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1072: Past Regrets Foster Clear and Present Threats | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Nov 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your conservative grandparents smuggled their ex-adoptee with a violent past into the country to live with them. Should you worry? It's Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your staunchly conservative grandparents who harbor anti-immigrant sentiments recently paid $15,000 to smuggle a man with a violent past into the US — someone they had previously adopted and returned to Mexico when he was just a boy. Now he's living with them and reaching out to connect with you. What the heck is going on, and what do you do about it?
You have a friend with potential who seems perpetually stuck, always blaming others for his lack of progress in career, relationships, and health. Despite your care for him and attempts to help, he always has a convenient excuse for why nothing will work. Can you find a way through to him?
You discovered your restaurant job wasn't paying legally required overtime, and when you brought this up to your boss, things quickly escalated in an unexpected direction. How do you navigate the aftermath and protect your rights?
Your 11-year-old son splits time between your home and his father's, where he witnesses concerning behavior and feels increasingly afraid and unhappy. With limited legal options before he turns 14, what can you do to protect him while keeping him connected to his siblings?
Recommendation of the Week: Audiobook efficiency hacks!
Jordan shares a wild story from his teenage years when he got involved with Detroit police doing unofficial undercover work in schools. With no paperwork or protection, he was walking a dangerous line. How did he make it out unscathed?
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1071: Mike Feldstein | The Hidden Crisis of Indoor Air Pollution

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 29 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Indoor air quality affects us more than we realize. Here, Jaspr founder Mike Feldstein explains why what we breathe matters and how to fix it.

What We Discuss with Mike Feldstein:

Indoor air quality is often significantly worse than outdoor air, as homes lack natural filtration systems like wind, sun, and trees. After cooking, poor air quality can persist for up to 48 hours without proper filtration.

Most air quality issues can't be detected by human senses — we can't smell or see many harmful particles and chemicals that affect our health. This is especially concerning since we spend most of our time indoors.

Common household activities like cooking (even healthy cooking), using air fresheners, and burning incense create significant indoor air pollution. Many cleaning products and deodorizers actually mask problems rather than solving them.

Bedroom air quality is particularly critical since we spend roughly one-third of our lives sleeping. Your body does its best repair work during sleep — and it needs clean air to do that job effectively.

There are several simple ways to improve your indoor air quality today: Open windows on opposite sides of your house for cross-ventilation when outdoor air is clean, use your range hood when cooking (verify it vents outside), remove artificial air fresheners, and consider air filtration for rooms where you spend the most time, especially bedrooms. These small changes can make a big difference in your indoor air quality.

And much more...

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1070: Squatters | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 27 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Scared of squatters taking your home? Nick Pell brings perspective to what the media tells us is a "growing crisis" on this week's Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Squatting occurs when people occupy a property without legal right or permission, often in vacant homes or rental properties. While they may create fake leases or documentation to appear legitimate, they are distinct from legal tenants who have stopped paying rent or are being evicted.

Most squatting cases become complex civil matters rather than criminal ones because squatters often create fake leases and establish utility bills in their names, making it difficult for police to immediately remove them.

The current housing situation contributes to squatting — average rent has increased 13.7% year over year since 1980, while wages have only grown 0.2% year over year since the early 1970s, making housing increasingly unaffordable for many.

Changes to squatting laws need careful consideration, as overly strict laws could potentially be weaponized against legitimate occupants (such as domestic abuse victims) or lead to frivolous claims against legitimate tenants.

Property owners can protect themselves by regularly checking on their properties, maintaining good documentation of ownership and occupancy, and quickly establishing a paper trail with authorities if issues arise. Being proactive rather than reactive is the best defense against potential squatting situations.

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1069: Can Doc's Fault Be Denied in Friend's Suicide? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 25 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your friend's suicide leaves you questioning their psychiatric care. Is someone liable, or does the system just fail sometimes? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your best friend since middle school took their own life while under psychiatric care, and you've discovered concerning details about their treatment, including billing after death and continued prescriptions despite missed check-ins. With their family reluctant to pursue legal action, how can you channel your grief and anger into meaningful change?

As a successful, independent woman in your 30s with no desire to have children, you're questioning whether you actually want a relationship. Dating apps leave you anxious and disinterested, yet something keeps pulling you back. Is your conflict avoidance masking deeper relationship fears?

You run a music school and you've just learned that one of your most engaging teachers, who mentors impressionable students aged 8-14, believes in the flat Earth theory and other conspiracies. Do you let this talented instructor go now, or wait to see if their objectionable beliefs affect their teaching?

You've reconnected with a high school friend and started dating, but his divorce decree prevents new partners from meeting his children for six months. You want to respect boundaries but feel this rule is excessive. Is there a reasonable way to move past this awkward stage sooner rather than later? [Thanks again to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

Recommendation of the Week: Homemade matcha lattes.

Episode 924: Chris DeArmitt | Rethinking Plastic’s Environmental Impact was controversial (as expected). Listeners wrote in with questions and criticisms about Chris' industry ties and scientific claims — and he was kind enough to answer all of them!

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1068: Yuval Noah Harari | Rewriting Human History in the Age of AI

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 22 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

AI is reshaping society, challenging democracy, and raising ethical concerns. Nexus author Yuval Noah Harari explains its risks and potential solutions.

What We Discuss with Yuval Noah Harari:

Stories and shared beliefs are fundamental to human cooperation and society, from money to religion to nations. These "fictions" enable large-scale collaboration.

Populism erodes trust in institutions and promotes a cynical view that all human relations are power struggles, paving the way for authoritarian rule.

AI is not just a tool but an agent that can make independent decisions, potentially surpassing human capabilities in many areas, which raises concerns about control and understanding.

The rise of AI and extensive data collection enables unprecedented surveillance and control, as seen in social credit systems and automated law enforcement.

We can shape the future of AI by creating living institutions to monitor its development, implementing regulations to hold companies accountable, and ensuring transparency in AI interactions. By focusing on solving the right problems and establishing trust between humans, we can work toward a more positive future with AI.

And much more...

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1067: Higher Education | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 20 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

On Skeptical Sunday, Jessica Wynn schools us in higher education's flaws — privilege, rankings, debt, and inequity — and examines ways to fix them.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Higher education in the United States has a long history of privilege and exclusivity, with prestigious institutions reinforcing social and economic disparities.

College rankings, such as those by US News & World Report, have a significant influence on the perception of educational quality but often fail to measure the actual academic experience.

The cost of higher education has increased dramatically, outpacing inflation and creating substantial student loan debt, which raises questions about the return on investment (ROI) for many students.

Standardized tests like the SAT and ACT, as well as admissions processes, tend to favor wealthier students, perpetuating inequalities in access to higher education.

There is potential for positive change in higher education through innovative models, technology integration, and alternative credentialing systems. By embracing new approaches to learning and assessment, we can work toward a more accessible, diverse, and effective educational system that better serves students and employers in the 21st century.

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1066: Is Ex on the Level for Calling Him The Devil? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 18 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your boyfriend faces serious allegations from his past. You want to trust him, but doubts linger. How do you uncover the truth? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're dating a man whose ex-girlfriend accused him of molesting her son and his own children. He claims innocence, but you're torn between trusting him and your gut feelings. What steps can you take to uncover the truth while maintaining your integrity and safety?

Your father, recently single and grieving, is asking to move into your new home. You and your partner want your own space, but you feel guilty given all your father has done for you. How do you balance family obligations with your own needs?

You were recruited into what seemed like a promising business opportunity, only to discover it was an MLM scheme. The tactics used were manipulative and cult-like. What red flags did you encounter, and how did you respond?

Your father is nearing the end of his life, leaving behind an inheritance. Your mother suggests giving up your share for your struggling siblings. You're torn between fairness and helping family. How do you decide what's right?

Recommendation of the Week: Anker Prime Power Bank

You're interested in starting therapy but unsure about what "processing emotions" actually entails. You're also concerned about the cost. How can you make the most of therapy and find affordable options?

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1065: Andrew Bustamante | The Psychology of Espionage Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 17 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Spycraft utilizes psychology more than gadgets. Ex-CIA officer Andrew Bustamante reveals the human side of intelligence gathering and deception. [Pt. 2/2 — find Pt. 1 here!]

What We Discuss with Andrew Bustamante:

The psychology of espionage and the process of recruiting assets, with an emphasis on the importance of building relationships and trust.

The CIA uses a process called SADRAT (Spot, Assess, Develop, Recruit, Handle, and Terminate) to develop intelligence sources, which is similar to sales techniques and relationship building.

The concept of public, private, and secret lives, highlighting how understanding and accessing someone's secret life is crucial for intelligence work.

The strengths and operational styles of the CIA, Russia's SVR, Israel's Mossad, and China's MSS.

Anxiety, often viewed negatively in society, can be a valuable asset in intelligence work and other high-performance fields. By reframing anxiety as a potential superpower, individuals can harness its benefits to drive success in their personal and professional lives.

And much more — be sure to check out part one of this conversation here if you haven’t already!

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1064: Andrew Bustamante | The Psychology of Espionage Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 15 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Spycraft utilizes psychology more than gadgets. Ex-CIA officer Andrew Bustamante reveals the human side of intelligence gathering and deception. [Pt. 1/2]

What We Discuss with Andrew Bustamante:

After becoming the youngest US Air Force Officer in history to command 200 nuclear ICBMs from an underground bunker and spending seven years in the CIA, Everyday Spy founder Andrew Bustamante gives us an inside look into the recruitment and training process for CIA officers.

The CIA uses personality assessments and carefully constructed team dynamics to build high-performance teams, often pairing people who may not naturally get along to create productive conflict.

Lie detection through visual cues like micro-expressions is largely ineffective outside of controlled interrogation settings. More reliable methods involve establishing baselines and asking specific types of questions.

Effective lying requires preplanning and rehearsal to align the rational and emotional parts of the brain. Spontaneous lying is much riskier and easier to detect.

Understanding the RICE framework (Reward, Ideology, Coercion, Ego) can help you better motivate yourself and others in positive ways. This powerful tool for influencing behavior ethically will be explored further in part two later this week.

And much more — be sure to check out part two of this conversation later this week!

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1063: Working for Kin Might Just Do You In | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 11 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Constant belittling and a trip to Ukraine: The perks of working for your father-in-law. How do you escape the family business? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're working for your father-in-law's company abroad, but his constant belitting has pushed you to your limits. After he sent you on a risky trip to war-torn Ukraine that ultimately didn't benefit the business (and blamed you for the non-results), you're ready to bow out and make a go of it on your own. But how?

Your father recently passed away in a plane crash, and you're struggling to support your grieving mother while also maintaining boundaries. How can you balance being there for her emotionally while also respecting your own needs and responsibilities?

You're concerned about your 45-year-old husband's increasing memory lapses, which go beyond typical forgetfulness. As he won't acknowledge the problem, how can you convince him to seek medical attention without causing more tension?

An unexpected turn of events has brought your troubled teenage nephew into your child-free home. You want to help, but the sudden responsibility is overwhelming. How can you provide stability for him while preserving your own lifestyle and boundaries?

Recommendation of the Week: When he's feeling dapper, Gabe likes to shelter his dome with hats from SCALA.

After a painful breakup with your high school sweetheart due to infidelity, you're struggling to re-enter the dating world. As a busy medical student, you're hesitant to make yourself vulnurable to potential hurt again. How can you overcome these fears and open your heart to new possibilities?

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1062: Ruth Whippman | Raising Boys in the Age of Impossible Masculinity

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 10 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Young men today face a crisis of mental health and social connection. BoyMom author Ruth Whippman is here to explore causes and potential solutions.

What We Discuss with Ruth Whippman:

Boys in the West are going through a crisis, facing higher rates of suicide, mental health problems, loneliness, and academic underachievement compared to girls.

Society sends conflicting messages to boys about masculinity, telling them to be dominant and make the first move, while also cautioning them not to overstep or be seen as creepy. This leads many boys to avoid relationships altogether.

Boys receive less emotional nurturing and communication from parents compared to girls, which contributes to gaps in social and emotional skills as they grow older.

The "incel" movement and extreme ideologies like those of Andrew Tate are symptoms of broader issues with how society socializes boys and sets unrealistic standards of masculinity.

Parents and educators can help by providing boys with more emotional nurturing, teaching social-emotional skills, exposing them to diverse role models, and creating spaces for them to express themselves. With the right support, boys can develop into emotionally intelligent, well-adjusted men capable of forming deep connections.

And much more...

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1061: Chase Jarvis | Embracing Risk for a More Fulfilling Life

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 08 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Will being too cautious stifle your dreams? Never Play It Safe author Chase Jarvis reveals how embracing risk can reward you with a more fulfilling life!

What We Discuss with Chase Jarvis:

Creativity is not limited to traditional artistic pursuits; it's a fundamental human trait that can be applied to all aspects of life, including career choices and personal development.

Our brains are designed to keep us safe, which can discourage risk-taking. However, rewards often lie on the other side of uncertainty and discomfort.

Time management is less important than understanding and changing our relationship with time. Viewing life as long rather than short can lead to more thoughtful and fulfilling decisions.

Intuition is a powerful tool that combines rational thought with cellular memory. Developing and trusting your intuition can lead to better decision-making in various aspects of life.

Embracing creativity and personal growth is always possible, regardless of your past or current situation. By making a conscious decision to tap into your creative potential and applying even a small amount of effort, you can create significant positive changes in your life. Start by acknowledging your creative abilities and taking small steps towards expressing them in your daily activities.

And much more...

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1060: Dreams | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 06 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

What's really happening when we sleep? Michael Regilio tucks us in and takes us to the alluring world of dreams and their purpose on this Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Dreams serve important biological functions, including problem-solving, emotional processing, and memory consolidation. Scientists have observed that dreaming can improve task performance and help solve complex problems.

Sleep cycles consist of four phases: NREM 1, NREM 2, NREM 3, and REM sleep. REM sleep is when most vivid dreaming occurs, and certain areas of the brain are even more active during this phase than when awake.

Common dream themes exist across cultures, such as being chased, being late for an exam, or being naked in public. These may serve evolutionary purposes like threat simulation or primitive instinct rehearsal.

Sleep disorders like REM Behavior Disorder (RBD) can be dangerous, as people may physically act out their dreams. Conversely, sleep paralysis prevents most people from acting out dreams but can lead to frightening experiences.

Anyone can increase their chances of having lucid dreams — where you're aware you're dreaming and can sometimes control the dream – through simple techniques like regularly asking yourself if you're awake or asleep throughout the day, or setting an intention to have a lucid dream before going to sleep. Practicing these techniques can lead to fascinating dream experiences and potential benefits for problem-solving and creativity.

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1059: Putting Predator on Blast for His Abusive Past | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 04 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your childhood abuser runs a daycare. Can you get justice for his past misdeeds while preventing him access to future victims? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You discovered that a man who sexually abused you as a child is now running a childcare program in another state. With this alarming information, how can you protect potential victims and seek justice after so many years? [Thanks — once again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

Your girlfriend recently moved for a demanding new job, drastically reducing your communication. As she asserts her individuality, you're struggling with insecurity and distance. Is there a path forward that honors both her independence and your need for intimacy?

After a traumatic brain injury, you've overcome many obstacles but still struggle with a limited "social battery" as a business owner. How do you balance your professional obligations with your need for reduced social interaction?

As a hard-working cook taking on extra responsibilities, you're torn between giving your all and potentially being taken advantage of. How will you decide whether to continue going above and beyond or set firmer boundaries?

Recommendation of the Week: Venus Fly Trap

You spent years in a relationship with a narcissist who isolated you from loved ones and subjected you to verbal and physical abuse. What gave you the strength to finally leave, and how did your life change afterward?

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1058: Nina Aouilk | Ending Forced Marriage and Honor Killings Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 03 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

End Honour Killings co-founder Nina Aouilk reveals the shocking reality of forced marriage, domestic slavery, and honor killings in the West. [Pt. 2/2 — find Pt. 1 here!]

What We Discuss with Nina Aouilk:

Nina Aouilk survived multiple instances of severe domestic abuse, including an attempted honor killing by her family and years of control and violence from her partner.

Honor killings and forced marriages are still occurring in Western countries like the UK, USA, and Canada, often hidden within certain cultural communities.

The imprisonment of Nina's father for trafficking his own child highlights the urgent need for awareness and action against human trafficking in all communities.

Many victims of abuse and potential honor killings are afraid to speak out due to cultural pressures, shame, and fear, which enables the cycle of abuse to continue.

There are ways we can all help combat these issues: trust your intuition if you suspect someone is in danger, ask simple questions to disrupt potential violent situations, make discreet calls to authorities if you're concerned about someone's safety, and support organizations working to end honor killings and forced marriages (like Nina's own End Honour Killings).

And much more — be sure to check out part one of this conversation here if you haven’t already!

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1057: Nina Aouilk | Ending Forced Marriage and Honor Killings Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 01 Oct 2024 00:00:00 PDT

End Honour Killings co-founder Nina Aouilk reveals the shocking reality of forced marriage, domestic slavery, and honor killings in the West. [Pt. 1/2]

What We Discuss with Nina Aouilk:

Nina Aouilk grew up in an abusive household in the UK, where she was treated as a servant and subjected to severe physical and emotional abuse by her family.

At age 14, Nina was gang-raped by her father and his friends, resulting in a pregnancy that was forcibly aborted. Her mother blamed Nina for the assault.

At age 15, Nina was traded by her father to one of her rapists in a sham marriage arrangement, where she continued to face extreme abuse and exploitation.

Nina witnessed horrific cultural practices like bride burnings and infanticide of baby girls in her community, with little intervention from authorities.

Despite the trauma, Nina found ways to persevere, such as excelling at work and finding moments of kindness. Her story shows that it's possible to overcome even the most difficult circumstances through resilience, seeking opportunities, and holding onto hope for a better future. As co-founder of End Honour Killings, she now empowers and educates women and girls worldwide to break their cycles of abuse and live the lives they deserve.

And much more — be sure to tune in to part two of this conversation later this week!

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1056: Placebo & Nocebo Effects | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 29 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Can sugar pills heal or harm? Neuroscientist Dr. Helena Hartmann unravels the mysteries of placebo and nocebo effects on this Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by neuroscientist, psychologist, and science communicator Dr. Helena Hartmann of University Hospital Essen!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Placebo and nocebo effects are powerful psychological phenomena that can have a significant impact on health outcomes. Placebos can lead to positive effects, while nocebos can cause negative effects, even without any active medical ingredients.

Expectations play a crucial role in placebo and nocebo effects. Positive expectations can enhance treatment outcomes, while negative expectations can diminish or even reverse the effects of otherwise effective medications.

These effects are not just "in our heads" but involve complex psychoneurobiological processes. They can trigger real physiological changes in the brain and body, including the release of pain-relieving substances and alterations in pain transmission in the spinal cord.

Social and environmental factors, such as the price of medication, invasiveness of treatment, and information from others (including social media), can influence the strength of placebo and nocebo effects.

We can harness the power of placebo effects to improve medical treatments. By fostering positive expectations, healthcare providers can potentially enhance treatment efficacy, reduce required medication dosages, and minimize side effects. Patients can also benefit by maintaining an optimistic outlook and engaging in positive self-talk about their treatments.

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1055: Is Nephew Forever Lost for Denying Holocaust? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 27 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your nephew denies the Holocaust and spews antisemitic hate. Can you shut down his nonsense without shutting him out? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

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Your nephew is a Holocaust denier who has been sending you antisemitic rants. You've tried to counter his beliefs with historical facts, but he's become increasingly aggressive. How can you shut down his nonsense without shutting him out of your life?

You recently divorced your abusive, serial-cheating ex-husband. Now he's dating a colleague of yours, and you feel compelled to warn her about his behavior. Should you reach out, and if so, how can you do it without coming across as the "crazy ex-wife"?

You're a successful family physician offered a position at a new clinic that aligns with your dream of focusing on lifestyle medicine. The catch? It comes with a significant pay cut. Is pursuing your passion worth the financial sacrifice?

You received an aggressive email threatening to expose compromising information about you unless you pay a hefty sum. The sender claims to have access to your devices and personal data. How would you respond to this potential scam?

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You've always felt like a "fringe friend," never quite making it into anyone's inner circle. Recent life changes have left you feeling isolated. Is it possible to change your social status without completely reinventing yourself?

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1054: Renee DiResta | The Puppet Masters of Public Opinion

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 24 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Invisible Rulers author Renee DiResta explains how disinformation has reshaped online discourse with real-world consequences — and who benefits from it!

What We Discuss with Renee DiResta:

The phenomenon of "audience capture" — influencers and content creators becoming more extreme in their views to cater to their audience's expectations and maintain engagement.

The concept of "flooding the zone" with multiple explanations or theories to create confusion and make it difficult to determine the truth, often used in disinformation campaigns.

The "Liar's dividend" — the ability to deny real events or information by claiming they are fake or manipulated, enabled by the existence of advanced manipulation technologies.

The challenges of maintaining a shared reality in the age of social media, where people can easily find confirmation for their existing beliefs and form echo chambers.

To combat misinformation and propaganda, we can develop media literacy skills by being aware of our emotional responses to content, taking time to verify information from multiple sources, and learning to recognize common propaganda techniques. By cultivating these skills, we can become more discerning consumers of information and contribute to a healthier online discourse.

And much more...

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1053: Generic Drugs | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 22 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are generic drugs as good as their name-brand counterparts? On Skeptical Sunday, Dave Farina compares their development, prices, and efficacy.

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by Is This Wi-Fi Organic?: A Guide to Spotting Misleading Science Online author and host of the Professor Dave Debates podcast, Dave Farina!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Generic drugs contain the same active ingredients as brand-name drugs, but are typically much cheaper due to not having to absorb research and development costs.

Drug patents typically last around 20 years, giving companies a period of market exclusivity to recoup their investment before generics can be produced.

While the active ingredients are identical, there can be minor differences in inactive ingredients (excipients) between brand-name and generic drugs that may slightly affect bioavailability.

Regulatory bodies like the FDA play a crucial role in ensuring drug safety and efficacy, though rare oversights can still occur.

Consumers can make informed decisions about medications by understanding the similarities between brand-name and generic drugs, consulting with healthcare providers, and staying aware of drug safety information from reliable sources. This knowledge empowers individuals to potentially save money on prescriptions while still receiving effective treatment.

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1052: Wack Prenup Request Puts Engagement to the Test | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 20 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your engagement's on thin ice after a lackluster presentation and surprise prenup request. Is it time to say "I don't" instead? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Do your habits align with your ideal healthspan/lifespan?

You're engaged to a man who suddenly asked for a prenup during a romantic date night, leading to a fight where you returned the ring. His proposal seemed half-hearted, and there are potential red flags about his commitment. How do you process this unexpected twist in your engagement?

You organized a charity run with a local business owner to qualify for a marathon, but he withheld the funds raised for months. Now you're grappling with anger and the desire for revenge. How will you handle this betrayal and protect future charitable efforts?

As a self-employed carpenter, you sometimes get a bad feeling about potential clients but struggle to turn them down politely. How can you trust your instincts and maintain professional boundaries without burning bridges or damaging your reputation?

Your coworker and close friend recently threatened suicide while armed, putting you in a dangerous situation. Now you're dealing with the aftermath and conflicting emotions. How will you process this traumatic experience and decide the future of your friendship?

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Your sister, who you've grown close to as adults, has become distant since you set boundaries with her verbally abusive husband. She's going through fertility struggles and depression. How can you support her while respecting her space and protecting yourself?

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1051: Tu Lam | From Refugee to Real American Hero

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 19 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

From refugee to elite soldier to Call of Duty character: Green Beret Tu Lam shares his incredible journey of overcoming adversity and finding purpose.

What We Discuss with Tu Lam:

Tu Lam escaped Vietnam as a child on a dangerous boat journey, enduring extreme hardship before eventually making it to the United States as a refugee.

He faced significant racism and challenges growing up in America, but was determined to prove himself and joined the military, eventually becoming a Green Beret.

Tu Lam served in elite special forces units for over 20 years, participating in dangerous missions around the world including hostage rescues and counterterrorism operations.

After leaving the military, he struggled with PTSD and drug addiction, but was able to heal through various methods including psychedelic therapy.

Tu Lam's journey shows how we can overcome extreme adversity and trauma through perseverance, seeking help when needed, and finding positive ways to channel our experiences. His story inspires us to face our own challenges with courage and to use our struggles as motivation to help others.

And much more...

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1050: Lisa Kaltenegger | In Search of Alien Life and Livable Worlds

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 17 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are we alone in the universe? Alien Earths author Lisa Kaltenegger joins us to discuss new discoveries in humanity's hunt for extraterrestrial life.

What We Discuss with Lisa Kaltenegger:

The universe contains billions of stars and galaxies, with an estimated one out of five stars having a planet that could be similar to Earth in terms of potential habitability.

Scientists use various methods to detect exoplanets, including observing changes in starlight and analyzing the light spectrum of planets to detect signs of life-sustaining elements like oxygen and methane.

The search for extraterrestrial life involves looking for planets in the "habitable zone" or "Goldilocks zone" around stars, where conditions might allow for liquid water on the surface.

The observable universe is limited by the speed of light and the age of the universe (approximately 13.7 billion years), meaning we can only see as far as light has had time to travel since the Big Bang.

Anyone can contribute to space exploration and scientific discovery by staying curious, learning about new discoveries, and supporting science education. Even simple actions like looking up at the night sky and wondering about our place in the universe can inspire a lifelong passion for science and exploration.

And much more...

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1049: Friend Was a Creeper But You're Not His Keeper | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 13 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

A friend's arrest for a dark crime has you shaken. Can you protect your career and sanity from association with this monster? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

How did "The Thing" that Soviets used to spy on Americans during the Cold War (as described in episode 1027: Jonna Mendez | A Woman’s Life in the CIA) actually work? Some of our science-minded listeners have written in with fascinating answers!

Your close friend was arrested for possessing and distributing child abuse material, leaving you and your friend group in shock. You're grappling with feelings of betrayal, questioning your judgment, and worrying about potential impacts on your career as a preschool teacher. What steps can you take to cope with this crisis and safeguard your professional reputation?

As the new Director of Nursing Care, you're tasked with improving staff performance after years of lax management. You find yourself constantly disciplining employees and dealing with petty complaints, feeling more like a punitive boss than a supportive leader. How can you maintain positivity while addressing these challenges?

Your wife's family is fraught with tension due to her sisters' problematic marriages, including allegations of abuse and sexual assault. Fresh to the family, you're not sure where you fit into its overall structure yet. Can you help mend family bonds or should you keep your distance?

You're a Jewish doctor in a relationship with a Catholic woman, struggling to balance your religious practices with your desire to be with her. After a breakup and reconciliation, you discover she's still in contact with her ex. How do you address this without compromising your values or losing her?

Recommendation of the Week: Love on the Spectrum

As the founding CEO of a startup, you sacrificed relationships and recreation to build the company. Just as things were going well, you were replaced by the shareholders and are now owed a significant sum. How can you reclaim your professional path while rediscovering personal fulfillment?

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1048: Shaun Attwood | From Raves to Riches to Ruin Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 12 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Raves, riches, and ruin: Former ecstasy kingpin Shaun Attwood exposes the dangerous world of drug trafficking and its violent criminal connections. [Pt 2/2 — find Pt 1 here!]

What We Discuss:

The extreme brutality and inhumane conditions in the United States prison system, including rampant violence, unsanitary living conditions, and inadequate medical care.

The complex and dangerous social dynamics within prison, including racial segregation, gang politics, and the constant threat of violence.

The psychological impact of long-term incarceration, including the difficulty of reintegrating into society and the lasting trauma experienced by both inmates and their families.

The systemic issues within the American prison system, particularly the profit-driven motives of private prisons that perpetuate a cycle of crime and recidivism rather than focusing on rehabilitation.

The power of personal transformation and education, as demonstrated by Shaun's journey from drug kingpin to advocate for prison reform. His story shows that even in the darkest circumstances, individuals can find ways to grow, learn, and ultimately use their experiences to make a positive impact on society.

And much more — be sure to check out part one of this conversation here if you haven't already!

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1047: Shaun Attwood | From Raves to Riches to Ruin Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 10 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Raves, riches, and ruin: Former ecstasy kingpin Shaun Attwood exposes the dangerous world of drug trafficking and its violent criminal connections. [Pt 1/2]

What We Discuss:

Shaun Attwood, a former stockbroker turned drug dealer, recounts his journey from the UK to Arizona, where he became involved in the rave scene and eventually established a large ecstasy distribution network.

Shaun's story involves interactions with dangerous individuals, including members of the Mexican Mafia and associates of former show guest Sammy "The Bull" Gravano, highlighting the violent and unpredictable nature of the drug trade.

The narrative illustrates the gradual escalation of criminal activities and the blurring of moral boundaries as Shaun became more deeply entrenched in the drug world.

Shaun describes the intense paranoia and constant threat of violence that accompanied his lifestyle, demonstrating the high personal cost of his choices.

Despite the dark nature of the story, Shaun's experiences offer valuable insights into the dangers of drug abuse and the importance of making positive life choices. His journey towards redemption, which will be further explored in part two later this week, serves as a powerful reminder that it's never too late to change course and seek a better path in life.

And much more — be sure to tune in to part two of this conversation here later this week!

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1046: Hydrotherapy | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 08 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Ice plunges, hot soaks, and eight glasses a day: Jessica Wynn splashes cold water on hydrotherapy myths and explores potential benefits on Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Hydrotherapy, which includes various uses of water for health purposes, lacks substantial scientific evidence for many of its claimed benefits, especially for generally healthy individuals.

The popular belief that we need to drink eight glasses of water a day is a myth perpetuated by beverage companies. Our bodies are well-equipped to signal thirst when we need hydration.

Extreme temperature changes in hydrotherapy, such as alternating between hot and cold water, can be dangerous and potentially lead to fainting, heart problems, or drowning.

Many of the alleged benefits of hydrotherapy, such as improved circulation or muscle recovery, can often be achieved through other, potentially safer methods like exercise or breathing techniques.

Hydrotherapy does show promise in specific medical contexts, such as pain management for fibromyalgia, easing labor during childbirth, and assisting with certain rehabilitation exercises. If you're interested in exploring hydrotherapy for health reasons, consult with a medical professional to determine if it's appropriate for your individual needs and how to practice it safely.

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1045: Helping Pal Who Paid Cost for Offing His Boss | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 06 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

We all joke about offing the boss. Your friend actually did. He'll soon leave prison, but you're unsure how to receive him. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

We've all fantasized about offing the boss, but your friend actually did it. Now he's done his time in prison and is returning home. How do you help him rejoin society without ignoring the gravity of his crime?

You opened a bakery with your partner, but the building owner across the street turned your parking spaces into a dumpster area, including rotting fish from a sushi restaurant. Your attempts to resolve the issue have been unsuccessful. How can you save your business from this smelly situation?

Your sister-in-law is neglecting her nine-year-old daughter, keeping her out of school and leaving her alone all day. The child's father is unreliable, and you're unsure about intervening. How can you protect your niece without causing more chaos?

Your wife suddenly claimed to be a lesbian, cheated on you, and left the family. After two years apart, you've reconciled, but things aren't going well. She's depressed, anxious, and isolating herself. Can this marriage be saved, or is it time to move on?

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As a Jewish public servant, you've faced increasing antisemitism and violence at work, even requiring hospital visits. Your progressive values are being challenged by the harsh realities of your job. How can you reconcile your ideals with your experiences?

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1044: Dan Harris | From Breaking News to Breaking Habits

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 05 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Is happiness a learnable skill? 10% Happier author Dan Harris is here to share techniques for managing stress and finding contentment in a hectic world.

What We Discuss:

Dan Harris shares his experience as a war correspondent and his struggle with anxiety and drug use that culminated in a panic attack on live television.

The intense and often toxic work environment in network news, particularly during Dan's early career at ABC News.

Dan's journey from cocaine addiction to discovering meditation and mindfulness as tools for managing stress and anxiety.

The concept of "Papañca" (mental proliferation) and how it contributes to unnecessary suffering through overthinking and projection.

Happiness is a learnable skill. Through various practices like meditation, therapy, exercise, and mindfulness, we can train our minds to be more resilient, peaceful, and content. As Dan emphasizes, we're not stuck with our current traits as if they're unalterable factory settings — they are trainable skills that we can improve upon throughout our lives.

And much more...

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1043: Andrew Gold | Unveiling the Psychology of Secrets

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 03 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are secrets a burden or social glue? Psychology of Secrets author Andrew Gold delves into the evolutionary roots and modern impacts of hiding information.

What We Discuss with Andrew Gold:

Keeping secrets can be physically and emotionally painful for humans. This evolved as a mechanism to encourage social cohesion and information sharing within tribal communities.

There's a difference between secrets and privacy. What is considered a secret versus private information often depends on societal norms and can change over time.

Technology is making it increasingly difficult to keep secrets, with devices like smartwatches and phones potentially revealing information we'd rather keep hidden.

Virtue signaling and victim signaling are common behaviors, especially on social media, where people may pretend to hold certain beliefs or experiences for status or attention.

Sharing appropriate secrets can increase intimacy and strengthen relationships. By thoughtfully opening up to others, we can build deeper connections and foster trust, leading to more meaningful interactions and a stronger support network.

And much more...

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1042: Sex Trafficking | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 01 Sep 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Is sex trafficking really a global crisis or just an overblown conspiracy theory? Andrew Gold reveals truths and misconceptions on this Skeptical Sunday.

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by On the Edge host Andrew Gold!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Sex trafficking knows no borders, and the United States stands out as a particularly active region for this crime. It victimizes individuals regardless of age — notably, more than a fourth of those trafficked are minors.

The scale of sex trafficking is difficult to determine accurately, with estimates varying widely. This uncertainty stems from the underground nature of the crime and challenges in data collection.

Sex trafficking victims often suffer severe physical and mental health consequences, including STIs, injuries, PTSD, anxiety, depression, and substance abuse issues. The average lifespan of women in prostitution is tragically short at around 34 years.

The issue of sex trafficking is frequently politicized and weaponized, sometimes exaggerated for political gain. However, it remains a serious problem that ruins thousands of lives through organized crime networks and individual traffickers.

Education and awareness are key tools in combating sex trafficking. By learning about the issue, discussing it openly, and spreading accurate information, we can help inform potential victims about the dangers and contribute to prevention efforts. Everyone can play a role in this by staying informed and sharing knowledge with others.

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1041: Groped In Your Sleep, Betrayal Runs Deep | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 30 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Students you aided became assailants, and now you deal with trauma and sleepless nights. Can you ever trust or rest easy again? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

After a disturbing incident with two students you mentored, you're grappling with unexpected trauma and insomnia. How can you rebuild your sense of safety and trust? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

You've leveraged your networking skills to secure two six-figure director-level jobs simultaneously, but you're unsure about disclosing this to one employer. What's your strategy for maintaining integrity while maximizing this opportunity?

You've discovered that your friend's cousin's boyfriend, who isn't a licensed dentist, is running an illegal dental practice serving undocumented immigrants. Should you expose him or let him continue helping those in need?

In the middle of building a life together, your once-loving husband suddenly asked for a divorce, and you later discovered he was having an affair. Now you're struggling to trust again and wondering if there are any good people left. How will you heal and open yourself to love?

Recommendation of the Week: Flipping Out

You lost your sister to cancer and realized your mother is a covert narcissist who neglected your dying sibling. Now you're distanced from your family but still hurting. How will you process this grief and move forward?

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1040: Tareena Shakil | An ISIS Recruit's Journey and Escape Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 29 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How does ISIS radicalize Westerners? Here, Tareena Shakil, who joined and escaped the group, reveals the manipulation behind her own recruitment. [Pt. 2/2 — find part 1 here!]

What We Discuss:

Tareena Shakil, a British woman, ran away to join ISIS in Syria in 2014 after experiencing domestic abuse and being radicalized online.

While in Syria, Tareena realized ISIS was not what she expected and decided to escape across the border to Turkey with her young son.

Tareena was arrested upon return to the UK and served three years in prison for joining ISIS. She was the first British woman to be imprisoned for joining the group.

Tareena went through a deradicalization program in prison, which she found helpful in understanding how she has been groomed and radicalized.

Tareena now works to raise awareness about online radicalization and grooming, showing that it's possible to learn from past mistakes and use one's experiences to prevent others from falling into similar traps. Her story demonstrates the importance of critical thinking and seeking support when feeling vulnerable.

And much more — be sure to tune in to part one of this conversation here!

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1039: Tareena Shakil | An ISIS Recruit's Journey and Escape Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How does ISIS radicalize Westerners? Here, Tareena Shakil, who joined and escaped the group, reveals the manipulation behind her own recruitment. [Pt. 1/2]

What We Discuss:

Tareena Shakil, a British woman, traveled to Syria with her young son and joined ISIS in 2014 at age 24 after being groomed online for about six weeks.

Tareena's decision to join ISIS was influenced by a combination of factors, including online radicalization, a desire to escape an abusive relationship, and a misguided attempt at religious devotion.

While in Syria, Tareena quickly realized she had made a mistake and wanted to leave. She witnessed disturbing events and became increasingly fearful for her and her son's safety.

After about eight weeks, Tareena managed to escape ISIS-controlled territory with her son and return to the UK, where she was subsequently arrested and became the first British woman jailed for joining ISIS.

Tareena's story highlights the importance of critical thinking, especially when it comes to online interactions and major life decisions. Her experience serves as a powerful reminder to thoroughly research and question information from unfamiliar sources, seek diverse perspectives, and consult trusted friends or family members before making life-altering choices based on online interactions.

And much more — be sure to tune in to part two of this conversation later this week!

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1038: Gold | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 25 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Is gold really worth its weight? Michael Regilio digs into the precious metal's glittering past and fool-baiting present on this Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Gold has been valued throughout human history, playing a significant role in economics, trade, and even exploration. It has been used as currency and the basis for monetary systems like the gold standard.

The gold standard, which linked the value of currency to gold, was widely adopted but eventually abandoned. The United States officially ended its use of the gold standard in 1971 under President Nixon.

There are many scams and misleading practices in the gold market, particularly involving the sale of gold coins. These often target older, more conservative individuals by playing on fears of government overreach and economic instability.

The Better Business Bureau (BBB) ratings may not always be reliable indicators of a company's trustworthiness, as some businesses can effectively buy high ratings through membership.

While it's important to be cautious about gold-related investments, you can still make informed decisions about diversifying your portfolio. Educate yourself on the current gold market, focus on reputable dealers if considering gold purchases, and consult with trusted financial advisors to determine if and how gold might fit into your overall investment strategy.

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1037: Allure of Abuser Only Serves to Confuse Her | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your abusive ex still occupies your thoughts. How do you move on when part of you yearns for a past steeped in trauma? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're struggling with conflicting emotions after leaving an abusive relationship with an alcoholic partner. Despite the trauma you endured, you find yourself missing aspects of the relationship. How do you process these complex feelings and move forward?

Your father, diagnosed with cancer, also struggles with severe depression. As his health declines, you grapple with a strained relationship and unfulfilled hopes for connection. Can you find a way through this difficult situation and make peace with your father?

Your marriage is facing challenges due to political differences and communication issues. As another election approaches, you worry about the growing divide between you and your spouse. How can you bridge this gap and maintain your relationship?

As an introvert in a remote corporate job, you're overwhelmed by constant communication and additional responsibilities. You dream of pursuing your passion for writing. Can you find a balance between your current role and your aspirations?

You've developed strong feelings for a coworker while in a long-term relationship. Though nothing physical happened, you're torn about whether to confess this emotional affair to your partner. What's the right path forward for all involved?

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1036: James Sexton | A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Lasting Love Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 22 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Renowned divorce lawyer James Sexton reveals the secrets to maintaining a healthy marriage and avoiding his office altogether! [Pt. 2/2 — find part 1 here!]

What We Discuss with James Sexton:

Many people enter marriage without understanding its legal implications. James Sexton estimates that 95% of people who come to his office are learning about the marriage contract for the first time.

Social media has made infidelity much easier and more accessible. James notes that platforms like Facebook and Instagram create opportunities for inappropriate private conversations and flirtations.

Prenuptial agreements are becoming increasingly common, especially among younger people in their 20s and 30s. James observes a growing pragmatism and realism in approaching marriage.

All marriages end, either through death or divorce. James encourages people to be mindful of endings, as it can make them more appreciative of their current relationships.

Being open and honest about your concerns and fears in a relationship can strengthen your bond. Having pragmatic conversations about finances, living arrangements, and potential scenarios doesn't diminish romance — instead, it demonstrates care and foresight for your partner's well-being. Consider having these discussions and potentially creating a prenuptial agreement to ensure you're both on the same page about your future together.

And much more — be sure to tune in to part one of this conversation here for the full story!

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1035: James Sexton | A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Lasting Love Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Renowned divorce lawyer James Sexton reveals the secrets to maintaining a healthy marriage and avoiding his office altogether! [Pt. 1/2]

What We Discuss with James Sexton:

Marriage is statistically risky, with a 56% failure rate for first marriages.

There's often an economic aspect to relationships that people don't openly discuss.

People tend to fall in love quickly but fall out of love slowly.

