, smiles and laughs and nods. I can't understand. It's like we're speaking different languages. Yes. I can't deal. It's like how does she understand him or hear him? I think it was very frustrating. And so I know he has an inside voice, and I'm just annoyed. Calls, though? Mm-mm. No. Okay. Making cheddar. And I'm like, okay. Alright. Raw dogging. This is sex without a condom, and I wanna keep it that way. Yeah. But it can but now people are I think it Beccame popular Beccause people are raw dogging flights. Airplanes. Yeah. It Beccame popular on this podcast Beccause Ken Bush, my dad, was raw dogging the flight, and it was unbelievable. And I had to do like the term way. Like using raw dogging in the wrong way. I think it's fun. You're right. It's like when you take your dog out on a hike, if you don't bring, like, your phone, yeah, you're raw dogging it. A poo dah, a poo bag, a water, your phone, a headphone, you're just you're just walking the dog. Raw dogging. Well, it's like raw doggy. Raw dogging basically means unprepared. Yeah. Yeah. Like, just going for it. Yeah. Just going for it. And you'll figure it out. Yeah. You'll figure it out along along wow. On the way. On the way. My dad recently was here, and he I flew home with him. And I got to watch the Raw Dog in person. Unbelievable. Just the This man this man, he had a phone. Like, you know, we went up to the bin, and I'm like, okay. Backpack. Yeah. You know? And I'm traveling with him, so I didn't do TSA pre Beccause I don't wanna leave him alone in the airport, and he doesn't have it. So I'm like, okay. Liquids. Okay. Phone, tablet, like, everything. And I'm like and I'm like, you got anything? And he literally pulled out of the tiny pocket. You know in the gene, there's, like, the 5th pocket? Of 10? His medicine for his heart that he has to take every day in a little tiny plastic bag. Oh my god. He put the he put the 10 pills. No. And I said, you know, I need to take that out. In the cell phone. That's it. And I was like, what the is happening? And I said to him, like, do you wanna take a crossword? Do you wanna whatever? And he's like, no. I'm like, what do you do on the plane? He's like, I just didn't join the view. I think people disassociate. Like, I think it's like a way to I think it's Beccause that generation did not have the stimulation that we have. They don't have to have it. He knows how to sit peacefully. How to sit with their thoughts. Distract themselves. It's so weird. Just thinking. Like, what are you doing? You're just but not even with, like, a music to, like, get you really feeling in your mood. Yeah. Nothing. It's so weird. Crazy. Okay. Was that flight? Like, 3 and a half hours. That's so crazy. Oh my god. But it was just Oh my god. And he's just sitting there. That's how I feel on Southwest with no outlets to charge my phone and no TV card me. No Wi Fi. It's upsetting. It's hard. When I have to resort to my Kindle Yeah. People are so unprepared though. Beccause even though I was flying recently and the it was Delta and the screens were out and the Wi Fi didn't work, like, both things. When Wi Fi's off? It was like the rage. Yeah. They used to bang. Beccause you booked Delta Beccause you know you're gonna get that. Yeah. That good TV. And then people are like, well, guess we're gonna talk to each other. I'm like, this is my worst nightmare. And then people are talking on planes. Like, shut the f**k up. Headphones in. I mean, the amount of people we've talked about this all the time, but I just wanna say it again. Please, for the love of the lulu yapping era brain rot brat, put a f**king headphone on. Yeah. If you're on your phone, I don't care if it's TikTok and it's quiet. I can still hear it. I hate you. I hate you. I hate you. And I'm looking at you, and I'm peering at you, and I'm staring at you. And when I stir at you like this, it makes really don't mind when people do this. It's so funny. Beccause I put in my headphones, and then