Constantly criticizing or trash-talking your partner, even in jest with friends, can be toxic to a relationship.

Preventative maintenance is key to a healthy relationship. Just as you wouldn't wait until your teeth are falling out to go to the dentist, don't wait for major issues to arise in your relationship.

And much more — be sure to tune in to part two of this conversation later this week!

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1034: Fat-Free Foods | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 18 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

On Skeptical Sunday, Michael Regilio dishes out the skinny on fat-free foods and their weighty consequences that led to our 21st-century obesity epidemic!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

The low-fat diet trend, popularized in the 1960s and 1970s, was based on flawed science and cherry-picked data, particularly from the selective research of physiologist Ancel Keys.

Removing fat from food products often led to increased sugar and refined carbohydrate content, contributing to the obesity and diabetes epidemics in the United States.

The American Heart Association and other institutions have been slow to change their dietary recommendations due to conflicts of interest and corporate donations.

Consuming healthy fats is essential for proper bodily functions, and low-fat diets have not been shown to prevent cardiovascular disease or cancer.

By educating ourselves on proper nutrition, focusing on whole foods, and reducing refined carbohydrates and processed foods, we can take control of our health and potentially reverse or prevent diet-related maladies like type 2 diabetes.

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1033: Warn Her That Suitor Is a Bed Intruder? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your ex-best friend groped someone, and now he's flirting with a mutual friend on Twitter. Do you warn her or stay out of it? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

Your now ex-best friend groped your wife's best friend during an overnight visit. Now he seems to be courting a mutual friend on social media. How can you warn her about his problematic history without overstepping boundaries?

Your 93-year-old mother, with whom you've had a rocky relationship, stole a cherished toy your late father gifted to you and gave it to your sibling. This was the last straw in a long history of mistreatment. How do you move forward and process these complex emotions?

As an educator, you accepted a job at a challenging school, only to have your dream school offer you a position afterward. Due to district rules, you can't take the better offer. How do you cope with this regret and make the best of your upcoming school year?

Your wife adopted a puppy without consulting you, despite your objections. Now she's talking about getting another one, and you feel your concerns are being ignored. How do you address this communication breakdown and assert yourself in your marriage?

Recommendation of the Week: Secrets of the Octopus on Nat Geo TV.

You're a single mother raising your five-year-old daughter alone after her father chose not to be involved, despite living nearby. How do you guide your child with love and resilience while shielding her from questioning her self-worth due to his absence?

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1032: Sarah Hill | How Birth Control Rewires Women's Brains Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 15 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Beyond pregnancy prevention, birth control pills affect the way women think and behave. Dr. Sarah Hill explains their invisible impacts here! [Part 2/2 — find part 1 here!]

What We Discuss:

Birth control pills can potentially affect brain development in teenagers, raising concerns about prescribing them for non-contraceptive reasons like acne treatment.

There's a possible link between birth control use and increased risk of depression, especially in younger women (up to 300% increased risk for teenagers).

The politicization of birth control information has led to extreme views on both sides, making it difficult for women to access balanced, scientifically accurate information.

Current research methods may mask individual experiences with birth control, as averaging results can hide significant variations among women.

How women can empower themselves to take control of their reproductive health while being mindful of potential impacts on their overall well-being.

And much more — be sure to catch part one of this two-part conversation here!

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1031: Sarah Hill | How Birth Control Rewires Women's Brains Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Beyond pregnancy prevention, birth control pills affect the way women think and behave. Dr. Sarah Hill explains their invisible impacts here! [Part 1/2]

What We Discuss:

Birth control pills affect more than just fertility — they can influence a woman's partner preferences, career choices, and overall behavior due to hormonal changes.

Women on birth control may choose different types of partners compared to when they're off the pill, potentially leading to relationship changes if they stop taking it.

The pill can alter women's stress responses and immune function, potentially increasing the risk of anxiety, depression, and autoimmune issues.

Birth control pills may reduce sexual desire and change how women perceive attraction cues in potential partners.

Women can make more informed decisions about their health and relationships by understanding these effects. Consider discussing with a healthcare provider about trying periods off birth control when making major life decisions or choosing long-term partners.

And much more...

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1030: Exorcism | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 11 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

If you're possessed by curiosity about the efficacy of exorcisms to eradicate evils or illnesses, Andrew Gold compels you to enjoy this Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by On the Edge host Andrew Gold!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Exorcism gained widespread popularity after the release of the movie The Exorcist in 1973, which dramatically influenced beliefs about demonic possession and exorcism practices worldwide.

While exorcism is not scientifically valid, it can sometimes provide temporary relief through placebo effects, adrenaline rushes, and psychological catharsis. However, these effects are typically short-lived and do not address underlying mental health issues.

Exorcism practices can be dangerous, with some cases resulting in injury or death, particularly when performed on vulnerable individuals or used as a substitute for proper medical and psychological care.

The Catholic Church and other religious institutions have embraced exorcism to varying degrees, with some offering training courses and appointing official exorcists, despite the lack of scientific evidence supporting its efficacy.

To protect yourself and others from potential harm, it's important to educate yourself about mental health, recognize the signs of psychological distress, and seek professional medical and psychological help when needed. By understanding the underlying causes of behavioral issues, we can promote more effective and scientifically backed approaches to healing and personal growth.

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1029: Mental Deterioration Tests Marital Dedication | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 09 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your wife's dementia diagnosis at 43 has turned your world upside down. How do you care for her while preserving your sanity? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

Your wife was diagnosed with behavioral variant frontotemporal dementia at 43, causing major personality changes. She now has delusions and aggression towards you. As her caregiver and husband, how do you cope with this devastating situation while maintaining your own well-being?

You're a 31-year-old woman who's never dated before. You recently connected with a guy over intellectual discussions, but he suddenly cut off contact as you were preparing to move away. How do you process this confusing experience and move forward?

You run a multi-million dollar tech startup and have encountered various scams, including a suspicious investment offer and fake job applicants. How do you protect your company from these threats while still pursuing growth opportunities? [Thanks to former FBI special agent Kevin Barrows and former FBI Behavioral Analysis Program head Robin Dreeke for helping us with this one!]

Jordan explains his cosleeping arrangement with Jen and and their two young children. What led them to choose this unconventional setup, and what advice does he have for other parents considering cosleeping?

Recommendation of the Week: TableTopics

You're dealing with a messy divorce involving child support disputes and potential perjury by your ex-wife. Do you pursue legal action that could seriously affect her, or take the financial hit to maintain a civil co-parenting relationship? [Thanks — once again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

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1028: Jonna Mendez | The Moscow Rules (Redux)

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 08 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Ex-CIA Chief of Disguise Jonna Mendez reveals Cold War spy tactics, from high-tech masks to pop-up dummies, and risks faced by agents in Moscow! [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Jonna Mendez:

What was it like to work as a heavily surveilled CIA operative in the Soviet Union at the height of the Cold War?

Why did the United States have to rebuild its embassy in Moscow from the ground up in the early ’90s?

How aspiring artists like Jonna and her late husband Antonio (played by Ben Affleck in Argo) got involved in working for the CIA.

How the CIA recruits brilliant scientific minds to develop cutting-edge solutions when it can only offer a fraction of compensation offered by the private sector.

The evolution of how disguise has come to be used in the intelligence community since the ’70s, and the role Jonna has taken in its progress.

And much more…

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1026: Hypnosis | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 04 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Is hypnosis helpful or just hyped hooey? Listen to the sound of Andrew Gold's voice as we explore its potential and limitations here on Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by On the Edge host Andrew Gold!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Hypnosis is real but often misunderstood. It's more akin to guided concentration than the sensationalized mind control portrayed in movies and books.

Hypnosis has shown effectiveness in various fields, including pain management, anxiety reduction, and sports psychology, but its results can be variable and are not guaranteed for everyone.

Scientific studies using fMRI scans have shown that hypnosis can genuinely affect brain activity, particularly in areas related to memory recall and visualization.

Despite popular misconceptions, hypnosis cannot make people act against their will or moral code. The idea of hypnosis as a form of mind control is largely a myth perpetuated by media.

Hypnosis, when approached with an open mind and realistic expectations, can be a valuable tool for personal development. By learning techniques like visualization, which is a form of self-hypnosis used by successful athletes, individuals can potentially enhance their performance in various aspects of life, from public speaking to sports.

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1025: Left Aghast by the Pedo In Your Past | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Aug 2024 00:00:00 PDT

The creepy ex-boss you hooked up with as an insecure youth was recently exposed as a pedophile. How do you process this? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You slept with a man twice your age when you were in your early 20s, only to discover years later that he was a pedophile. How do you cope with the guilt and shame of this unsettling experience?

You've been premed since undergrad but keep struggling with the MCAT, jeopardizing your chances of getting into medical school. Is it time to consider a career change or should you give it one last shot?

Your mother-in-law has kept a psychotic cat locked in her bathroom for two years after it violently attacked her. Do you report this animal cruelty or try to convince them to deal with it first?

Your best friend from the military is struggling with alcoholism and homelessness, but refuses help. How far can you go to support him without enabling his behavior or compromising your own well-being?

You and your friends feel like life has lost its meaning and vibrancy since the pandemic, despite being relatively happy and successful. Is this a widespread phenomenon, and how can you rediscover that sense of "aliveness?"

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1024: Blake Eastman | Can Machines Read People Better Than Humans?

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Body language expert Blake Eastman debunks nonverbal myths and reveals how AI is revolutionizing our understanding of human behavior and communication!

What We Discuss with Blake Eastman:

Traditional body language "rules" (like crossed arms meaning resistance or eye movements indicating lying) are often oversimplified and unreliable. Context, individual differences, and cultural factors play a significant role in interpreting nonverbal behavior.

Detecting lies through body language alone is not reliable. Even trained professionals struggle to accurately identify deception based solely on nonverbal cues.

Social context and cultural norms greatly influence how we interpret and display nonverbal behavior. What's considered appropriate or meaningful in one culture may be perceived differently in another.

AI and machine learning are being developed to analyze human behavior, including facial expressions, voice patterns, and other nonverbal cues. This technology has potential applications in various fields, including healthcare and communication.

The development of AI that can read human behavior raises both exciting possibilities and ethical concerns that need to be carefully considered.

And much more...

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1023: Plastic Surgery | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 28 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Nip, tuck, and...regret? Michael Regilio examines plastic surgery's complex history — from ancient noses to modern BBLs — on this Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Plastic surgery has a long history dating back to ancient times, originally developed to help people with disfigurements or injuries, but has evolved to include cosmetic procedures.

The popularity of plastic surgery has increased dramatically worldwide, driven by factors such as social media, filters, and changing beauty standards. In some countries, like South Korea and China, it has become deeply ingrained in the culture.

There are significant risks associated with plastic surgery, including medical complications, psychological issues, and the potential for addiction. Non-specialists performing procedures and the rise of medical tourism add to these concerns.

Body dysmorphia and societal pressures play a significant role in the plastic surgery trend, particularly affecting young people's self-esteem and body image.

People considering plastic surgery can take positive steps to make informed decisions: research the credentials of surgeons, ensuring they are board-certified in plastic surgery; consider non-surgical alternatives and natural aging processes; focus on building self-esteem and body acceptance through healthy lifestyle choices and mental health support; and engage in open discussions about beauty standards and the potential impacts of social media on self-image.

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1022: Was Poly Podcaster Fling a Dangerous Thing? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

A polyamorous adventure with your husband and a podcaster took unexpected turns. Now single, you're questioning everything. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

You were involved in a complex polyamorous relationship with your husband and a popular podcaster. After your marriage ended, you continued seeing the podcaster but now feel conflicted about the relationship. How should you handle these changing dynamics and your evolving desires?

You run a clothing company and have a local competitor who's been imitating your hard work, from product designs to marketing materials. They're even claiming to be the first in the market. How will you protect your brand and deal with this insufferable interloper?

You experienced a toxic relationship with an older man who manipulated and cheated on you. Now in a healthy relationship, you're struggling with trust issues and paranoia. Can you overcome your past trauma and fully embrace your current partnership?

You've achieved your dream job in the Coast Guard but worry about missing out on family time and memories. As you consider applying for flight school — which could mean frequent relocations — how will you balance your career aspirations with your desire for close family connections?

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1021: Konstantin Samoilov | Putin's Russia: An Insider's Perspective

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Inside Russia YouTuber Konstantin Samoilov exposes what life under Vladimir Putin has been like — from fleeing mobilization to facing KGB threats abroad.

What We Discuss with Konstantin Samoilov:

Why someone who has lived through the transition of Russia from a Soviet superpower to an oligarchic dictatorship now lives in exile and sleeps with one eye open.

How the arrival of companies like McDonald's in the 1990s had a significant psychological impact on Russians, challenging their perceptions of the West.

The stark differences between American meritocracy and the "blat" (nepotism) system prevalent in Russia, which limits opportunities for those without connections.

How, contrary to official propaganda, the Russian economy is suffering due to sanctions, brain drain, a mass population exodus of three million, and a focus on military production at the expense of other sectors.

Why Russian state media has shifted from focusing solely on controlling internal narratives to actively trying to shape international perceptions of Russia.

And much more...

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1020: Sovereign Citizens | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 21 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Is there a legal "cheat code" for avoiding US laws? Michael Regilio investigates this and other wild things sovereign citizens believe on Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The Sovereign Citizen Movement is a fringe group that believes they are not subject to US laws or government authority. They often engage in pseudo-legal arguments and tactics to avoid taxes, licenses, and other societal obligations. The ideology has spread beyond the US to countries like Canada, the UK, Australia, and parts of Europe, indicating it's a growing international phenomenon.

The movement has roots in anti-Semitism, white nationalism, and conspiracy theories. It appeals to people in financial distress by promising ways to eliminate debts and access secret government accounts.

Sovereign citizen beliefs have no legal validity and have never been successful in court. However, the movement has an estimated 200,000-300,000 adherents in the US.

Some sovereign citizens have engaged in violence against law enforcement and government officials. The movement is considered one of the most dangerous domestic extremist groups by US authorities.

While sovereign citizen beliefs are misguided and potentially dangerous, the best response is to promote good ideas and accurate information. By educating ourselves and others about the law, government, and civic responsibilities, we can help counter the spread of these harmful ideologies.

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1019: Grandfather to Blame in Niece's Pregnancy Shame | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your niece, pregnant from incest, wants to keep the baby. You're worried about the impact on her and the child. What to do next? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your teenage niece was raped by her grandfather and is now pregnant with his child. She wants to keep the baby, but you're concerned about the impact on both her and the child. How do you find a resolution to this delicate and traumatic situation?

You're non-binary and in love with an older man, but your conservative parents disapprove. Caught between your partner and your family, you're struggling to make a decision that feels authentic to you. How will you choose?

Your parents ran a successful business for decades, but now your father is facing financial troubles and has fraudulently put your name on business documents without your consent. How will you protect yourself without destroying your relationship?

You're pursuing a career as a police officer, but you're worried that a brief accidental encounter with potential child pornography in your past might disqualify you. Will this incident derail your dreams of serving your community?

As a burned-out ICU nurse, you took a leap into a new career in nursing informatics. You were afraid of losing the immediate gratification of saving lives. How did this major transition impact your life and career satisfaction?

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1018: Phil Elwood | Manipulating Media for All the Worst Humans

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

All the Worst Humans author Phil Elwood is here to illustrate his past life as a PR operative who made powerful pariahs palatable to public perception!

What We Discuss with Phil Elwood:

Phil Elwood's career as a PR operative for notorious figures was essentially a real-life version of being a supervillain's henchman, involving ethically dubious practices to manipulate public perception.

Phil's work took him into the belly of the beast, collaborating with shady organizations and visiting dangerous locations to spin narratives for some of the world's most detestable characters.

The moral weight of constantly lying and bending the truth for nefarious clients exacted a heavy toll on Phil's mental health, leading to substance abuse and requiring intensive therapy.

Phil's experiences provide a rare, candid glimpse into the dark underbelly of global PR and political spin, exposing the extent to which public perception can be contrived.

Despite his ethically questionable past, Phil's story offers hope for redemption. He has since established clear moral boundaries in his work, demonstrating that it's possible to learn from past mistakes and align one's career with their values.

And much more...

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1017: The End of the World | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 14 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

If you're constantly obsessed over predictions that the end of the world is nigh, Andrew Gold has some (mostly) good news for us on this Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by On the Edge host Andrew Gold!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Throughout history, would-be prophets and doomsaying groups have predicted the end of the world, but all have been wrong so far. This includes religious prophecies, cult beliefs, and misinterpretations of ancient calendars like the 2012 Mayan prediction.

The concept of the end of the world is often used by religions and cults to control their members, instilling fear and promoting compliance with their rules and beliefs.

There are several potential threats to humanity's survival, including climate change, nuclear war, pandemics, resource depletion, and the development of artificial intelligence. However, the likelihood of these causing a complete end to humanity is debated.

The Fermi Paradox and the concept of the Great Filter suggest that advanced civilizations may face barriers to long-term survival, which could explain why we haven't encountered alien life despite the vastness of the universe.

While concerns about global threats are valid, it's important to maintain perspective and not become overly anxious. Humanity has shown resilience and innovation in the face of past challenges. By staying informed, curious, and skeptical, we can work towards addressing potential threats and shaping a positive future for ourselves and future generations.

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1016: Is Husband Faking Feelings or Freezing Fears? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your husband struggles with emotions and faked crying in therapy. Is he a sociopath or just wounded? Can the marriage be saved? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

Your husband of five years recently revealed he believes he has borderline personality disorder, struggles to feel emotions, and has a hard time considering how his actions affect you. He's even faked crying in therapy. How do you process this revelation and its impact on your marriage?

You paid a substantial sum to work with a publishing coach who suddenly started sharing conspiracy theories about government shutdowns, pedophiles, and Joe Biden being dead. How can you handle this situation while salvaging the investment you've made in your writing career?

You're retiring from the military after 20+ years and looking to transition to civilian life. With your diverse skill set and experience, how should you approach talent stacking to build a successful post-military career?

Your autistic brother confided in your sister about molesting his niece and engaging in voyeurism. Your sister hasn't told anyone else, and now your other sister wants him to stay with you for the summer. How will you handle this complex family situation?

You've experienced a series of unfortunate setbacks in your career, from businesses burning down to scandals and bankruptcies. Despite your resilience and hard work, you're struggling financially. How do you overcome this string of bad luck and find sustainable success?

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1015: Jamie Metzl | AI Solutions for Hunger, Health, & Habitat Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 11 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

AI and biotech are rapidly changing our world. Superconvergence author Jamie Metzl explores the risks and rewards of this unprecedented era! [Part 2/2 — find part 1 here!]

What We Discuss with Jamie Metzl:

AI and genetics are advancing rapidly, leading to potential breakthroughs in medicine, agriculture, and solving global challenges like climate change and food scarcity.

The development of cell-cultivated meat and other animal products could significantly reduce environmental impact and animal cruelty associated with industrial agriculture.

There are concerns about unforeseen consequences of genetic engineering and AI, including potential misuse of technology and ethical dilemmas.

The COVID-19 pandemic highlighted the importance of investigating disease origins thoroughly and following scientific evidence, even when it leads to uncomfortable conclusions.

Everyone can and should participate in discussions about emerging technologies and their implications. By educating ourselves on these topics, we can contribute to shaping a better future that balances innovation with ethical considerations and societal needs.

And much more — continued from part 1/2 earlier this week!

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1014: Jamie Metzl | AI Solutions for Hunger, Health, & Habitat Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

AI and biotech are rapidly changing our world. Superconvergence author Jamie Metzl explores the risks and rewards of this unprecedented era! [Part 1/2]

What We Discuss with Jamie Metzl:

Technological progress is accelerating exponentially. According to Superconvergence author Jamie Metzl, the scientific advancements made in the next 14 years will outdo those of the last century, followed by another century's worth in only seven years.

AI (artificial intelligence) is not just a standalone technology, but will be integrated into every aspect of our lives, boosting the rate of scientific discoveries and problem-solving across all fields.

Advances in genetic engineering and reproductive technologies may lead to the ability to select and modify embryos for desired traits, raising ethical questions and potentially redirecting the future of human evolution.

The rapid pace of technological change is outstripping our evolved ability to comprehend it, leading to challenges in adapting and governing these new technologies responsibly.

To navigate this rapidly changing world, humanity should focus on developing a clear set of values and goals to guide its collective use of technology.

And much more — to be continued in part 2/2 coming later this week!

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1013: Big Dairy | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 07 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Big Dairy's impact on health and policy is udderly shocking. Michael Regilio milks the truth from this cash cow of an industry on Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and podcaster Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Milk consumption by adults has not been natural for most of human history. About 65% of the global population has reduced ability to digest lactose, with some populations experiencing nearly 100% lactose intolerance.

The dairy industry, with government support, has heavily promoted milk consumption despite questionable health benefits. This includes school milk programs and marketing campaigns like "Got Milk?"

Raw milk can be dangerous, potentially causing diseases like typhoid and tuberculosis. Pasteurization made milk safer, but the dairy industry initially resisted it.

The US government has repeatedly subsidized and bailed out the dairy industry, including buying surplus milk and cheese. This has led to an artificial inflation of the dairy market.

Good news for the lactose averse: there are many alternative sources for the nutrients found in milk. People can obtain calcium from foods like almonds, figs, kale, tofu, and sweet potatoes. By exploring these options, people can make informed dietary choices that align with their health needs and preferences.

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1012: Pal's Husband Eyes Your OnlyFans on the Sly | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

You found out your friend's husband is subscribing to your OnlyFans. Should you tell her and potentially destroy their marriage? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

If you're ever in San Diego, you have to check out the Zoo!

You discovered that your friend's new husband has been secretly subscribing to your OnlyFans account, sending you money and sharing his wildest fantasies. Your friend doesn't know, and you're torn about whether to tell her. What's the right thing to do in this delicate situation?

Your relationship with your mother has been toxic since childhood, marked by her alcoholism and unresolved trauma. Now, you're considering distancing yourself from her, but you don't want to jeopardize your close relationship with your father. How can you maintain a strong bond with your dad while setting boundaries with your mom?

You had an amazing trip to Italy and want to learn the language by next year. What's the most effective way to learn Italian quickly? How can you immerse yourself in the language and culture to achieve your goal?

You've worked in adoption and foster care for 16 years and have exciting ideas for entrepreneurial ventures to help others, but you're struggling to narrow down your options. How can you determine which idea to pursue and where to start?

You recently adopted a baby girl and are considering starting a business creating adoption profile books, inspired by your own successful experience. However, you're hesitant to leave your high-paying job. Should you take the risk and pursue this entrepreneurial path?

Your brother, once your best friend, has become extremely isolated and obsessed with COVID-19 precautions, cutting off family and friends. He's even refusing to visit for important events. How can you help him and salvage your relationship?

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1011: Dr. Anthony Fauci | The Science and Politics of Public Health

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 Jul 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Leadership in public health requires adaptability. Dr. Anthony Fauci joins us to share lessons he's learned from decades of managing disease outbreaks.

What We Discuss with Dr. Anthony Fauci:

The importance of transparency and honesty in public health communication, even when it means delivering inconvenient truths or disagreeing with political leaders.

How social media and political polarization amplified attacks on public health officials and spread misinformation during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Why the changing guidance on masks over the course of the pandemic was due to evolving scientific understanding, not flip-flopping.

The potential for future respiratory pandemics and the need for ongoing preparedness, even when threats are not imminent.

Dr. Fauci shares insights about his own career choices, including turning down high-paying private sector jobs to continue his work in public service.

And much more...

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1010: Participation Trophies | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 30 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are participation trophies ruining kids? Jason Feifer debunks myths and reveals the surprising century-long history behind the debate on Skeptical Sunday!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we're joined by Jason Feifer, the editor in chief of Entrepreneur magazine, host of the Build for Tomorrow podcast, and author of Build for Tomorrow: An Action Plan for Embracing Change, Adapting Fast, and Future-Proofing Your Career.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

As it turns out, participation trophies aren't some newfangled millennial invention. These shiny symbols of showing up have been collecting dust on shelves since your great-grandpappy was in short pants. We're talking 1922, folks — when the biggest participation trophy was surviving the Spanish Flu!

All of these folks bellyaching about participation trophies probably have a few lurking in their own attics. It's like complaining about kids these days and their gimmicky rock music while air-guitaring to Led Zeppelin. Pot, meet kettle — you're both made of participation trophy material.

Despite what the armchair psychologists down at the local watering hole might tell you, there's no scientific evidence that participation trophies turn kids into snowflakes. As they grow, kids naturally get more interested in winning than just showing up — like trading in their tricycle for a Harley.

The whole participation trophy hullabaloo is less about plastic awards and more about our collective freak-out over parenting, work ethic, and why these darn kids won't get off our lawns. It's just generational anxiety dressed up in a well-worn, borrowed suit.

Want to level up your success game? Ditch the black-and-white thinking. Winning's got more flavors than Baskin-Robbins, so keep an open mind for what's possible. Embrace the past, eye the future, and you'll be batting home runs with life's curveballs like a pro.

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1009: Family Comes First, But She's Just the Worst | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 28 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your houseguest sister-in-law is messy, irresponsible, and in debt. Can you motivate her to change or is it time for tough love? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

Your sister-in-law's been mooching off your hospitality as if she's got a get-out-of-rent-free card, turning your home into her personal playground while you're busting your hump to keep the lights on. How can you get through this domestic minefield without blowing up your wife's relationship with her spendthrift sibling — and your sanity?

You're a woman who's always played for Team Dude, but lately you've been crushing hard on your sapphic bestie. The long-term forecast is cloudy with a chance of identity crisis, but you can't get her out of your head. How will you solve this romantic Rubik's Cube without peeling off the stickers?

Halfway through your Master of Legal Studies program, an ad for AI legal services popped up. Suddenly, your degree looks about as future-proof as a Blockbuster membership card. How can you safeguard your Atticus Finch aspirations without being ground down by the mocking march of the machines? [Thanks — again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

You've got front-row seats to a family's horror show, complete with questionable parenting and kids who look like they could use a hug (or therapy). As a concerned friend whose perspective is admittedly biased by your own abusive upbringing, how can you swoop in for the save without nuking your relationship or crossing lines that can't be uncrossed?

You're the company's sales superstar who just got kneecapped by the corporate fun police. After pouring your heart and soul into a presentation that was deader on arrival than disco, how will you dust yourself off and keep your mojo intact when the higher-ups have made it clear your ideas are about as well-received as a Christmas morning telemarketer?

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1008: Brian Klaas | Embracing Uncertainty in a World of Flukes

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 25 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Unexpected moments can change the world. Brian Klaas, author of Fluke, reveals how embracing life's randomness can empower us to make a difference.

What We Discuss with Brian Klaas:

Tiny actions or events can have massive downstream effects and consequences, as illustrated by historical examples like how a decades-old vacation spared Kyoto from nuclear bombing in WWII.

Our lives and human history are shaped by chaos theory and random flukes, such as the asteroid impact that killed the dinosaurs or chance evolutionary events that led to complex life.

Humans have cognitive biases that make us seek patterns and explanations, even when events are random. This can lead to superstitions, conspiracy theories, and a false sense of control.

Wealth and success are often more influenced by luck and arbitrary factors than we like to admit, challenging the idea of pure meritocracy.

While we can't control everything, we can influence the world around us through our actions. By embracing this mindset, we can feel more empowered and find meaning in our daily choices, recognizing that even small moments can have a significant impact on the future.

And much more...

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1007: Found Wisdom in Woo-Woo — Am I In a Cult Too? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 21 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

You've thrived in a group some call a cult. Are you really accessing the world's mysteries, or just being suckered by shysters? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You've been deeply involved in an organization that's brought you personal growth and success, but some have raised suspicions that it might be a cult. With expensive programs, controversial teachings, and an elitist hierarchy, you wonder if you've gained genuine wisdom or just been skillfully manipulated. What's the truth behind this modern mystery?

You're in an open marriage, but your husband's relationship with another woman has crossed boundaries and is threatening your marital union. She's moved in, turned him against you, and now you're considering legal action. How can you address this situation and potentially save your relationship?

Your sister, who has epilepsy and cognitive disabilities, is turning 18 soon. Her father, your ex-stepfather, has been making questionable decisions about her care and education. How can you protect and support her as she transitions into adulthood?

You were adopted at birth and have always been curious about your biological parents. You've met your birth mother, but she's hesitant to provide information about your birth father. How can you navigate the complex process of searching for your biological father while respecting everyone involved?

Listener Pete Dinnella has sadly left us. His wife Barbara shares the bittersweet details of his final days and we encourage anyone who wants to help her in the aftermath of this tragedy to contribute to their GoFundMe.

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1006: Dr. Ramani | Surviving and Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 20 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

It’s Not You author Dr. Ramani Durvasula is here to help us identify narcissists, overcome the abuse we suffer in relationships with them, and heal.

What We Discuss with Dr. Ramani Durvasula:

Narcissists can often be recognized by common traits like being know-it-alls, interrupting frequently, driving dangerously, throwing tantrums when frustrated, and displaying a strong sense of entitlement. But what kind of narcissists are you dealing with in your everyday life?

Strategies for coping with narcissistic relationships when leaving is not an option.

The role of cognitive dissonance in keeping people trapped in narcissistic relationships and how creating a written record of abusive behaviors can help overcome this psychological barrier.

Growing up with a narcissistic parent can lead to difficulty forming one's own identity and a tendency to accommodate others' needs while suppressing one's own. This pattern can make a person more vulnerable to entering narcissistic relationships in adulthood.

While it may seem daunting, healing from a narcissistic relationship is possible. By developing self-compassion, understanding that the abuse was not your fault, and gradually reclaiming aspects of your life that you enjoy (like hobbies, favorite foods, or social activities), you can begin to rebuild your sense of self and create a fulfilling life, even if the process takes time.

And much more...

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1005: David Fajgenbaum | Leveraging AI to Cure Rare Diseases

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 18 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

After treating his own rare disease, Chasing My Cure author David Fajgenbaum explains how existing drugs can help other sufferers survive the unknown.

What We Discuss with David Fajgenbaum:

Dr. David Fajgenbaum nearly died multiple times from a rare ailment called Castleman disease, for which there was no effective treatment available.

The current healthcare system does not incentivize pharmaceutical companies to find new uses for existing drugs, especially for rare diseases, leaving many potential treatments undiscovered.

Driven by his own experiences, Dr. Fajgenbaum realized that many existing FDA-approved drugs could be used to fight rare diseases for which they weren't originally intended.

Dr. Fajgenbaum founded Every Cure, a nonprofit organization that uses AI to match existing drugs with rare diseases they could potentially treat, greatly accelerating the process of finding cures.

You can make a positive impact by supporting organizations like Every Cure, which are working tirelessly to find treatments for rare diseases using innovative approaches. Consider donating to their cause, spreading awareness about their mission, or even sharing your own experiences with off-label drug use that has helped you or someone you know. Every contribution, no matter how small, can help bring hope and relief to those suffering from rare diseases.

And much more...

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1004: Memory | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 16 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Misconceptions about memory are abundant, so Jessica Wynn is here to let us know which ones we're better off forgetting on this latest Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Our memories are more complex than just being videos that we can simply file away and retrieve at will.

There are three main processes that characterize how memory works: encoding, storage, and recall.

Forgetting is a feature, not a bug.

Some memories are more easily recalled than others, and our memories can be manipulated by a variety of factors.

While hotly debated, the concept of "repressed memories" doesn't seem to have the science to back it.

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1003: Husband's Bro's Obscene, But He Won't Intervene | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 14 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your creepy brother-in-law hit on your mom and 13-year-old sis at your wedding and now targets you, but your husband ignores it. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Every time Jordan goes to the barber, he comes home with another story. Here's the latest.

It was the reddest of flags when the creepy brother-in-law-to-be hit on your mother and 13-year-old sister at your wedding. In the six years since, he's been making inappropriate advances toward you, but his brother — your husband — chooses to ignore this. How can you protect yourself and your children from this shadow-lurking predator if your husband won't?

Even when you try your best to exude warmth and empathy, you've been told your tone can come off as condescending — not ideal for your job as a hostage negotiator, and not entirely appreciated by your long-enduring wife. How can you enhance your self-awareness to adjust this tone to a more socially appropriate level?

Your sister and her family are obsessed with decreasing their carbon footprint to the point where your nephew has developed eco-anxiety. You want to attend a music festival that requires flying, but you're worried about the tension it might cause with your sister — who will definitely guilt you about choosing your own entertainment over her children's future. What should you do?

While shopping with your family, you witnessed a father verbally and physically threatening his young son in public. As a mandated reporter through your job as an educator and someone who cares about children, you're struggling with the powerless you felt in the moment and wondering if you should have intervened or reported the incident. [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

After being laid off from your job of 18 years, you applied for two positions within the company. You were far along in the process with one and ended up getting an offer, but you also interviewed for the other and made a valuable professional connection. What unexpected opportunities might arise from exploring both paths?

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1002: Charan Ranganath | The Mysteries of Memory and Why We Remember

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 11 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Forget what you thought you knew about memory! Why We Remember author Charan Ranganath joins us to share surprising insights into how we recall the past.

What We Discuss with Charan Ranganath:

Memories are not literal recordings of the past, but are constructed in the moment based on bits and pieces of information. We often forget most details, and what we do remember can be distorted by our current context, beliefs, and the act of retelling memories.

Emotion and attention play a key role in memory formation. Emotionally charged events tend to be remembered more vividly because chemicals like norepinephrine promote neural plasticity. Distinctive, attention-grabbing elements of an experience are more likely to be encoded into long-term memory.

Memories can be unreliable in group settings due to interference between different people's recollections and the influence of dominant personalities. Eyewitness testimony is often flawed because of how malleable and suggestible human memory is.

The sense that time is passing slowly or quickly is tied to the distinctiveness of our episodic memories. Repetitive, non-distinctive experiences (like pandemic lockdowns) can make days feel long but weeks pass in a blur due to a lack of memorable event boundaries.

To improve your everyday memory, try to be mindful and limit distractions in the moment. You can deliberately create memory cues by vividly imagining a visual reminder that will help you recall information later. Diversifying your experiences and learning new things also helps keep your mind sharp and allows you to make creative connections. With some practice, you can harness your episodic memory to enrich your life.

And much more...

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1001: Haiti | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 09 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Haiti Policy House founder Wolf Pamphile is here to explain why, despite the country's ongoing crises, he remains optimistic about Haiti's future.

Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them.

On This Episode of Out of the Loop, We Discuss:

Haiti has a long history of instability, starting with its colonial past under France and Spain, followed by a devastating war for independence, and continuing with foreign interventions, dictatorships, natural disasters, and gang violence that have hindered its development.

Foreign powers, including France, the United States, and the Dominican Republic, have played significant roles in Haiti's struggles — from the crippling debt imposed by France after independence to the US occupation in the early 20th century and the Dominican Republic's anti-Haitian policies.

The 2010 earthquake was a devastating blow to Haiti, killing over 300,000 people and setting the country back decades in terms of infrastructure and development. This event, along with political instability, has contributed to the rise of powerful gangs that control much of the country.

The current situation in Haiti is dire, with gangs controlling large parts of the capital, Port-au-Prince, and engaging in kidnappings, violence, and drug trafficking. The international community is attempting to intervene, with Kenya leading a police force to help stabilize the country, but the effectiveness of this intervention remains to be seen.

Despite the challenges, there are reasons for optimism about Haiti's future. A new generation of Haitians, both in Haiti and abroad, are working toward a better future for their country. Political groups are coming together to find consensus on the way forward, and organizations like the Haiti Policy House are ensuring that Haitian voices are heard in discussions about the country's future. While the road ahead is difficult, with determination, unity, and international support, Haiti can overcome its challenges and build a brighter future for its people.

And much more!

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1000: Facing Father Figure's Fatality and Faults | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 07 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Though he was your father figure, mourning the stepdad your sisters accused of abuse feels like betrayal. How should you feel? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Though he was your father figure, mourning the stepdad your sisters accused of abuse feels like betrayal. How should you feel?

You're talented and successful in your field, but lately you're feeling drained, unmotivated, and disconnected from your passion. What steps can you take to rediscover your love for your craft?

You fell for an online scam that cost you thousands of dollars and left you feeling ashamed and depressed. How will you move past the embarrassment and learn to protect yourself better in the future?

Your long-time business partner and close friend didn't reach out after your company shut down, despite your history of supporting him through personal and professional challenges. Can you find a way to process the grief and betrayal?

Your significant other refuses to go to therapy or work on their personal growth, even though it's causing your relationship to stagnate. Will you be able to accept their limitations or decide to move on?

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Todd McFarlane | Reinventing Spider-Man and Spawning an Empire

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 04 Jun 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Listen here to discover how Todd McFarlane reinvented comic book icons, founded Image Comics, and revamped the toy business with a priority on quality!

What We Discuss with Todd McFarlane:

How Todd McFarlane successfully reinvented Spider-Man and created the iconic character Venom while working at Marvel Comics, despite facing resistance from his bosses who were reluctant to change the status quo.

Why Todd left Marvel to co-found Image Comics, which became the third-largest comic book company in the world — and where he set records for independent comic book sales with his highly successful character Spawn.

Why Todd emphasizes the importance of creating the best possible product and offering it at a competitive price point, even if it means spending more time and money than the competition.

How Todd's unorthodox negotiation tactics allow him to outlast opponents in meetings and get better deals.

Todd is a living example that you can succeed by embracing your creativity, focusing on quality, and challenging the status quo. With hard work and a willingness to innovate, you can make a significant impact in your chosen field.

And much more...

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998: Workplace Fails and Bad Boss Tales | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 31 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Dysfunctional workplaces and abyssmal bosses litter the modern corporate hellscape. What stories will you share from the rubble? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You worked at a company with a problematic culture focused on self-help teachings and inappropriate therapy sessions led by an unqualified manager. How'd that turn out?

You're working at a door-to-door sales company where underperforming employees face unusual (and likely illegal) consequences. Will you be able to stomach the challenges that await you?

Your bad boss manipulated and mistreated you, hoping you'd fail when you left for a new job. But what happened when the tables were turned?

As a young journalist, you dealt with an alcoholic, sexually harassing boss at a small-town newspaper. How far did things have to go before karma took the wheel?

You're a young employee at a luxury car garage, where the eccentric owner's behavior is becoming increasingly erratic. Will a chance encounter with a client change the course of your career?

Your boss denied you time off to visit a dying loved one, forcing you to choose between work and family. How will this decision impact you in the long run?

Years ago, your boss made your work life miserable. Now, he's interviewing for a job at your thriving company. What will you do?

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997: Christopher Ahn | A Marine in Kim Jong-un's Crosshairs Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 30 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Marine veteran Christopher Ahn explains why he got involved with helping North Koreans defect to the West, and how this has put him in danger. [Part 2/2 — make sure to catch 1/2 here!]

What We Discuss with Christopher Ahn:

In 2019, activist group Free Joseon broke into the North Korean embassy in Madrid with the goal of helping staff defect to the West. But the mission didn't go according to plan and had to be aborted.

Back in the US, Christopher Ahn was informed by the FBI that North Korea had discovered his identity as a participant in the botched embassy raid and planned to assassinate him. His identity was likely revealed when the FBI shared it with Spain.

Christopher is now facing extradition to Spain on charges related to the embassy incident, based on statements from North Korean officials. However, the credibility of those statements is questionable given the likelihood they were coerced.

If extradited to Spain, Christopher fears for his life from North Korean agents. His legal team is arguing there should be a humanitarian exception made to the extradition, given the unique circumstances, though this is an unprecedented legal argument.

Despite the challenges he faces as a result of his actions, Christopher remains dedicated to helping others in need. While his particular path is not one most will be called to follow, we can all reflect on how to courageously leverage our own skills and circumstances to uplift and empower others in need.

And much more...

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996: Christopher Ahn | A Marine in Kim Jong-un's Crosshairs Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Marine veteran Christopher Ahn explains why he got involved with helping North Koreans defect to the West, and how this has put him in danger. [Part 1/2]

What We Discuss with Christopher Ahn:

Christopher Ahn, a Korean-American Marine veteran, became involved in helping North Korean defectors escape through an organization called the Chosen Institute, founded by Adrian Hong.

In 2017, after the assassination of Kim Jong-un's half-brother Kim Jong-nam, Christopher was called upon to provide emotional support and protection for Kim Han-sol, Kim Jong-nam's son, who feared for his life.

Christopher met with Kim Han-sol and his family in Taiwan, providing them with a sense of safety and comfort while the Chosen Institute worked on a plan to find asylum for them.

Christopher's role in these operations was to offer emotional support and guidance to the defectors, drawing from his own family's experience as immigrants and his understanding of the immense courage it takes to leave everything behind for a chance at a better life.

In the second half of this two-part episode, we'll learn more about the part Christopher played in the 2019 incident at the North Korean embassy in Madrid for which he is facing life-threatening extradition.

And much more...

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995: Cheating Chap Caught in Child Support Trap | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

You fathered a child with a lesbian couple without a contract absolving you of responsibility; now you've been sued for support. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You fathered a child with a lesbian couple without a contract absolving you of responsibility during a break from your sexless marriage. Now you've been sued for support and you fear the fallout once your wife finds out. What can you do?

Aside from just offering him a place to stay, how can you effectively and sensitively support your friend who's facing legal issues and suicidal thoughts after his partner took off with the kids?

The rapid advancement streak you've been experiencing has you worried about how long it'll take your higher-ups to realize you're just not cut out for the promotions they've given you. How can you overcome this imposter syndrome before it becomes self-fulfilling prophecy?

How do visitors to North Korea make purchases? Do merchants there take AMEX?

A listener shares heartstring-pulling news with us, and we feel compelled to share it with this community to which he belongs.

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994: A.J. Jacobs | The Year of Living Constitutionally

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 23 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

What can a year of following the US Constitution per the founding fathers' intentions teach us about the future of democracy? A.J. Jacobs has answers here!

What We Discuss with A.J. Jacobs:

The founding fathers were not entirely in favor of pure democracy. They feared mob rule and wanted checks and balances to prevent a tyranny of the majority. The Constitution was a big step forward for democracy at the time, but still had elements of elitism.

The original meaning and interpretation of parts of the Constitution, such as the Second Amendment and free speech rights, are quite different from how they are viewed today. Both liberal and conservative perspectives would likely disapprove of some of the original 18th century understandings.

The founding fathers seemed more open to changing minds and flexible thinking compared to the intransigent political positions common today. Examples like Ben Franklin and James Madison illustrate their willingness to admit uncertainty and change opinions based on reason and evidence.

American democracy is fragile and must be actively maintained and protected. A.J. Jacobs remains optimistic that reforms and hard work can help save the American democratic system, but it requires dedication and the American people deciding to "lift the sun up" on the country's future.

We can help revive an appreciation for democracy by making it fun and celebratory again, like it was back in the early days of America. Baking "election cakes" to share and enjoy while voting, or hosting festivities at polling places, can inject some much-needed positivity and help encourage participation. Simple acts like this are a good starting point to begin strengthening our civic society and democratic institutions.

And much more...

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993: Johann Hari | The Skinny on 'Magic Pill' Weight-Loss Drugs

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are new weight loss drugs like Ozempic and Wegovy "magic" pills that can put an end to the obesity epidemic? Johann Hari is here to give us the skinny!

What We Discuss with Johann Hari:

Processed and ultra-processed foods are a major driver of the obesity epidemic, as they undermine the body's natural ability to feel full and satisfied after eating. Moving from fresh, whole foods to mostly processed foods is strongly linked to the dramatic rise in obesity rates.

Obesity is a complex issue with biological, psychological, and social causes. Factors like genetics, emotional eating, trauma, and the food environment all play a role. Stigmatizing or shaming people for their weight is cruel and counterproductive.

New weight loss drugs like Ozempic and Wegovy work by artificially boosting satiety hormones like GLP-1, helping people feel full faster and eat less. They are showing impressive weight loss results, but also come with potential risks and side effects that are not yet fully understood, especially in the long-term.

While these new drugs may help many people, they are not a magic solution. They don't address the underlying drivers of the obesity crisis in the food system and environment. To make a real difference, we need broader changes to make healthy eating the easy, default option.

The good news is, each of us can take positive steps today to improve our health, no matter our current weight. Focus on adding more whole, minimally processed foods to your diet, and find physical activities you truly enjoy. Prioritize getting good sleep, managing stress, and building a strong social support network. Small, sustainable lifestyle changes can make a big difference over time. Be patient and kind with yourself in the process. You have the power to transform your health, one choice at a time.

And much more...

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992: Royals | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 19 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

What's the point of the publicly funded British Royal family in the modern world? Andrew Gold puts the monarchy under a microscope on this Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

The British monarchy is a centuries-old institution that has had a significant impact on the UK's culture, politics, and history. While the monarch's role is largely ceremonial, the royal family still holds influence and plays a significant part in British society.

The British Royal Family receives public funding through the Sovereign Grant, which is calculated as a percentage of the profits made by the Crown Estate. The Sovereign Grant covers official expenses, while the monarch also has personal income from private estates.

The monarchy faces challenges in maintaining its relevance in an increasingly democratic and progressive world. The royal family must balance tradition with adapting to changing societal values and expectations.

The popularity of individual members of the royal family, such as Queen Elizabeth II, Prince Charles, Prince William, and Prince Harry, can significantly impact public perception of the monarchy as a whole.

Despite the controversies and challenges surrounding the British monarchy, it remains an integral part of the nation's identity and continues to captivate people worldwide. By focusing on their roles as symbols of unity, continuity, and tradition, while also embracing positive change and engaging in meaningful charitable work, the royal family can maintain its relevance and contribute to the well-being of the British people and the global community.

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991: Should You Coexist with a Manchild Narcissist? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Should you endure a toxic marriage for the sake of your son's relationship with his father, or run for the hills while you can? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're contemplating leaving your narcissistic addict husband due to his poor treatment of you and your child, but you feel trapped financially and concerned about your son losing his father. Should you try to reconcile and accept him the way he is, or run for the hills while you can?

Betrayed by a lifelong friend who used you in an eBay scam and left you financially accountable to his victims, you found closure years later at a party by forgiving him and letting go of your own negative emotions about the situation. But you can't help but wonder if you should've just punched him in the face. Did you do the right thing?

After years of caring for your late mother's boyfriend like family, you feel disrespected when you're labeled as a vendor at a granddaughter's wedding, highlighting the family's lack of appreciation for your efforts. Are you still expected to bring a gift, or should you send them an invoice the day after the wedding for taking care of their grandfather?

Your close relationship with your daughter's ex-boyfriend, now reformed from the issues that facilitated their breakup, causes tension with your married daughter, forcing you to choose between transparency or secrecy to preserve your bond. Should you continue to "sneak around" with your daughter's ex, or just be honest and let the chips fall where they may?

You're a Canadian mom worried about your 18-year-old daughter's real-life meetup with the 23-year-old American boyfriend she met online. How can you ensure her safety (on the off-chance he might be a human trafficker or drug fiend) without damaging your relationship by being seen as overbearing?

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990: Jonathan Haidt | How Gen Z Became the Anxious Generation

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Jonathan Haidt is here to talk about his latest book, The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness.

What We Discuss with Jonathan Haidt:

Social media and smartphones have drastically altered childhood since the early 2010s, leading to increased rates of anxiety, depression, self-harm, and suicide among teens, especially girls.

Virtual interactions on social media are disembodied, shallow, and can spread mental health issues among susceptible teens. Prestige biased learning causes teens to emulate influencers, even those promoting unhealthy behaviors. Smartphones and social media also enable sexual predators to easily target children online.

Overprotection in the real world and underprotection online are both mistakes that need to be reversed. Parents have allowed kids too much unsupervised screen time while restricting their independence and free play in the physical world out of exaggerated fears.

Schools and parents need to set clear boundaries around technology use. No smartphones before high school, no social media until age 16, and phone-free schools from bell to bell are key norms to establish. The longer parents delay introducing these technologies, the better.

Although the situation is serious, positive change is possible when parents, educators, and lawmakers work together. Parents can start by giving kids more independence and free play time offline, schools can go phone-free, and governments can pass laws to make online spaces safer for kids. With collective action, we can restore a healthier childhood for the next generation. Small steps like "Free Play Fridays" for neighborhood kids can make a difference right away. By coming together to solve this, we can ensure today's youth have the space to develop into competent, well-adjusted adults.

And much more...

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989: Bad Behavior Uncorrected Leaves Dad Unprotected | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your disabled father's safety is jeopardized by a violent, mentally ill relative, and legal remedies have proven insufficient. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your paralyzed, terminally sick father's safety is at risk due to a violent, mentally ill family member, and legal interventions seem ineffective. What alternative solutions exist?

Raised in an abusive, isolating homeschool cult, you struggle with trauma, financial hardship, and inaccessibility to college due to a lack of legitimate transcripts. Are you out of luck, or might there be a workaround? [Thanks to licensed mental health counselor and cult expert Steven Hassan for helping us with this one!]

After enduring a volatile, unprofessional manager who alienated staff and customers, how can you diplomatically end your forced friendship now that he's been fired?

Your mother's disapproval of your loving husband has led to an 'all or none' ultimatum resulting in estrangement and heartbreak for your son, who wonders why you "don't visit grandma anymore." What can you do?

A dyslexic listener shares their journey to success, urging others with dyslexia to embrace their strengths, seek accommodations, and overcome shame by being open and advocating for their needs.

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988: Robert Mazur | How Money Laundering Works Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Ex-federal agent Robert Mazur shares his experiences working undercover to infiltrate drug cartels, offering insights into the challenges involved. Pt 2/2. [Pt 1 can be found here!]

What We Discuss with Robert Mazur:

How Robert, working undercover for US Customs and the DEA, posed as a money launderer to infiltrate Pablo Escobar's Medellin cartel and other criminal organizations.

Money laundering enables cartels to produce their most lethal product: corruption. Corrupt officials and governments facilitate drug trafficking operations.

Money laundering methods are highly sophisticated, involving legitimate businesses, secret codes, and multi-national operations to evade detection.

Banks and the global financial system need to change to combat money laundering effectively, with severe penalties for those involved in facilitating the flow of illicit funds.

Despite the risks and close calls, Robert continued his undercover work to gather intelligence and evidence against drug cartels until it became clear that the price his family was paying was not worth continuing.

And much more...

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987: Robert Mazur | How Money Laundering Works Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Ex-federal agent Robert Mazur shares his experiences working undercover to infiltrate drug cartels, offering insights into the challenges involved. Pt 1/2.

What We Discuss with Robert Mazur:

How Robert, working undercover for US Customs and the DEA, posed as a money launderer to infiltrate Pablo Escobar's Medellin cartel and other criminal organizations.

The extensive planning that goes into an undercover operation, including developing a detailed backstory, establishing fake businesses, and coordinating with informants and other agents.

How Robert built rapport with targets by researching their interests, using active listening, and offering them gifts to gain their trust.

Undercover agents must be laser-focused on their targets and avoid thinking about their personal lives, as any slip-up could compromise the operation and endanger their safety.

During trials, these agents must be prepared for defense attorneys' tactics, such as role reversal, and maintain their composure to avoid compromising the case or their credibility in front of the jury.

And much more...

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986: Porn | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 05 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Has technology weaponized pornography into a public health crisis? Michael Regilio takes us through modern porn's ins and outs on this Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

High-speed internet porn is a recent phenomenon that provides an intense, novel experience unlike traditional pornography, hacking into our brain's evolutionary desires for new mates and triggering dopamine responses similar to drug addiction.

Pornography use, especially among adolescents and young adults who grew up with easy access to internet porn, has been linked to erosion of gray matter in the brain's prefrontal cortex, which controls impulse control and decision-making.

Porn use has been associated with sexual disorders like erectile dysfunction in young men, as well as difficulties forming emotional bonds and intimacy in relationships.

While some psychologists dispute the existence of "porn addiction," neuroscientific evidence shows porn use can lead to compulsive behaviors and brain changes resembling substance addictions.

While some political efforts have been made to declare porn a public health crisis, there is little policy action based on scientific evidence to provide resources for treatment and awareness.

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985: Lives Are at Stake in Bail Reform's Wake | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 May 2024 00:00:00 PDT

When bail reforms free violent offenders and risk others' safety, how can we uphold justice while safeguarding victims? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

When bail reforms free violent offenders and risk others' safety, how can we uphold justice while safeguarding victims?

You've about had it with your autistic boss' cringeworthy conspiracy theories. How can you disagree respectfully and maintain professionalism?

As a cancer patient struggling with massive student loans and disability assistance denial, what legal help and guidance is available for navigating private loan regulations while fighting for survival?

You've invented a non-functional plastic object that brings laughter to all who behold its absurdity. You want to protect the IP so you can profit from this stroke of comedic novelty, but you can't ignore the potential environmental impact of manufacturing such an item en masse. What should you do?

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984: Susan Casey | Unraveling Mysteries in the Ocean's Darkest Depths

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

What challenges can the ocean help us meet, and what must we do to safeguard its treasures? The Underworld author Susan Casey dives deep for answers here!

What We Discuss with Susan Casey:

The ocean plays a crucial role in regulating the Earth's climate and serves as the largest carbon sink on the planet, making its preservation essential for mitigating climate change.

The ocean is home to a fascinating array of creatures that have adapted to extreme conditions, such as iron-breathing microbes, glass sponges, and jellyfish that can reverse their life cycle.

Pollution, including plastics, chemical weapons, and nuclear waste, has severely impacted the ocean ecosystem, with some deep-sea creatures found to have plastic particles embedded in their organs.

There are an estimated three million shipwrecks on the ocean floor, preserving valuable historical artifacts and information — such as the Antikythera mechanism, an ancient Greek analog computer.

Exploring the ocean can lead to groundbreaking discoveries in medicine, Earth's history, and climate, providing valuable insights for addressing humanity's challenges — provided we safeguard this treasury of knowledge for current and future generations.

And much more...

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983: Bro's Obsessed with Goats: What's the Antidote? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your brother's never-ending barrage of goat-related songs, text messages, and references has your family concerned. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

An innocent bystander might find your brother's weird obsession with goats amusing, but his barrage of goat-related songs, text messages, and references has your family concerned. What can you do to herd him back to reality?

Feeling unwelcome as the only woman at a family card game, you struggle with self-doubt and question your husband's support. How can you navigate family dynamics while staying true to yourself?

Despite not being officially charged by the DA for public intoxication and alleged indecent exposure (the latter of which you deny), your six-year career as a firefighter is in jeopardy. What are your options? [Thanks to police agency supervisor T.D. De La Peña for helping us with this one!]

As a small business co-owner, you face a dilemma: stay in a potentially profitable but stressful partnership or leave with decent earnings, which would have a negative impact on the company's stability and your (ex-)business partner.

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982: Israel vs. Iran | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 25 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Should we worry that the complex dynamics between Israel and Iran might ignite WWIII? Intelligence analyst Ryan McBeth brings us in from Out of the Loop.

Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them.

On This Episode of Out of the Loop:

Israel and Iran have been engaged in recent attacks on each other, with Israel striking Iranian officers in Syria, Iran launching drones at Israel, and Israel firing missiles back at Iran. However, neither side seems to want a wider conflict.

Iran's military is split between the regular Artesh forces and the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps (IRGC). The IRGC gets better equipment and training and has a Quds Force that specializes in unconventional warfare.

Iran and Israel both lack strong expeditionary capabilities to directly attack each other. Iran's navy is mostly small fast attack boats, while Israel has a defensive-oriented military.

Many ordinary Iranian citizens oppose their government and the Ayatollahs. The people should not be conflated with the regime. Iran has a large young population that is quite pro-Western.

Overall, a massive conventional war between Israel and Iran remains unlikely due to the geographic and military constraints on both sides, despite the harsh rhetoric. However, proxy conflicts and tit-for-tat strikes may continue.

And much more!

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981: Bobby Gunn | The 73-0 Undefeated Bare-Knuckle Boxer

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Grab a front-row seat to the gritty world of bare-knuckle boxing with undefeated champ Bobby Gunn and his 'Bare Knuckle' biographer Stayton Bonner here!

What We Discuss with Bobby Gunn and Stayton Bonner:

The culture and traditions of — as well as the stereotypes, lifestyle choices, and challenges faced by — the traveler community in which Bobby was raised.

How Bobby started fighting drunks for money at the not-so-tender age of 11.

The rich history — and brutal realities — of bare-knuckle boxing.

How Bobby answered the call of the underground bare-knuckle boxing circuit and what the costs have been along the way.

The evolution of bare-knuckle boxing, and Bobby's indelible mark on the sport.

And much more...

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980: Sister Was Wild — Should You Adopt Her Child? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your pregnant sister-in-law was a wild child growing up and suffers addiction. Would adopting her baby disrupt your family life? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Whenever you're hit with a double-whammy of physical illness and depression, remember that psychology is, in fact, biology. Metacognition is the key.

Your pregnant sister-in-law was a wild child growing up and suffers from addiction. Would adopting her baby disrupt your own family's tranquility?

What's the most drama-free way to get your professional contacts on board with the changes you've made since coming out as transgender? [Thanks to Noelle Soncrant, the first visible transgender financial advisor at Northwestern Mutual, for helping us with this one!]

You just discovered your wife has a warrant for her arrest after neglecting to pay $173,000 in taxes your co-owned and recently dissolved business owes to the IRS. Now what? [Thanks to bankruptcy attorney Erin Hoskins for giving us some sound advice here!]

Your sister left her amazing husband for a man she finds more attractive — but who also exhibits controlling and manipulative behavior. He's pressuring her to have a baby despite her lifelong decision against it. How can you help her realize she's making a huge mistake?

How can you mitigate career setbacks while taking time off from work to travel?

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979: Adam Gamal | My Top-Secret Fight Against Terrorism Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

What's it like to be one of the only Muslim Arab Americans fighting terrorism in the US' most secret military unit? Adam Gamal shares here in part 2 of 2! [Part 1 can be found here.]

What We Discuss with Adam Gamal:

How Adam Gamal went from being an Egyptian refugee who barely spoke English to an operative in the United States' most secret special forces unit.

The unit's tasks range from counterterrorism and hostage rescue to counter-narcotics operations.

The ethical and emotional complexities of covert operations.

How top secret operatives navigate cultural nuances while making personal sacrifices for the greater good.

The importance of intelligence, adaptability, and the unseen battles fought every day to ensure American safety.

And much more...

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978: Adam Gamal | My Top-Secret Fight Against Terrorism Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

What's it like to be one of the only Muslim Arab Americans fighting terrorism in the US' most secret military unit? Adam Gamal shares here in part 1 of 2!

What We Discuss with Adam Gamal:

How Adam Gamal went from being an Egyptian refugee who barely spoke English to an operative in the US Army's most secret special forces unit.

The unit's tasks range from counterterrorism and hostage rescue to counter-narcotics operations.

The ethical and emotional complexities of covert operations.

How top secret operatives navigate cultural nuances while making personal sacrifices for the greater good.

The importance of intelligence, adaptability, and the unseen battles fought every day to ensure American safety.

And much more...

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977: Do You Strive for a Love That Can't Survive? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

We have a follow-up from our episode 904 listener on her Persian boyfriend's hesitation to advance their six-year relationship. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday:

What are the benefits of raising a resilient child? Daily Dad Ryan Holiday counts the ways.

An update from the listener who wrote in on episode 904 regarding her Persian boyfriend's reluctance to commit to the next step of their six-year relationship. (Hint: it's got very little to do with his family's acceptance of her non-Persianness.)

As a Mandarin-speaking American quickly rising within a Chinese-owned organization, you find the inevitable influence of the CCP over the fate of your company and career to be suboptimal. How do you reconcile the broader moral objections of your work with your responsibility to ensure financial stability for your family moving forward?

Getting divorced would be financially disastrous, but marriage to someone who lacks critical thinking skills, is incapable of reading the simplest of context clues, and can't come to any opinion he isn't told by his parents, church, or political movement is exhausting. What are your options?

In the event of your untimely demise, how do you keep your kids safe from your estranged, narcissistic, abusive, BPD-afflicted, manipulative, and generally toxic parents? [Thanks to trust and estate attorney and judge Jordan Richards for helping us with this one!]

Hey, bro, if you need us to hook you up with Carl's DNA-altering money pills (as mentioned on episode 941), your business may be failing for reasons completely unrelated to the ones you're imagining. But we have thoughts...

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976: Bruce Ladebu | Stories of Hope in the Fight Against Slavery

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 11 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Children's Rescue Initiative founder Bruce Ladebu joins us to discuss the 20 years he's spent liberating hundreds of people from slavery and trafficking!

What We Discuss with Bruce Ladebu:

Human trafficking and slavery affect around 40 million globally, generating $150 billion per year. Exploitation includes forced labor, domestic servitude, and sex trafficking of all ages.

Heartless and often sadistic traffickers prey on the most vulnerable and desperate populations, including disaster-stricken children and marginalized minorities. Corruption and apathy among local authorities and law enforcement allow this atrocity of an industry to thrive.

Rescuing trafficking victims is perilous work, but Bruce Ladebu's team has saved hundreds over the past 20 years. Extensive physical and mental rehabilitation in the aftermath is often necessary for these survivors to cope with the trauma they've endured.

Children's Rescue Initiative is Bruce's organization that provides funding for a variety of programs that help to rescue children from trafficking and slavery, provide them with shelter and care, and help them reintegrate into society.

Donating cash is just one way to help — people can also volunteer their time to organizations like Children's Rescue Initiative that are working to combat human trafficking and slavery. There are a number of ways to volunteer, such as working in a shelter, providing legal assistance, or advocating for policy changes.

And much more...

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975: Cal Newport | Reclaiming Time and Focus with Slow Productivity

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How can we achieve work/life balance when we're always so dang busy? Slow Productivity author Cal Newport helps us achieve without burning out here!

What We Discuss with Cal Newport:

Why we need to redefine what productivity means in an age of constant connection and unclear boundaries between work life and home life.

How the pandemic's remote work "solutions" exacerbated — on a societal level — an already simmering host of workload issues.

How committing to doing fewer things makes work more sustainable and increases its overall quality.

How to increase the volume of email you can process while minimizing the productivity-killing need to context switch.

Innovative work models that may be key to better balance and slow productivity in the near and distant future.

And much more...

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974: Emotional Support Animals | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 07 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are too many people abusing laws that allow service animals to accompany the legitimately disabled? Michael Regilio walks us through this Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

If you've noticed a proliferation of people threatening legal repurcussions if they aren't allowed to go absolutely everywhere with their emotional support animals, you're not alone. They're just hoping you don't know the difference between emotional support animals and service animals.

Service animals are trained to perform specific tasks for people with disabilities and are legally protected by the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), while emotional support animals provide comfort to their owners but do not have the same level of training — and are not covered by the ADA.

There are some legal allowances for emotional support animals, but they vary depending on the state.

Those who abuse the system by insisting their emotional support animals be allowed to accompany them everywhere undermine people who legitimately rely on their service animals to get around.

It's important to understand the difference between these two types of animals so we can provide appropriate care and support to both animals and their handlers (and call out the fakers who ruin it for everyone).

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973: Kid's Not Possessed, She Just Needs a Safe Nest | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your alcoholic sister's in an abusive relationship, and you worry your nieces are in danger. What can you do? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your alcoholic sister's in an abusive relationship, and you worry your nieces are in danger. What can you do?

Taking over from a clueless old boss can be challenging. How can you forge ahead without tinging new business relationships with his old-boss smell?

“Your dad gave me an STD! Wanna share a toilet?”

Your immigrant parents seem to have your best interests in mind. It's a shame they're so racist.

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972: Mustafa Suleyman | The Coming Wave of Artificial Intelligence

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 Apr 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How has artificial intelligence (AI) become the 21st century's greatest dilemma? Microsoft AI CEO and The Coming Wave author Mustafa Suleyman weighs in!

What We Discuss with Mustafa Suleyman:

A deep dive into the evolution of AI and understanding how AI learns and predicts.

AI's potential impact on everything from everyday jobs to gaming to national security to solving global challenges.

The ethical considerations of allowing AI to replace humans in the workforce — particularly as it gets more sophisticated and more capable of taking on more complex tasks.

How AI will shape the course of the arms race between the superpowers.

The critical need for responsible innovation, international safety standards, and cooperative governance to harness AI's benefits while mitigating its threats.

And much more...

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971: Laughter is Life's Lubricant | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

A dinner party with friends was interrupted in one of the most embarrassing ways possible — and then it went viral. Welcome to April Fools' Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday (April Fools' Edition):

A dinner party with friends was interrupted in one of the most embarrassing ways possible — and then it went viral!

You could be upset about the all-day wardrobe malfunction nobody bothered to tell you about, or you could choose funny.

Remember that time you ended up in jail and they took your offhand joke about wishing you were dead way too seriously? That escalated quickly.

So you think you can avoid your ex's family with diligent planning around all possible social events? Try that in a small town.

The Old Man and the Ski is something Ernest Hemingway never wrote.

I hear she got wet in the company of a grateful stranger. That's why the lady is a tramp.

The chances of Gabe bombing a job interview while succumbing to a puzzling medical condition? Exactly one in a vermillion.

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970: Annie Jacobsen | The Nuts and Bolts of Nuclear Annihilation

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 28 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Are you afraid of the possibility of nuclear war? Chances are good you're not scared enough. Journalist Annie Jacobsen is here to change all that!

What We Discuss with Annie Jacobsen:

What checks and balances keep us safe from nuclear attacks — and prevent such attacks from being initiated accidentally?

Why nuclear war preparedness and response plans are woefully inadequate under even the mildest potential scenarios.

The mechanics and strategies of nuclear warfare and the fantasy of space-based defense systems.

The terrifying concept of nuclear EMPs and their consequences.

The chilling reality of nuclear winter and its aftermath on those unlucky enough to survive the first blasts.

And much more...

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969: Scott Walker | Persuasion Tactics of a Hostage Negotiator

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 26 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

If you want to understand communication, emotional regulation, and bargaining under pressure, join us here with former hostage negotiator Scott Walker!

What We Discuss with Scott Walker:

The role of trust in successful negotiations.

How emotional intelligence plays into hostage negotiations.

The minimalist toolkit of a hostage negotiator.

Navigating legal and ethical boundaries in negotiations.

The perils of fame in kidnapping situations, and the importance of ransom discipline and social media caution.

And much more...

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968: Bottled Water | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 24 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Does the $200 billion bottled water industry provide a superior product to what comes out of your tap? Andrew Gold investigates on this Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Is the bottled water industry a $200 billion sham?

Fluoride in water: myths and facts.

Bottled vs. tap, and purified vs. filtered: quality, safety, and environmental impact.

The benefits of spring water over other types.

The dangers of drinking too much water.

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967: Dad's Years of Abuse Have Come Home to Roost | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 22 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Now in his 80s, the abusive dad who made your life Hell is experiencing domestic violence at the hands of his younger wife. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Are you making the right decision, or are you making the decision right?

Now in his twilight years, the abusive dad who made your life Hell is experiencing domestic violence at the hands of his younger wife — though he would never admit to being victimized by a woman. What should you do?

You're great at actively listening and asking questions to keep a conversation rolling — until the focus turns to you. How do you develop confident storytelling skills that keep an audience engaged in what you have to say?

How do you manage your infatuation with multiple partners during the devil-may-care, badminton-driven casual dating phase you're going through?

Despite trying to resolve numerous points of family drama by doing the right thing, you have regrets that maybe you didn't do the right thing even better. As we review the circumstances, might you consider giving yourself a damn break?

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966: Patrick Winn | Wa State: When a Drug Cartel Becomes a Country

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 19 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How has a drug cartel operating as its own country thwarted hostile actions by its neighbors and the CIA? Narcotopia author Patrick Winn is here to explain!

What We Discuss with Patrick Winn:

Burma vs. Myanmar.

The CIA's role in Wa State's formation.

How Wa State went from a poppy-harvesting cartel to a self-sufficient, defense-capable narco nation.

The evolution of Wa State's drug branding and distribution that outsells Starbucks and McDonald's.

The future of Wa State and its potential global impact.

And much more...

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965: Seeking Repentance for Unfair Life Sentence | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 15 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

Your friend is legally chained to a life of debt for something he did in his youth. Is there an ethical way to ease his burden? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your friend is legally chained to a life of debt for killing one person and disabling another when he fell asleep behind the wheel in his youth. While everyone agrees he should be held accountable, it seems cruel and unusual that his only hope for relief is death. Is there an ethical way to ease his burden? [Thanks to bankruptcy attorney Erin Hoskins for helping us with this one!]

On your big wedding day, how should you navigate the friction that's liable to happen between your trans brother, the other two members of his throuple, and your conservative family who doesn't get (or wants to get) how any of this works?

How do you tell your MS-diagnosed and newly unemployed roommate and his ever-present (but non-rent-paying) girlfriend to either find a new place, move back home, or start contributing more to household cleaning and maintenance?

Should you share unsupervised custody with your toxic, out-of-control, cheating ex who has exhibited countless episodes of poor judgment and domestic violence with the woman he left you for? Or should you trust your instincts and keep things the way they are?

Do we recommend any networking conferences that might help an ambitious 25-year-old learn more about himself, gain valuable experiences, and add perspective to his life?

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964: Miles Johnson | The Secret World of International Crime

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 14 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How do globally organized criminals stay two steps ahead of the law? Chasing Shadows author Miles Johnson takes us into the underworld for answers!

What We Discuss with Miles Johnson:

The global impact of drug trafficking and sanctions busting.

How the DEA internationally operates more like the CIA than the FBI.

The Syrian conflict: a tangled web of alliances and interests.

Innovative low-tech money laundering schemes and the shadow economy.

The evolution of criminal networks and the role technology plays in their prosperity.

And much more...

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963: Charles Duhigg | Unlocking the Secret Language of Connection

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 12 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PDT

How can we build rapport and optimize our connection with others? Supercommunicators author Charles Duhigg brings us the practical steps here!

What We Discuss with Charles Duhigg:

The three categories of conversation: practical, emotional, and social.

The biological underpinnings of communication — such as neural entrainment — that make humans unique.

How to become a better active listener through looping — ask a question, repeat back what you just heard the person say in your own words, and ask if you got it right.

The difference between matching and mimicry in communication — and which one will serve you better.

Understanding and overcoming stereotype threat.

And much more...

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962: Timeshares | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 10 Mar 2024 00:00:00 PST

Are timeshares ever not a scam? Kevin Rapp joins us for Skeptical Sunday to delve into their pros and cons without the high-pressure sales gauntlet!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The hidden costs of timeshares.

The unconsidered benefits of timeshares.

The unexpected demographics of today's timeshare owners.

The trials and tribulations you'll probably face if you try to exit your timeshare investment.

Weighing the pros and cons — and reading the fine print — to decide if a timeshare might be right for you.

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961: Dark Prognosis of Friend's Postpartum Psychosis | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 08 Mar 2024 01:00:00 PST

Postpartum psychosis is a serious disorder that can make mothers kill their children. So why aren't we talking more about it? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

In the wise words of James Clear (and Adam Smith, probably): "Don't spend what you haven't earned."

A friend you've known for years killed her baby under the influence of a disorder called postpartum psychosis. The media is having a field day reporting her as a murderous monster, but why isn't it taking the opportunity to raise awareness of this condition so others can avoid repeating the nightmare she and her family are experiencing?

You're torn between the desire to maintain the happiness you have with your current partner and the longing for love with someone else who seems unattainable. How can you reconcile these conflicting emotions without hurting anyone?

Is there truth to the idea that your teen niece's father is "the kind of person" who might sexually assault her, or is your conspiracy-minded sister just paranoid about her ex having visitation rights? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

How can you focus on networking and being authentic on a professional level when your Fortune 10 employer has you signing non-disclosure agreements that keep you from mentioning the nature of your work or even the name of your company?

Hey! We've got an update from the listener whose psychiatrist was hitting on her on episode 931!

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960: Amir Levine | Finding and Keeping Love with Attachment Science

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 05 Mar 2024 01:00:00 PST

What are attachment styles, and how can we understand them to find and keep love? Attached author Amir Levine is here to share what the science has to say!

What We Discuss with Amir Levine:

The four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and anxious-avoidant.

The influence genetics, environment, and upbringing have on these attachment styles.

How people tend to handle relationships based on their attachment style.

How the development of attachment styles has evolved over time.

What the dependency paradox is and how we can navigate it per our attachment style.

And much more...

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959: Freedom Hopes Dashed If They Find His Gun Stash | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 01:00:00 PST

Your tax-evading husband was lucky enough to dodge prison, but the discovery of his secret gun stash could change that. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

At trial, your tax-evading husband was lucky enough to dodge prison for the sake of his family, but the discovery of his secret gun stash (which you uncovered by mistake) could change that. What should you do now that you know about it? [Thanks — again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

Narcolepsy hasn't prevented you from achieving superior performance ratings while working from home, but now your job is pushing for a return to the office. How can you best make the case for a medical exception to maintain a win/win status quo? [Thanks to HR professional Joanna Tate for helping us with this one!]

Your borderline personality disorder-suffering stepdaughter's enabling father — your partner — has made it clear he'll always prioritize her needs over yours. Unfortunately, he doesn't want to put in the work to get her the treatment she needs to become someone you feel safe around — or have around your baby. What's your best move?

A colleague you once considered creatively combustive has become, at the helm, a toxic and tiresome lodestone to your organization. Should you join a coup to usurp his deteriorating grasp on the company's reins before all is lost, or give him a heads up that his leadership is in shambles?

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958: Alison Young | Lab Leaks, Pandemics, and a World at Risk

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 29 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

Did the COVID-19 pandemic start with a lab leak? Pandora's Gamble author Alison Young is here to crunch the numbers without entertaining conspiracies!

What We Discuss with Alison Young:

How often disease research lab leaks really occur.

Why even the world's best-run labs are susceptible to safety breaches.

The prevalence of disinformation campaigns to cover up, obscure, or misdirect lab leak blame.

What gain-of-function research is and why it's so controversial.

What we do and don't know about the possibility of the COVID-19 pandemic being the result of a lab leak in Wuhan, China.

And much more...

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957: Arthur Brooks | The Art and Science of Getting Happier

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

If happiness is a direction rather than a destination, how can we ensure we're enjoying the ride? Build the Life You Want co-author Arthur Brooks guides us!

What We Discuss with Arthur Brooks:

Understanding happiness as a direction rather than a destination.

The dangers of victim mentality and culture wars.

The pitfalls of betting on others to change.

Fluid vs. crystallized intelligence.

How we can nurture our emotional intelligence and shift focus from achievement-based self-objectification to self-awareness.

And much more...

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956: Cannabis | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 25 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

What are the social, political, and medical ramifications of cannabis use? Michael Regilio is the Chong to Jordan's Cheech on this Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The historical use of cannabis in the Middle Ages and colonial times.

The criminalization of cannabis in the 20th century and the slow reversal of its prohibition.

The effects of THC and CBD.

Why modern cannabis is so much more potent than the strains our parents used to sneak.

The benefits of legal cannabis.

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955: Romance Twister: My Mister Once Dated My Sister | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

How do you get over the icky discovery that your boyfriend briefly dated your sister before she kicked him to the curb? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you get over the icky discovery that your boyfriend briefly dated your sister a couple of years ago before she kicked him to the curb for character flaws he seems to have developed past?

You don't regret cutting off ties with the drug-addicted mother who traumatized you your entire life, but how can you help your teenage siblings who are currently subjected to her abuse without backtracking into the darkness yourself?

It turns out you don't really love the field for which your degree prepared you, nor the company you've been with for the past four years. How can you get a fresh start in another career without beginning back at square one?

Is there a socially acceptable way to intervene when you overhear an MLM scammer trying to recruit a stranger into their diabolical web of nonsense?

How do you get your employers to see you as indispensable while cultivating the resilience to persevere even if you do get laid off?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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954: Dr. Ramani | Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

How can you identify and heal from the narcissistic people who inflict themselves upon your life? It's Not You author Dr. Ramani Durvasula rejoins us to find out!

What We Discuss with Dr. Ramani Durvasula:

The impact of narcissism on relationships.

The narcissist's perception of themselves and others.

The influence of status and social media on narcissism.

The struggles of dealing with a narcissist.

The role of culture in narcissistic behavior.

And much more...

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953: We Did the Math — Our Colleague's a Sociopath | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

Finding out your colleague's a legitimate sociopath who preys on the sympathy of others is bad enough, but he's also a doctor. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Finding out your colleague's a legitimate sociopath, drunk, and drug addict who preys on the sympathy of others is bad enough — but he also happens to be a doctor who controls the fate of countless lives. Now that this has been uncovered, what happens next?

Caring for your criminally violent nine-year-old adopted brother puts your aging parents in danger. Is there a compromise that would ensure their safety without abandoning him to the foster system that failed him? [Thanks to licensed marriage and family therapist Nancy Yen for helping us with this one!]

A legal battle with a contentious, antagonistic coworker exacerbates your struggles with PTSD and anxiety. Quitting your job over this seems like the only way to stop sharing uncomfortable space with this guy, but what are your options?

Though it's contributed to a more positive overall attitude that's improved your life significantly and helped you kick alcohol, you worry that vaping small doses of synthetic, legal cannabis derivative HHC has you hooked. Does the good outweigh the bad here, or is your concern warranted? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us with this one!]

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952: Adam Grant | The Science of Tapping Into Your Hidden Potential

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 15 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

When we lack a sense of natural talent, how can we unlock our ability to excel? Find out on this episode with Hidden Potential author Adam Grant!

What We Discuss with Adam Grant:

When you're going through the repetitive steps necessary to learn a new skill, how can you turn the daily grind into a source of daily joy?

Why learning from an expert mentor is not necessarily the best path to success.

What are character skills, and why are they more important than cognitive skills or talent when it comes to succeeding?

How did a pair of hyperpolyglots go from repeatedly failing to retain languages to speaking dozens fluently?

Why we should seek advice we can act upon rather than feedback that only identifies our cheerleaders and critics.

And much more...

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951: Anna Lembke | Finding Dopamine Balance in the Age of Indulgence

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

Dopamine Nation author Anna Lembke helps us understand why it's difficult to resist the temptations of a world designed to exploit our pursuit of pleasure.

What We Discuss with Anna Lembke:

The neuroscience of addiction and the role dopamine plays in keeping us hooked.

How modern society's unrestricted indulgence in pleasurable substances and behaviors can lead to addictive tendencies and the gratification of constant dopamine release.

The pros and cons of using psychedelics.

The impact of resource scarcity on instant gratification.

The need to address underlying conditions for effective addiction treatment.

And much more...

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950: Emergency Medical Services | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

Why is relying on Emergency Medical Services (EMS) liable to send your bank balance to the morgue? Michael Regilio joins us on Skeptical Sunday to find out!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Unlike police and fire departments, emergency medical services (EMS) are not deemed essential across most of the US — which means they're often underfunded and struggling to provide adequate care.

Insurance policies commonly omit coverage for EMS-provided ambulance rides, making them cost-prohibitive for the people who often need them the most.

Even the EMTs who staff EMS outfits are underpaid and can't usually afford to make use of them without going into the red.

Who profits from the status quo of the broken EMS system, and why is it so hard to enact the reforms necessary to have providers declared essential?

What can we do to educate and advocate for the overhauls necessary to make EMS viable for everyone?

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with Michael Regilio at his website, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube, and make sure to check out the Michael Regilio Plagues Well With Others podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts!

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949: Justice in the Mix for Pervert-in-Law from 796 | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 09 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

The blackmail victim from episode 796 reports that the brother-in-law who wronged her is now in custody and awaiting justice. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The blackmail victim from episode 796 reports that the brother-in-law who wronged her is now in custody and awaiting justice. What happens next? [Thanks — again — to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

When loved ones won't take the meds they need to function (at the expense of their family), what can you do?

After listening to episode 807 with Siddharth Kara, where can you send used, rechargeable lithium-ion batteries to be recycled?

Horrible mom lives her life like it's prom. How do you get her to wake up to reality? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

When it comes to conspiracy theories, how do you tell the difference between the possible and the impossible?

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948: Kashmir Hill | Is Privacy Dead in the Age of Facial Recognition?

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 06 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

Are the benefits of facial recognition technology worth their societal cost? Your Face Belongs to Us author Kashmir Hill weighs the pros and cons here!

What We Discuss with Kashmir Hill:

What is facial recognition technology, and how does it work?

What are the positive use cases for facial recognition technology?

How accurate is facial recognition technology, and what happens when it confidently misidentifies someone (or is used unethically by those with access to the keys)?

Who is pushing for the proliferation of facial recognition technology, and what do they stand to gain from it?

Is there a middle ground between the outright banning of facial recognition technology and completely allowing it to keep tabs on us in a world where privacy is a quaint relic of a bygone era?

And much more...

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947: Getting Back on Track After Cyberbully's Attack | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Feb 2024 01:00:00 PST

How do you get your life back on track after it was disrupted so thoroughly by a cyberbully's campaign to ruin your reputation? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Motion feels like progress. Action is progress.

How do you get your life back on track after it was disrupted so thoroughly by a cyberbully's campaign to ruin your reputation?

What can you do to help your fallen-behind friend excel when it seems like he doesn't want to take the first steps toward helping himself?

You send your two brothers and their kids gifts each year for Christmas, but they don't want to exchange even rudimentary gifts with you. Is it unreasonable to experience inexplicably intense feelings about this?

How do you address the feelings of guilt, cynicism, and responsibility that accompany your work monitoring sex offenders and ensuring they don't re-offend?

Jordan got kidnapped twice so you don't have to! A listener shares how listening to this show saved his family from almost getting abducted in a land far from home.

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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946: Michael McQueen | Mastering the Art of Changing Minds

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

Is polite persuasion impossible among the presently polarized populace? Mindstuck: Mastering the Art of Changing Minds author Michael McQueen has answers!

What We Discuss with Michael McQueen:

Despite technological advances that have changed how we communicate, the psychology that dictates our persuasion, decision-making, and thinking remains the same.

The effects of rationalizing our existing beliefs and the power of our expectations and perceptions.

The importance of not defining ourselves by our opinions.