it's over. Some of them are so loud, you can't There's no world. Noise. The AirPods have noise cancellation. Just bothers me. As a historical moment. I know, but you need to start moving on. I can't. It hurts me. It's like it's like hating some hating your enemy and drinking the poison. What is it? It's like What? What it's like what your resentment is actually just Fueling. Having you have poison that you're drinking. Oh. What is it? g*****n it. I understand what you're talking about. Sorry. I have no idea, so I need you to look them up. Antitourism? What? It's a word. Antitourism. That doesn't sound like a trendy word. It doesn't sound sexy at all. But is it, like, we're just not going on trips Beccause we're in a recession? Or, like, what what's the, like, pop culture word of it? Anti Antitourism. No. Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Oh, that's a long saying. It's good. Yeah. It is. Anti tourism is nothing? Okay. Looks smacking with 2 no. Looks looks maxing or looks smacking. I think it's maxing. Looks smacking. Maxing with 2 s's and two x's. Looks look maxing? Yeah. What is that? Oh, it's just the concept of looks maxing involves enhancing one's physical appearance through various means such as grooming, fashion, fitness, skin care. I think it's just, like, taking care of yourself. That the thing with the chin when, like, you get the Botox in your chin and the guy's like you're like this? Yeah. I think it's a man's thing Beccause all the images are of men. So it's when you're, like, set mewing. Oh, the mewing. Lifting the tongue. Is like Yeah. But I think that's part of what looks maxing. Like, meeting Chris Knight in 2013 and then Chris Knight in 2016 after I looks maxed him. Yeah. It's basically yeah. So it's an ideal ideology that focuses on focuses on improving your beauty. So I think it's just, like, a little world of glow up. We didn't need a word for that. Yeah. It's the word of it's, like, the Gen z word for glow up. Okay. What about romantacy? Romantacy. R o m a n t a s y. Romantacy. I'm having a romantacy in my mind about a delicious pizza Friday this week. Like a fantasy romance. Like a comic. Romantic fantasy, a subgenre of fantasy fiction that combines romance and fantasy elements. Oh, it's the thorn of crowns. Yeah. What's it called? Court of thorn of thorns roses. So it's like the dragons, magic, fantastical worlds. And sex. Yeah. Wow. Do you like that? Are you a romantic y listener? Absolutely not. No? No. Or did you read Court of Thrones? I don't like fantasy. I don't like fantasy either, but I loved Harry Potter. Harry we've had this conversation. Harry Potter is different. I don't think it's fantasy. It is. It's magic. It is so scary. Had this movie. I can't let it happen anymore. I still I won't accept Harry pot Potter as fantasy. Okay. Harry Potter is action comedy fantasy. Romantasy is I literally just see that. Literature is Harry Potter. I just think of fantasy, there has to be, like, a fairy. Yeah. Something flying. Yeah. A fairy. The those dark things. The germinators. The the dementors. Yeah. So if something was flying, it was too evil. I also think fantasy is, like What would you consider Harry Potter's genre? I don't know. It's own thing. She's Harry Potterism. Okay. I mean, I guess it could be. Why not? Enough to be a short genre. Yeah. Okay. So what's your word of the year from these? I choose Dalulu. I like rod hogging. What were some of the earlier ones? Brain rot, brat, era, Dalulu, yapping, rodocking. I don't like any of these. I like our words better. Starbaby. Starbaby. And the zazz. The zazz. The word of the year for LadyGang is You've got the zazz. You've got the zazz. The zazz. We weren't here for a long time. We're here for a Zazz. Zazzie. LadyGang is produced by podcast 1 with podcasting production assistance from Steve Dellometer, Derek Haley, editing by Jared Monaco, and social support from Kale Carrera, and mastermind evil genius from Keltie Knight.