Practical persuasion techniques such as priming and the power of sequence, as well as the effectiveness — and associated dangers — of using fear as a persuasive tool.

How an understanding of these concepts can improve our ability to communicate and persuade — even when society seems hopelessly polarized (and doubly so during an election year).

And much more...

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945: Estranged from Son for What His Sister's Done | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

The ex-wife turned your son against you because you called the cops when her daughter was caught on camera stealing from you. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The ex-wife manipulated your son against you because you called the cops when her daughter was caught on camera stealing from you. Now he refuses to talk to you. What can you do?

Is there a way to accept the job offer two states over that pays $60,000 more than you were making while sharing custody of your 16-year-old daughter who graduates in 18 months?

Ever since you were young, networking and building relationships have made you uncomfortable, and you've always felt like you're inconveniencing people by contacting them. You think it may have to do with time spent around a volatile, negative sister during your formative years. How can you overcome this?

Dr. Carl Hart claims that drugs like heroin, crack cocaine, and crystal meth can, when used responsibly, enhance a person's life in a variety of ways, such as helping married couples become closer. Well, in spite of losing your mother to heroin six years ago, you thought you might benefit from giving it a try — to disastrous results. While you're currently in recovery, you wanted to share your story with others to spare them from making the same mistake based on this "expert's" advice.

Working at a large company, you're sick of watching so many others around you get promoted while you continue to languish in the middle ranks. And ever since failing to pass a grueling interview gauntlet for a leadership position, your morale has been drained. How can you heal this emotional wound?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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944: Zach Weinersmith | Out-of-This-World Hurdles to Colonizing Mars

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

What hurdles must humanity face before it can inhabit the final frontier? A City on Mars co-author Zach Weinersmith is here to ground us with the facts.

What We Discuss with Zach Weinersmith:

How tethered to reality are Elon Musk's grand plans for the human colonization of Mars? Shouldn't we focus on ensuring the sustainability of our current world before investing in centuries-long efforts to squeeze life out of a dead planet?

With current technology, how well can human bodies be protected against prolonged exposure to radiation, extreme temperature fluctuation, and lesser gravity on the Red Planet and the Lunar surface?

The economics of farming, mining, and extracting resources in space.

The political, legal, and ethical considerations of space colonization.

If now's not the most prudent time to hurl our species into the cold, uncaring void, then when?

And much more...

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943: Still Loves His Bride But Seeks Sex on the Side | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

You love your wife, but a surgical mishap makes sex painful for her. Is there an ethical way to have your needs met elsewhere? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Have some good stories about your most embarrassing moments that you wouldn't mind us featuring on a future Feedback Friday? Please share with us at friday@jordanharbinger.com (and we'll share some of our own as well)!

You love your wife, but a surgical mishap makes sex too painful for her. She once joked that maybe you should find a girlfriend to help you in that department, so you did — and it didn't go over as well as you might have hoped. Is there an ethical way to have your needs met elsewhere?

An addendum to the statute of limitations in your state has you considering taking legal action against your father — who abused you when you were still a child. Would it be worth the time, energy, and money to do so at this point? [Once again, thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer another difficult one!]

You're financially reliant on your judgmental mother who has withdrawn her support in the past when she felt your values didn't align with hers. How can you get out from under her thumb in what's thus far proven to be a brutally barren job market for your particular set of skills?

As a "nice" boss, how can you cultivate the ability to share feedback with your employees that will foster their growth as professionals without feeling like you're nitpicking at their imperfections?

You're no stranger to the indispensable power of therapy, but you've found yourself making excuses to avoid it ever since the death of a close friend last year hit you hard. What can you do to stop procrastinating and get the professional help you need? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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942: Ken Adams | The Confusing Dynamics of Covert Incest

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

How does emotional enmeshment (aka covert incest) with a parent shape our mental health and relationships? Dr. Ken Adams is here to help us understand.

What We Discuss with Dr. Ken Adams:

What enmeshment is, and how it entwines family members in an emotionally unhealthy way.

How enmeshment dictates the course of future relationships.

The connection between enmeshment and abuse.

The underlying causes for enmeshment to take hold.

How to spot enmeshment and begin the process of healing from its repercussions.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/942

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941: Yearning for Abusive Ex Leaves You Perplexed | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

It would be wise to avoid your domestically violent ex and her creepy, extorting family, so why do you want her back so much? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

It would be wise to avoid your domestically violent ex and her creepy, extorting family, so why do you want her back so much?

You worked hard to 10x your income and upgrade life for you and your family, but your wife and kids disrespect and destroy whatever nice things you try to buy for them. What can you do?

To diversify and expand your network, you're wondering if contacting a current or past professional client outside of the work setting is okay. If so, what boundaries should be observed?

A listener thinks we may have been unfair in our assessment of the abusive ex from the lead story in episode 926. We respond — and explain how we weigh the narrative of any story that's shared with us!

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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940: Byron Reese | Humanity's Mysterious Journey from Antiquity to AI

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

How coded into our DNA are the universal innovations that have driven human history globally? Futurist Byron Reese shares what he's uncovered here!

What We Discuss with Byron Reese:

Why innovations that increase productivity are always good for humans — because they won't steal and devalue our jobs, but create more than we can fill.

Why did it only take humanity three generations to get from the Wright Brothers' first flight at Kitty Hawk to landing on the moon, but our ancestors endured 80,000 generations using the same stone tool without modification?

How much does civilization owe to the advent of language?

Why are ancient cave paintings found around the world so eerily similar — down to stenciled human hands with missing fingers?

What can we learn about our species and its intrinsic coding by studying the communication patterns of honeybees, ants, and other insects?

And much more...

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939: Teen Blackmailed in the Buff Has Suffered Enough | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Jan 2024 01:00:00 PST

The high school principal wants your girlfriend's nude photo for his 'investigation' into the hacker who got her to send it. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is it odd that the high school principal wants your girlfriend's nude photo for his 'investigation' into the blackmailing hacker who — posing as you — convinced her to send it? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for getting us out of yet another pickle!]

You spent four years getting a degree in a field that isn't hiring at the pay rate you're worth. Should you forge the path forward by starting your own business, continue working for peanuts, or just give up and go for a new degree?

Your wife doesn't buy your estranged father's attempts to make nice with your family — since his dire medical diagnosis — as anything more than a narcissistic compulsion to regain power in the relationship. Does she have a point, or has Dad really turned over a new leaf?

As an entrepreneurial woman building your successful business over the past 10 years, you find that clients seem to expect a level of personal involvement or interest above and beyond the service you're providing. How can you get them to respect your boundaries without sending them to the competition?

You don't mean to come off as a closed book when meeting new people, but you have trouble understanding when it's appropriate to share thoughts and details from your personal life or keep them to yourself. How can you strike the right balance?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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938: The Worst Part of Waking up Is Sis Is in a Cult | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

Your sister's life is dominated by a coffee kibbutz cult. What can you do to make her see the light and come back to reality? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your sister's life is dominated by a coffee kibbutz cult. What can you do to make her see the light and return to reality? [Thanks, again, to Corbin Payne for giving us some guidance with this one!]

As we close out 2023, we wanted to take a few minutes to look back at the year-in-doozies, talk about a few of the interesting themes that came up a lot, and just sit back and warm our hands on the collective dumpster fire you guys started in our inbox!

How do you intervene when you know your HIV-positive ex is sleeping around and not disclosing his status?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/938

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937: Oliver Stone | Nuclear Now

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 26 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

Nuclear Now director Oliver Stone joins us to advocate for nuclear power as a better alternative to wind, solar, and other green energy solutions.

What We Discuss with Oliver Stone:

The history of nuclear energy and the political factors that influence its usage.

Lessons learned from Fukushima, Chornobyl, and Three Mile Island.

How nuclear power compares to wind, solar, hydro, and other green energy alternatives.

The influence the fossil fuel industry wields over energy alternatives of any kind.

What a future fueled by safe, sustainable nuclear power might look like.

And much more...

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936: Family Can't Know About Sister's OnlyFans Show | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 22 Dec 2023 01:00:45 PST

The accidental discovery of your sister's OnlyFans show has you worried it's only a matter of time before the family finds out. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The accidental discovery of your sister's OnlyFans show has you worried it's only a matter of time before the family finds out. What can you do to keep this from erupting into a full-blown scandal?

When it threatens someone's employment, how can a false report to the understaffed, overwhelmed, and overworked Department of Child Services be contested? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us with another sticky situation!]

How can you gracefully leave a new job that makes you miserable without jeopardizing relationships with the friendly insiders who supported your hiring?

How can you tell if a ghostwriter — who offers to pen the story of your life for a flat, up-front fee — is legitimate?

How do you have the birds-and-the-bees talk with your kids when the message you want to convey differs from the "abstinence only" message their other parent favors?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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935: Ben Macintyre | Escaping from a Nazi Fortress Prison

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 21 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

Join us for adventure with Ben Macintyre, author of Prisoners of the Castle: An Epic Story of Survival and Escape from Colditz, the Nazis' Fortress Prison!

What We Discuss with Ben Macintyre:

How Germany's Colditz Castle — around in some form or another since 1046 — came to serve as a Nazi POW camp for high-ranking officers of the Western Allies during World War II.

How concentrating Allied officers who had previously escaped from other camps — or were deemed to be a high-security risk — into one place turned Colditz into a highly competitive "escape university."

Why the hodgepodge layout of Colditz (known as Oflag IV-C during the war) made it a terribly inefficient prison — from which more than 30 successful escape attempts were made between 1939 and 1945.

Plans for more than 300 escape attempts made over the years involved everything from clever disguises to hand-dug tunnels to a glider made from bedsteads, floorboards, cotton sheets, and porridge.

What happened to Colditz and its prisoners after the war?

And much more...

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934: Houthis in Yemen | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 19 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

Who are Yemen's Houthis, and what threat do they pose to us here in the West? Intelligence analyst Ryan McBeth brings us in from Out of the Loop.

Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them.

On This Episode of Out of the Loop, We Discuss:

Though the group from which they originate has been around for thousands of years, why are the Houthis in Yemen suddenly making headlines and drawing attention from the West?

How Iran benefits from (allegedly) arming the Houthis to fight a proxy war against Saudi Arabia's influence in the region.

Why Yemen is a crucial link in the global supply chain — and how it enriches whoever is able to control it.

Why the well-funded Saudi military has a difficult time keeping the Houthis in check.

Possible global consequences of the recent Houthi attacks on shipping in the Red Sea.

And much more!

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933: Are You Fine After Fire or a Trauma Denier? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

Are you really fine after a fire consumed your home and all you owned, or is there trauma you’re still taking time to process? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn’t already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let’s dive in!

On This Week’s Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How did the GiveDirectly campaign to raise money for two villages in Kenya go (introduced by Rory Stewart on episode 867)? We’d say pretty well, actually! — and you can still help transform the lives of people in poverty by giving directly. Through December 31st, all donations will be doubled until $250k in match funds pledged by 21 donors run out. This is a true match, so any unused match funds expire after midnight ET on New Year’s Eve.

Are you really fine after a fire consumed your home and all you owned, or is there trauma you’re still taking time to process?

In the aftermath of your breakup, you sought therapy to cope while your ex-fiancée took a more questionable series of approaches that involved accusing you of abuse. Despite residual negativity, you remain hopeful you might be able to mend your differences and rekindle the relationship. Is this just wishful thinking?

While you’d love to honor your late father’s memory by attaching his name to a sizeable donation you made to a charity in your close-knit town, you’re wondering if leaving it anonymous and remaining invisible might be the wiser choice.

Your addiction-struggling brother chose drugs over visiting your mother in the hospital when she was terminally ill, leaving you to make end-of-life decisions per her wishes. Now that she’s gone, he’s loudly proclaiming to anyone who will listen that you killed her. How should you handle this?

A listener shares how he’s translated some of our advice into real-world application.

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932: Mike Kelland | A Planetary Approach to Fixing the Climate Crisis

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 12 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

What novel scientific breakthroughs will bring us back from the brink of total climate catastrophe? Mike Kelland of Planetary Technologies explains here!

What We Discuss with Mike Kelland:

The regressive consequences of climate change denial (and why the climate crisis isn't a hoax no matter what your nutty uncle said throughout the entirety of Thanksgiving dinner).

The role carbon plays in climate change.

Current and projected methods of removing carbon from the environment.

How Ocean Alkalinity Enhancement (OAE) enables the ocean to safely capture excess atmospheric carbon while combating the effects of ocean acidification.

The role of companies in accelerating carbon removal.

And much more...

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931: Trust is Twisted by Thirsty Therapist Resisted | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 08 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

You distanced yourself from a randy shrink after his attempt at a psychia-tryst. How do you ensure he's not harming others? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You distanced yourself from a randy shrink after his attempt at a romantic psychia-tryst. Now how do you ensure sure he's not similarly betraying the trust of others? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Is it worth it to try to convince your half-batty, Zionist mother in Israel to come back to the States when she firmly doesn't want to — especially when you both would be somewhat miserable with each other?

Your girlfriend still lives with her emotionally abusive ex and their eight-year-old child, and she refuses your offer of financial assistance that would allow her to remove herself from this situation. Should you even be considering this a relationship?

Should you continue discouraging your artist boyfriend from getting involved with NFT promoters who want to "help" him sell his work? This blockchain thing's all a scam, right?

You're a teenager who's hardly hanging on after the loss of your father to alcoholism. You're a diagnosed autist floating between numbness and sheer sadness, but you don't trust therapy and there's no relief in sight. What can you do?

A reminder from our very own audio engineer Jason Sanderson, who recently suffered the loss of his own father: Reach out to the ones you love today! It could be an email, a letter, a text message, a phone call — whatever form of communication you choose, take a moment to tell the people you care about what they mean to you!

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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930: Morgan Housel | The Power of Preparation Over Prediction

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 07 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

If we can't predict the future, how can we prepare for a future in which we'll thrive? We consult Same As Ever author Morgan Housel for answers!

What We Discuss with Morgan Housel:

Why the best investment lessons won't be found in a finance textbook — they'll be found by understanding human behavior.

Changes are exciting and novel, but most human behavior patterns are consistent over generations.

The importance of preparedness over prediction.

Why Morgan believes the first rule of happiness is low expectations.

The dangers of lifestyle creep and comparison (and the early epiphany that broke Morgan free from playing this losing game).

And much more...

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929: David Eagleman | Exploring the Brain's Inner Cosmos

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 05 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

What unknown frontiers reside inside the human brain? Dr. David Eagleman, host of the original iHeart podcast Inner Cosmos, helps us chart a course here!

What We Discuss with David Eagleman:

The reason we might view particularly intense situations in slow motion.

The phenomenon of synesthesia: why some people hear colors and taste sounds.

How close we are to being able to add new senses to our brains and bodies.

The new hope neuroscience technology gives to people affected by spinal cord injuries.

Why blind people often excel as musicians.

And much more...

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928: Whisper or Withhold Stepson's Paternity Untold? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Dec 2023 01:00:00 PST

Your stepson doesn't know your late husband wasn't his real father. Is it your place to clue him in against his mother's wishes? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your adult stepson doesn't know your late husband wasn't his biological father. Is it your place to clue him in against his mother's wishes? [Thanks to licensed marriage and family therapist Nancy Yen for helping us with this one!]

You're deeply in love with someone who professes the same toward you, but a prior history of abuse makes her skittish about intimacy. How do you support her through these times while protecting yourself from being hurt every time she pushes you away?

You and your cancer-battling wife are overjoyed to have a new child, but you sure could use a break from the incessant interference of your intense in-laws. How do you get them off your back and protect your family from their destructively overprotective tendencies?

Should you pursue an implied job with your wishy-washy in-laws, or take their poor communication skills as a sign that maybe you're better off without taking them on as co-workers?

Want clarification about how woolly mammoths might once again walk the earth? Here are some updates from our recent guest Ben Lamm!

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927: Miko Peled | Journey of an Israeli in Palestine

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

What's an anti-Zionist Israeli's take on current events? Miko Peled, author of The General's Son: Journey of an Israeli in Palestine, is here to share.

What We Discuss with Miko Peled:

How the patriotic son of a renowned Israeli general came to change his mind about the forces at play in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

The ongoing role of the US and the West in this conflict.

A detailed analysis of the October 7th incident from a pro-Palestinian pro-Palestinian (note: not pro-Hamas) point of view.

Debunking conspiracy theories and addressing bigotry.

What a peaceful future for the people of the region might look like.

And much more...

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926: Is Compassion Apt for Abusive Ex, Kneecapped? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

Your abusive ex was grievously injured by his now-new ex for cheating. Should you visit him in hospital or let him suffer alone? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your abusive ex was grievously injured by his now-new ex for cheating. Should you visit him in hospital or let him suffer alone?

Are "friends" who endlessly rib you for being single and omit you from the group chat they think you don't know about worth your time? They certainly aren't helping you feel less lonely.

You were conscripted to train the person who was hired for the job you covet, while your boss had the gall to tell you you haven't "suffered" enough to fill those shoes yet. How insulted should you be?

You've identified as a badass, hard-working nurse for so long that you don't know how to be a different kind of person in your new line of work. How do you find fulfillment on this new path?

Samantha Woll: Thankful to have known her. May her memory be a blessing.

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925: Mosab Hassan Yousef | The Green Prince of Hamas Redux

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 23 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

Enjoy this deluxe edition of our initial chat with 'Son of Hamas' author Mosab Hassan Yousef, featuring exclusive new insights into Israel's current events.

What We Discuss with Mosab Hassan Yousef:

What it was like growing up in one of the first families of Palestinian terrorist group Hamas -- and why Mosab considers it "the greatest school of [his] life."

The turning point when Mosab no longer saw Hamas as the "good" guys.

How Mosab dealt with the loneliness of working undercover for Israeli intelligence against his former friends and family.

What Mosab feels about the well-meaning but -- he believes to be misguided -- "free Palestine" movement.

What prompted Mosab to get out of undercover work and chronicle his story for others to read (and watch on television).

And much more...

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924: Chris DeArmitt | Rethinking Plastic's Environmental Impact

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

The Plastics Paradox author Chris DeArmitt joins us to separate fact from fiction around plastic's impact on our health and the environment.

What We Discuss with Chris DeArmitt:

Misconceptions about plastic degradation.

Misconceptions about endocrine-disrupting chemicals in plastics.

The energy efficiency of plastics.

The role of recycling in plastic waste management.

The future of plastics: biodegradability and compostability.

And much more...

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923: She's Losing Sleep Over a Dangerous Creep | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

A stalker who suffers from schizophrenia has your neighbor in fear for her life, and law enforcement can't do much about it. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A stalker who suffers from schizophrenia has your neighbor in constant fear for her life, and law enforcement can't (or won't) do much about it. How can you help her stay safe?

After enduring multiple incidents of wildly inappropriate commentary and behavior from faculty members and students over the past few years, you made the heart-wrenching decision to resign from your teaching position. In retrospect, you're wondering: were you forced out, or did you overreact? Do you have legal recourse? [Thanks to school district in-house counsel Neil Rombardo for helping us with this one!]

Your manipulative ex-wife made the weird choice to move in with the next-door neighbor after an acrimonious split, and it's really cramped the style of your new, otherwise healthy relationship. What gives, and what can you do to alleviate this awkwardly hostile situation?

As a high-achieving people-pleaser, you're looking for a boss who won't squeeze you for maximum work at minimum pay. Your search has attracted the attention of "coaches" who promise to help you secure better employment, but how can you separate the straight shooters from the shysters?

With so many podcasts, books, and other sources of information easily available these days, how do we sort through it all without getting overwhelmed?

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922: Mosab Hassan Yousef | Son of Hamas Founder Denounces Terror Group

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 16 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

Join us for insights from former Hamas member Mosab Hassan Yousef on the escalated Israel conflict and his perspectives on building a path to peace.

What We Discuss with Mosab Hassan Yousef:

What does Hamas hope to gain by escalating its conflict with Israel?

How does Hamas thrive on chaos at the expense of the people it claims to represent?

What would it take to build a viable Palestinian nation?

How would Mosab propose a ceasefire, and what does he see as non-negotiable demands?

What is likely to happen next?

And much more...

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921: Mitch Prinstein | The Perks and Perils of Popularity

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

Can we cultivate the likability that accompanies popularity without yielding to its status-seeking negatives? Popular author Mitch Prinstein weighs in!

What We Discuss with Mitch Prinstein:

How the role of popularity changes from childhood to adulthood.

How much does physical attractiveness influence our popularity (and what can we do to overcome its effects if we're not particularly gifted in the looks department)?

How popularity affects our hormonal and neural responses -- and even our DNA.

The dangers of seeking status.

How can we escape the popularity trap?

And much more...

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920: Would It Defeat Her to Know Husband's a Cheater? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

Should you alert a newlywed to the fact that her husband slept in your bed after neglecting to inform you he was even married? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A bit of good news to report: 30 victims of human trafficking were recently rescued by episode 833 guests Nathan Paul Southern and Lindsey Kennedy!

Should you alert a newlywed to the fact that her husband slept in your bed after neglecting to inform you he was even married?

Is it worth exiting your current relationship to give the BPD-afflicted ex with whom you're trauma-bonded another shot now that she claims to be getting the help she's always needed?

The relationship with your current husband began as an affair. Are you in the wrong for wanting to attend his adult son's wedding, even though the (perhaps rightfully) bitter ex will be in attendance?

For all of its pros, your "dream" job in space exploration is saddled with way more cons than you were expecting. You're aiming for a job that's out of this world, but should you settle for bringing your dreams back down to Earth for better work/life balance?

Is it overstepping boundaries to strongly hint to your sickly but stoic co-worker's adult kids that they should cherish every moment they can spend with him while they still can?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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919: Chris Miller | Chip War: The Battle for Semiconductor Supremacy

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

How high are the geopolitical and technological stakes in the international struggle for semiconductor supremacy? Chip War author Chris Miller chimes in!

What We Discuss with Chris Miller:

Semiconductors, commonly known as semis or chips, are essential components in thousands of products such as computers, smartphones, appliances, gaming hardware, medical equipment, and military technology.

How superconductors evolved to become so crucial to our modern infrastructure.

The intricacies of semiconductor manufacturing -- from their complex operation to the resources required to create them -- mean the countries that can produce the most advanced chips have a strategic advantage on the world stage. Taiwan is currently the leader in this field.

Why China, despite investing heavily in semiconductor technology, is always playing catch-up with the rapid pace of Western-influenced technological advancement -- and what underhanded steps it might take to slow this pace to its advantage.

What the recently passed CHIPS and Science Act will likely mean for semiconductor research and manufacturing jobs in the United States.

And much more...

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918: Tom Hardin | Tipper X: The Man Behind Wall Street's Biggest Sting

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 Nov 2023 01:00:00 PST

How did Tom Hardin go from insider trading to becoming Tipper X, one of the most prolific informants in securities fraud history? Join us as Tom tells all!

What We Discuss with Tom Hardin:

The factors that led Tom Hardin toward the temptation of illegal insider trading.

How the FBI caught Tom — even when he thought he was playing "smart" — and got him to become Tipper X, one of the most prolific informants in securities fraud history.

The art of wearing a wire, maintaining silence even among family and friends, and other struggles of an FBI informant.

How Tom's work helped bring insider trading to the forefront of public attention and led to increased enforcement efforts by the government.

What the public aftermath of cooperating with the FBI looks like — from risk of retaliation by former colleagues to social isolation, psychological distress, and legal ramifications.

And much more...

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917: Friendship Friction Due to Cocaine Addiction | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 Nov 2023 00:00:00 PDT

The reputation you've spent your professional life building is threatened by association with your cocaine-addicted friend. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You can't be envious of what someone else has without considering the unenviable parts of their story you'd prefer to avoid.

The reputation you've spent your professional life building is threatened by association with your cocaine-addicted friend. Which relationship is worth saving?

You seem to be condemned to a life of working for crappy bosses. What can you do to break this undesirable pattern?

You're 41 years old, and — for no reason that's ever been made clear — you've been estranged from your older sister and her family for about 15 years. How can you (and should you) seek reconnection?

You and your wife are good at conversing with strangers and close friends, but you find it challenging to talk to people you've only met a few times and remember details about their lives. How can you remember or tactfully re-ask questions about things you should already know?

What do you do when a troubled ex's suicide threatens the new love you're trying to cultivate?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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916: Jim Latrache | How a Drug Dealer Became an Agent in North Korea

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 31 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

How does a Danish ex-con wind up as a secret agent dealing arms in North Korea? Jim Latrache (aka Mr. James from The Mole) reveals all here!

What We Discuss with Jim Latrache:

What compels a poor Danish kid like Jim Latrache to join the French Foreign Legion, and was it everything he expected it to be?

How did Jim get wrapped up in the cocaine trafficking business, what rationalizations allowed him to carry on guilt-free, and what lessons did he learn along the way?

What put Jim's drug dealing empire in the crosshairs of the police, and how did he spend his 5.5-year prison sentence once the law caught up with him?

Why was Jim seen as an ideal candidate for gathering intelligence in North Korea despite being an obvious outsider, what dangers did he face once there, and how did his years of risk pay off?

As remarkable as Jim's story is, it shows how even the most unlikely people can make a difference in the world.

And much more...

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915: Mom's Crush on Star Has Gone Way Too Far | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 27 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

How do you get your mother-in-law to understand the celebrity crush she thinks she's dating probably doesn't know she exists? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you get your mother-in-law to understand the celebrity crush she thinks she's dating — because of correspondence with his interns or AI — probably doesn't even know she exists?

An inappropriate teacher-student relationship in the making led to your hardcore porn addiction, which causes you endless shame and interferes with your spiritual well-being. How can you get a handle on what's become a harmful habit? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us with this one!]

How can you overcome the self-esteem and confidence issues that have kept you passive your entire life now that you've got a healthcare job where snap decisions you make could mean life or death?

Your dad's such a narcissist that you worry more about what he thinks of you than what you think of him. Where can you find balance, here? [This segment is sponsored by BetterHelp. Big thanks to Haesue Jo, Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp!]

Being an open-minded, critical thinker means understanding both sides of an argument — not just nodding along when your biases are confirmed. If you're still listening after having your point of view challenged on a past episode, we thank you for playing along!

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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914: Ben Lamm | Resurrecting the Woolly Mammoth

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 24 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

After their tragic extinction, will woolly mammoths once again walk the world alongside humanity? Colossal's Ben Lamm is here to de-extinct our skepticism!

What We Discuss with Ben Lamm:

Colossal Biosciences is a company working to bring back animals that, for a variety of reasons, have disappeared from the world stage in a process it calls "de-extinction."

Colossal's current focus is inserting genes from the iconic woolly mammoth into Asian elephant embryos with the goal of creating hybrid elephant-mammoths that can survive the Arctic tundra.

Colossal believes these modified woolly mammoths could help restore the Arctic ecosystem and sequester carbon to reduce the rate of climate change.

Additionally, this research will help scientists learn more about — and more effectively treat — elephant endotheliotropic herpesvirus (EEHV), a disease among modern Asian elephant populations with a mortality rate of up to 85 percent.

Colossal is still in the early stages of development, but it hopes to have the first hybrid mammoths within a decade.

And much more...

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913: Trust Betrayed by Wife Who Strayed (2,300 Times) | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

2,300 messages discovered on your wife's old phone reveal her prolific infidelity that spanned years of your 24-year marriage. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

2,300 messages discovered on your wife's old phone reveal a pattern of prolific infidelity that spanned approximately 16 percent of your 24-year marriage. Does she deserve the second chance she's begging for?

As the least successful of two sisters, you know your mother already worries chronically about you. And since your brother-in-law died by suicide last year, you're hesitant to share that you also suffer from depression — but you don't want to keep her in the dark, either. What's the right way to handle this dilemma?

Described as "irreplaceable" by your employers, your workload equals or surpasses that of longer-tenured coworkers who make twice as much as you. How can you renegotiate your salary without coming off as entitled and greedy? [Thanks to The Connector’s Advantage author Michelle Tillis Lederman for her help with this one!]

Your dad lives remotely with a partner who's generally abusive toward him, with health problems that make it difficult for her to be left alone for long periods of time. This means she either comes with him when he visits (complaining the whole time and making everyone miserable), or she stays home and texts or calls incessantly to berate him the whole time. How can you help him work up the nerve to end this obviously unhappy relationship?

How do you get over the anger and confusion brought on by the ex who ghosted you with zero explanation after a year-long relationship — especially when his thirst-trap photos keep showing up in your dating app?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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912: Matthew Dunn | Iranian Hit Squads in the UK and US

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 19 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Why are Iranian hit squads operating in the UK and even the US? Former MI6 intelligence officer and spy novelist Matthew Dunn shares his inside info here!

What We Discuss with Matthew Dunn:

Iranian hit squads are operating in the UK, the US, and other Western nations, threatening to kidnap, torture, and kill Iranians living abroad who are critical of the current regime.

These hit squads are not expendable cannon fodder — they’re usually composed of former members of the Iranian security forces and intelligence services who are seriously trained to get the job done.

This is not a new phenomenon — these hit squads have been working since the ’80s. But how have they kept themselves largely out of the public eye, and why have they suddenly become more active than ever before?

We’ll examine the threat these hit squads pose to their targets and the general population, and scrutinize whether or not Western intelligence agencies are taking them seriously enough to counter their efforts.

What function does MI6 serve in the post-Cold War landscape, and how does someone get invited to become part of its team?

And much more…

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911: Esther Perel | Cheating, Argument, and Conflict

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 17 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Where should we begin examining our problems with relationships, cheating, conflict, and more? Legendary therapist Esther Perel talks us through it here!

What We Discuss with Esther Perel:

People who cheat don't necessarily want to leave their partner — they want to leave what they have become, or to get in touch with another part of themselves that they miss.

Is monogamy a state that mating humans evolved toward naturally, or is it more of a social construct imposed for the sake of control?

Most of us don't argue because we love conflict, but because we're trying to galvanize some kind of change that requires another person's participation. So how can we argue better for the sake of both parties?

What we can learn from conflict — especially with respect to creating connection.

As an expert in intimacy and human connection, where does Esther see us heading as a species when we can all have bespoke AI in our pocket that just exists to make us happy?

And much more...

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910: 90% of the Time, Parents Aren't Toxic Every Time | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 13 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

How do you and your sis endure life under your parents—who are "only" abusive 10% of the time—until you're old enough to leave? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you and your sister endure life under your parents — who are "only" abusive 10% of the time — until you're old enough to leave home? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Your long-term partner has been dropping hints about opening up your relationship, which only makes you feel like you're not good enough for him. Will insisting on maintaining monogamy just urge him to move on — and would that be the worst thing in the world if you each want something different from a relationship?

While you're flattered your company thinks enough of you to offer you your boss' job when he retires, you're content where you are and don't really want to be working 70-80 hours a week in your 50s. How can you tactfully turn down such an "opportunity" without appearing ungrateful?

You know all the other MLMs out there are scams that prey on people eager to "be their own boss" while draining their bank accounts by making them buy products they don't need and will never sell. But the one you belong to is totally different, right? Right?

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909: Israel and Hamas | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 12 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What brought long-term hostilities between Israel and Hamas to a boiling point, and what happens next? Ryan McBeth brings us in from Out of the Loop.

Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them.

On This Episode of Out of the Loop with Ryan McBeth, We Discuss:

Hamas, a Sunni Islamist group that seeks to establish an Islamic state in Palestine, launched a terrorist attack against Israel this week. Retaliation has been swift, but as many as 150 civilians (some of them American) are being held hostage.

By the time this episode is published, Israel's death toll from these attacks has hit 1,200. More than 1,100 people have died in Israeli air strikes on Gaza.

What started the feud between Israel and Hamas, how long these hostilities have been escalating, and what ignited the current round of atrocities.

Contrary to popular belief, Hamas doesn't represent the majority of Palestinians currently suffering under Israeli retaliation.

While it's impossible to predict how long this conflict will last, further escalation with the use of more destructive weaponry threatens both sides in a lose/lose war.

And much more!

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908: Tobias Rose-Stockwell | Dismantling the Outrage Machine

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 10 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Outrage Machine author Tobias Rose-Stockwell explains how social media fuels our negative emotions and disrupts society — and what we can do about it.

What We Discuss with Tobias Rose-Stockwell:

How social media inadvertently created what Tobias Rose-Stockwell calls an "outrage machine" that fuels our negative emotions and disrupts society.

Because it generates more attention (which translates into more money), negative news is more widely shared and discussed than good news, which makes it seem like the world is worse than it actually is.

The more information we produce and share online, the more powerful the algorithms and AI designed to keep us engaged — and outraged — become.

The longer people spend on social media, the more likely they are to be politically extreme — and elements on every inch of the political spectrum manipulate this to their advantage.

The steps we can take to guard against the outrage machine's control over our emotions and distortion of our reality.

And much more...

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907: Sis Lives to Excess, and Dad's Remembering Less | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 06 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Is your mean drunk sister really the best choice to care for your dad while he's going through the early stages of dementia? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

Is your mean drunk sister really the best choice to care for your dad while he's going through the early stages of dementia?

Can someone who was abused during involuntary commitment receive anonymous therapy to work through their trauma without the therapist knowing their identity or reporting them to the police if they disclose suicidal thoughts? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

How do you politely (and effectively) get it through your annoying ex-employee's skull that he no longer works for you and shouldn't show up to your wine bar six days a week?

How can you help your good-hearted but socially anxious and disheveled friend overcome their self-defeating behaviors and find romance?

A listener shares how our very own Jase's story in episode 881 helped them unload a long-time mental burden with the help of a good friend.

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906: Shane Parrish | Decoding Decisions Through Clear Thinking

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 05 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Learn how to optimize decision-making, gain competitive advantage, and live more intentionally through clear thinking with Farnam Street's Shane Parrish.

What We Discuss with Shane Parrish:

Clear thinking equips you to identify transformative moments and adjust your response in the critical space between stimulus and reaction.

Despite seeing ourselves as life's main characters, many of us operate on autopilot, guided by ingrained behavioral defaults shaped by biology, evolution, and culture.

In our lowest moments, we react without thought, often missing the chance to engage in reasoning. Conversely, at our best, we identify these moments and employ our full capacity for reasoning.

Your options are defined by your position in ordinary moments. A good position offers abundant and improved choices, while a bad one confines and diminishes options over time.

Learn how you can optimize decision-making, gain competitive advantage, and live a more intentional life through clear thinking.

And much more...

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905: A New Civil War in Sudan | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 03 Oct 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Who are the key players in Sudan's new civil war, and what's the "best" way this can play out? ICRC's Dr. Gasim Mohammed takes us behind the scenes!

Welcome to another one of our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them.

On This Episode of Out of the Loop:

Sudan is currently in a civil war between two factions of the military: the Sudanese Armed Forces (SAF) and the Rapid Support Forces (RSF).

The SAF is led by General Abdel Fattah al-Burhan, who led the military coup in 2021 that ousted the civilian government.

The RSF is led by General Mohamed Hamdan "Hemedti" Dagalo, who is wanted by the International Criminal Court for war crimes in Darfur.

This latest civil war in a nation accustomed to conflict has triggered a humanitarian crisis, leading to the displacement of millions who urgently require food and medical assistance.

As a fledgling democracy rich in resources but economically struggling, Sudan is a test case for whether democracy can take root in the Arab world. While the current civil war undermines this case, what's the best way this can play out for the people of Sudan — and the world? What can we do to help?

And much more!

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904: Ditching Bad Dad Would Make You So Glad | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

How do you overcome your abusive father's harassment and protect yourself from his unhinged, unwelcome intrusions in the future? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you overcome your abusive father's harassment and protect yourself from his unhinged, unwelcome intrusions in the future?

Should you endure the discomfort of working alongside a sleazy colleague who sleeps with every woman he can, or actively seek new employment despite being a few months away from your degree?

Should you step down as best man for kicking a disrespectful jerk of a guest out of your friend's bachelor party?

You assumed you and your significant other of six years would eventually marry, but since neither of you wants kids, you've been told there's no point in "getting the government involved" in your lives. Is it time for you to cut your losses and search for someone who is willing to make a real commitment?

If your feathers have been ruffled by something we've said on this show, is it possibly a sign they were in need of being ruffled?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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903: Dan Ariely | Why Rational People Believe Irrational Things

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 28 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What makes rational people believe irrational things? For that matter, how do we know we're the ones being rational? Misbelief author Dan Ariely explains!

What We Discuss with Dan Ariely:

Why some of our family and friends we once considered rational have succumbed to "misbelief" — they doubt widely confirmed facts and wholeheartedly buy into bizarre conspiracy theories that wouldn't pass muster in an elementary school science fair.

Why misbelief has a universal appeal to human beings on both sides of the political divide, and how understanding the psychology behind it helps us diminish its impact.

How misbelief campaigns are often ignited by people who operate in bad faith for power, fame, and money, but the majority of people who fall for their grift (and spread it) are victims who require empathy, not judgment, to break free.

Dan shares the psychological toll of receiving death threats from conspiracy theorists who believe he's part of some sinister global cabal intent on decimating the human population.

How cultivating resilience works as a "vaccine" — appropriately enough — to misbelief in ourselves and others.

And much more...

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902: Michael Easter | Rewiring Your Scarcity Brain in a World of Excess

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 26 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Tired of constantly craving what you don't have instead of being satisfied with what you do? Scarcity Brain author Michael Easter is here to help!

What We Discuss with Michael Easter:

What is the scarcity brain that helped humans evolve to run the planet, and how does it work against us in the context of the modern world?

How the scarcity loop operates like a "serial killer" of motivation to push us into repeat behaviors that can be fun in the short term, but have the potential to harm us in the long term.

What causes us to manufacture the scarcity loops that can ruin our lives with minimal prompting — and what can pigeons teach us about how the scarcity brain processes gambling?

How we can break these scarcity loops when they're so entrenched in every aspect of our behavior.

How scarcity loops can be gamed for positive benefit.

And much more...

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901: Lawns | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 24 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Your lawn may be your pride and joy, but is there an environmentally friendly alternative? Join us in the weeds with Michael Regilio on Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Lawns are a symbol of American culture, but they have significant environmental drawbacks — including water wastage, pesticide use, and habitat destruction.

The origins of lawns can be traced back to British aristocracy, who sought to emulate Italian landscape paintings with vast, manicured lawns around their mansions.

Lawns in the United States became more widespread after World War II, with suburban developments like Levittown contributing to their popularity.

Noise pollution and the emission of greenhouse gases from lawn care equipment are on the rise in a landscaping industry that pulls in over $100 billion per year.

Transitioning to alternatives like xeriscaping, native gardens, or even painting brown lawns green can reduce the environmental harm caused by traditional grass lawns.

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900: Is Three a Crowd When Parents Swing Out Loud? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 22 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Your openly swinging friends brought a third into their relationship, and you worry about how it's affecting their kids. Welcome to another Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're concerned about your friends' unconventional swinging throuple lifestyle and its potential impact on their children. How do you check in without seeming judgmental?

Pregnancy-related fatigue has you struggling to balance your professional and personal life, and the guilt of underachievement is bringing you down. What do you do when life gets in the way of your own expectations?

Your partner plans on ditching responsibility for his ballooning student debt because he's not optimistic he'll ever be able to pay off the predatory terms he agreed to when he was younger and ill-advised. While you morally agree with his stance, you wonder what your obligation would be if you remained together and it came time to merge accounts. [Thanks to certified financial planner David Gilmore for helping us with this one!]

You filled in for your manager during her eight-week vacation, built strong connections within the company, and gained the respect of your colleagues while stepping up to the role. Now that she's back, how can you use this valuable experience to prove you're ready for more responsibilities (and a bigger paycheck)? [Thanks to executive coach and From Start-Up to Grown-Up author Alisa Cohn for helping us field this one!]

Due to a previous marriage to an abusive alcoholic, your partner is intolerant of being around people who are even modestly intoxicated. How can you ask him for a little grace and freedom to celebrate your son's upcoming wedding without disrespecting his boundaries?

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899: Jennifer Cohen | Live the Life You Want, Not the Life You Get

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Bigger, Better, Bolder author Jennifer Cohen helps us develop the confidence to pursue the life we want instead of settling for the life we get.

What We Discuss with Jennifer Cohen:

Even the innately shy and introverted can develop a skill set of boldness to fearlessly pursue relationships, careers, and whatever bounties life has to offer.

Why boldness is more important than intelligence when it comes to taking advantage of opportunities that come your way.

How you can craft personal and professional connections without being schmoozy about it.

Even Beyoncé needs to adopt an alter ego to pull off her legendary, larger-than-life feats of performance — so imagine what miracles adopting your own alter ego can work for you.

How someone at rock bottom can still find ways to exercise gratitude and remain hopeful for better times ahead.

And much more...

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898: Forrest Galante | Seeking Unicorns and Resurrecting the Dodo

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 19 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Wildlife biologist Forrest Galante rejoins us to discuss rediscovering "lost" species and why we should resurrect the dodo, thylacine, and woolly mammoth.

What We Discuss with Forrest Galante:

What's Forrest been up to since his last visit to this show? Just milking venomous sea snakes and trying to find out why orcas are slaughtering great white sharks en masse.

Where are the world's biggest snakes found, and do they ever eat people?

What did Forrest find inside the world's largest cave — besides a variety of isolated ecosystems with their own weather systems?

Why following leads for unknown or thought-to-be-extinct species isn't tinfoil hat territory — and the clever ways Forrest and his team track them.

How likely is it that science will be used to resurrect extinct species like the woolly mammoth, dodo bird, and thylacine in the near future — and how does this ambitious goal fit into the conservation of existing ecosystems?

And much more...

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897: Is Friendship Defeated Because You Dry Cheated? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 15 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Should you throw in the friendship towel after a feckless frottage foul with someone's significant other? Can you make it right? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Should you throw in the friendship towel after a feckless frottage foul with someone's significant other, or can you make it right? Shrugging your shoulders and quipping, "At least it's a dry cheat" is probably not your best option.

As parents, you've been bearing the burden of your adult daughter's bad choices in education, employment, and financial responsibilities, but she hasn't always been so reckless. What's changed, and how can you help her regain her footing when she doesn't even seem to want to help herself?

You love to travel, but struggle to sleep away from your own bed due to persistent insomnia or hypersensitivity. You've experimented with all the common remedies to no avail, but what's left to try? [This segment is sponsored by BetterHelp. Big thanks to Haesue Jo, Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp!]

How do you gently nudge your 70-year-old parents away from offering body-shaming commentary that was more socially acceptable in their youth (and was instrumental in the negative way you felt about yourself in yours)?

Though life in your hometown is what many would consider idyllic, you can't shake the feeling that you've missed out on experiencing what it would be like to live elsewhere. How can you explore your options without upending the quality of life your family currently enjoys?

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896: Captain Max Hardberger | The Man Who Steals Ships from Pirates

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 14 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Recovering stolen ships from pirates in the world's most troubled waters is big business, and Captain Max Hardberger is here to steer us through it.

What We Learn in Conversation with Captain Max Hardberger:

Not all pirates are impoverished desperados with nothing to lose — the most vicious ones wear suits and hobnob with royalty.

The surprising places where ships are illegitimately seized by the rich and powerful who know how to play the game.

When ship owners can't recover their seized property through legal channels in corrupt courts, they turn to people like Captain Max Hardberger.

How Max determines if someone's claim to a seized ship is valid, or if they're trying to scam him into heisting somebody else's property.

The extreme "extraction" methods Max is prepared to employ when ships can't be reclaimed by mere paperwork.

And much more...

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895: Robert Waldinger | Unlocking the Science of Happiness

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What can an 85-year study tell us about the science of happiness, and how can we leverage this knowledge to live the good life? Robert Waldinger explains!

What We Discuss with Robert Waldinger:

How does the ongoing Harvard Study of Adult Development, initiated in 1938, shed light on the key elements of leading a happy and fulfilling life?

Relationships are the most important component of happiness — the good news is it's never too late to make new friends.

The touch of a good friend or a beloved pet can bring our stress levels down and reduce whatever pain we're experiencing at that moment.

20 years from now, the only people who will remember that you worked late are your kids.

Social media can be responsible for generating a lot of angst and FOMO, but it can also contribute to happiness if you use it for curated, positive communication with others.

And much more...

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894: Psychics and Tarot Cards | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 10 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Even if psychics and tarot cards can't give you reliable advice from the great beyond, what's the harm? Join us for Skeptical Sunday with David C. Smalley!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Why aren't psychics and tarot card readers prosecuted for fraud when they can't genuinely provide supernatural information to paying clients? Furthermore, why do they charge for their services if they could simply use their powers to win the lottery?

If psychics can't really tap into the other side for forbidden knowledge from beyond the grave, how do they seem to know so much about my dead uncle's final wishes?

Despite a thriving industry of self-proclaimed psychics claiming expertise in finding missing children and solving cold cases, investigative journalists (and normal people just paying attention) have proven their claims wrong more often than right.

What tarot cards are actually telling you.

It's easy to dismiss psychics as harmless fun and a way for people to cope with the loss of their loved ones, but sometimes they can emotionally (and financially) harm those who are vulnerable in their time of grief.

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893: Make Ex's Hard Life Nice without Self-Sacrifice? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 08 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Can you balance support for an unlucky but amicable ex with personal boundaries that keep you tethered to your own improvement? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Can you balance support for an unlucky but amicable ex with personal boundaries that keep you tethered to your own improvement?

As the rock upon which others find stability when they're pushed to their limits, official assistance for your coaching role is lacking. Is it time to organize?

Is the therapist advising you to stick with your philandering, narcissistic dentist of a husband because "you're not getting any younger, and that's just how dentists are" a quack?

Your hard work and seed investment allowed your wife to quit her 9-5 job to start her own business, which is thriving after a bumpy start. But now she's seen by your family and the community as the savvy entrepreneur and you're just the dude who "works on the computer all day." Is there a way to elevate yourself (and your withering ego) without diminishing your better half?

After being caught smuggling Bibles into China 20 years ago, you'd love to revisit the country. How can you find out if you're on some kind of list that might get you instantly arrested and disappeared by the totalitarian government when crossing the border?

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892: Tim Urban | What's Our Problem (And How Do We Solve It)?

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Wait But Why's Tim Urban helps us find ways to cope with the chaos of current events in his new book, What's Our Problem?: A Self-Help Book for Societies.

What We Discuss with Tim Urban:

Why we're so polarized and partisan in our political beliefs — seemingly more than ever before.

How low-rung thinking prevails on both sides of the political aisle (and what we can do to ascend to higher-rung thinking).

The perspective we can gain if we imagine the history of humanity as a 1,000-page book.

How the internet went from a unifying force of human connection to a division-sowing outrage generator.

Why we should strive to build our own "idea lab" instead of comfortably hunkering down in a tribally sponsored, anger-generating echo chamber.

And much more...

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891: Andrea Dunlop | Exposing Medical Child Abuse

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 05 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Women Are The Fiercest Creatures author and Nobody Should Believe Me podcast host Andrea Dunlop joins us to discuss the prevalence of medical child abuse.

What We Discuss with Andrea Dunlop:

Munchausen syndrome by proxy (aka factitious disorder imposed on another): a form of medical child abuse where parents or caregivers fake or exaggerate their child's health problems for personal gain.

How the widespread availability of medical information online, social media platforms, and crowdfunding has broadened the spectrum of people engaging in medical child abuse beyond professionals in the healthcare field.

What the long-term psychological toll looks like for children who survive such abuse and how they struggle to discern the truth as they grow older.

Why prosecution of medical child abuse cases is difficult when family courts may not thoroughly examine medical records and even accept a guilty parent or caregiver's word as fact.

How we can keep an eye out for signs of medical child abuse, and who we should contact if we suspect the worst.

And much more...

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890: Bioplastics | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 03 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

On this Skeptical Sunday, comedian Michael Regilio joins us to discuss the pros and cons of bioplastics and the importance of responsible plastic use.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Plastic pollution, especially single-use plastic, is a significant environmental issue, with 40 percent of all plastic produced being single-use plastic packaging.

Bioplastics, made from renewable sources like plants and algae, are seen as a potential solution to the plastic problem, but come with their own challenges.

Biodegradable and compostable plastics, often labeled as such, may not always live up to their claims and can end up in landfills, where they release harmful greenhouse gases.

Harvesting algae from excessive algal waterways and using it to create biodegradable products, like flip-flops and packaging materials, is a promising and eco-friendly approach.

To help address the plastic problem, individuals can reduce their single-use plastic consumption, properly recycle plastic materials, and support initiatives that promote sustainable alternatives like algae-based products and responsible waste disposal.

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889: Win Against Addiction Uncovers Old Afflictions | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Sep 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Guilt over stealing from your dad under the thrall of addiction also makes you ponder how his actions influenced your addiction. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Guilt over stealing from your dad under the thrall of addiction also makes you ponder how his actions influenced your addiction. How do you come to grips with your past to break the cycle of affliction (especially now that the cost of therapy surpasses your budget)?

Can you restore trust to a relationship once infidelity and lies are introduced? Perhaps it's more important to wonder: Should you even try?

Do you have legal recourse against a law firm that somehow leaked your personal information in an online data breach — although you never did business with them or gave them the info in the first place, and they refuse to answer your inquiries? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us with another sticky situation!]

After running the family dojo during your stepfather's cancer treatment and his subsequent surprise departure, he's returned, accusing you and your mother of theft while poaching clients for his own dojo. Do you sever ties, pay the six figures he claims he's owed, or intervene on behalf of his seemingly slipping mental health?

You joined your current company because of its values and mission to help people, but you've seen those values shift since the death of its founder. Now the financial bottom line always trumps morality. Is there a way for an organization to strike a balance between give and take? Or should you simply give up and become another cog in the machine?

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888: Marc Andreessen | Exploring the Power, Peril, and Potential of AI

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

AI advocate Marc Andreessen joins us to clear up misconceptions about AI and discuss its potential impact on job creation, creativity, and moral reasoning.

What We Discuss with Marc Andreessen:

Will AI create new jobs, take our old ones outright, or amplify our ability to perform them better?

What role will AI play in current and future US-China relations?

How might AI be used to shape (or manipulate) public opinion and the economy?

Does AI belong in creative industries, or does it challenge (and perhaps cheapen) what it means to be human?

How can we safeguard our future against the possibility that AI could get smart enough to remove humanity from the board entirely?

And much more...

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887: Andy Clark | How Our Minds Predict and Shape Reality

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 29 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

University of Sussex cognitive philosophy professor Andy Clark joins us to discuss how our brains experience and manipulate the reality that surrounds us.

What We Discuss with Andy Clark:

How your brain operates as a prediction machine that constructs an estimation of reality based on available data rather than relaying an entirely precise narrative of the outside world.

The problems that arise when the senses through which your brain gathers data don't always convey an accurate picture of reality.

What phantom vibration syndrome and auditory hallucinations may indicate about your brain's capacity for prediction.

How your brain fills in the gaps when sensory information is missing or incomplete.

Why placebos are often effective — even when you know they're placebos.

And much more...

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886: Flat Earthers | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 27 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Why do some insist Earth is flat despite thousands of years of evidence to the contrary? Dave Farina joins us for Skeptical Sunday to round up some answers!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Belief in a flat Earth rejects historical knowledge, distorts observations, denies gravity, and originates from a mix of misguided ideas and online interactions.

Flat Earth proponents misrepresent scale and ignore basic principles of grade school science in their arguments against a spherical Earth.

The origins of modern flat Earth belief are uncertain, possibly beginning life as a meme or a conspiracy theory and gaining traction among the gullible for the benefit of disinformation peddlers.

Debunkers have exposed flaws in flat Earth belief with easily observable facts, thankfully contributing to a recent decline in its popularity.

Flat Earth belief exemplifies the broader issue of science denial in modern society and reminds us to do our part to promote critical thinking.

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885: No Need to Be Chummy with a Grandad So Scummy | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Are you right to cut ties with your grandpa now that his sociopathic, incestuous, and pedophilic history has come to light? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Some people in your family disagree with your decision to cut ties with Grandpa now that his sociopathic, incestuous, and pedophilic history has come to light. What should you do? [Thanks to Maria Socolof and Brad Watts for helping us with another heavy one!]

Six months off weed during a manic period brought you artistic success and closeness to your wife and kids. Now, in a 'down' time, an urge to resume communion with the righteous herb has returned — much to the chagrin of your wife. Is it worth it?

Your father gave you and your siblings each $100,000 to use for investing in real estate. While you did use much of it to put a down payment on a house, you wasted about half self-soothing while dealing with a depressing, friendless work assignment in the middle of nowhere. Though you know your dad would be disappointed, should you come clean?

Management at your company has become toxic since a recent merger, and they want you to jump through the hoop of finishing your bachelor's degree to make an extra $10,000 in your current position. Unfortunately, a Multiple Sclerosis diagnosis has you worried you might not be up to the challenge. What's your best move?[Thanks to HR professional Joanna Tate for helping us with this one!]

Is there value in platforming divisive figures like RFK Jr. on this show?

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884: What We Can Learn from Envy | Deep Dive

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 24 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Join Jordan and Gabe for this deep dive into the lessons we can learn when we enlist envy as a teacher rather than a bitter reminder of what we don't have.

What We Discuss:

Merriam-Webster defines envy as "painful or resentful awareness of an advantage enjoyed by another joined with a desire to possess the same advantage."

Envy is rooted in evolutionary psychology as an aid to our survival, but modern life amplifies and distorts it into an overwhelming compulsion that can hurt more than help.

When envy crops up in our lives, it often contains two different desires within it: a desire for the thing we wish we had, and a desire to "beat" the person who has it.

Envy could be about wanting something we don’t have, or it could be about being someone we wish we were — or maybe it’s both, and wanting the thing is really just a clever way of trying to become the person who has it.

Envy can teach us about our genuine desires and goals, helping us focus on what truly matters to us. By practicing gratitude, distinguishing between sources and objects of envy, and acting on insights to overcome it, we can transform envy into a driving force for self-improvement and collaboration, shifting from "this joy is mine" to "this joy is ours."

And much more...

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883: Annie Ikpa | The Campaign to End Child Sacrifice

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 22 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Video editor Annie Ikpa explains how she galvanized a movement to ban child sacrifice in Uganda, and what's in store for the fight ahead.

What We Discuss with Annie Ikpa:

Why child sacrifice is so common in Uganda that Annie Ikpa had to spend seven years campaigning for a law against it.

Who hires the exploitative witch doctors who perform these sacrifices in the name of fortune or other earthly delights?

How children are selected for sacrifice because they're relatively easy to abduct, less likely to fight back, and are regarded by true believers as spiritually more "pure" than adults.

Why even a child who is "lucky" enough to survive a sacrifice is left mentally and physically traumatized — often with brutal scars across their bodies, missing limbs, and/or mutilated genitals.

What you can do to help raise awareness and put a stop to this barbarous practice that continues in spite of positive strides in preventative legislation.

And much more...

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882: Homeopathy | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 20 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Is homeopathy an effective alternative medicine or an unproven, unscientific sham? Comedian Michael Regilio joins us for Skeptical Sunday to find out!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Homeopathy is an alternative medicine with a long history, relying on the principle of "like cures like" and the idea that water has memory.

Despite lacking scientific proof, homeopathic products are widely marketed and sold, even though they're required to carry warnings of unproven efficacy.

Homeopathic practices have faced criticism, and DNA testing has even revealed mislabeled or diluted ingredients and dangerous products on the market.

Some people turn to homeopathy for stress relief and placebo effects, but many are unaware of its lack of scientific basis.

While there's pushback against homeopathy, it continues to thrive due to marketing, endorsements by celebrities, and regulatory gaps.

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881: Finding Your Angle in Covert Love Triangle | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 18 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

When the circle of trust between you, your best friend, and his girlfriend accidentally turns into a covert love triangle, it might be Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The circle of trust between you, your best friend, and his girlfriend has accidentally turned into a covert love triangle. Now what happens?

Your gaming group decided to officially ostracize its most annoying member, and you've wrestled with guilt and anxiety over the way it was done. Is there a way to smooth things over with him as a friend even if the group doesn't necessarily want to give him a second chance?

A man 11 years your senior abruptly ended a one-month long-distance relationship two days after you first became physically intimate, and all you can wonder is: why?

As a high school freshman with a small group of close friends, you're devastated to discover your best friend is moving away with his family to another state. How do you find and connect with new people? How do you create long-lasting relationships?

Sometimes, it's the biggest betrayals delivered by the people we thought we could trust most during our lowest point that set us on a course of radical self-improvement — provided we find the strength to survive them, as our very own Jase can testify.

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880: Ian Bremmer | Dealing with a World In Disarray

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 17 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

The Power of Crisis author Ian Bremmer rejoins us to assess the top threats facing our world today and the difficult choices they may force us to make.

What We Discuss with Ian Bremmer:

The effective unified Western response to Ukrainian invasion has transformed Russia from a would-be China into a massive Iran.

China's Xi Jinping has been concentrating his power — which will allow him to make bigger mistakes that affect billions of people even more quickly.

The unchecked proliferation of AI can move markets and effortlessly generate mountains of disinformation on social media to further the agendas of extremists.

The growing partisan polarization of the American electorate continues to erode the legitimacy of core federal institutions and the peaceful transfer of power through free and fair elections.

While the consequences of water scarcity will worsen, unprepared governments' ability to handle them seems unlikely to improve.

And much more...

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879: Kevin Dutton | Are You a Psychopath (And Is That So Terrible)?

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 15 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

The Wisdom of Psychopaths author Kevin Dutton rejoins us to discuss how we can tell if we're psychopaths and why it might not be such a bad thing.

What We Discuss with Kevin Dutton:

What's the difference between a psychopath and a sociopath?

Society focuses on the negative qualities of psychopathy. But what are the upsides?

What career niches do psychopaths tend toward (and which ones should they avoid)?

Can children be psychopaths?

How can you tell if you're a psychopath? (Take the two-minute quiz beginning at 14:39 and post your result and occupation on Twitter tagging @therealdrkev).

And much more...

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878: Body Language | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 13 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Can we accurately read someone's body language to gain access to their innermost thoughts? Andrew Gold joins us on this Skeptical Sunday to find out!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Body language research has found that indicators of deception may include eye movements, blinking, posture shifts, and word choice, but these cues can vary widely and require careful consideration.

Body language can be influenced by various factors, making it challenging to precisely interpret.

The use of body language by experts like the FBI involves observing consistent patterns in a suspect's behavior over time.

While body language offers insights, it is not foolproof, and understanding context and individual differences is crucial for accurate interpretation.

The case of Amanda Knox — exonerated after spending four years in Italian custody — highlights the dangers of relying solely on body language as evidence of guilt.

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877: Blame's All Mine — Her Personality's Borderline | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 11 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Can a happy life with your BPD-addled wife ever be possible if she won't take responsibility for the chaos she causes? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Can a happy life with your BPD-afflicted wife ever be possible if she won't take responsibility for the chaos she causes and seek help for a condition most doctors consider treatable?

Should you toe the union line, or scab your way to corporate prosperity?

How do you keep your mom from overstepping her power in the upcoming wedding?

Your time as a woman in the US Army should be a point of pride, not a boundary-breaking endeavor. What can you do?

Is it great that your boyfriend finds himself at home among your friend group, or should he get his own damned friends?

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876: Kelly Richmond Pope | How Fraud Became a Trillion-Dollar Industry

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Fool Me Once author Kelly Richmond Pope explains how fraud became a trillion-dollar industry and helps us avoid becoming its latest victims.

What We Discuss with Kelly Richmond Pope:

What types of people commit fraud, and what — beyond simple greed — tends to motivate them?

What is the fraud triangle, and how does it explain the factors that contribute to the occurrence of occupational fraud or white-collar crime?

Why fraud seems more common and more severe these days than ever before.

The multifarious faces of fraud, the criminals that perpetrate them, and their typical marks.

How businesses and individuals can avoid becoming the next victims of this trillion-dollar industry.

And much more...

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875: Jonathan Kennedy | How Pathogens Have Shaped Our World

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Pathogenesis: A History of the World in Eight Plagues author Jonathan Kennedy joins us to discuss how microscopic pathogens have shaped our world.

What We Discuss with Jonathan Kennedy:

If we were to weigh all the bacteria on Earth, their mass would be about 1,000 times more than all humans. If all of the viruses on the planet were laid end to end, they would stretch for 100 million light years.

About eight percent of the human genome's DNA comes from retroviral infections we've endured over our evolution. From them, we've inherited memory and the ability to give birth to live young.

Our gut microbiota communicates with our brains and can directly affect our mood and influence our behavior.

We modern humans have our ancestors' romantic soirees with Neanderthals to thank for genetic defenses against countless viral diseases.

How the transition from hunting and gathering to agriculture was a double-edged sword that brought us innovative progress and population-decimating pandemics.

And much more...

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874: Ayurveda | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 06 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Is there scientific legitimacy to the ancient Indian medicinal practice of Ayurveda? Dave Farina joins us on this Skeptical Sunday to find out!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Ayurveda is an ancient Indian medicinal practice based on balancing doshas (life forces) and natural therapies like diet, yoga, and meditation.

The belief in ancient wisdom's superiority to modern medicine and the allure of nature attract some people — especially those with anti-pharmaceutical sentiments — to Ayurveda.

The marketing and commercialization of Ayurvedic products and treatments contribute to its multi-billion dollar industry.

Ayurveda's emphasis on "detoxing" and "toxins" is based on misused terminology and misconceptions. Critics argue that Ayurveda's reliance on outdated concepts and lack of scientific evidence makes it ineffective and potentially dangerous. Despite the criticism, Ayurveda continues to be popular globally, with many proponents advocating its holistic approach to health.

Integrative medicine seeks to combine Ayurveda and other alternative practices with evidence-based modern medicine, though this remains controversial.

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873: Custody Fiction Leads to Co-Parenting Friction | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 04 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Co-parenting with your stepson's chaotic mom is challenging when she invents reasons she should have custody. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Co-parenting with your stepson's chaotic mom is challenging when she invents reasons she should have custody. How can you ensure his comfort and care while keeping her from expressing her worst tendencies?

How do you make the case for promoting someone whose work-related skills are top-notch while their social skills are lacking?

How do you set boundaries with an intrusive — and honestly, somewhat insensitive — family?

Should you boycott Chinese fast fashion retailer Shein?

You're a 15-year-old closeted agnostic/atheist in a conservative Christian family. Should you risk the consequences of telling them your true beliefs, or wait until you're old enough to move out of their house?

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872: Paul Hutchinson | Beyond the Politics of "Sound of Freedom"

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 03 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Sound of Freedom executive producer Paul Hutchinson joins us for a politics-free conversation about the horrible truth behind modern child trafficking.

What We Discuss with Paul Hutchinson:

How did successful investor Paul Hutchinson get personally involved in undercover work to rescue victims of child trafficking?

How does someone working undercover to bust child traffickers gain the trust of the world's worst people without losing themselves along the way?

How do sting operations navigate international and local laws to rescue children being trafficked and bring their abductors to justice?

How does someone heading a rescue effort even begin to pick up the trail of criminals that will lead them to the traffickers and their victims?

How can we, as concerned adults and parents, take a pre-emptive approach to protecting children from traffickers?

And much more...

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871: Julian Walker | How Conspiracy Theories Make Society Sick

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 01 Aug 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Conspirituality co-author Julian Walker joins us to discuss how influencers have curdled New Age spirituality and wellness with the politics of paranoia.

What We Discuss with Julian Walker:

Why have so many wellness influencers gone off the conspiracy deep end since COVID began?

What do these conspiracies have in common, and who benefits from their proliferation?

How do otherwise reasonable people get sucked down conspiracy rabbit holes?

How "The female-dominated New Age (with its positive focus on self) and the male-dominated realm of conspiracy theory (with its negative focus on global politics)" has synthesized into a hybrid system of belief dubbed "Conspirituality" by sociologists Charlotte Ward and David Voas.

Why a privately owned platform's refusal to host and perpetuate the views of disinformation peddlers isn't censorship or a violation of free speech.

And much more...

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870: Personality Tests | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 30 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Are personality tests valuable tools based on science, or just horoscopes in a lab coat? Comedian Michael Regilio joins us for Skeptical Sunday to find out!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Personality tests, like the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, are widely used by individuals and organizations as a way to understand who we are and how we interact with one another. But how accurate are they?

The Myers-Briggs test was developed by Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers — neither of whom were scientists or psychologists.

Companies use personality tests in hiring practices, potentially leading to discrimination and exclusion of qualified candidates.

The Big 5 (5-Factor Model) is a more accurate alternative, but even it assumes personality traits remain relatively static over time.

Psychologists and researchers should continue studying personality and behavior to develop more accurate and fair assessment tools that can better predict job performance and workplace success, but we should take the results of current personality tests with a grain of salt.

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869: Living in Strife Since Ending a Life | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 28 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Your boyfriend's not been the same since accidentally killing his mother's assailant. What can you do to help him? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your boyfriend's not been the same since accidentally killing his mother's assailant. What can you do to help him through this difficult time?

You never intended to be a father, but your girlfriend's unintentional pregnancy has you wondering what your ultimate role should be when the child is born.

Your wife reveals detailed sexual fantasies when her memory-impairing sleep meds kick in, but shies away from acting on them when lucid. How can you communicate to find out what she really wants from you?

How do you balance going the extra mile at work with protecting and valuing your time? How much is too much?

A former two-time MLM victim shares how he was able to break free from their phony "inner circle" nonsense and what he's learned since.

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868: Remi Adeleke | The Ex-Royal/Ex-SEAL Who Fights Organ Harvesting

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 27 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Ex-royal/Ex-SEAL Remi Adeleke shares an adventurous life spent between two continents and his efforts to end human trafficking and illegal organ harvesting.

What We Discuss with Remi Adeleke:

How Remi Adeleke's royal Nigerian family lost everything to the corrupt government when his father passed away.

What it was like growing up in the Bronx, where drugs and drive-bys were plentiful.

The unlikely movie that catalyzed Remi's decision to pursue a career as a US Navy SEAL.

How Remi managed to pass BUD/S training in spite of entering the program before knowing how to swim.

The grim realities of human trafficking and illegal organ harvesting — and what Remi is doing to fight back against them.

And much more...

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867: Rory Stewart | Walking Across Afghanistan and Iran

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 25 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

GiveDirectly President Rory Stewart talks about "mad" politics, long walks in warzones, and ensuring our charitable donations actually aid people in need.

What We Discuss with Rory Stewart:

What makes the UK's system of government "slightly mad" (even when compared to that of the US)?

How the kind of skills that get someone elected as a politician can get in the way of governing well.

How did Rory survive a walk across post-9/11 Afghanistan — just weeks after the fall of the Taliban, in the middle of winter, during a war, stalked by hungry wolves — despite being "guaranteed" it would mean certain death?

What it was like to be one of the first people to see the ruins of a once-thriving city since Genghis Khan had destroyed it over 800 years before.

How we can ensure that every penny of our charitable donations to developing places like Afghanistan and Kenya helps the people who really need it instead of stuffing the pockets of warlords, corrupt officials, and middlemen.

And much more...

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866: Astrology | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 23 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Do zodiac signs dictate demeanors and destinies, or are horoscopes hogwash? Dave Farina consults the stars about astrology with us here on Skeptical Sunday!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The pseudoscience of astrology (not to be confused with astronomy — the legitimate study of space) purports that the position of celestial bodies relative to Earth influences events and human behavior.

Initially designed as calendrical systems for predicting seasonal shifts and divining the will of the gods, astrology has been observed across cultures since at least the second millennium BC.

From a scientific standpoint, astrology lacks a coherent explanation and fails to make statistically significant predictions.

Experiments with natal charts and horoscopes consistently show no correlation between astrological predictions and real-life traits or events.

Belief in astrology may offer comfort and purpose, but it hinders scientific progress and critical thinking.

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865: Can Relationship Live on If China Takes Taiwan? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 21 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

How can you convince your politically active girlfriend to flee with you to safety should China ever invade Taiwan? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You moved to Taiwan to be with your politically active girlfriend, but the threat of Chinese invasion always looms large. She's made it clear that she wants to stay and help resist should this ever come to pass, but how can you convince her to flee with you to safety and fight from afar instead?

Should a rekindled old flame's dedication to an MLM "company" be a deal-breaker? He insists it's not a scam!

Because you don't have the financial capacity or mental bandwidth to indefinitely support your brother — who struggles with severe depression, anxiety, and self-harm — you need him to step up and take responsibility for his own life. How do you make him understand?

Your fiancée is so insecure about her appearance that she wants to skip a friend's wedding so she won't ruin the pictures, and has suggested hiring an actress to stand in for her at your wedding! What can you do to get her to see herself as the extremely smart, beautiful, kind, and overall amazing person that you fell in love with?

You're a high school student with a dream to study abroad. How do you get over the fear of asking your parents for permission and the chance they might deny you this dream?

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864: Caroline Rose | Captagon and the New Age of Narco-Diplomacy

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 20 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

New Lines Institute's Caroline Rose explains how captagon, a drug you may have never heard of, is propping up genocidal regimes in the Middle East.

What We Discuss with Caroline Rose:

What is captagon? Where did it originate, what are its effects, and why don't we hear about it in the United States?

How captagon — with a potential trade value of over $5.7 billion annually — has transformed Assad's Syria into a Mediterranean narco-state.

Who uses captagon on such a massive scale, and how is it manufactured and smuggled across borders?

Why is Syria allowed a seat at INTERPOL, the organization established to reign in international crime — like the captagon trade?

What can be done to stem the tide of captagon and prevent it from expanding its range and influence even further?

And much more...

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863: Juan Zarate | Waging Financial War on Rogue Regimes

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 18 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Treasury's War author Juan Zarate joins us to discuss how the US wields its financial power against terrorism, rogue states, and global crime syndicates.

What We Discuss with Juan Zarate:

Why the Treasury Department became part of the intelligence apparatus of the United States post-9/11 — after resisting such integration for years.

Sanctions: what are they good for and how do they work?

How and why criminals (whether they're of the independent, organized, or state-sponsored variety) need banks and financial institutions for any major crime to succeed.

What the SWIFT (Society for Worldwide Interbank Financial Telecommunications) system is and how it's used to disrupt terrorist financing around the world.

For better or worse, what role does cryptocurrency play in all of this?

And much more...

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862: Targeted Ads | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 16 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Do personalized ads enhance our online experience or intolerably invade our privacy? Andrew Gold joins us on this Skeptical Sunday to uncover the truth!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Personalized advertising relies on algorithms that collect and analyze user data to tailor ads to individual preferences.

While personalized ads can be effective in engaging users and providing relevant content, they raise concerns about privacy invasion and potential manipulation.

Voice-activated devices like Amazon's Alexa and Apple's Siri are designed to listen for wake-up words, but there have been instances of accidental recordings and privacy breaches.

The use of personal data in advertising can lead to discrimination and perpetuate existing inequalities.

Stakeholders including tech companies, advertisers, regulators, and users have roles to play in ensuring ethical and privacy-respecting practices in personalized advertising. Users can — and should — take steps to protect their privacy and advocate for stronger privacy protections.

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861: 35 and Chaste — Is It Too Late? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 14 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

At 35, how do you disclose your virginity on a date that might lead to sex without ensuring the continuation of said virginity? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

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You're 35 and you've never had sex. How do you disclose your virginity during courtship with a potential partner without scaring them off and ensuring the continuation of this unfortunate trend?

Should you maintain a friendship with your college buddies whose partners alienate your wife? They acknowledge the issue but don't seem to care.

You support your daughter's use of therapy, but you wonder if maybe weekly appointments, emergency sessions, and direct access to her therapist might be bordering on excessive. Can therapy be addictive? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Your ex-wife endured you at your worst, and you'd like to help her financially now that you're successful on multiple fronts. Is this appropriate, or should you consider doing so anonymously?

After working through the pandemic as a registered nurse pulling 10-12 hour shifts seven days a week, you're finding it difficult to reintegrate into a society that feels like it's moved on and left you behind. How can you find your place again?

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860: Mitchell Prothero | Cocaine, Murder, and Dirty Money in Europe

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Project Brazen's Mitchell Prothero reveals Europe’s cocaine crisis through the stories of cartel thugs, cops, journalists, and victims caught in the middle.

What We Discuss with Mitchell Prothero:

Why European law enforcement is ill-prepared to deal with the influx of crime and violence associated with a cocaine trade that has grown to rival that of the US.

How European ports that have been historically instrumental in the development of international trade have become thriving modern hubs for drug trafficking.

What makes cocaine the "perfect" drug for illicit entrepreneurs who want to make a lot of money on their own terms?

Why loose cannon drug trafficker and murderer Ridouan Taghi makes fellow criminals as nervous as he makes journalists, agents of law enforcement, and European society.

What needs to change in order for the European cocaine trade to decelerate?

And much more...

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859: Bradley Schurman | Demographic Collapse in Russia, China, & the US

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 11 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Demographic futurist Bradley Schurman joins us to explore a future where over-65s outnumber under-18s — and the changes society will have to face.

What We Discuss with Bradley Schurman:

In the not-too-distant future, a staggering shift looms over the developed world: at least 20 percent of national populations will surpass 65 years of age, outnumbering those 18 years of age and younger.

Termed the Super Age by Bradley Schurman, this demographic transformation carries immense potential for growth or, conversely, risks leaving many behind.

Take Russia, for instance, where this trend unfolds amidst geopolitical turmoil and a high military mortality rate — 25 times that of Chechnya and 35 times Afghanistan's monthly casualties.

Failure to prepare for these impending changes would usher economic stagnation, increased isolation for vulnerable communities, and hastened decline of rural areas.

Yet, there is reason for optimism. By proactively planning, we can unlock the advantages of the Super Age: prolonged and healthier lives, enhanced intergenerational collaboration in workplaces and households, and unexplored markets and innovations.

And much more...

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858: Fast Fashion | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 09 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

We delve into the drawbacks of fast fashion while highlighting the benefits of mindful wardrobe choices on this Skeptical Sunday with Michael Regilio!

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Even under normal circumstances, the fashion industry is a major contributor to carbon emissions, water pollution, and waste, with clothes often ending up in landfills.

What is so-called "fast fashion," and how does it create a constant cycle of trends and clothing turnover, leading to excessive waste and environmental damage?

Donating clothes is not always a sustainable solution, as many donated items end up in landfills or have a negative impact on local textile industries in developing countries.

The fashion industry relies on cheap labor and often exploits workers — particularly women — in factories with poor working conditions and low wages.

How do we help tip the scale in a more sustainable direction? We can support eco-conscious designers, clothing recycling, and rental services while buying quality items and reducing washing loads.

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857: Forever on the Lam from a Blackmailing Scam? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 07 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Should you worry that a blackmailer tipped you off to the FBI 10 years ago and it's been waiting to nab you at the border? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

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Could a drunken chat room indiscretion with an allegedly underage blackmail scammer from 10 years ago lead to an arrest when you try to cross an international border for the first time since the incident? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us with yet another sticky situation!]

A recent pregnancy scare illuminated your significant other's dependence on their family's advice over their own faculties for critical thinking, and it's got you wondering if such a relationship could — or should — have much of a future.

You recently discovered that your father has a second family — for which he provides a luxurious life while telling your disabled mother to support you and your siblings as a street vendor. Now you're wondering if you can truly live peacefully with him until you're old enough to leave home?

Is merging accounts with your significant other — whose financial shortcomings always seem to fall in your lap — a prudent step in the right direction for easier money management?

Some listener feedback is shared regarding the disheartened, defamed fellow from episode 840, and we get a bombshell of an update from the woman in episode 679 whose boyfriend didn't want her to meet his mom because she's allegedly a huge racist.

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at Ian Urbina is a journalist, the director of The Outlaw Ocean Project, and the author of The Outlaw Ocean: Journeys Across the Last Untamed Frontier.

What We Discuss with Ian Urbina:

What makes the ocean the Earth's final untamed frontier?

Who has jurisdiction to enforce laws in international waters? For that matter, what are the laws, and who makes them?

How does slavery persist on the open ocean? Who is most vulnerable to finding themselves enslaved, and who is profiting from their misery?

What percentage of the fishing that supplies Western cities with delicious seafood is illegal?

What can we do to ensure we're not supporting high crimes on the high seas?

And much more...

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855: Russia's Wagner Group and Why Coups Fail | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 04 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What is Russia's Wagner Group, and why did it recently try to depose Putin? John Lechner and Brian Klaas explain on this episode of Out of the Loop!

On This Episode of Out of the Loop:

What is Russia's Wagner Group, and what kind of desperate degenerates fill its ranks?

How did catering chef Yevgeny Prigozhin come to lead this private army of marauders?

Where do the funds that fuel Wagner's activities originate?

What instigated Wagner's attempted coup against Vladimir Putin, and why did it ultimately fail?

What can we expect from the aftermath, and what will likely happen to the ringleaders who dared to defy Putin?

And much more!

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854: Fireworks | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 02 Jul 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Fireworks cause pollution and health risks while disturbing veterans and pets. On this Skeptical Sunday with David C. Smalley, can we find alternatives?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and comedian and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Studies have shown that fireworks have negative effects on human health and the environment as they release toxic metals and contribute to air and water pollution.

The noise from fireworks can be extremely distressing for combat veterans, individuals with PTSD, and pets, leading to anxiety, panic attacks, and even running away.

Fireworks-related fires cause significant property damage and pose a risk to both people and wildlife.

Fireworks regulations are fragmented and challenging to enforce, and there are political and monetary pushbacks against stricter regulations thanks to moneyed interests (like fireworks manufacturers) lobbying lawmakers.

One 21st-century solution to overcome these negatives is the use of drones for aerial displays, which are quieter, more environmentally friendly, and can still provide a visually stunning experience.

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853: Memories of Trauma or Therapy-Induced Drama? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 30 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Your sister's therapy is dredging up traumatic "memories" you're not even sure are real, and it's tearing your family apart. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

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Your sister's EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy sessions are dredging up traumatic childhood "memories" you're not even sure are real, and it's tearing your family apart. How can you separate fact from fiction and mend the rift that's grown between you? [Thanks to Brad Watts, a licensed professional counselor and the author of Sibling Sexual Abuse: A Guide for Confronting America’s Silent Epidemic for helping us sort this one out!]

You worry that your significant other's "close" coworker is trying to get a bit too close, and their dynamic seems tantamount to an emotional affair. He insists on maintaining this friendship in spite of how uncomfortable it makes you feel. Are you overreacting, or are your concerns perfectly reasonable? What should you do?

How do you communicate your disinterest in the boring stories your significant other constantly shares about people you don't even know in a way that won't be hurtful or offensive?

How does a stay-at-home dad on military disability who used his downtime to hone his education and skill set explain his unorthodox break in employment as a feature — not a bug — to prospective employers?

How do you help your aging mom through her struggles with depression, anxiety, alcoholism, financial difficulties, and declining health without completely draining your resources and derailing your own efforts to succeed?

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852: Ryan Montgomery | The Hacker Who Hunts Child Predators Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Wed, 28 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Ryan Montgomery (@0dayCTF) is a professional cyber security specialist, the founder of Pentester (JORDAN15), and an ethical hacker known for exposing online predators. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Be sure to catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with Ryan Montgomery:

How vulnerable are your "smart" appliances to savvy hackers?

What did Ryan discover when he hacked a pedophile website?

How did the authorities respond when Ryan tipped them off about what he found on this website and who was involved?

How Ryan and his MMA friend directly confront predators who think they're meeting minors in the real world.

What should you do (and not do) when you encounter would-be predators online?

And much more...

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851: Ryan Montgomery | The Hacker Who Hunts Child Predators Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Ryan Montgomery (@0dayCTF) is a professional cyber security specialist, the founder of Pentester (JORDAN15), and an ethical hacker known for exposing online predators. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Watch this space for the second part later this week!]

What We Discuss with Ryan Montgomery:

What kind of background creates an ethical hacker?

For that matter, what is an ethical hacker?

What is the difference between white hat, gray hat, and black hat hackers?

Do ethical hackers make more money than hackers who are less than ethical?

What is a Flipper tool, and what can it be used to hack?

And much more...

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850: Self-Help Cults | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 25 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Striving to better yourself is a noble pursuit, and there are plenty of legitimate resources to help you navigate this journey. But how do you protect yourself against the unscrupulous shysters lurking in the shadows looking to exploit you at this vulnerable juncture?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

Globally, the self-help industry brings in nearly $60 billion per year. But how much of this is generated by programs that actually help people better themselves?

Under the surface, many so-called self-help groups are nothing more than cults that use coercive tactics — or even abuse — to keep their "customers" in line.

These groups cultivate dependency among the flock while escalating the price of admission.

A healthy dose of skepticism and genuine connection with the outside world will help guard against such exploitation.

Therapy, research, and self-guided approaches are better bets for promoting genuine well-being.

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849: Whose Story to Pick When the Charge Is Sick? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Should you believe without question that the mild-mannered cousin you've known your whole life is a rapist, as your friend alleges, or should you take into consideration that this friend's past lapses in credibility may cast a shadow of doubt over this narrative? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is it Jordan answering your comments on social media, or is it an AI chatbot? Beep? Boop? Bop?

A friend's rape allegation against your cousin has you weighing the latter's mild-mannered reputation against the former's sometimes questionable credibility.

How can you achieve financial and emotional independence from an abusive father while maintaining relationships with the family members who still live with him?

What can you do to help your brother untangle himself from an unhinged ex who seems capable of committing acts of extreme retribution — against him and his family — if he does anything to displease her?

Is there a professional way to tell a client they either need to up their hygiene game or lower their fragrance game because your olfactory senses go haywire whenever they're within smelling distance?

Because you were raised by a narcissist and married to a narcissist, you wonder if maybe you've become too good at listening and less good at being a person to whom others want to listen?

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848: Yuval Noah Harari | Peering into the Future of Humanity

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Yuval Noah Harari (@harari_yuval) is a historian and the bestselling author of Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind, Homo Deus: A Brief History of Tomorrow, and 21 Lessons for the 21st Century. His latest book, Unstoppable Us, Volume 1: How Humans Took Over the World, is out now.