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For the past eight years, Lasonta has been relentlessly stalked by three different men?each more persistent than the last. One bombarded her with apologies, another launched a vicious online smear campaign, and one even showed up outside her home after she rejected him. Despite blocking, ignoring, and pleading for help, the harassment hasn?t stopped. With little support from law enforcement and limited legal options, Lasonta refused to stay silent. Instead, she took matters into her own hands?creating an online stalking log to document every threat, every message, and every disturbing encounter. Now, she?s speaking out. In this episode, Lasonta shares her harrowing experience, the toll it?s taken, and how she?s fighting back against the system that failed her. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Delete Me Today get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. Shopify Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify,com/strictlystalking to take your retail business to the next level. That?s SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/STALKING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. GUEST LINKS Lasonta Bynoe Sites: www.lasonta.com, www.youtube.com/lasonta, www.instagram.com/lasontabynoe, www.tiktok.com/@lasontabynoe PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:00:00 3/11/2025
Daphne endured relentless stalking and terror at the hands of her own mother for over 35 years?even surviving an attempt on her life through poisoning meant to silence her. But Daphne refused to be a victim. She reclaimed her life, fought back, and now uses her story to teach others about resilience, self-protection, and the transformative power of setting unshakable boundaries. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. GUEST LINKS Daphne Minks Social handles: @HardcoreResilience www.TwistedReelsProductions.com PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:00:00 3/4/2025
Dr. Kathi N. Miner endured stalking, adultery, and emotional abuse in her marriage, ultimately leading to her hospitalization in a psychiatric facility. As a former Professor of Psychology and Women's and Gender Studies at Texas A&M University, she was a dedicated feminist and expert in gender issues?yet found herself trapped in an abusive relationship. Throughout her journey to recovery, she documented her experiences in her memoir, The Committed Professor: My Fall from the Lectern to the Psych Ward. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Beam If you want to try Beam?s best-selling Dream Powder, get up to 40% off for a limited time when you go to shopbeam.com/stalking and use code STALKING at checkout. Delete Me Today get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. Shopify Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify,com/strictlystalking to take your retail business to the next level. That?s SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING GUEST LINKS Dr. Kathi N. Miner Website (kathiminerphd.com) The Committed Professor on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D3ZXDMFW TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kathinminerphd Instagram: @kathinminerphd Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/drkathiminer.bsky.social The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:00:00 2/24/2025
Teresa became the target of a relentless stalker?one of the very men featured in her documentary. After the release of Breaking the Fourth Wall, he grew angry over his portrayal in the film. Despite Teresa?s efforts to address his concerns, he lashed out, spreading rumors and showing up uninvited to her comedy gigs. She blocked him online and kept her distance, but the situation took a terrifying turn when he confronted her at a show and physically attacked her. Though there were witnesses, he has yet to be arrested. Now, Teresa lives with the fear and trauma of the attack as she continues her fight for justice. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Beam If you want to try Beam?s best-selling Dream Powder, get up to 40% off for a limited time when you go to shopbeam.com/stalking and use code STALKING at checkout. Quince Go to https://www.quince.com/strictly for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. GUEST LINKS Teresa Lo https://www.instagram.com/teresalowriter PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear
00:00:00 2/18/2025
Stephanie has been stalked her neighbor for over two and a half years. It all started when he began making unsettling comments about things she was doing around her house. Then, his behavior escalated: he started throwing rocks at her property and even falsely called the police, claiming Stephanie was in distress. Despite filing multiple police reports, the nightmare continues, and Stephanie still faces his troubling actions to this day. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Delete Me Today get 20% off your DeleteMe plan when you go to JoinDeleteMe.com/STALKING and use promo code STALKING at checkout. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:00:00 2/11/2025
For over two years, Aaron was stalked, unaware of the true identity behind it. What began as a seemingly harmless encounter spiraled into a web of manipulation and control, affecting every aspect of his life. Believing he was helping a friend escape a dangerous predator under FBI investigation, Aaron found himself entangled in deception. His relationships were sabotaged, his trust was exploited, and he was lured by the false promise of a Hollywood movie deal that never existed. After enduring years of psychological torment, Aaron finally uncovered the shocking truth?the real stalker was someone he never expected. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com FEATURED LINKS: Aaron Burt https://www.instagram.com/bernardblack1/ Film - Philophobia: Or the Fear of Falling in Love https://www.amazon.com/Philophobia-Fear-Falling-Aaron-Burt/dp/B07WRFHSXS PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/STALKING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | with Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:59:05 2/4/2025
Jules was harassed by a former classmate who became obsessed after they reconnected and began dating. Their relationship lasted just two months before she ended it due to his controlling and jealous behavior. Despite telling him not to contact her again, he bombarded her with hundreds of emails and voicemails, impersonated her and her partner online, and issued numerous threats. Even after his arrest and a restraining order, the harassment persisted for years. Finally, Jules enlisted the help of attorney Carrie Goldberg, who successfully had him arrested and sentenced to 50 months in federal prison for cyberstalking and making interstate threats. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com FEATURED LINKS: C.A. GOLDBERG LAW https://www.cagoldberglaw.com/ Since the firm was founded in 2014, we have represented thousands of clients of the most vicious modern attacks. We?ve gotten our clients tens of millions of dollars, obtained almost 100 hundred orders of protection, removed over 100,000 images and links of revenge porn and child exploitation, and forced some of the most notorious websites and online platforms to shut down forever. There is no school, city, predator, employer, politico, troll, celebrity or tech company that hurts our clients and gets away with it. PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Quince Go to https://www.quince.com/strictly for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Shopify Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify,com/strictlystalking to take your retail business to the next level. That?s SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast lovelustfear + lovelustfridays | hosted by Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
01:54:17 1/28/2025
Justine was stalked by her ex-husband. During their marriage, his behavior grew increasingly controlling?he monitored her finances, scrutinized her social media, and frequently invaded her privacy by checking her phone. After she left him, his actions escalated. He began following her, bombarding her with calls, texts, and emails, and appearing uninvited wherever she went. In an effort to protect herself, Justine changed her email and phone number, blocked him on social media, moved to a new location, and even switched jobs to escape his harassment. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com GUEST LINK ? JUSTINE Helped Justine by providing her with a victim advocate during her divorce: https://www.ywcahbg.org/ The YWCA Greater Harrisburg is dedicated to eliminating racism, empowering women and promoting peace, justice, freedom and dignity for all. PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! Quince Go to https://www.quince.com/strictly for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. IQBAR And now, our special podcast listeners get twenty percent off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text STALKING to 64000. Get your discount. That?s STALKING to sixty-four thousand. Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast lovelustfear | hosted by Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:56:34 1/21/2025
Haley was stalked by her ex-boyfriend. After the breakup, she began noticing unsettling signs, such as feathers and blood left on her car. The situation worsened when her home was broken into while she was away, though nothing was taken. Even after contacting the police, the harassment persisted, culminating in a horrifying encounter when her ex-boyfriend targeted her while she was at home. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com GUEST LINK ? HALEY GRAY www.HaleyGrayResearch.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! IQBAR And now, our special podcast listeners get twenty percent off all IQBAR products, plus get FREE shipping. To get your 20% off, just text STALKING to 64000. Get your discount. That?s STALKING to sixty-four thousand. Shopify Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at www.shopify,com/strictlystalking to take your retail business to the next level. That?s SHOPIFY.COM/STRICTLYSTALKING Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast lovelustfear | hosted by Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
00:51:21 1/14/2025
Elizabeth's first apartment as a new single mom started out as a fresh chapter. She quickly befriended the elderly couple next door, enjoying their company and support. However, everything changed when the couple?s adult son, who had recently moved in, began acting strangely after his parents left for the summer. What started as friendly behavior shifted into something more menacing. When Elizabeth confronted him, he became aggressive, and the situation spiraled into three years of relentless stalking and harassment. Despite moving, changing jobs, and even buying a new car, the man continued to track her and make threats. Elizabeth reported him to the police multiple times, but justice was never served?not for her or any of his other victims. HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED STALKING? LET US KNOW: strictlystalkingpod@gmail.com PLEASE VISIT OUR SPONSORS! ZocDoc Go to Zocdoc.com/STALKING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Progressive Insurance Press play on comparing auto rates. Get your auto quote at Progressive.com to join the over 28 million drivers who trust Progressive. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS The Last Trip - Podcast - hosted by Jaimie Beebe Listen & Subscribe to The Last Trip - https://audioboom.com/channels/5119581-the-last-trip Follow The Last Trip on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thelasttripcrimepod/ And Subscribe for all the updates on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/TheLastTripPodcast lovelustfear | hosted by Jake Deptula Apple Podcasts | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283?uo=4 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Amazon Music | https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748 Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Submissions | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear CHECK OUT OUR PATREON: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: @strictlystalkingpod @feathergirl77 @jaked3000
01:32:36 1/7/2025

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