What We Discuss with Yuval Noah Harari:

At a time when information is unlimited, has the idea that "knowledge is power" become obsolete? It all depends on how careful we are about ingesting the right kind of information — and knowing which kind to avoid.

Religious texts and nation-defining constitutions are only as useful as their human interpretations — which can shift radically over the course of generations.

In what ways might technology like artificial intelligence and genetic engineering threaten a humanist-centered approach to the future?

How algorithms that guess new ways to sell us things we don't need can be modified to put us on the hit lists of authoritarian governments.

What humanity really needs to do in order to avert climate crisis and World War III.

And much more...

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847: 5G | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 18 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Award-winning journalist and podcaster Andrew Gold joins us for this edition of Skeptical Sunday to examine the spread of conspiracy theories linking 5G technology to COVID-19 and debunk these claims with actual science.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

5G is the latest generation of wireless technology that offers significantly faster data speeds, lower latency, and increased network capacity — leading to enhanced connectivity and improved efficiency in our daily lives.

Conspiracy theories linking 5G to COVID-19 have gained significant attention and, like the virus itself, spread across the world — helped by Russian state-backed media outlet RT.

Misinformation and conspiracy theories tend to exploit newsworthy events to further ulterior agendas.

Conspiracy theorists often seek comfort and certainty during uncertain times, leading to the popularity of such theories.

The good news: there is no credible evidence or scientific basis supporting the idea that 5G radiation depletes the immune system or spreads COVID-19.

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846: Dad's Being Played and the Family's Afraid | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

72-year-old Dad seems clueless that the young and comely third-wheel Jezebel who's been stealing his attention away from Mom might be up to something less than seemly. How do you defuse the spell that's been cast over him by this manipulative muse? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Was Dark Jordan right in his episode 828 advice to the listener whose neighbors were eavesdropping on Zoom therapy sessions through a paper-thin wall?

How do you get your 72-year-old dad to see that — much to the chagrin of your mom and the rest of the family — the comely young woman who's been giving him attention might have ulterior motives?

Does listening to this podcast potentially jeopardize your safety while traveling to Xi Jinping's China? [Thanks to Laowhy86 for chiming in on this one!]

Your tween son wants to slap a controversial sticker about a political leader on his binder that he takes to public school — in Washington, DC — every day. Considering how politically polarized our country is right now, is it prudent (or even safe) to let him?

You've been looking to up the efficiency of your self-improvement game after pulling yourself out of a funk and getting fit. How might you optimize your routine without getting distracted by the minutiae of the tools you're using?

You were adopted in later childhood by a kind and loving teacher, but you're finding it difficult to make the transition from calling her by her first name to "Mom." How can you do it without making it weird?

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845: Robert Kerbeck | From Struggling Actor to Corporate Spy

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Robert Kerbeck (@robertkerbeck) is the founder of the Malibu Writers Circle, and the author of the award-winning Malibu Burning: The Real Story Behind L.A.'s Most Devastating Wildfire. His latest book, Ruse: Lying the American Dream from Hollywood to Wall Street, is out now.

What We Discuss with Robert Kerbeck:

Why actors are naturally adept at the social engineering skills required to be a successful corporate spy.

What kinds of information do corporate spies try to finagle from their marks?

The importance of research and blending at least a grain of truth into every lie if you're trying to sell a story as a corporate spy.

How do corporate spies find poachable talent that doesn't want to be found — and determine they're worth poaching?

Do all corporations hire corporate spies (and would they admit to it)?

And much more...

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844: Dropping the Bomb: His Sister's His Mom | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 08 Jun 2023 23:43:48 PDT

Your family tree has a few branches that are a little more entwined than most — outside of old-world royalty and down-home banjo duelists. You happen to know a particularly dark secret about a troubled cousin's parentage, but you're wondering if telling him would be helpful or hurtful. What should you do? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Would it be helpful or hurtful to disclose an incestuous family secret to the cousin it most affects?

You've been deemed "unfit for duty" after attempting suicide. While you consider yourself lucky to be alive, you're wondering how to get a new job — and maintain insurance to cover meds and the help you need — with this on your record.

Your fiancée's ongoing involvement with a "business" contact feels a lot like an emotional affair — something you endured in a past relationship and aren't eager to repeat. How do you address this before trust in your betrothed has irrevocably eroded?

How do you help your mother move on from the death of your father when she's vehemently opposed to the idea of therapy? [This segment is sponsored by BetterHelp. Big thanks to Haesue Jo, Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp!]

When traveling, what is the most tactful way to tell someone in a neighboring seat that their disgusting habits are unacceptable?

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843: Elie Honig | How the Rich Get Away with Crime

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 06 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Elie Honig (@eliehonig) is a CNN senior legal analyst, former federal and state prosecutor, Emmy nominee, podcast host, and columnist. He is the bestselling author of Hatchet Man: How Bill Barr Broke the Prosecutor’s Code and Corrupted the Justice Department, and his latest book is Untouchable: How Powerful People Get Away with It.

What We Discuss with Elie Honig:

How the rich and powerful exploit flaws in the justice system to evade accountability while being able to afford lengthy trials and secure better plea deals.

Why using wiretaps and flipping complicit parties are essential tactics for gathering evidence against the people at the top.

How intermediaries are used to shield the rich and powerful from being held responsible for crimes committed in their name.

Why donations to political candidates can lead to special treatment during prosecution, indicating potential corruption.

Why we shouldn't completely abandon faith in the justice system despite its numerous imperfections.

And much more...

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842: Sleazy Dude's Stealing Stepdaughter's Nudes | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Jun 2023 00:00:00 PDT

You have evidence that your 17-year-old girlfriend's stepfather sent himself copies of her nude photos when he confiscated her phone. Knowing this, now she's got to spend time alone with him when her mother goes out of town. What should she do? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Hey! Where the heck has David C. Smalley been?

An underage girl discovered her stepfather sent himself copies of her nude photos when he confiscated her phone, and now she's got to spend time alone with him when her mother goes out of town for a few weeks. What should she do?

Marrying into a family and its business — which you've been told your spouse will eventually take over — has you wondering how to ensure your own financial security if it turns out other relatives want a piece of the business somewhere down the line.

After suffering a brain injury in a terrible car accident, many aspects of your personality have changed — including a fresh perspective about how your dysfunctional family and the religious cult in which you were raised have been neglectful and abusive. How should the "new" you face the future?

You've been waiting for nearly a decade to exit an unhappy marriage until your youngest kid turns 18, which will happen soon. Unfortunately, you and your spouse work in a full-time religious ministry, and divorce will mean dismissal, loss of income, disappointing the family and community, and surfacing of past transgressions you'd rather not revisit. What's your least disastrous path forward?

How do you effectively network without feeling like some kind of manipulative phony?

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841: Adam Bornstein | The Real Skinny on the Weight Loss Industry

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Adam Bornstein (@BornFitness) is the founder of Born Fitness, an award-winning writer and editor in the fitness space, and a bestselling author. His latest book is You Can't Screw This Up: Why Eating Takeout, Enjoying Dessert, and Taking the Stress out of Dieting Leads to Weight Loss That Lasts.

What We Discuss with Adam Bornstein:

Why are more than 70 percent of Americans overweight or obese despite 40 percent of men and 60 percent of women observing multiple diets per year?

The common misbeliefs and flawed mindsets around fitness and weight loss perpetuated by a wellness industry that prioritizes its profits over the people it purports to help.

How the wellness industry inflates bogus "sciencey" claims in order to fool us into buying routines, diets, and supplements that, at best, do nothing for us.

What calorie restriction really does to the brain.

How extreme, all-or-none beliefs make us fail our fitness goals, and what we can do to actually move the progress needle forward.

And much more...

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840: Stalked and Defamed by Unstable Ex-Flame | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Being ghosted in the aftermath of a bad date might momentarily sting the ego, but it seems a better alternative to having your name smeared on social media by a vindictive stalker spurned. What can you do to reclaim your good standing if the social media admins ignore your requests to remove libelous accusations leveled against you? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

When a bad-date-turned-libelous-stalker tarnishes your name online, how do you restore your reputation if admins keep ignoring your requests to remove the baseless slander that remains attached to a big picture of your face on their platform? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us with yet another humdinger!]

Should you prioritize staying in the town where you've established personal and professional roots, or make an effort to relocate so you can be near your daughter as she moves across the country with your ex?

How do you maintain your own patience, empathy, and mental well-being while providing support for your difficult, negative grandmother who isn't quite ready to accept an assisted-living situation?

How should you handle inappropriate comments from a mentor/friend that triggered past trauma related to your father? Should you give this person another chance, or was immediately blocking and ghosting him really the best course of action?

Should you honor your dying mother's request to donate her body to science, or heed a local funeral director's advice against it?

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839: David Packouz | The Real-Life "War Dogs" Gun-Runner Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 25 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

David Packouz (@DavidPackouz) is an entrepreneur, inventor, musician, and CEO of Singular Sound. He's also a former arms dealer, whose story was portrayed in the movie War Dogs with Jonah Hill, Miles Teller, Ana de Armas, and Bradley Cooper. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with David Packouz:

How does an Orthodox Jew with 10 siblings become an international arms dealer?

How federal government contracts work — and why some of them almost always go over budget.

How corruption at every level of the Russian government hamstrings its military and stifles innovation.

How David and his partner Efraim Diveroli got hooked up with lucrative government arms deals when they were barely adults.

The countless ways in which Efraim is not as charming as Jonah Hill made him out to be in War Dogs.

And much more...

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838: David Packouz | The Real-Life "War Dogs" Gun-Runner Part One.

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

David Packouz (@DavidPackouz) is an entrepreneur, inventor, musician, and CEO of Singular Sound. He's also a former arms dealer, whose story was portrayed in the movie War Dogs with Jonah Hill, Miles Teller, Ana de Armas, and Bradley Cooper. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Carry on to part two here!]

What We Discuss with David Packouz:

How does an Orthodox Jew with 10 siblings become an international arms dealer?

How federal government contracts work — and why some of them almost always go over budget.

How corruption at every level of the Russian government hamstrings its military and stifles innovation.

How David and his partner Efraim Diveroli got hooked up with lucrative government arms deals when they were barely adults.

The countless ways in which Efraim is not as charming as Jonah Hill made him out to be in War Dogs.

And much more...

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837: Who's at Fault When You're a Magnet for Assault? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Ever since being sexually assaulted by someone you trusted as a friend in high school, it seems like you only wind up in relationships with people who will similarly hurt you. It's such a troubling pattern that it's got you wondering: are you somehow at fault when you're a magnet for assault? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A pattern of troubling relationships after being sexually assaulted by a trusted friend in high school has you wondering: are you somehow at fault when you're a magnet for assault?

Are you obligated to honor the dying wish of a manipulative parent who's never really been there for you in your time of need?

The extreme poverty you experienced in childhood no doubt contributed to the mindset that got you where you are today: successful by most metrics and financially well-rewarded. But you also live in fear that one wrong move could take this all away and leave you destitute once again. How can you ever feel safe from the looming specter of poverty?

You're a science-rooted skeptic, and your otherwise perfect significant other has a career in alternative medicine. You can live with a difference in views, but you're afraid that important health decisions for your kids could cause major conflict in the future. Is there room enough here to find a middle ground?

You're doing work you feel is important, but you often find yourself struggling to get fired up and motivated about following through with it. Is there a way to stay more consistently connected to your purpose, or is this a sign that it's not really your purpose?

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836: Scott Lyons | Overcoming an Addiction to Drama

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Dr. Scott Lyons (@drscottlyons) is a neuroscientist focusing on cognitive psychology and the impact of mindfulness on mental well-being, founder of The Embody Lab, host of The Gently Used Human podcast, and author of Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others. [TW // Self-harm and suicide are discussed.]

What We Discuss with Dr. Scott Lyons:

What drama addiction is, and why it's so much more than just seeking constant attention from others.

How to recognize drama addiction in yourself and others.

How to grasp the ways in which drama addiction affects your well-being.

How to build and uphold boundaries in our drama-ridden lives.

How to heal a drama addiction and live a more peaceful, less chaotic life.

And much more...

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835: E-Commerce Scams | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 14 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

While working for yourself can be fulfilling and financially rewarding, it's important to understand that it takes a lot of effort and sacrifice — especially when you're just starting out. Unfortunately, there are scammers aplenty who want to sell you on get-rich-quick schemes that only make them rich at your expense. So how can you tell the difference between legitimate business opportunities and shams perpetrated by shady shysters eager to drain your bank account? This week on Skeptical Sunday, we're joined by Steve Chou — e-commerce entrepreneur, host of The My Wife Quit Her Job Podcast, and author of The Family-First Entrepreneur: How to Achieve Financial Freedom Without Sacrificing What Matters Most — to separate the wheat from the chaff.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

According to the FTC, Americans were scammed out of $249 million through fake business and job opportunities in just the first three quarters of 2022 — but get-rich-quick schemes really started gaining traction in 2020 as criminals took advantage of people who lost their jobs during the pandemic.

The real math it takes to build a fortune from creating YouTube videos — and why relying on AI to create content from the ether is an unsustainable "strategy."

Why buying an impressive-looking "done for you" e-commerce site pre-populated with dropshipping products will likely lose you money in the long run.

How the astronomical income promised by countless dropshipping automation companies pans out when real-world middlemen and unreliable sources are factored in.

Why it's essential to research and verify any business opportunity before investing time and money into it — if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Real businesses require effort, time, and some sacrifice to gain the momentum needed to make them rewarding.

And much more!

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Connect with Steve at his website, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube, and check out The My Wife Quit Her Job Podcast and The Family-First Entrepreneur: How to Achieve Financial Freedom Without Sacrificing What Matters Most!

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834: A Night So Wild, GF's Sister Carries Your Child | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

A one-night stand with your girlfriend's sister resulted in her pregnancy. You've agreed to keep quiet about it to avoid causing problems within the family, but you're wondering how to break the news to your girlfriend — or if you ever should. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

That one-night stand with your girlfriend's sister resulted in her pregnancy. You've agreed to keep quiet about it to avoid causing problems within the family, but you're wondering how to break the news to your girlfriend — or if you ever should.

You love your job as a local news reporter, but struggle with low pay and lack of creative energy. You want to move out, travel, and pursue other interests, but you're not sure how to find a more fitting career path. Where should you begin?

You want to exit your relationship with a dishonest and uncooperative business partner who overcharges invoices and refuses to sell or buy out. Which of these four possible exit strategies seems to be your best bet: suing, starting a new business, paying dividends and leaving, or getting a job? [Thanks to attorney Neil Rombardo for giving us some direction with this one!]

Your 14-year-old sister is dating her 23-year-old camp leader. In spite of your concerns over this grossly inappropriate "relationship," you were shocked to discover that your parents like the guy and support their love as "pure." You feel it's your responsibility to put a stop to this, but you don't know how. What can you do?

As an elementary school teacher, you cut an imposing figure at 6'6" and 270 pounds. You want to be the caring but blunt teacher you needed during your adolescence, but your size — in addition to an admittedly "resting bitch face" — seems to make you less approachable than you'd like. How can you demonstrate a more welcoming stance to your students?

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833: Nathan Paul Southern and Lindsey Kennedy | Sourcing Cyber-Slavery

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Nathan Paul Southern (@NathanPSouthern) and Lindsey Kennedy (@LindsAKennedy) are investigative journalists working to bring awareness to the growing issue of cyber-slavery in Southeast Asia facilitated by Chinese triads with links to local government and law enforcement agencies.

What We Discuss with Nathan Paul Southern and Lindsey Kennedy:

Aided by corrupt government and law enforcement agencies, organized criminals hold thousands of people in modern-day slavery in Southeast Asia, forcing them to run cyber-scams worldwide.

Victims are lured by promises of lucrative online trading jobs, and abducted against their will when they arrive — for a minimum of six months — to work as cyber-slaves.

These captives are beaten, electrocuted, and tortured if they try to escape or don't make enough money. Suicides, with victims jumping from balconies to their death, have become commonplace.

The Cambodian Prime Minister's nephew has been implicated in the human trafficking trade, which is why embassies have been ignored when they plead for intervention.

What those of us in the Western world can do to fight back against these organized crime groups and ensure their dirty deeds can no longer be done dirt cheap enough to turn a profit.

And much more...

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832: The Wedding Industry | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 07 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Why are weddings so expensive — and how does the wedding industry sucker us into thinking they have to be? This week on Skeptical Sunday, comedian Michael Regilio joins Jordan to propose the facts on what you’re really getting with a wedding and explore alternatives that won't test the durability of a new marriage with massive debt from day one.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday:

The pressure to have an extravagant wedding can sometimes lead to couples investing more in the one-day festivities than in the hard work that goes into the lifelong commitment of a successful marriage.

Weddings are becoming increasingly expensive, and the wedding industry is constantly churning out new ways to overcharge its clientele.

"Age-old" wedding traditions like diamond rings aren't rooted in history, but in clever marketing schemes that exploit couples' desires for a perfect wedding.

Evidence suggests that the more money a couple spends on a wedding, the less likely they are to stay together.

Weddings don't have to break the bank — eloping or planning a backyard ceremony are affordable and creative alternatives to traditional weddings.

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831: The Harrowing Hunt for a Housecat Houdini | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Gabe regales us with a tale of his disappearing housecat Drake, the frantic four days it took to find him, and the life-changing lessons learned along the way. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

It was no trivial purr-suit when an unlicensed trapper named Gabe went on a confounding quest to rescue his missing cat. But what life-changing lessons did he learn along the way? (If cat stories are not your thing and you want to skip Gabe's gripping tale of woeful loss and profound recovery, you can fast forward to 29:04!)

You've come to realize that many of your past professional and personal relationships were built on transactional and inauthentic pretenses. Now that you're committed to being genuine to others as well as yourself, is it possible to request a do-over?

You'd like to have a closer relationship with your grandchildren, but your daughter-in-law's anger issues and cultural differences seem to have landed you perpetually on her bad side. What can you do to smooth things over?

As a single lesbian fresh out of a 10-year relationship, you're not ready to become a young first-timer's one-and-only. Should you get over yourself and just go for it, or let her go before you break her heart?

A tech recruiter offers more detailed advice to our listener from episode 800 who is so frustrated with their job search that it's affecting their mental health.

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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830: Terry Crews | On Hollywood, Harassment, and Healing

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 May 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Terry Crews (@terrycrews) is a beloved cinema and television star, furniture designer, artist, philanthropist, activist, former NFL player, and author. His most recent book is Tough: My Journey to True Power.

What We Discuss with Terry Crews:

How Terry prioritizes mental and physical health through exercise, nutrition, and rest.

What Terry has learned about the power of forgiveness and how it can help to break cycles of anger and resentment — on an individual and societal level.

How staying true to ourselves and pursuing what we love — even in the face of risking failure or criticism — allows us to make a positive impact on ourselves as well as the world.

Terry's views on personal accountability as a crucial component of growth and change, and how taking responsibility for our actions allows us to become the best versions of ourselves.

The importance of empathy and understanding toward people with different perspectives and backgrounds, and the need to engage in respectful dialogue while seeking common values.

And much more...

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829: Sportswashing | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 30 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

How might enjoying our favorite sports and supporting our most cherished teams and athletes make us accomplices in the world's most heinous atrocities ever committed? Award-winning journalist and podcaster Andrew Gold joins us for this Skeptical Sunday to explore the PR tactic of sportswashing, in which authoritarian regimes use sports to improve their image on the world stage. (And don't worry, David C. Smalley fans! David will return soon for future installments of Skeptical Sunday!)

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Sportswashing is a PR tactic used by countries with poor human rights records to improve their image and legitimize their atrocities through sports.

Western countries and their businesses are complicit in sportswashing due to the financial incentives they receive.

Despite the harm caused by sportswashing, it is difficult to stop due to the lack of accountability and the willingness of individuals and organizations to participate.

Golfers have been divided over whether to participate in Saudi Arabia's LIV golf invitation series, leading to a civil war in the sport.

Countries with questionable human rights records are increasingly buying sports clubs and sponsoring sports teams, making it important to be aware of where and how we consume sports.

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with Andrew on Twitter and Instagram, and check out On the Edge with Andrew Gold here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts!

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828: Time to Retire and Chase Closeted Desire? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 28 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

After building a successful career and family, you've come to realize you'd rather spend your remaining days in the company of men half your age rather than with your wife of 25 years. Now that it's time to retire, should you stay tepidly wed or chase all the young dudes, instead? We'll explore this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

After building a successful career and family, you've come to realize you'd rather spend your remaining days in the company of men half your age rather than with your wife of 25 years. Now that it's time to retire, should you stay tepidly wed or chase all the young dudes, instead?

Every time you land a career, some global economic catastrophe seems to send you in search of a new one. How can you future-proof yourself against financial displacement if your next chosen field once again goes kaput?

How can you resolve a pet custody dispute with an unreasonable ex when your state doesn't have laws to definitively settle such matters?

Since being preemptively stigmatized as a potential child molester by your brother-in-law's vindictive ex-wife, you've gone from being an uncle who takes the kids to the zoo and plays board games to the man who leaves the room when your niece enters. How do you handle this situation without punishing your daughter and niece — or running the risk of being baselessly accused of the unthinkable?

You've discovered that your neighbors can hear your Zoom therapy sessions through the paper-thin wall between apartments. Should you talk to them about it?

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827: Paul Rosolie | Perusing and Protecting the Pristine Amazon

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 25 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Paul Rosolie (@PaulRosolie) is a conservationist, a filmmaker, the director of JungleKeepers and Tamandua Expeditions, and the author of Mother of God: An Extraordinary Journey into the Uncharted Tributaries of the Western Amazon.

What We Discuss with Paul Rosolie:

How Paul Rosolie and his JungleKeepers team showcase sustainable and profitable alternatives to illegal logging and mining for locals — and their descendants — to prosper.

Why many uncontacted tribes in the Amazon react to intrusion by outsiders with extreme violence — even when the outsiders demonstrate the best of intentions.

How invasive and inefficient gold mining by armed, organized criminals from places as far away as Russia is turning once lush rainforests into mercury-poisoned wastelands.

Efforts being made to harness medicinal compounds unique to the Amazon — and the knowledge to use them — and prevent them from disappearing for good.

Even if you need to slim down for beach season, Paul doesn't recommend getting lost in the unforgiving Amazon — where he shed a pound a day simply trying to survive before finding his way back to civilization.

And much more...

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826: A Shoplifter's Craving for Felonious Savings | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 21 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

You've come to the conclusion that shoplifting is more than just a savvy life hack for fabulous savings — it also fills you with a rush that makes you feel truly alive. But are the thrill and the thrift of thievery worth their risks when (not if) you inevitably get caught? What can you do when produce pilfering has become an irresistible compulsion? We'll look into this and more here on Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Are the thrill and the thrift of grocery thievery worth their risks when (not if) you inevitably get caught? And how can you stop when shoplifting has become an irresistible compulsion? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us with this one!]

Is overemployment — simultaneously holding down more than one full-time job — somehow unethical even if you complete the work required and still have time for your family?

After an expensive divorce from a financially clueless ex, you wonder if the equally clueless but exponentially more kind, wonderful, and emotionally supportive handyman you're with now deserves a chance — even though it'll once again put a strain on the resources you've worked so hard to stabilize?

When you're already planning on shifting out of your current industry, is it worth trying to make the dynamic with your obnoxious direct manager more tolerable? Or should you just work on shifting out of your industry sooner than anticipated?

Why are we so harsh on the Chinese Communist Party when America and capitalism have problems worth investigating, too?

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825: Ozan Varol | How to Awaken Your Genius

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 18 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Ozan Varol is a rocket scientist turned award-winning law professor and bestselling author of Think Like a Rocket Scientist: Simple Strategies You Can Use to Make Giant Leaps in Work and Life. His latest book, Awaken Your Genius: Escape Conformity, Ignite Creativity, and Become Extraordinary, is out now.

What We Discuss with Ozan Varol:

Just because you're recognized as being good at something doesn't mean you have to do it forever — or even ever.

The skills we build and the lessons we learn don't go away when we decide to change course — they get repurposed and built upon for the journey ahead.

Change doesn't have to be permanent. If a new path doesn't work as expected, consider it a failed experiment and keep experimenting until you find the right fit.

How to develop a curiosity over victory mindset in which exploring new perspectives and ways of thinking take priority over always being right.

How to discern between belonging to a supportive community and getting sucked into blind, cult-like tribalism.

And much more...

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824: Is an Age Gap Scandalous If the Relationship's Fabulous? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 14 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Who defines the rules about what makes an age gap between two consenting adults "appropriate?" And if the relationship between you and someone nearly twice your age is fabulous, then who has any right to call your age gap scandalous? We'll investigate this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

If the relationship between you and someone nearly twice your age is fabulous, then who has any right to call your age gap scandalous?

Spanking as a form of discipline for developing kids: Yes or no?

Is there an "I made a job move but not sharing where to" status that works on LinkedIn?

What do you do when you're pro-union in spirit, but the union wants to assassinate the character of your wife who founded the non-profit said union is organizing against?

How can you maintain friendship with people for whom your wife doesn't much care?

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823: Daniella Mestyanek Young | How to Disengage from a Lifelong Cult

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Daniella Mestyanek Young (@daniellamyoung) is a survivor of the religious Children of God cult, a US Army combat veteran, an extremely advanced knitter, and the author of Uncultured: A Memoir.

What We Discuss with Daniella Mestyanek Young:

How the seemingly wholesome Children of God (later known by variations of "The Family") religious group centered around love, faith, and Jesus — and packaged to appeal to impressionable countercultural hippie types of the day — veered into true cult territory under the direction of its leader, David Berg.

How female followers of Children of God were encouraged to use their bodies and sexuality to gain converts and money in a practice known as "flirty flashing."

How child sexual abuse became a commonplace Children of God practice in an effort to raise "sexually liberated" children.

What this cult and others do to cultivate credibility — and raise funds — among its followers and the outside world.

The toll that life in a cult takes on those who are lucky enough to exit.

And much more...

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822: Is a Hefty Health Professional a Hippocratic Hypocrite? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 07 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

At your new job in healthcare, you're surprised that so many of your colleagues — also well-educated with doctorate degrees — constantly complain about their desire to lose weight while simultaneously snacking on bear claws and eschewing basic exercise. Is there a delicate way to mention that they should be setting a better example for the people they've been tasked to keep healthy without being that annoying new person? We'll try to help you find an answer to this and much more here on Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your peers in the healthcare profession complain about being overweight while scarfing down donuts and eschewing basic exercise. Is there a delicate way to mention to your colleagues that they should be setting a better example for the people they've been tasked to keep healthy?

How do you work with somebody you once intensely loved and thought was "the one" but now can't stand? Additionally, how can you trust in future relationships that seem to develop as intensely without worrying they'll similarly disintegrate?

As a woman who aspires to raise a family of your own someday, how do you ensure that your future partner is equally invested in taking care of the children — unlike your friends' useless husbands who can't survive a night without calling for backup?

You and your partner of over a decade used to do everything together, but now you sleep in separate rooms and haven't had sex in a year. How worried should you be about the person to whom they're frequently texting "I love you" and whose parents they've taken to referring as "Mom and Dad?"

When you're unhappy with the inauthentic version of yourself you've been presenting to the world for as long as you can remember, can you re-learn how to be?

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821: John Nores | Reclaiming America's Wildlands from the Drug Cartels

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 06 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Lt. John Nores is a retired 28-year special operations game warden, co-host of the Warden’s Watch podcast, and author of Hidden War: How Special Operations Game Wardens are Reclaiming America's Wildlands from the Drug Cartels.

What We Discuss with Lt. John Nores:

Even though cannabis is now legal in California, drug cartels operate massive, illegal trespass grow operations on public land across the state.

Trespass grow operations cause long-lasting environmental damage, generate pollution, steal water and other resources from the communities where they're raised.

6,000-10,000 people are employed by the cartels to establish and maintain these sites.

Nearby residents who happen to cross paths with these criminals — even on their own property — are in danger of being assaulted or killed with little to no legal repercussions.

DEA and game wardens who monitor this activity have the highest risk of death in the line of duty among law enforcement.

And much more...

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820: Bradley Hope | The Secret Mission to Overthrow North Korea

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 04 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Bradley Hope (@bradleyhope) is the co-founder of journalism studio Project Brazen and the New York Times bestselling coauthor of Billion Dollar Whale and Blood and Oil. His latest book is The Rebel and the Kingdom: The True Story of the Secret Mission to Overthrow the North Korean Regime.

What We Discuss with Bradley Hope:

Was a 2019 incident at the North Korean Embassy in Madrid an intelligence-gathering raid by political dissidents, or a secret defection operation gone wrong?

Why the largest resistance groups committed to helping people defect from North Korea are in the United States.

How North Korea got away with the assassination of Kim Jong-un's half-brother Kim Jong-nam without facing any real consequences on the international stage, and what this not-so-subtle message conveys to anyone thinking of acting against the regime — from anywhere in the world.

Will there ever come a day when China ceases tolerating North Korea's theatrics?

The illicit means by which Kim Jong-un's regime richly bankrolls itself in a starving, bankrupt country.

And much more...

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819: Faith over Flings: A Closeted Conundrum | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

As a gay man of faith, you've made the decision to remain closeted and celibate according to your personal beliefs. But attention from a younger, attractive colleague lured you down a temporary path of temptation from which you've mostly recovered — though a few lurid lapses leave doubts lingering that you can separate the friendship you value with this person from the physical urges you have when you're around him. What should you do? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

As a gay man of faith who's chosen to remain closeted and celibate, can you maintain a platonic friendship with the young man who's tempted you toward physical intimacy on more than a few occasions?

The founders of your company regularly write shoddy, misspelled, grammatically primitive emails to clients. How can you address this diplomatically before they drive all business away to your more competent competitors?

You hoped that co-owning a cottage with your mother and sister would bring you closer together, but it seems to have only complicated your relationship with them. How can you exit the situation gracefully?

Your significant other is addicted to online gambling, and uses your debit and credit cards to fund this addiction. Is it possible to put a stop to this — and maybe salvage the relationship — before you go completely broke? [Thanks to Haesue Jo, Head of Clinical Support at BetterHelp, for helping us with this one!]

How do you handle public criticism on social media from a well-known person in your industry who dislikes you?

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818: Matt Simon | How Microplastics Poison the Planet

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Matt Simon (@mrmattsimon) is a science writer at Wired magazine and the author of A Poison Like No Other: How Microplastics Corrupted Our Planet and Our Bodies.

What We Discuss with Matt Simon:

Microplastics contain a cocktail of toxic chemicals, many of which are linked to diseases like diabetes and cancer.

Microplastics break even further into nanoplastics, which are small enough to move through human organs — including the brain — and enter our cells.

Nearly everything around you — carpets, curtains, coasters, cups, packaging, clothing, couches, beds — contains plastic, and it all sheds plastic particles.

Your home is one of the most polluted places – you could inhale as many as 7,000 microplastics a day.

What we can do to reduce our exposure to microplastics and decrease our reliance on overall plastic consumption.

And much more...

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817: Acupuncture | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 26 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

10 to 15 million people per year turn to acupuncture — the insertion of thin needles through the skin at strategic points on the body — for relieving what ails them. But is there any evidence that it actually works?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The origins of acupuncture are unclear, and the claim that it started in China approximately 3,000 years ago is debated.

Peer-reviewed journal Global Advances in Integrative Medicine and Health claims that acupuncture is one of the most utilized forms of complementary integrative medicine interventions in the US and can help strengthen the immune system and reduce side effects of chemotherapy.

Studies on acupuncture's effectiveness in reducing cancer pain have mixed results due to small sample sizes and design problems. One study showed acupuncture helps deactivate brain areas associated with processing pain, but it only involved 17 people.

Many doctors are privately skeptical about acupuncture and say there's no real science to support the practice, but they often do not speak out against it publicly as they do not see it as particularly harmful.

Acupuncture can actually be a risky treatment, and 86 people have died from improperly placed needles — with the most common cause of death being a condition called pneumothorax.

And much more...

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816: Kids' Pedophile Stepdad Is No Minor Threat | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Sharing child custody with an ex can be an exercise in trust, patience, and compromise. But what happens when that ex decides to remarry and now your kids have a stepdad who has pled guilty to two felony charges of sexual exploitation of a minor? How can you ensure their safety when they're around their pedophile stepdad, and how do you explain what's going on without traumatizing them? We'll try to find answers to these questions and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you protect your kids from their pedophile stepfather and explain the situation without traumatizing them? [Once again, clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis saves the day!]

Your wife's Chinese family is immersed in CCP propaganda, despite living in the US for over 40 years. Now that your father-in-law has passed, your wife wants her mother to move in — but you're concerned about her influence on your children and the risk of being monitored by the CCP for listening to its media. What should you do?

You and your partner moved in together before really knowing each other's darker sides. Although you've turned your own life around, your partner is struggling with mental health and substance abuse issues and exhibits emotionally destructive behavior. You plan to move out and find a new place to live with a friend, but how do you delicately navigate the situation?

You're 28 years old, working for your 73-year-old father in the family business. You want to modernize the company's procedures and processes, but your father resists change and is beginning to display signs of cognitive decline. Can you find a way to take charge of the business while still showing your father you value his advice?

You've been running your own business as a side project for years, but you're ready to bring it to the forefront. Even though it's been demonstrated time and again that you know your stuff, imposter syndrome and a beginner's mindset keep you from being self-confident enough to charge clients an expert rate. How do you make the transition?

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@jamescantorphd) is a clinical psychologist and sexologist whose research centers on the development of sexual interests, including sexual orientation and paraphilias. He maintains the Sexology Today blog, which focuses on the current state of sex research.

What We Discuss with James Cantor:

What makes people gay?

The differences between gay men and gay women.

What should society do about pedophiles who choose to live lives of celibacy rather than act on their urges?

Is there a link between autism and gender dysphoria?

What's the deal with asexuality, paraphilia, vorarephilia, and that thing you think about when nobody else is around?

And much more...

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814: Matt Frederick & Ben Bowlin | Stuff They Don't Want You to Know

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Matt Frederick & Ben Bowlin (@ConspiracyStuff) are the conspiratorial masterminds behind the Stuff They Don't Want You to Know podcast and co-authors of a book that, to avoid any confusion, goes by the same name.

What We Discuss with Matt Frederick & Ben Bowlin:

Why people believe conspiracy theories.

Popular conspiracy theories and why they persist.

Conspiracy theories that turned out to be real.

Telling the difference between true believers and opportunistic grifters.

How we can avoid going down rabbit holes that foment conspiracy theories.

And much more...

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813: The Oscars | Skeptical Sunday.

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 19 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What makes the annual pageantry of The Academy Awards (aka The Oscars) so alluring to millions of everyday folks? Are we transfixed by the film industry's recognition of its worthiest, or are we just voyeurs glimpsing a glamorous world a scant few of us will ever experience? Award-winning journalist and podcaster Andrew Gold joins us for this Skeptical Sunday to demystify the mystique and break the spell behind one of the world’s most celebrated events. (And don't worry, David C. Smalley fans! David will return soon for future installments of Skeptical Sunday!)

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Who decides who's worthy of winning an Oscar?

How does someone become a member of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences?

Were Will Smith and Chris Rock paid big money to stage that infamous slap in 2022?

Why is the number of people tuning in to the annual ceremony dwindling compared to its heyday?

Why would anyone object to shortening the length of the ceremony to suit the attention span of a modern audience?

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812: Your Ex is Your Boss: Is Your Career Lost? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What comes next when your boss is also your ex? If you happen to grumble, will your career crumble? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What comes next when your boss is your ex? If you happen to grumble, will your career crumble?

Your beloved brother married the woman you once considered your best friend. You've since discovered she's a manipulative she-hag with questionable politics and now you want nothing to do with either of them. How do you deal with them when they reach out to reconnect?

Your lack of a current relationship makes your roommate's loudly vocal confirmation of the opposite awkward. How should you diplomatically handle this?

You worry that your physically fit nephew who wants to join the Navy SEALs might not be mentally fit enough to handle the violence of war. He wants to enlist because it would look good on his resume, but you doubt his commitment to killing strangers for his country. What should you do?

When you're a small-potatoes but sincere podcast host, how do you deal with disrespectful guests who feel like they're doing you a favor for giving you the time of day?

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811: Jan Broberg | The True Crime Story of a Young Girl Abducted

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 16 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Jan Broberg (@janbroberg) is an actress, singer, dancer, host of The Jan Broberg Show, subject of the Netflix documentary Abducted In Plain Sight and Peacock's A Friend of the Family, and author of The Jan Broberg Story: The True Crime Story of a Young Girl Abducted.

What We Discuss with Jan Broberg:

One in four children will be molested, and 97 percent of the time, it's by a family member. In Jan Broberg's case, it was by a close "friend" of the family.

How this predator — himself a father of five — expertly infiltrated the trust of Jan's family when she was just a child and manipulated her, her siblings, and her parents into questioning their very reality.

How Jan was kidnapped by this family "friend" not once, but twice as a teenager, and what happened in the aftermath when she was finally recovered.

Why this story — and countless stories like it — should serve as a wake-up call to legislators that we need to update public policy and raise awareness of this all-too-common threat to our children.

How our children can be prepared to speak up when the adults in their lives violate their trust and abuse them — and what we as adults can do to ensure their claims are taken seriously and remove them from danger.

And much more...

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810: Nita Farahany | Thinking Freely in the Age of Neurotechnology

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Nita Farahany (@NitaFarahany) is a law professor at Duke University; a leading expert on the ethical, legal, and social implications of emerging technologies; and the author of The Battle for Your Brain: Defending the Right to Think Freely in the Age of Neurotechnology.

What We Discuss with Nita Farahany:

Consumer technology that can track, decode, and even manipulate what goes on in the brain is no longer just a plot device in some far-flung sci-fi novel — it's already beginning to come to market.

An ALS patient recently set a record for communicating through a brain implant at 62 words per minute (in comparison, ALS-afflicted physicist Stephen Hawking was only able to communicate at about 15 words per minute by the time of his death in 2018).

Though still in its infancy, consciously transmitted brain-to-brain communication has proven successful in the laboratory.

Functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) scans can accurately sense political bias from subjects' unconscious thoughts.

Brain scans reveal that a significant percentage of coma patients who can't speak or move are aware of the world around them and can communicate through electroencephalogram (EEG) sensors.

And much more...

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809: Crystal Healing | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 12 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PST

The crystal industry generates over $1 billion per year. But what exactly do crystals do? Some have said they store energy. Others say they have healing powers. But what does the science say?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Over the last five years, the number of Google searches for "crystal healing" has more than doubled — fueled, in part, by celebrity endorsements from the likes of Katy Perry, Kate Hudson, and Adele, who has been known to clutch one during performances to combat stage fright.

A Himalayan pink salt lamp — marketed as having mood-boosting properties — was one of Amazon's best-selling home-improvement products over the 2017 holiday season among its Prime subscribers.

Different crystals are said to possess certain powers — from bloodstone (which purports to improve circulation) to citrine (for enthusiasm and creativity bolstering) to sapphire (to prompt prosperity).

According to Pew Research, whether you're the most staunch Christian or consider yourself "religiously unaffiliated," there’s a 62% chance that you believe in at least one New Age belief —including crystals storing energy. This probably accounts for the crystal industry raking in more than $1 billion per year.

Is this all a load of poppycock, or does science lend any credibility to claims that crystals are anything but pretty rocks imbued with perfectly normal rock powers?

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808: Felonious Fellow is Harshing Your Mellow | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 01:00:00 PST

You sank your savings into a lovely house with a big yard to call your own, only to discover that the nearest neighbor who lives down the drive is a repeat violent offender who's done time for attempted murder. Now you feel unsafe on your own property because you're constantly stressing about the countless ways you might unintentionally set him off and turn yourself into a target. Where should you go from here? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The felon down the drive makes it hard for you to thrive. Where should you go from here? [Thanks to executive security manager George Grant for helping us with this one!]

Your deadbeat friend won't kick in his fair share of the rent. Though you've known him forever, you can't foot the bill whenever he decides not to pay up. What should you do?

Are the concerns you have over your significant other's narcissistic tendencies valid, or should you trust their interpretation of your overreaction?

Your significant other has lost their chance at the dream job they've idealized almost since birth. Where should you go from here?

How does a teenage atheist find comfort in the uncertainty of life, the universe, and everything?

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807: Siddharth Kara | How the Blood of the Congo Powers Our Lives

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 Mar 2023 01:00:00 PST

Siddharth Kara (@siddharthkara) is a British Academy Global Professor, an Associate Professor of Human Trafficking and Modern Slavery at Nottingham University, a Senior Fellow at the Harvard School of Public Health, and the author of the New York Times bestseller Cobalt Red: How the Blood of the Congo Powers Our Lives.

What We Discuss with Siddharth Kara:

Cobalt is an essential component of every lithium-ion rechargeable battery made today — the batteries that power our smartphones, tablets, laptops, and electric vehicles.

About 75 percent of the world's supply of cobalt is mined in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, often by peasants and children in subhuman conditions who suffer and often die for their trouble.

The environmental impact of cobalt extraction, including deforestation and pollution, that leaves behind toxic pits and wasteland unfit for sustaining life.

The complex web of actors involved in the exploitation of Congo's mineral resources, including smugglers, traders, and corrupt government officials.

As consumers, what can we do to raise awareness and jolt ourselves out of the apathy that allows these atrocities to continue in our names while holding the multinational interests that perpetrate them accountable?

And much more...

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806: Neil Woods | Undercover in the UK's Most Vicious Drug Gangs

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 Mar 2023 01:00:00 PST

Neil Woods (@wudzee0) spent 14 years as an undercover drugs operative, gaining the trust of some of the most violent, unpredictable criminals in Britain. Now he's an active member of the international drug policy reform movement, and author of Good Cop, Bad War and Drug Wars.

What We Discuss with Neil Woods:

The complex logistics of undercover law enforcement operations.

The skills of persuasion and manipulation an undercover operative relies on to get the job done and stay alive in the process.

Neil's close calls and epic failures while working undercover that he somehow managed to survive.

How the pressure placed on police departments to get results makes corruption almost inevitable — even among officers committed to doing the right thing.

Why, after spending 14 years trying to win the war on drugs, Neil now advocates an evidence-based drug policy and related criminal justice reforms.

And much more...

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805: Diet Pills and Supplements | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 05 Mar 2023 01:00:00 PST

Are the diet pills and supplements you take to offset that midnight chalupa habit doing you any favors? You wouldn't be alone in wondering. All over the world, people buy pills or supplements in hopes of preventing disease, improving their health, and losing weight. But do any of them really work?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

With 40% of Americans being obese, 70% overweight, and 100% duped by corporate greed for an easy, instant solution, it's no wonder diet pills and supplements are pitched as the greatest thing since sliced bread (and the bread is probably how you got like that).

A self-administered injection of semaglutide (popularly branded as Wegovy or Ozempic) can provide up to 17% weight loss at a cost of over $1,300 per month. Side effects include possible thyroid tumors, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation, headaches, kidney damage, and stomach pain.

Fat blockers can reduce fat intake by 30%, but the weight loss is typically only around six pounds over two years.

The diet supplement industry is largely unregulated by the FDA, so there's a risk of potentially harmful, unlabeled ingredients sneaking past protective scrutiny.

Over-the-counter diet supplements are often BS, but green tea is a natural weight loss aid that can help block fat, suppress appetite, and help people lose weight.

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804: Beau's Bad Bets Bust Beloved's Bank | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 Mar 2023 01:00:00 PST

Your gambling addict of a boyfriend has put you $70,000 in debt, and now you're wondering if the notarized document he's agreed to sign will really be enough to ensure you'll ever see that money again. While you're smart enough to know the house always wins when wagering, you have a sneaking suspicion that the girlfriend doesn't. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your gambling addict of a boyfriend has put you $70,000 in debt, and now you're wondering if the notarized document he's agreed to sign will really be enough to ensure you'll ever see that money again. [Thanks to Corbin Payne for helping us with yet another doozy!]

You worry your good friend may be getting married before he's emotionally or financially ready — and the couple's frequent bickering just exacerbates your misgivings. Should you voice your concerns, or just let them go?

Recent layoffs at your company — of long-time and high-performing employees, many of your friends included — leave you feeling disheartened and insecure, even though you survived this round. Is preparing your resume the most logical next step?

Your 76-year-old mother has recently admitted to suffering serious health issues from the stress of caring for her dying husband and wondering how to take care of herself once he's gone. If you can't convince her to try therapy, how might you help her manage this stress that's tearing her apart?

Being a charismatic teenager who's always romantically approached might sound like a dream to most of your peers, but the truth is you hate hurting the ones you turn away. Aside from eschewing basic hygiene, is there a compassionate way to dial down the mojo?

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803: Martin Seligman | Flourishing in an Uncertain Future

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 02 Mar 2023 01:00:00 PST

Martin Seligman is the Fox Leadership Professor of Psychology at the University of Pennsylvania and the director of the Positive Psychology Network. He is the author of 20+ books including Learned Optimism and The Optimistic Child; his latest (co-authored with Gabriella Rosen Kellerman) is Tomorrowmind: Thriving at Work with Resilience, Creativity, and Connection ? Now and in an Uncertain Future.

What We Discuss with Martin Seligman:

Studies have shown that optimistic people with highly positive emotions live between six and eight years longer than their more pessimistic peers.

Personality traits, past experiences, and current circumstances can all play a role in shaping an individual's outlook on life — and their tendency to veer toward optimism or pessimism.

How Martin's five-year-old daughter inspired him to stop being a grouch and shift his professional priorities in a more positive direction — all because of her own commitment to stop whining.

How, by focusing on strengths, resilience, and positive psychological growth, military personnel can learn to better cope with the stresses of their duties and build a more positive and effective team culture.

How we can apply positive psychology strategies to overcome the crisis of purpose and find greater fulfillment in our lives by cultivating gratitude, setting meaningful goals, practicing mindfulness, and finding ways to serve others — even if we're predisposed (genetically or otherwise) toward pessimism.

And much more…

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802: Michael Santos | Conquering a 45-Year Prison Term

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Michael Santos (@MichaelGSantos) survived 26 years as a federal prisoner, hosts the Prison Professors podcast, and is the author of Earning Freedom!: Conquering a 45-Year Prison Term.

What We Discuss with Michael Santos:

How Michael Santos got sentenced to 45 years in federal prison when he was just 23 years old — not for committing a violent crime, but for establishing himself as a cocaine entrepreneur at the height of the War on Drugs (and committing perjury just made things worse).

What this conviction meant to Michael's relationship with his family — and his wife.

The three-prong plan Michael applied to the sudden wealth of time he had on his hands to find a way to reduce his sentence and hit the ground running when he finally got out.

How the system is designed to trip up attempts inmates make toward self-improvement and rehabilitation.

How Michael made his first million behind bars.

And much more...

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801: Circumcision | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 26 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

While mandated by some religious and cultural traditions for thousands of years, and not without certain benefits to health, is circumcising newborns before they're old enough to consent wrong?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Male circumcision is the oldest known human surgical procedure, with historical records and archeological evidence dating the practice back to ancient Egyptians in the 23rd century BCE.

While circumcision is mandated by numerous cultural and religious traditions and enacted for health reasons in certain parts of the world, is the practice of altering someone's body before they're old enough to give consent wrong?

Some medical professionals believe the preventive health benefits of elective circumcision of male newborns outweigh the risks of the procedure.

What special interests are involved in recommending or not recommending circumcision as a standard procedure?

What's the deal with so-called female circumcision — or, as it's more accurately known, female genital mutilation (FGM)?

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800: Can Therapy Wreck a Background Check? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Sexually abused by your own brother at a young age, and aware of your own proclivities to possibly abuse others younger than yourself, you wonder if seeking therapy to alleviate how you feel might get you in trouble if you ever sought security clearance for a government job. What should you do? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Will seeking therapy for your own issues related to being sexually abused as a child result in denial of security clearance for a government job?

Multiple rounds of job interviews — with zero results — have taken their toll on your mental health. How can you remain rageless when the machine treats you like a soulless cog?

Is it wrong to cut off your dying, constantly complaining BPD dad when his apologies for being a terrible parent are conditional upon accepting that your mother wasn't a saint?

You've booked a one-way ticket abroad in hopes of finding respite from your relationship dry spell. Is there a better way to get past your insecurities and put yourself out there?

Is booking that childhood dream destination for your honeymoon worth the trouble, or should you just go somewhere safe and scenic?

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799: Marina Nemat | Surviving Inside an Iranian Prison

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 23 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Marina Nemat (@marinanemat) is a human rights activist who survived torture and imprisonment in Iran after Ayatollah Khomeini's Islamic Revolution. She chronicled her ordeals in Prisoner of Tehran: One Woman's Story of Survival Inside an Iranian Prison.

What We Discuss with Marina Nemat:

How life for women in Iran prior to Ayatollah Khomeini's Islamic Revolution mirrored their contemporaries in the United States.

Why most of the populace optimistically thought the Islamic Revolution was ushering in much-needed changes over the first few months — and what happened when things started to quickly turn sour.

How 16-year-old Marina got on the regime's radar and wound up in Tehran's notoriously brutal Evin Prison.

The torture Marina endured while imprisoned, and the ultimatum she was forced to accept in lieu of execution.

Why Marina was eventually released from prison, and what she's done with her time since then.

And much more...

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798: Forrest Galante | A Wild Life of Rediscovery

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Forrest Galante (@ForrestGalante) is a wildlife biologist, conservationist, co-host of The Wild Times Podcast, and TV presenter for Extinct or Alive and Mysterious Creatures. He is also the author of Still Alive: A Wild Life of Rediscovery.

What We Discuss with Forrest Galante:

What happened when an Amazonian shaman insisted Forrest snort an unknown powder from a monkey bone to keep him safe on the journey ahead?

How growing up as an almost feral, shoeless child on a farm in Zimbabwe prepared Forrest to survive in the wilderness (and why he doesn't have an accent anymore).

How Forrest wound up as a successful contestant on Naked and Afraid, which led him to leave his job as an ant-counting biologist and continue his conservation efforts in a more visible medium: television.

How does Forrest go about finding animals in the wild that have been presumed extinct?

How did Forrest and his crew survive trudging around the mangrove jungle on Ramree Island where hundreds of Japanese soldiers had been eaten alive by saltwater crocodiles during WWII?

And much more...

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797: Ouija Boards | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 19 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Every year around Halloween, millions of teenagers, drunk adults, and terrified believers gather around Ouija boards to contact "The Other Side." We've all been a part of it, and we know we weren't moving that little thing, but it was definitely moving. So what’s really going on here?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

How a pair of sisters playing a prank on their parents in upstate New York escalated into a spiritualism craze that took the 19th century United States — and then the world — by storm.

The Medieval Chinese origins and evolution of what we know today as the Ouija board.

How the spiritualism craze boosted the Ouija board's adoption into millions of households (even outselling Monopoly in 1967).

The indelible marks the Ouija board has made on our lives — from pop culture to the law.

The science behind what makes the Ouija board "work."

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796: Pervert-in-Law Scammer Belongs in the Slammer | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Your creepy brother-in-law has been using explicit pictures of you — which he obtained through a nanny cam he secretly installed in your bedroom eight years ago — to anonymously threaten you with blackmail. Your sister was in the process of divorcing him and turned his laptop over to the police as evidence, but you fear she may be getting back together with him and may no longer be willing to cooperate when you press charges. To top it off, it's been three months since the police were involved and there's been no progress in holding this would-be scammer accountable. What can you do now? We'll try to answer this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you hold your brother-in-law accountable for trying to blackmail you with explicit photos he took with a secret nanny cam when your own sister and the police seem to be on his side? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

If you're in your thirties (or over) and considering going back to university, how can you make the most of the experience and deal with its inevitable uncertainties?

How can you help your cousin's business thrive when he's put it $30,000 in the hole with gambling debt and only pays you 1/3rd of what the guy you replaced was making?

Sharing dog custody with a cheating ex led to a night of spontaneous intimacy, and now you're confused about maybe giving things another chance. Yes or no?

Moving abroad to shorten a long-distance relationship probably wouldn't be so bad if it didn't put a bigger gap between you and your family. But you also can't deny feeling a bit disconnected not only from your significant other, but yourself. Have you made a huge mistake, or is this a natural adjustment most expats face?

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795: Alastair Smith | The Dictator's Handbook Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 16 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Alastair Smith is the Bernhardt Denmark Chair of International Relations at New York University, professor of political science in the Wilf Family Department of Politics, and co-author (with Bruce Bueno de Mesquita) of The Dictator's Handbook: Why Bad Behavior is Almost Always Good Politics. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Find part one here!]

What We Discuss with Alastair Smith:

How do dictators come to power and remain in power even when their policies serve only themselves and not the people under their "leadership?"

Why do the majority of people living under dictatorships suffer in impoverished squalor, and how does foreign aid empower these dictators rather than help the general populace?

Why do dictators consistently hate freedom, the media, and seemingly their own citizens?

Why does bad behavior so often make for good politics — even in the most progressive nations?

Are our own governments beyond saving, or can we use lessons learned here to make them work for us?

And much more...

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794: Alastair Smith | The Dictator's Handbook Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Alastair Smith is the Bernhardt Denmark Chair of International Relations at New York University, professor of political science in the Wilf Family Department of Politics, and co-author (with Bruce Bueno de Mesquita) of The Dictator's Handbook: Why Bad Behavior is Almost Always Good Politics. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Please check back later in the week for part two!]

What We Discuss with Alastair Smith:

How do dictators come to power and remain in power even when their policies serve only themselves and not the people under their "leadership?"

Why do the majority of people living under dictatorships suffer in impoverished squalor, and how does foreign aid empower these dictators rather than help the general populace?

Why do dictators consistently hate freedom, the media, and seemingly their own citizens?

Why does bad behavior so often make for good politics — even in the most progressive nations?

Are our own governments beyond saving, or can we use lessons learned here to make them work for us?

And much more...

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793: Death | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 12 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Are you dead wrong to trust the funeral industry in having your best interests at heart when it's time to shuffle off your mortal coil?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The average cost of a funeral is over $11,000.

Lack of regulation and high prices lead to some families not being able to afford funerals. As a result, about 88,000 bodies go unclaimed each year.

Grieving people may not have the emotional energy or knowledge to compare prices, leading to exploitation by funeral companies — like Service Corporation International (SCI), whose prices are 47 percent to 72 percent higher than competitors.

4.3 million gallons of embalming fluid are used in the US each year, which potentially get into the drinking water. 1.4 million cremations recorded in 2017 created CO2 emissions equalling 52,000 cars on the road.

Funerals.org provides information on funeral arrangements and what is necessary versus what is being sold by funeral homes.

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792: Red Flags Making You Rethink Your Shrink | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

A number of red flags have you rethinking the effectiveness of your shrink. Shouldn't they make you feel more capable of facing the world and understanding your place in it instead of less capable and more confused? Is it time for you to shop for a newer, better therapist? We'll try to help you answer this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A number of red flags have you rethinking the effectiveness of your shrink. Is it time for you to shop for a newer, better therapist? [Thanks once again to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

You're concerned about the well-being of an on-again, off-again ex. How can you check in on them without re-entering what always turns out to be a hurtful and toxic relationship?

How might you pitch the higher-ups at your office about covering the costs of the doctorate you're pursuing that would increase your market value within the company — sure to be a win/win for both parties?

When the city government and law enforcement won't do anything to stem the meth production and associated traffic blighting the neighborhood, can the landlords who allow this to continue be held legally accountable? [As always, thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

Everyone you know reached out and offered support when you made your cancer diagnosis public — except for your best friend, who notably kept their distance. Should you even still consider this person your friend?

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791: Mark Manson | Giving a F*ck About What Really Matters

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Mark Manson (@IAmMarkManson) is the New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, and the subject of a new feature film that goes by the same name.

What We Discuss with Mark Manson:

Mark and Jordan discuss how they evolved beyond their roots in the seedy pickup artist (PUA) scene to help people from all walks of life transcend insecurities and discover their true potential — or at least derive entertainment from some books and podcasts.

Mark experiences the ups and downs of becoming a viral sensation: from seeing his book publicly enjoyed by Congressional representatives and Hollywood movie stars to discovering that Putin's using it as an excuse to tighten Russia's censorship laws.

The dangers of delusional positivity — just because believing something makes you feel good doesn't make it real, which means you're going to be especially disappointed when it's time to acknowledge what is real.

Our brains want there to be an easy, fix-all formula for happiness that we can get from attending a self-help seminar or reading a stack of personal growth books, but the principles we learn from them are useless until we go through the effort to apply them to our lives in the outside world.

There's no such thing as bad emotions — there are only bad reactions to emotions.

And much more...

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790: Florence Williams | The Science of Heartbreak

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Florence Williams (@flowill) is a journalist and the author of The Nature Fix: Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier, and More Creative, Breasts: A Natural and Unnatural History, and Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey.

What We Discuss with Florence Williams:

How "real" is heartbreak? Real enough that our brains react to the emotional pain of heartbreak in the same way they react to physical pain.

The chronic loneliness brought about by heartbreak can increase the risk of early death by as much as 26 percent.

Just as you wouldn't expect results from "wishing" a toothache away, ignoring the distress caused by heartbreak can exacerbate existing medical problems and create new ones — from inflammation to diabetes, heart disease, and irritable bowel syndrome.

Differences between the causes and symptoms of heartbreak as typically experienced by women and men.

What we can do to mitigate the pain if we find ourselves suffering from heartbreak.

And much more...

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789: Chocolate | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 05 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Is chocolate your guilty pleasure? Until you listen to this episode, we can almost guarantee you're not feeling guilty enough about it! But don't fret, because we'll also provide resources to help alleviate some of that guilt and allow you to become part of the problem's solution!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

How the production and consumption of chocolate perpetuates a range of negative impacts, including child trafficking, labor exploitation akin to slavery, deforestation, and climate change.

The chocolate industry brings in $100 billion annually, but the farmers who produce it make less than $1 a day toiling long hours in the grueling heat, constantly exposed to poisonous pesticides in unsafe conditions.

High demand for labor is met by children — some as young as five — who are forced into it either by their desperate families or opportunists who abduct and sell them.

How, despite the health benefits of cocoa, there has been a high food safety concern regarding the presence and levels of heavy metals such as nickel, cadmium, chromium, and lead, both in cocoa beans and cocoa products including, cocoa butter, cocoa liquor, cocoa powder, and chocolates.

How consumers can contribute to positive change by being more mindful of where their chocolate comes from and demanding ethical and sustainable production practices. Vote with your dollars for conscientious producers of chocolate who observe fair trade practices!

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788: His Love Is Bona Fide, Not a Mail-Order Bride | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

If the people back home choose to believe negative stereotypes about your true love from another land and the nature of your relationship, it's a damn shame — for them. On this Feedback Friday, we'll delve into why it's almost always okay to blow off the cockamamie opinions of people who should probably be minding their own business!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

People in your town are bound to assume a number of negative stereotypes when you bring your true love from abroad home. But is that really your problem?

What resources best prepared Jordan and Jen for their first child?

What can you do when your sketchy new landlord is pressuring you to avoid his ex-wife (and half-owner of the building) if she comes to introduce herself?

You share children with a gaslighting, abusive ex who damaged your confidence and sense of reality, so you still have to deal with him regularly. How do you warn his wonderful current girlfriend before he does the same to her?

What support does the Chinese Communist Party have from Chinese citizens who have moved abroad? Will declining birth rates and emigration force regime change before the country's infrastructure collapses?

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787: Mitch Lowe | Lessons in Disruption Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 02 Feb 2023 01:00:00 PST

Mitch Lowe (@mitch__lowe) is a co-founding executive of Netflix, the former CEO of MoviePass, the former president of Redbox, and the author of Watch and Learn: How I Turned Hollywood Upside Down with Netflix, Redbox, and MoviePass ? Lessons in Disruption. [This is part two of a two-part episode. You can find part one here!]

What We Discuss with Mitch Lowe:

How Netflix tested, marketed, and made its DVD-by-mail service work at a time when the profit margins were low and its brick-and-mortar competition was high.

How Redbox DVD rentals filled a consumer niche between Netflix and Blockbuster — and was so successful that one machine was being installed per hour for every hour of the day, three years in a row!

Redbox's loss-prevention and cost-capturing strategies for what were essentially unstaffed video vending machines in operation 24/7.

Obstacles Netflix and Redbox faced from business interests entrenched in the status quo (and how they were overcome).

Why Mitch once faked a heart attack to get out of a meeting with Walmart executives.

And much more...

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786: Mitch Lowe | Lessons in Disruption Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 01:19:01 PST

Mitch Lowe (@mitch__lowe) is a co-founding executive of Netflix, the former CEO of MoviePass, the former president of Redbox, and the author of Watch and Learn: How I Turned Hollywood Upside Down with Netflix, Redbox, and MoviePass ? Lessons in Disruption. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Be on the lookout for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Mitch Lowe:

How Mitch's first entrepreneurial adventure involved peddling blacklight posters in Europe at the behest of a shady character by the name of Funky Sam.

What Mitch learned from befriending people on both sides of the conflict in Israel while living there in the '70s.

How Mitch got deported from Egypt as a spy and accidentally witnessed something he shouldn’t have.

How Mitch's terrible investment in a video store led to innovations that would make Netflix — the company he co-founded — wrench domination from entrenched rivals in the video rental industry.

Did Mitch really fake a heart attack to get out of a meeting with Walmart executives?

And much more...

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785: Living with Aplomb in Spite of a Monstrous Mom | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 27 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Your adoptive mom is a narcissistic homophobe whose big concern when you disclosed that you'd been sexually abused by family members was how this would make other people think about her. You've since gone on to become an accomplished writer with friends in high places, but your family has always taken your mother's twisted side over yours and made you feel terrible about yourself. How can you now live with aplomb in spite of your monstrous mom? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You have a successful career and friends in high places, but how can you live your life with aplomb when you've been raised by a monstrous, narcissistic mom?

You're an older grad student who, you've just discovered, comes across as an arrogant know-it-all to your younger peers. Now you worry that you've become so unpopular that the university will ask you to withdraw for failure to mesh with the other students. How can you make this right?

You have reservations about fully trusting your fiancé — who's had over 150 sexual partners, and admits to cheating in a previous committed relationship. No stranger to the sting of being cheated on yourself, how can you move forward without feeling haunted by his past?

Your new job is in jeopardy because of a recent depressive episode that left you incapacitated for weeks. While you're working with a therapist and psychiatrist to get things under control, how can you explain what's been going on to your new boss?

Why are influencers all of a sudden promoting tourism to Saudi Arabia, and how can you sit with the moral dilemma about visiting countries actively committing human rights violations?

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784: Ramy Romany | Unwrapping the Mysteries of Ancient Egypt

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 26 Jan 2023 01:00:20 PST

Ramy Romany (@ramyromany) is an Emmy Award-winning DGA director and cinematographer, a world-renowned Egyptologist, and the co-author of Conspired: The Evil One Shall Not Live Again.

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783: Apolo Ohno | Embracing Change and Finding Purpose

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Apolo Ohno (@ApoloOhno) is a retired American short-track speed skater, an eight-time Olympic medalist, the most decorated American Winter Olympian of all time, and the author of Hard Pivot: Embrace Change. Find Purpose. Show Up Fully.

What We Discuss with Apolo Ohno:

How Apolo's single dad helped him constructively channel his genetic proclivities toward athleticism and abundance of energy — and overcome his physical shortcomings — from an early age.

What drove Apolo's tendency to self-sabotage even as he was becoming the most decorated American Winter Olympian of all time (and what we can do to moderate this mindset in ourselves).

The perils of overtraining — and what Apolo would do differently today if he were still competing as an athlete that would serve him better.

Understanding the difference between entertaining superstitions and creating reliable routines and habits upon which you can rely when seeking success.

The highly transferable lesson Apolo learned when a fluke accident robbed him of a gold medal — and what we can all take away from the disappointment of only landing a silver medal when life doesn't go according to plan.

And much more...

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782: Death of Mother Could Trigger Ballistic Brother | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 20 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Now that your mother-in-law is in hospice, you're worried that your unstable brother-in-law — whose uncomfortable attachment to her makes Norman Bates look like John Boy Walton — is set to go literally ballistic against you and your husband (who has been handling her financial affairs) when she finally passes. Should you skip the funeral, or rent a couple of bulletproof vests and hope for the best? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Should you skip your mother-in-law's funeral to avoid being shot by the unhinged brother-in-law over financial affairs?

You're living abroad with a significant other who cheated on you during the long-distance phase of your relationship, and trust is difficult to regain. You're considering moving out, but you're a stranger in a strange land without a support system. What should you do?

As part of a hard-working sales team, it was disheartening to discover your manager's been playing favorites and spoon-feeding the best leads to her crush. How can you right this wrong without jeopardizing your own position?

How do you best protect yourself, your child, and your niece against a sister struggling with addiction who makes sure none of your good deeds toward her over the years go unpunished?

When talking about medical problems and past trauma makes your friends uncomfortable, is it okay to bury your pain rather than trying to sort the mess out?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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781: Peter Zeihan | Mapping the Collapse of Globalization

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 19 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Peter Zeihan (@peterzeihan) is a geopolitical strategist, founder of the consulting firm Zeihan on Geopolitics, and author of The Absent Superpower, The Accidental Superpower, Disunited Nations, and The End of the World is Just the Beginning: Mapping the Collapse of Globalization.

What We Discuss with Peter Zeihan:

How advancements in technology and global trade have led to a world where virtually everything we could want or need is available on tap.

What the role of the United States has been in creating such a world, and why it seems to be rapidly losing interest in maintaining this role.

What would happen if this interconnected world were to suddenly become disconnected — and the nations of the world had to become self-sufficient and produce their own goods, food, and energy.

How only a small percentage of the world's countries could successfully adapt to such a disruption, and what this would mean for the majority of the global population.

What the aftermath of this social upheaval might look like, and how we can be best prepared to emerge from the chaos intact.

And much more...

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780: Chris Fenton | China's Harrowing Hold Over Hollywood

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 17 Jan 2023 01:00:36 PST

Chris Fenton (@TheDragonFeeder) is an expert on China's influence over Hollywood and how the Chinese government pressures American movie studios into creating soft power propaganda. He is the author of Feeding the Dragon: Inside the Trillion-Dollar Dilemma Facing Hollywood, the NBA, and American Business.

What We Discuss with Chris Fenton:

How China exerts influence over the Hollywood movie industry.

The strategies that are used to make movies and commercials relevant to the Chinese public — and ensure they're pushing the Chinese government's political agenda.

How international film edits differ from Chinese film edits.

What the Chinese government does to punish Hollywood studios that won't play ball.

Why leverage doesn't have to be a one-way street, and how Hollywood can push back against Chinese politics.

And much more...

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Did you hear our conversation with Desmond Shum, the former CCP insider and former husband of disappeared Chinese billionaire “Whitney” Duan Weihong? Catch up with episode 684: Desmond Shum | Wealth, Power, Corruption, and Vengeance in China here!

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779: Almonds | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 15 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

How do the environmental costs of producing almonds outweigh their nutritional benefits? Allow us to count the ways...

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/779

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Almonds are one of the most misunderstood "health foods" of the modern era. As of 2021, US consumption of almonds amounted to about 1.56 million metric tons worldwide, and Americans now consume more than 10 times as many almonds as in 1965. Unfortunately, while they've become a staple of healthy diets, they are not environmentally friendly.

Almond milk is not a true dairy alternative and is mostly made of water, sugar, salt, emulsifiers, vitamins, and ascorbic acid — and only two percent almonds.

Almond farming requires bees to wake up early from hibernation to attend the crop season, and most of the bees rented by farmers die due to pesticides and diseases — up to 50 million per year.

It takes from one to three gallons of water to produce just one almond. That means, at the low end of the scale, one serving of almonds = 23 gallons of water, and one pound of almonds = 1900 gallons. 100 percent of the almonds you buy in the US, and 80 percent of almonds in the world, are produced in California — where there is already an issue with water shortages.

How we can be more mindful of our almond consumption and support alternative products that are more environmentally friendly.

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778: Custody Depends on Testimony Against Old Friend | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 01:00:22 PST

An old friend who wrote you off for remaining neutral when she left her husband is asking you to testify on her behalf to secure full custody of her children. However, you've always known her ex-husband to be a responsible father and are skeptical of her anecdotes that would disqualify him from co-parenting rights. Obviously, the time for neutrality has passed and it's time to pick a side. So where does loyalty lie when legality is on the line? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

First, we have a follow-up of sorts from episode 753: A Clandestine Crossdresser’s Conundrum.

The balance of a custody battle between your ex-bestie and her ex-husband may be tipped by your testimony. Where does your loyalty lie when legality is on the line?

Is it immoral to get into a serious relationship without disclosing your incurable, debilitating illness up front?

Metaphorically speaking, what if you gave up your job rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic to become an engineer on the Lusitania?

Newfound feelings of rage leave you wondering what a healthy relationship with anger looks like for most people — and what might be the best way to channel this feeling toward something positive?

Packages delivered to your address only started going missing when your unstable, gun-toting neighbor moved in, but your landlord refuses to actually do anything about it unless you can provide some kind of proof. What are your options?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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777: Kevin Dutton | The Wisdom of Psychopaths Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 12 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Kevin Dutton (@therealdrkev) is a psychologist and author known for his research on the psychology of evil and the science of charisma. His latest book is The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with Kevin Dutton:

How having a con artist father who never lost his cool sparked Kevin’s interest in understanding the mindset of the psychopath.

What Kevin means when he says that psychopaths understand the “words but not the music” of emotion.

Contrary to popular belief, psychopaths aren’t necessarily violent. They could be a surgeon or a killer, a firefighter or an arsonist. (Or even a professor or an ax murderer.)

Why psychopaths are often excellent at persuasion and identifying weakness in others.

What percentage of the population exhibits psychopathy, and how psychopaths can actually be useful for society.

And much more…

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776: Kevin Dutton | The Wisdom of Psychopaths Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 10 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Kevin Dutton (@therealdrkev) is a psychologist and author known for his research on the psychology of evil and the science of charisma. His latest book is The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Keep an eye out for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Kevin Dutton:

How having a con artist father who never lost his cool sparked Kevin's interest in understanding the mindset of the psychopath.

What Kevin means when he says that psychopaths understand the "words but not the music" of emotion.

Contrary to popular belief, psychopaths aren't necessarily violent. They could be a surgeon or a killer, a firefighter or an arsonist. (Or even a professor or an ax murderer.)

Why psychopaths are often excellent at persuasion and identifying weakness in others.

What percentage of the population exhibits psychopathy, and how psychopaths can actually be useful for society.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/776

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775: Bridezilla's Vanity Tests Bestie's Sanity | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 06 Jan 2023 01:00:51 PST

Participating in your bestie's wedding seemed like a great honor — until she transformed into a demanding Bridezilla. Now it's a stressful horrorshow that's straining what's left of your friendship. Should you stay or should you go? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/775

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your bestie has transformed into a demanding Bridezilla. Should you still participate in her wedding or get out while you can?

After 30 years in an evangelical church that warped your feelings about sexuality, your only relationship fell apart after a few short months. How can you be upfront about your history with potential partners without scaring them off?

You've been so diligent about saving money and investing wisely over the past decade that you could live without a job for five years. So how can you reconcile your desire for a more independent life with your — probably unfounded — fear of financial instability?

Should you ghost, roast, or toast your new aggro-defensive coworker who won't take the criticism necessary to improve — especially when it comes from a woman?

How can you get your significant other to understand that his consumer choices matter — and that you don't want to support companies that, in turn, give money to the corrupt and genocidal Chinese government?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss our interview with Read & Riot: A Pussy Riot Guide to Activism author Nadya Tolokonnikova? Catch up with

774: Jonah Berger | The Hidden Forces that Shape Behavior

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 05 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Jonah Berger (@j1berger) has spent over 15 years studying how social influence works and how it drives products and ideas to catch on. He’s a marketing professor and author, and his new book is Invisible Influence: The Hidden Forces that Shape Behavior. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Jonah Berger:

We like to believe we’re so special that our choices are driven by personal preferences and opinions; the fact of the matter: other people have an influence over almost everything we do.

Rather than seeing influence as negative and manipulative, we should understand how to use it as a toolkit for making better decisions.

Sometimes we allow our social groups or cultural upbringing to influence us toward underachievement.

Learn the one trick that allows negotiators to be five times more successful.

How do we protect ourselves from undesired influence?

And much more…

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773: David Lieberman | Deciphering What People Really Want

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 03 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Dr. David Lieberman (@dr_lieberman) is the author of the book Mindreader: The New Science of Deciphering What People Really Think, What They Really Want, and Who They Really Are. He is a respected expert on human behavior and relationships, with a focus on improving communication and understanding between individuals.

What We Discuss with Dr. David Lieberman:

Common misconceptions about body language that can be safely discarded as nonsense.

The difference between self-esteem and confidence.

Why guilty people usually want the conversation to end as soon as possible, while innocent people often want a further exchange of information.

What spatial immediacy is, and its impact on how people interact and the nature of their communication.

Why the less emotionally and mentally healthy someone is, the less comfortable they are with people who hold opposing viewpoints.

And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/773

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772: Energy Drinks | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 01 Jan 2023 01:00:00 PST

Energy Drinks. What is in these things? Why are some people hooked on them? Why are they wild, unnatural colors? What exactly do they do? Are they dangerous? Are they hype? Or are they both? Sit back, pour yourself a nice tall glass of carbonated, bright-blue, sugar-packed whatever the hell this is, commence vibrating, and get the straight dope on energy drinks.

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/772

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Energy drinks have been linked to irregular heartbeats, cardiomyopathy (a disease that makes it difficult for the heart to pump blood), increased blood pressure, and other heart conditions.

A lot of people in the fitness world like energy drinks, especially diet ones, because they get an energy boost for working out without a huge caloric intake — but their bodies tend to be healthy enough to deal with any adverse effects.

When it comes to caffeine, experts recommend no more than 400 mg per day for adults, or 100 mg for kids. A standard cup of coffee provides anywhere between 95 mg to 200 mg, while one can of an energy drink varies by brand from 111 mg to 280 mg.

The FDA warns that 4,200 mg of caffeine can be lethal to an average adult if ingested all at once — although other conditions can exacerbate its effect at much lower doses. An autopsy reported "caffeine toxicity" as a contributor to a 14-year-old's death after she drank just two cans of 24 oz Monster energy drinks — or about 488 mg of caffeine.

Most energy drinks contain B12 and lots of other vitamins that can be good for fighting off depression (especially in vegans with a low B12 intake), but supplements can provide the same benefits without added caffeine and sugar.

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with David at his website, on Twitter, on Instagram, on TikTok, and on YouTube, and make sure to check out The David C. Smalley Podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts! If you like to get out of your house and catch live comedy, keep an...

771: Sarah Edmondson & Nippy Ames | Surviving NXIVM Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 29 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Sarah Edmondson (@sarahjedmondson) and Anthony "Nippy" Ames (@nippyames) are two former NXIVM cult members turned whistleblowers. Together, they host the podcast A Little Bit Culty, and are featured in HBO's series The Vow. Sarah's 12-year ordeal is chronicled in Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult That Bound My Life. [This is part two of a two-part conversation. Find part one here!]

What We Discuss with Sarah Edmondson and Nippy Ames:

How NXIVM began as a community of like-minded individuals who were committed to personal growth and self-improvement and devolved into a cult under the leadership of its narcissistic founder, Keith Raniere.

How Hollywood celebrities came to be courted and ultimately controlled by Raniere and the NXIVM cult.

The endless abuses suffered by NXIVM's victims — from mind games to being branded as property and trafficked as a way to fund Raniere's lavish lifestyle.

Where Sarah and Nippy existed within NXIVM's hierarchy, the parts they played, and what broke the spell that held them enthralled in the cult's sinister machinations.

How Sarah and Nippy are coping with the aftermath of their traumatic experiences, and what they're doing to raise awareness of how cults like NXIVM ruin people's lives.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/771

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770: Sarah Edmondson & Nippy Ames | Surviving NXIVM Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Sarah Edmondson (@sarahjedmondson) and Anthony "Nippy" Ames (@nippyames) are two former NXIVM cult members turned whistleblowers. Together, they host the podcast A Little Bit Culty, and are featured in HBO's series The Vow. Sarah's 12-year ordeal is chronicled in Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult That Bound My Life. [This is part one of a two-part conversation. Stay tuned for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Sarah Edmondson and Nippy Ames:

How NXIVM began as a community of like-minded individuals who were committed to personal growth and self-improvement and devolved into a cult under the leadership of its narcissistic founder, Keith Raniere.

How Hollywood celebrities came to be courted and ultimately controlled by Raniere and the NXIVM cult.

The endless abuses suffered by NXIVM's victims — from mind games to being branded as property and trafficked as a way to fund Raniere's lavish lifestyle.

Where Sarah and Nippy existed within NXIVM's hierarchy, the parts they played, and what broke the spell that held them enthralled in the cult's sinister machinations.

How Sarah and Nippy are coping with the aftermath of their traumatic experiences, and what they're doing to raise awareness of how cults like NXIVM ruin people's lives.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/770

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769: Narcissist's Antics Make Parents Go Frantic | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Most resources seem to focus on how to separate from people with narcissistic behaviors and get them out of your life — but what are you supposed to do when you’re the loving parent of an adult narcissist and you just want them to have a normal family and a fulfilling, productive life? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/769

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

As a loving parent who really wishes the best for your children, is it possible to reconcile with a violent, gaslighting, blame-deflecting 20-year-old, narcissistic son, or is it time to just cut your losses and move on? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula for helping us field this one!]

As someone with abandonment issues, PTSD, and depression, it drives you nuts that the person you're dating frequently goes for days without contacting you. Should you keep pushing for this relationship, or accept that your personalities may just not be compatible?

When your father was killed in an ATV accident, the driver who picked up the vehicle offered to buy it for $800. Five months after putting down $200, he has still not paid the balance and you're wondering if you can repossess the ATV or report it as stolen. [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

Jordan and Gabe compare what they've learned over this past year of answering Feedback Fridays together, and extend special thanks to Corbin Payne, Dr. Erin Margolis, Michelle Tillis Lederman, Alisa Cohn, and all the other brilliant people who have helped us out in 2022!

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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768: Chase Hughes | The Behavioral Table of Elements

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 22 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Chase Hughes (@thechasehughes) created The Behavioral Table of Elements for behavior analysis in interrogations, and is the author of The Ellipsis Manual: Analysis and Engineering of Human Behavior. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Chase Hughes:

What is The Behavioral Table of the Elements and how can we use it to determine the likelihood that someone is telling us the truth?

Why Chase considers polygraph tests “just about as accurate as a coin toss” — and how they’re actually biased against people who tell the truth.

What someone training to spot deception indicators and stress might learn from watching Conan O’Brien interviews.

How training ourselves to be subconsciously aware of truth signals clues us in when someone who’s lying deviates from them.

How to hack authority for influence and personal development.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/768

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Miss our conversation with FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss? Catch up with episode 165: Chris Voss | Negotiate as If Your Life Depended on It here!

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767: Sohom Das | Decoding Alex Jones, Andrew Tate, and Anna Delvey

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Dr. Sohom Das (@dr_s_das) is a consultant forensic psychiatrist who works in prisons and criminal courts to assess and rehabilitate mentally ill offenders. He is the author of In Two Minds: Stories of Murder, Justice, and Recovery From a Forensic Psychiatrist.

What We Discuss with Dr. Sohom Das:

How was fake heiress Anna Delvey (aka Anna Sorokin) able to convince even the savviest New York social elites that she was one of them and gain access to their checkbooks?

The numerous non-violent ways psychopaths act out to exploit others for their own gratification.

Is social influencer Andrew Tate mentally a 12-year-old playground bully in the body of a former professional kickboxer, or is he just playing a caricature of one for fun and profit?

Why InfoWars honcho Alex Jones can't resist peddling provably false conspiracy theories even though it's bankrupting his media empire down to the rivets.

Are narcissists psychopaths?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/767

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Did you hear our conversation with Paul Holes, the former investigator known for his contributions to solving the Golden State Killer case using advanced methods of identification with DNA and genealogy technology? Catch up with episode 725: Paul Holes | Solving America’s Cold Cases here!

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766: Banned Foods | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sat, 17 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Why are so many of the snacks and drinks offered as safe for consumption in the United States wholly banned in other parts of the world? How bad could our favorite foodstuffs actually be?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Editor's note: A previous version of this show's notes erroneously declared that aspartame was banned in the EU. We are in the process of correcting this and apologize for the error.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/766

On This Week’s Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Coffee Mate's liquid version is banned in Europe due to the presence of trans fats (found in hydrogenated vegetable oils) that can lead to heart disease. While the US requires warning labels for these foods, they are still available to consumers.

Mexican and most European cola brands use cane sugar, while American Coke uses high fructose corn syrup, which is regulated in the EU. High fructose corn syrup has been linked to health issues such as insulin resistance, diabetes, and cardiovascular illnesses.

Aspartame is a low-calorie sweetener found in many US foods and drinks, including diet sodas and gum. It contains phenylalanine, which can cause problems for people with a rare genetic condition called PKU.

While evidence is still being gathered, there have been concerns about the potential health effects of certain artificial food dyes, particularly their potential to cause hyperactivity in children. In the European Union, these dyes are banned from use in food products, while they are widely used in the United States.

The EU has banned the use of growth hormones in cows due to concerns about potential health risks to humans and animals, as well as potential negative impacts on the environment. In the United States, however, they're commonly used in the dairy and meat industries to promote faster growth and increase milk production in cows.

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with David at his website, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, and make sure to check out The David C. Smalley Podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts! If you like to get out of your house and catch...

765: Fella Fretting from Furtive Front Seat Fellatio | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

You're a straight man who was sexually assaulted by another man when you were just 21 years old, and it's haunted you ever since. Additionally, you bear the burden alone because you've never been able to tell your wife about this traumatic experience. What can you do to make this right after all this time? We'll try to help find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/765

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

As a straight man, you were sexually assaulted by another man at 21 and have never told your wife. The experience has been haunting you. What should you do?

Written accuracy is a crucial part of your job, but you seem to make typos and mistakes no matter how hard you try. How can you improve your attention to detail while coping with the anxiety and insecurity that come with being criticized for your slip-ups?

You work hard to secure your children's future, not so your in-laws can hobnob at the country club and drink wine they can't afford — so their failure to repay the $20,000 you loaned them is making you resentful. What do you do now?

Is it worth reaching out to the "friends" who know about how your charming ex used to physically abuse you but went on vacation with him anyway? Or should you just write them all off and look for newer, better friends?

You're a human resources management major who aspires to become a job recruiter. The irony: you can't seem to get yourself a job in spite of doing well in mock interviews. How do you get better at selling yourself to potential employers?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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764: Nick Bilton | Hunting the Dark Web's Silk Road Kingpin

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 15 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Nick Bilton (@nickbilton) is a special correspondent for Vanity Fair, a contributor to CNBC, a former columnist for The New York Times, and author of American Kingpin: The Epic Hunt for the Criminal Mastermind Behind the Silk Road. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Nick Bilton:

How does a merit badge-bedecked Eagle Scout become the head of a thriving online black market worth a billion dollars?

What are the costs of maintaining a double life?

What’s the real reason Silk Road mastermind Ross Ulbricht was caught?

What is Nick Bilton’s unique research process for covering a story like this?

Is everyone susceptible to the level of Ross Ulbricht’s mix of ambition, hubris, and self-deception, or does it require a certain personality type?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/764

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Miss our two-parter with Bridgewater Associates founder and world-famous investor Ray Dalio? Start catching up with episode 389: Ray Dalio | Principles of an Investing Pioneer Part One here!

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763: Laowhy86 | China Uprising | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Laowhy86 (@laowhy86) — aka Matthew Tye, aka C-Milk — is a Westerner who lived in China for 10 years, and watched it change from an opening and liberalizing society into regression and authoritarianism. His YouTube videos explain China, Chinese culture, and Chinese politics, and decode Chinese propaganda so viewers are armed with the knowledge to identify and resist it.

Welcome to what we’re calling our “Out of the Loop” episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media’s news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them. Here, Laowhy86 joins us to share his Westerner’s perspective — with those of us out of the loop — on the uprisings going on in China right now over the government’s draconian lockdowns and ongoing human rights abuses. Listen, learn, and enjoy!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/763

On This Episode of Out of the Loop, We Discuss:

Welded into an apartment building in China’s Xinjiang region to prevent their escape during the Chinese government’s strict “zero-COVID” lockdowns, 10 people — including a three-year-old child — were killed when a fire broke out.

The violent crackdown by authorities during a candlelight vigil for victims of the fire escalated into massive protests against the government, and Chinese President Xi Jinping, across China — at a scale unseen since 1989’s Tiananmen Square massacre.

Coordinated across 79 universities in China, these protests have evolved to include demands for political reform and an end to corruption — a rare display of unity among a population so long repressed by a regime that traditionally punishes dissent with social stigma, imprisonment, and death.

The intensity of these protests is surprising given the effectiveness of surveillance tools used by the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) in the past. This indicates that there is a larger sentiment for dissent among the population than may be visibly apparent.

What this wave of protests portends for the future of China, its people, its historically inflexible authoritarian government, and its place on the global stage.

And much more!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you’d like us to tackle here on an Out of the Loop episode, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

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762: Where on Earth Is Sibling Abducted at Birth? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 09 Dec 2022 01:21:07 PST

Mysterious circumstances suggest your brother didn't die at birth per "official" sources in Cold War-era East Germany, but he may have actually been abducted and sold to a family connected to the corrupt political hierarchy of the day. What can you do to find out for sure and give your parents the certainty they've been seeking for decades? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/762

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Jordan just got back from Morocco and he didn't even bring us a lousy t-shirt. But he's got stories!

Did your brother really die at birth in the midst of the Cold War per "official" East German hospital records, or was he abducted and sold to a family of Communist party insiders? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis (and some secret sources) for helping us with this one!]

Though you love her unconditionally, your partner's negative self-image makes it nearly impossible for you to relay constructive criticism without it being taken as callous insensitivity. What can you do to improve this dynamic? [Thanks to Haesue Jo, Head of Clinical Support at BetterHelp, for helping us with this one!]

Is there a healthy way to justify moving back in with the manipulative ex who’s always trying to weasel his way back into your life in order to save money and see your shared daughter more often?

How can an inexperienced traveler with wanderlust overcome the anxiety of planning a trip to a foreign destination?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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761: Bradley Steyn | Undercover with Mandela's Spies Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 08 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

Bradley Steyn (@bradley_steyn_) is an expert on risk mitigation, operational support, and racial injustice. He is the co-author of Undercover with Mandela's Spies: The Story of the Boy Who Crossed the Square, a memoir of his time as a double agent working for Nelson Mandela during the dying days of South African Apartheid. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part one here!]

What We Discuss with Bradley Steyn:

Bradley shares his observations as a white kid growing up in Apartheid-era South Africa.

How, as a teenager, Bradley bore witness to the brutal Strijdom Square massacre, in which white supremacist Barend Hendrik Strydom calmly took the lives of eight People of Color and injured 16 with a 9mm pistol.

The PTSD, nightmares, anger issues, and emotional distress Bradley was forced to cope with in the aftermath of this horrific experience — and still deals with more than three decades later.

How Bradley was recruited for undercover duty by the feared security police of the Apartheid government while working as a bouncer at a Pretoria gay bar.

What led to Bradley's dedication to the anti-Apartheid struggle and his service as a deep cover double agent within the Department of Intelligence and Security under the directive of Chris Hani's and Nelson Mandela's paramilitary wing, uMkhonto weSizwe.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/761

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Miss our interview with Freeway Rick Ross, the crack empire kingpin gone good? Catch up with episode 121: Freeway Rick Ross | Life in the Crack Lane here!

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760: Bradley Steyn | Undercover with Mandela's Spies Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 06 Dec 2022 01:10:35 PST

Bradley Steyn (@bradley_steyn_) is an expert on risk mitigation, operational support, and racial injustice. He is the co-author of Undercover with Mandela's Spies: The Story of the Boy Who Crossed the Square, a memoir of his time as a double agent working for Nelson Mandela during the dying days of South African Apartheid. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Keep an eye out for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Bradley Steyn:

Bradley shares his observations as a white kid growing up in Apartheid-era South Africa.

How, as a teenager, Bradley bore witness to the brutal Strijdom Square massacre, in which white supremacist Barend Hendrik Strydom calmly took the lives of eight People of Color and injured 16 with a 9mm pistol.

The PTSD, nightmares, anger issues, and emotional distress Bradley was forced to cope with in the aftermath of this horrific experience — and still deals with more than three decades later.

How Bradley was recruited for undercover duty by the feared security police of the Apartheid government while working as a bouncer at a Pretoria gay bar.

What led to Bradley's dedication to the anti-Apartheid struggle and his service as a deep cover double agent within the Department of Intelligence and Security under the directive of Chris Hani's and Nelson Mandela's paramilitary wing, uMkhonto weSizwe.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/760

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Miss our two-part conversation with ex-Al-Qaeda spy Aimen Dean? Catch up by starting with episode 383: Aimen Dean | Nine Lives of a Spy Inside Al-Qaeda Part One here!

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759: Can Mom Cease As Family Man's Side Piece? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Dec 2022 01:00:17 PST

When your mother is the other woman in some other family's affair, how do you compel her to do the right thing and walk away? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/759

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

When your mother is the other woman in some other family's affair, how do you compel her to do the right thing and walk away?

How much is too much when you're considering the cost of an education that should be earning you top dollar?

You're no longer physically attracted to the husband who fathered your children. Should you tough it out until your kids are adults, or would it be better to separate now and hope for the best?

How can you shake the family business and chart your own course when you know you'd feel guilty for abandoning what your parents have built?

What should you do if you find yourself drawn to another person while you’re in a committed relationship?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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758: David Buss | The Evolution of Desire

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 01 Dec 2022 01:00:00 PST

David Buss (@ProfDavidBuss) is a professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. He is considered the world’s leading scientific expert on strategies of human mating, and his most recent book is — appropriately enough — The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with David Buss:

Why does mating matter?

The mating crisis among educated women.

How to select a good long-term mate.

What leads to mating disasters.

What we can do to become better long-term mates.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/758

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Missed our conversation with Daniel Pink in which we discussed the psychology, biology, and economics behind scheduling for optimal effect (including sleep) — and why your ideal time to get something done may widely differ from someone else’s? Catch up with episode 63: Daniel Pink | When Is the Best Time to Get Things Done?

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757: Annie Duke | The Power of Knowing When to Quit

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 29 Nov 2022 01:41:15 PST

Annie Duke (@annieduke) is a World Series poker champion, a shrewd decision-maker, and the author of Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts and Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away.

What We Discuss with Annie Duke:

Why "Never give up!" is objectively terrible advice (as even Muhammad Ali might grudgingly admit).

Life's too short to keep fighting a battle that's only losing ground when you could better devote the time you're spending to more worthwhile pursuits.

Why the worst time to make a decision is when you're already in the middle of it.

How the sunk cost fallacy keeps us spinning our wheels in fruitless attempts at progress long after we should have turned back.

How we can actually tell the difference between a worthy pursuit and a lost cause — and what we can do to resist our own stubborn impulse to persist beyond reasonable defeat.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/757

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Miss our last conversation with Annie Duke — World Series poker champion and author of Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts? Catch up by listening to episode 40: Annie Duke | How to Make Decisions Like a Poker Champ here!

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756: Seeking Reconciliation After Abusing a Relation | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 25 Nov 2022 01:14:41 PST

As a child, you were sexually abused by an older sibling, and you, in turn, abused your younger sibling. How can you overcome the guilt and shame you feel to repair your relationship with this person you've deeply hurt? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/756

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Some listener feedback about the butt-dialer situation from episode 732.

As a child, you were sexually abused by an older sibling, and you, in turn, abused your younger sibling. How can you overcome the guilt and shame you feel to repair your relationship with this person you've deeply hurt?

To your chagrin, the team lead in your old department — someone you consider a friend — wants you to keep helping out even though you've moved on to another position at the company. How do you navigate this without completely blowing up your friendship with this colleague?

Your mother's guilt from cheating on your late father and contributing to the stress that killed him has given her an eating disorder and sapped her will to live. Is there anything you can do to bring her back from the brink?

Can you be a high achiever in law school and work and still have time for family, friends, and the things you love?

You were raised by a verbally and physically abusive mother, and grew up in an area where you were ethnically persecuted daily. As a result, you suffer from PTSD that therapy has only seemed to make worse, and you can't really seem to return the love you've been given in past relationships. Is it possible to find a balance between loneliness and happiness?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss our conversation with actor, producer, and Scientology survivor

755: Dr. Sohom Das | Rehabilitating the Criminally Insane

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 24 Nov 2022 01:25:10 PST

Dr. Sohom Das (@dr_s_das) is a consultant forensic psychiatrist who works in prisons and criminal courts to assess and rehabilitate mentally ill offenders. He is the author of In Two Minds: Stories of Murder, Justice, and Recovery From a Forensic Psychiatrist.

What We Discuss with Dr. Sohom Das:

Telling the difference between someone whose treatable madness is causing them to act out and someone whose irredeemable, criminal badness makes them a permanent danger to society.

Over 97% of the mentally ill defendants with whom Sohom works experienced trauma in childhood.

Comparing and contrasting psychopaths and sociopaths.

How can a psychiatrist determine whether someone in custody is mentally ill or just faking it (and has Sohom ever been fooled)?

What precautions does Sohom take for his own safety when working in close quarters with mad or bad people who mean him harm?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/755

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Miss the show we did with James Fallon — the psychiatry professor who can teach you how to spot a psychopath because he is a psychopath? Catch up here with episode 28: James Fallon | How to Spot a Psychopath!

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754: Miki Mistrati | The Dark Side of the Chocolate Industry

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 22 Nov 2022 01:00:00 PST

Miki Mistrati (@MrMistrati) is the award-winning director of three international documentaries exposing brutal trafficking and illegal child labor in the multi-billion dollar chocolate industry: The Chocolate War, The Shady Chocolate Business, and The Dark Side of Chocolate.

What We Discuss with Miki Mistrati:

How human trafficking, child slavery, and inhumane treatment likely contribute to the production of your favorite chocolate products.

Why, nearly two decades after pledging to eradicate child labor, major chocolate companies still cannot identify the farms where all their cocoa comes from, let alone if child labor was used in producing it.

How the biggest chocolate companies wield their billions of dollars in profits to keep legislation that would hold them accountable at bay.

What we, as consumers, can do to effectively censure these companies and help the people they exploit.

How to ensure the chocolate we enjoy is ethically and sustainably sourced.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/754

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Miss the show we did with Vince Beiser — author of The World in a Grain: The Story of Sand and How It Transformed Civilization? Make sure to check out episode 97: Vince Beiser | Why Sand Is More Important Than You Think It Is!

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753: A Clandestine Crossdresser's Conundrum | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 01:12:35 PST

When you're a secret crossdresser who's had a secret affair with another married man whose untimely death left you grieving in secret, it's got you wondering if you should bury your secret things before you die and your wife discovers what you've been hiding from her for all these years? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/753

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Good news! Skeptical Sundays with David C. Smalley will be back in 2023!

Should you bury evidence of your crossdressing life and an affair you had with a man before your wife discovers it upon your death?

Your parents want to give you and your siblings an inheritance, but how do they compassionately explain excluding your brother who's living as a monk and would have to donate his share to the Church?

You envy your siblings whose lives have worked out better than yours to the point where you don't feel empathy for them when they endure terrible things — like having their houses washed out to sea in a hurricane. How can you cultivate a better attitude toward them?

You've been appointed as class prefect in your high school, but your less ambitious classmates have chosen to bully you instead of following your efforts at leadership. What can you do when your peers don't respect your authority and the administration refuses to help?

Should you remain as a partner at the large law firm where you've been for the past six years when your higher-ups treat you like a doormat, or should you pursue getting a fresh start somewhere new?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss our two-parter with professional pickpocket

752: Angela Duckworth | How to Grow Your Grit

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 17 Nov 2022 01:21:14 PST

Angela Duckworth (@angeladuckw) is a professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania, founder of the non-profit Character Lab, co-host of the No Stupid Questions podcast, and author of NYT bestseller Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Angela Duckworth:

What grit is and how it overrides the myth of innate "talent."

How to quantify your own level of grit.

How to grow your grit and achieve what once seemed impossible.

Why, when you’re a lifelong learner, you’re always going to see in hindsight how you might have done something better in the past — and this is a sign of improvement.

How to know the difference between a lost cause to abandon and a challenge worthy of pursuit.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/752

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Miss the conversation we had with Habits Academy’s James Clear? Catch up by listening to episode 108: James Clear | Forming Atomic Habits for Astronomic Results!

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751: General Robert Spalding | China's Playbook for Global Domination

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 15 Nov 2022 01:22:54 PST

General Robert Spalding (@@robert_spalding) is a retired US Air Force brigadier general, the CEO of digital infrastructure company SEMPRE, and the author of Stealth War: How China Took Over While America’s Elite Slept and War Without Rules: China's Playbook for Global Domination.

What We Discuss with General Robert Spalding:

How a 1999 book by military strategists Qiao Liang and Wang Xiangsui called Unrestricted Warfare has become China's playbook for global domination against the Western world.

Numerous ways the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) exploits Western weaknesses with this playbook's primary tenet: the best strategy for warfare is not to kill, but to control.

Why the CCP isn't likely to crumble under the weight of its own debts as Soviet Russia did, and why a Chinese invasion of Taiwan stands a better chance of success than the Russian invasion of Ukraine.

How the CCP uses corporate espionage, global pandemics, and trade violations to pursue its goal of dominance.

What can we, as individuals clued in to the tactics of this playbook, do to resist the influence of the CCP on the Western world?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/751

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Miss our conversation with elite counterterrorism undercover agent Tamer Elnoury? Catch up with episode 572: Tamer Elnoury | Undercover with a Muslim FBI Agent here!

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750: Can You Help Friend Shake His Psychotic Break? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 01:18:07 PST

Your best friend's tether to reality was severed by a psychotic break when you were living abroad, and you were disheartened upon returning to discover just how immersed in paranoid delusions he'd become. His state seems to have improved for the moment, but you're worried he could succumb to these delusions again at any time. Is there anything you can do to help him, or is this something he needs to work out on his own? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/750

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is there hope you can help your friend recover from a psychotic break that has him immersed in paranoid delusions? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Najwa Culver for helping us with this one!]

You're embarrassed by your hubby's tendency to overdrink in polite company, but any concern or criticism on your part is met with furious pushback. Should you just keep your mouth shut and hope she gets a handle on this, or are you right to intervene?

You were recently given a clear, unambiguous offer for what was more or less your dream job, but it was withdrawn in an email stating the company had decided to go with someone else. Is this grounds for a lawsuit?

Is your significant other's omission of past relationship details meant to: a) hide something, b) protect you, c) convey disrespect, or d) none of the above?

With ongoing world conflicts, the potential loss of abortion rights, climate change, and rising costs of living, how can you justify bringing a child into the world?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss the conversation we had with scambuster Coffeezilla? Catch up with episode 368: Coffeezilla...

749: Yasmine Mohammed | How the West Empowers Radical Islam Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 01:00:00 PST

Yasmine Mohammed (@yasmohammedxx) is a human rights activist who advocates for the rights of women living within Muslim-majority countries, as well as those who struggle under religious fundamentalism in general. She is the founder of Free Hearts Free Minds and the author of Unveiled: How Western Liberals Empower Radical Islam. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part one here!]

What We Discuss with Yasmine Mohammed:

Why curtailing expression in free societies is the worst possible response to threats made by religious fundamentalists.

How the same religious text that serves to inspire millions gets interpreted by extremists to justify gruesome acts of terrorism and tyranny.

How fundamentalist scofflaws abuse the tolerance and goodwill of free societies to drain resources and establish footholds conducive to their extremist ideologies.

Yasmine shares her story of growing up in a subordinate family of a religiously justified polygynous household — not in some remote, developing nation, but Canada.

The dangers that women and secular-minded members of a society run by religious extremists face, and why such societies need to be challenged rather than given a free pass to continue their oppression for fear of offending the people in charge and their enablers — often the oppressed, themselves.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/749

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Miss our conversation with Danny Trejo, the instantly recognizable actor, producer, and restauranteur with a resume that includes crime, hard time, and battling his own addictions while helping troubled youth overcome theirs? Catch up with episode 398: Danny Trejo | Inmate #1 here!

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748: Yasmine Mohammed | How the West Empowers Radical Islam Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 08 Nov 2022 01:00:00 PST

Yasmine Mohammed (@yasmohammedxx) is a human rights activist who advocates for the rights of women living within Muslim-majority countries, as well as those who struggle under religious fundamentalism in general. She is the founder of Free Hearts Free Minds and the author of Unveiled: How Western Liberals Empower Radical Islam. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Be on the lookout for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Yasmine Mohammed:

Why curtailing expression in free societies is the worst possible response to threats made by religious fundamentalists.

How the same religious text that serves to inspire millions gets interpreted by extremists to justify gruesome acts of terrorism and tyranny.

How fundamentalist scofflaws abuse the tolerance and goodwill of free societies to drain resources and establish footholds conducive to their extremist ideologies.

Yasmine shares her story of growing up in a subordinate family of a religiously justified polygynous household — not in some remote, developing nation, but Canada.

The dangers that women and secular-minded members of a society run by religious extremists face, and why such societies need to be challenged rather than given a free pass to continue their oppression for fear of offending the people in charge and their enablers — often the oppressed, themselves.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/748

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with vertical skateboarding legend Tony Hawk? Catch up with episode 324: Tony Hawk | How Did I Get Here? here!

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747: Would a Girlboss Wife Ruin Your Boyboss Life? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Would marrying your type-A "girlboss" special lady friend cramp that type-A "boyboss" lifestyle you've been rocking since college? We'll try to find a reasonable answer to this very serious question (and more!) here on Feedback Friday.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/747

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What's the deal with people playing videos at full volume on their phones in public spaces lately?

Would marrying your type-A "girlboss" special lady friend cramp that type-A "boyboss" lifestyle you've been rocking since college?

Your husband's TikTok-influencer ex-wife is the kind of person who exploits a relative's benign tumor as a cancer scare to fraudulently crowdfund her vacation. You'd like to believe karma will out her publicly as a terrible person, but would it be wrong for you to "help" karma bring this about sooner rather than later?

What's the right way to respond to newfound information that a coworker with an equivalent title who's only been employed one year to your four is annually making $18,000 more than you?

An area church is blatantly fundraising and lobbying to get its members elected in local governments around the world and here in the US with the aim of nudging policy in a theocratic direction. Is this even legal and, if not, where can such activity be reported?

To stock your retail business, you just bought a bunch of stuff that you later came to realize was likely created by slave labor in China — but you can't return it. How can you best support human rights without compromising your financial situation?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss the show we did with Shark Tank heavyweight Mark Cuban? Catch up with

746: Yass Alizadeh | Iran Protests | Out of the Loop

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Yass Alizadeh (@AlizadehYass) is a clinical assistant professor of Persian language and literature and the Persian program coordinator at New York University. Her research focuses on the layering of ethical themes in the ambiguously coded language of folktales in Modern Iran, the intricate link between politics and fiction, and the critical role of metaphors in the reframing of Iran’s classical oral tales.

Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them. Here, we talk with NYU clinical assistant professor of Persian language and literature Yass Alizadeh about the protests going on in Iran right now for people who may be a bit out of the loop. Listen, learn, and enjoy!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/746

On This Episode of Out of the Loop, We Discuss:

What spark set off the current round of protests in Iran, and how does this differ from previous periods of unrest in the country?

How did Iran go from a rapidly modernizing state to a tyrannical theocracy?

Why the younger generations in Iran are standing up to the current regime in ways prior generations didn't dare.

Iranian regime change vs. regime reform — who really supports each approach and why it matters.

Where Yass sees these protests going, and what she hopes they bode for the future of the Iranian people.

And much more!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on an Out of the Loop episode, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

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Miss our conversation with NPR’s Guy Raz? Catch up with episode 404: Guy Raz | How I Built This here!

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745: Dave Farina | Debunking Junk Science Myths

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 00:29:01 PDT

Dave Farina (@daveexplains) is on a mission to make science make sense for everyone — whether it's through his Professor Dave Explains YouTube channel, his Professor Dave Debates podcast, or his new book, Is This Wi-Fi Organic?: A Guide to Spotting Misleading Science Online (Science Myths Debunked).

What We Discuss with Dave Farina:

How the Internet went from a promising reservoir of unlimited knowledge for all to an insidious superspreader of disinformation.

Why it's easier than ever for people to simply deny inconvenient facts that don't support their worldview.

How NASA went from the revered public institution that miraculously landed human beings on the moon to the scapegoat for conspiracy theorists who insist the Earth is flat.

Why synthetic doesn't always equate with bad, and natural doesn't automatically mean good.

Who profits from the proliferation of fake science, and what can we do to separate the wheat from the chaff when we're bombarded with copious amounts of fact and fiction?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/745

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Miss our conversation with true crime exoneree Amanda Knox? Catch up with episode 386: Amanda Knox | The Truth About True Crime here!

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744: Heinous Bro Needs the Old Heave-Ho | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 28 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your brother is such an overall horrible, vicious, violent person that the cops could pick him up for murder and you'd confidently say, "I'm pretty sure you've got the right guy." So the years he's chosen to drop out of your life have been blissful. Unfortunately, he's back causing havoc in your life and the only way you'll ever have peace is to distance yourself from him completely. But how? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/744

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

We have an update on Gabe's neighbor from episode 705.

Your human carbuncle of a brother has made your life — and the life of everyone else in your family — Hell for years, and you wish he'd just go away. What can you morally and legally do to make this happen?

You have an ex who's publically airing grievances that you cheated on her, abused her, and gaslit her — and none of it is true. How can you stop her from spreading these lies and reassure your friends and family who have heard them that they're complete fabrications?

You adopted your daughter, now age seven, three years ago after her birth mother committed a serious crime. Is it appropriate to tell your daughter the details when she asks?

You've always been on great terms with your brother, but you find his current choice of girlfriend lacking. In fact, you think she may be an actual psychopath and you don't want him to bring her around anymore. Instead of being understanding about your concerns, he's taken her side and treats you like the enemy. What can you do?

It's hard to feel like you're part of a supportive team when you're always the one willing to look like an idiot in front of your new manager to ask the questions everyone else only pretends to know. How can you ensure your manager doesn't really think you're an idiot?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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743: Dr. Ramani | How to Protect Yourself from a Narcissist Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 27 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Dr. Ramani Durvasula (@DoctorRamani) is a clinical psychologist, professor of psychology, media expert, and author. Her latest book is "Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to listen to part one here!]

What We Discuss with Dr. Ramani Durvasula:

We're all a little selfish sometimes. So how do you tell a genuine narcissist from someone who's just having a bad day?

Is it just our collective imagination, or is true narcissism on the rise (or at least more visible)?

Is someone necessarily born a narcissist, or can they "catch" it later in life?

Can a narcissist be reformed?

How can you protect yourself from a narcissist if just staying 500 feet away at all times isn't a viable option?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/743

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Did you hear our conversation with basketball legend Shaq about everything from sports to politics to emotional management to flat earth theory? Catch up with episode 691: Shaquille O’Neal | Circling Back on Flat Earth Theory here!

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742: Dr. Ramani | How to Protect Yourself from a Narcissist Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 00:15:52 PDT

Dr. Ramani Durvasula (@DoctorRamani) is a clinical psychologist, professor of psychology, media expert, and author. Her latest book is "Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Be on the lookout for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Dr. Ramani Durvasula:

We're all a little selfish sometimes. So how do you tell a genuine narcissist from someone who's just having a bad day?

Is it just our collective imagination, or is true narcissism on the rise (or at least more visible)?

Is someone necessarily born a narcissist, or can they "catch" it later in life?

Can a narcissist be reformed?

How can you protect yourself from a narcissist if just staying 500 feet away at all times isn't a viable option?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/742

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Did you hear our two-part conversation with the retired ATF agent who worked undercover for years to bust numerous criminal organizations — including a notorious motorcycle club? Catch up starting with episode 673: Ken Croke | Undercover in an Outlaw Biker Gang Part One here!

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741: Is Marriage Impaired by Emotional Affairs? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

He may not physically be cheating on you, but his penchant for "mentoring" young women — on at least four occasions that you know of — is tantamount to having multiple emotional affairs. He's a good father and a mostly considerate partner, but the fact that these overly intense relationships with other women continue in spite of your protests makes you wonder if your marriage is worth saving. What should you do? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/741

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

While it never turns physical, does your husband's tendency to get emotionally involved with young women endanger your marriage?

Does your new boss need to know the details about how you overcame the obstacles presented by your former, toxic boss to land a better position at the company the day before you were supposed to be fired? [Thanks to executive coach and From Start-Up to Grown-Up author Alisa Cohn for helping us field this one!]

You and your child are moving overseas to be with your fiancé, but your family and friends at home all want you to stay. How can enjoy the next chapter of your life without feeling guilty about turning the page on your old one?

Should you ask your unreliable, drug-addicted sister to be a bridesmaid at your wedding and prepare for disappointment when she doesn't show up, or do you commit the unforgivable offense of not inviting her at all and risk being cut out of her life forever?

Are you strong, self-made, and independent without the need for a significant other to cramp your lifestyle, or really just a hopeless romantic who's desperate for love and attention but unsure how to get it without losing that hard-won independence?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @ryanholiday) is the host of The Daily Stoic podcast and the bestselling author of countless books about marketing, culture, Stoicism, and the human condition. His latest offering is Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control, and he joined us live in Los Angeles to talk about this and lots more!

What We Discuss with Ryan Holiday:

How do you get into the headspace where you do your best work when everything in the modern world is trying to distract you from getting there?

In spite of writing his first book about 1,800 years after Marcus Aurelius wrote his last, has Ryan really outsold the Stoic philosopher emperor?

How do we keep from letting our desire to be perceived as great get in the way of truly achieving greatness (or at least creating good work)?

Do you have the serenity of mind to accept that which cannot be changed, courage to change that which can be changed, and wisdom to know the one from the other in order to live your best life?

How Stoicism's four cardinal virtues (courage, temperance, justice, and wisdom) can guide you even when the circumstances in which you find yourself are beyond your control.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/740

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Miss our conversation with Daniel Levin, a man who knows how to track down people who have gone missing in war zones and bring them home alive? Catch up with episode 617: Daniel Levin | How to Find a Missing Person in the Middle East here!

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739: Matthew Campbell | Examining Global Shipping’s Grim Underbelly

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Matthew Campbell (@MattCampbell) is an award-winning reporter and editor for Bloomberg Businessweek magazine and the co-author, with Kit Chellel, of Dead in the Water: A True Story of Hijacking, Murder, and a Global Maritime Conspiracy.

What We Discuss with Matthew Campbell:

The International Chamber of Shipping estimates about 90 percent of world trade is carried by the international shipping industry to the tune of around $14 trillion (about 2/3rds of the US GDP) per year.

Piracy persists in places along these lucrative shipping lines because people who have nothing to lose are willing to risk their lives for potentially big payouts.

Why insurance surveyor David Mockett didn't quite buy the story that Somali pirates had attacked oil tanker Brillante Virtuoso when he investigated the site — and how it led to his murder.

Insurance fraud is one of the world's oldest rackets, with instances documented as far back as ancient Greece.

Why rogue ship owners will fly "flags of convenience" — flags of countries with fewer regulations than the ones from which their ships are actually owned.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/739

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Did you hear our conversation with Paul Holes, the former investigator known for his contributions to solving the Golden State Killer case using advanced methods of identification with DNA and genealogy technology? Catch up with episode 725: Paul Holes | Solving America’s Cold Cases here!

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738: "Perfect" Pastor is a Predatory Disaster | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 14 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

What do you do when the very married pastor you've known your whole life as a pillar of the church and community propositions you on LGBTQ hookup app Grindr? You know his wife and kids would be devastated if they knew, but you also know he's vindictive and would likely take any blowback out on your family and their standing in that very same church and community. And if you just do nothing, he's free to prey on other young men without consequence. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/738

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Busy day with too many things on your to-do list? For each item, ask yourself: "What will happen if I don't do this?" [Thanks to James Clear for clarifying this one!]

What do you do when the very married pastor you've known your whole life as a pillar of the community propositions you on LGBTQ hookup app Grindr? [Thanks to Dr. Kevin Glenn for helping us with this one!]

Is there a more constructive way to spend your commute time than reflecting back — and amplifying — the road rage others inflict on you?

Should you consider getting breast enhancement surgery to feel better about your own body, or reject the idea because it would give the husband who's made you feel inadequate about your natural size — for 20 years — satisfaction he doesn't deserve?

How do you frame the positive — but thoroughly platonic — relationship you have with your ex-wife and the kids you share as a win/win for your jealous fiancée?

Even if there’s no hope or intention of rekindling friendships you abused and took for granted during your less-enlightened college days, is there value in apologizing to those you wronged so long ago?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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737: Winston Sterzel | Don't Lose Your Bacon in a Pig-Butchering Scam

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 13 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Winston Sterzel (@serpentza) is a South African vlogger and video producer who lived in Shenzhen in the Guangdong province of China for 14 years. He hosts his own YouTube channel as SerpentZA and co-hosts vlog ADVChina with Laowhy86.

What We Discuss with Winston Sterzel:

How does the pig-butchering scam work, and why is it called this?

Who tends to be the most common target of the pig-butchering scam, and how has this changed since its inception?

The psychological levers that get used to manipulate victims of the pig-butchering scam, and how they differ from more traditional scams.

How much time and effort pig-butchering scammers will invest in fattening up their victims for the big kill (and how Winston has made a game of wasting their time and effort when he's been their mark).

Warnings from people who have fallen for the pig-butchering scam and how you can avoid being next.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/737

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Miss our two-parter with North Korean defector Charles Ryu? Catch up here starting with episode 84: Confessions of a North Korean Escape Artist Part One!

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736: Ian Bremmer | The Power of Crisis to Change the World

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Ian Bremmer (@ianbremmer) is a political scientist, the president and founder of Eurasia Group and GZERO Media, and the author of NYT bestseller The Power of Crisis: How Three Threats — and Our Response — Will Change the World.

What We Discuss with Ian Bremmer:

How the COVID pandemic exposed cracks in the ability of major powers to cooperate with one another for the common good.

What a Goldilocks crisis is and how one could galvanize successful cooperation on a global scale.

Why conflict between nations becomes more likely when the balance of power is unclear.

Are we currently in a state of technological cold war with other superpowers?

How rising sea levels combined with dwindling supplies of drinking water stand to drive migration crises and increase the likelihood of conflict.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/736

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Did you hear our conversation with national security strategist Robert Spalding? Catch up with episode 268: Robert Spalding | How China Took Over America here!

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735: Reputation's Been Bruised Since Wrongly Accused | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 00:13:06 PDT

Though your name's been officially cleared, a shadow of doubt about your true innocence looms over every interaction since being falsely accused of sexual assault. Now you're wondering if this reputational bruise is ever going to heal, or if it's just something you'll have to live with — forever. We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/735

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your reputation's been bruised since you were wrongly accused of sexual assault. Will it ever heal? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

Spending years under the spell of prosperity preaching, your family is envious of the success you've enjoyed from working hard and bitterly treats any good news you try to share as borderline blasphemous — though they won't hesitate to call if they need money. Is your therapist right to suggest you cut off contact with them completely?

How can you help your non-confrontational girlfriend set boundaries for her manipulative, abusive ex who still hangs out with her roommate in their apartment and inappropriately suggests she gives him a second chance?

Should you keep your legal use of cannabis to cope with anxiety a secret from your mother when she visits from China — where it's culturally rejected as a heavy, dangerous drug — or should you just be honest and hope she's understanding?

Convinced that electronics contribute significantly to the unhealthy aspects of your daily life, you've been successful at getting rid of excess devices, except one: your smartphone. How can you take this final, liberating step while remaining a citizen of the modern age?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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734: Scott Galloway | Course Correcting an America Adrift

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 06 Oct 2022 00:32:22 PDT

Scott Galloway (@profgalloway) hosts The Prof G Pod and The Prof G Show, cohosts Pivot with Kara Swisher, publishes the No Mercy/No Malice newsletter, is a professor at NYU Stern School of Business, and is a bestselling author. His latest book is Adrift: America in 100 Charts.

What We Discuss with Scott Galloway:

What the 70% of Americans who describe themselves as middle class should consider in the election cycles ahead.

Do we want advanced technologies in the hands of elected officials, or under the exclusive control of private enterprise?

What Scott means when he says, "In America, it’s never been easier to become a billionaire — but it’s never been harder to become a millionaire."

Why does the tax code seem to get increasingly complex in spite of the majority of Americans supporting its simplification?

How can we address the inequities and inequalities of the current state of capitalism without seeking to dismantle it entirely?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/734

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Miss the first show we did with Pivot co-host and NYU Stern School of Business professor Scott Galloway? Catch up here with episode 204: Solving the Algebra of Happiness!

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733: Maya Shankar | Adapting to a Slight Change of Plans

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 04 Oct 2022 00:03:22 PDT

Maya Shankar (@slightchangepod) is a cognitive scientist who once aspired to become a career violinist, and is the creator, executive producer, and host of the podcast A Slight Change of Plans.

What We Discuss with Maya Shankar:

How Maya's love for the violin and sense of playfulness — not flawless technique or prodigious talent — gave her the opportunity to learn from Itzhak Perlman at Juilliard School of Music when she was just nine years old.

The unfortunate mishap that derailed Maya's aspirations to become a career violinist and forced her to experience what psychologists call identity foreclosure — during which she realized she had built her life around the violin and didn't have a plan B.

How Maya came to understand that human connection is the quality that attracted her to the violin in the first place, and adopted this as her throughline as she's pivoted to careers in academia, public policy, and podcasting.

Why Maya advocates for approaching change with humility so we understand its nuanced and multifaceted nature instead of being disappointed by inaccurately optimistic predictions.

What you can do to cultivate a healthier relationship with life's uncertainties and roll with the changes they will inevitably force you to make.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/733

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Miss our conversation with spooky mentalist Derren Brown? Catch up with episode 150: Derren Brown | Using the Power of Suggestion for Good here!

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732: Low-Key Beguiler is a Cheating Butt-Dialer | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 30 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your wife of 11 years has butt-dialed you twice in conversation with another man, and she lied about her whereabouts when you tracked her phone. Are you right to be worried? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/732

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your wife of 11 years has butt-dialed you twice in conversation with another man, and she lied about her whereabouts when you tracked her phone. Are you right to be worried?

As a flight attendant, you decided to get medical attention for an overdosing drug mule instead of allowing him to complete the run and save his abducted mother. You never discovered the outcome, and years later, you still wonder if you made the right choice.

You're a business owner who's great at showing appreciation to your staff, paying generously, and letting employees know when they've done well. But you're not so good at giving negative feedback or coaching them toward improvement. How do you strike the right balance between nice guy and fair boss?

Is the ex who rejected your advances for years and agreed to be "just friends" — while still living with you and sharing the same bed — suddenly interested in getting back together just because you got a new job and make twice as much money as you did before?

As the teacher for one of the best educational theater programs in your state, is it wrong to be somewhat obsessed with winning its annual competition — or is encouraging your students to excel just part of the job?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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731: Why We Owe People Honesty | Deep Dive

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabe (@GabeMizrahi) take a deep dive into the pros and cons of candor, how honesty is a core element of all healthy and productive relationships, and why we owe it to others — as well as ourselves.

What We Discuss:

Honesty deepens relationships. It requires a great deal of trust and confidence — in ourselves and in our friends — and it implies a whole new conception of what friendship actually is.

Honesty attracts people who share your values. You’ll draw people into your life who also value candor, and you’ll distance yourself from people who aren’t interested in an authentic relationship.

Honesty secures honesty in return. When you’re honest with the people in your life, you also signal to them that they can be honest with you.

How to be honest — without being honestly the worst. Deciding to be honest with a friend doesn’t mean that you’re necessarily right. It just means that you’re willing to share an authentic response, and then explore it with the other person to arrive at the best possible conclusion.

How to recognize that there are times when it’s okay to not be honest. For all the benefits of radical honesty, it's wise to be aware of situations in which honesty will not serve you well — or where total candor just isn’t appropriate.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/731

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Miss the show we did with James Fallon — the psychiatry professor who can teach you how to spot a psychopath because he is a psychopath? Catch up here with episode 28: James Fallon | How to Spot a Psychopath!

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730: Nury Turkel | A Witness to China's Uyghur Genocide

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 00:58:14 PDT

Nury Turkel (@nuryturkel) is a human rights attorney for the US Commission on International Religious Freedom and the author of No Escape: The True Story of China's Genocide of the Uyghurs.

What We Discuss with Nury Turkel:

How the Chinese Communist Party is using artificial intelligence to arbitrarily round up Uyghurs for fabricated crimes — including 17,000 who were arrested within 10 days thanks to assistance from an algorithm.

Some of the 48 behaviors that will get Uyghurs flagged as dissidents in Xinjiang and sent to concentration camps for "re-education" are as mundane as growing a beard or adhering to a halal diet.

Why the CCP is trying so hard to wipe out an entire culture that has had its roots in the Xinjiang region since at least the third century AD.

Uyghur families attempting to start new lives in Egypt, Saudi Arabia, and other countries have been deported back to China to face punishment and possibly death.

How Uyghur slave labor is used to supply markets around the world — especially in the United States — and what we can do to avoid supporting companies that knowingly participate in this shameful, immoral arrangement.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/730

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Miss our conversation with David Kilgour, author of Bloody Harvest: Organ Harvesting of Falun Gong Practitioners in China? Catch up with episode 497: David Kilgour | The Heartless Art of Forced Organ Harvesting here!

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729: Sexsomnia Guilt-Free After PTSD? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

As you have a higher libido than your partner, it seems as though it should feel like a blessing when he makes sexual advances on you in the middle of the night when his sexsomnia ("a rare sleep disorder in which a person engages in sexual activity during their sleep") takes over. But this is problematic for two reasons: A) It briefly triggers your PTSD from being sexually assaulted in your sleep years ago, and B) When your PTSD subsides, you feel guilty for engaging in sex with a partner who can't give consent in the moment (though he has told you on multiple occasions after the fact that he's fine with it). How can you handle this in a healthy way? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/729

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Waking to your sexsomniac partner's nocturnal advances triggers PTSD from earlier abuse, and makes you feel guilty for engaging in sex with someone who can't consent in the moment. What's the healthiest way to deal with this?

Is it worth initiating a conversation about how post-Roe reproductive rights fit in with company policy when interviewing for a job in a state that has regressive anti-choice laws on the books?

After numerous relapses in your struggle with addiction, you feel like your latest effort to rehabilitate may finally be sticking. But how can you convince your ex that you're ready to take on the responsibility of raising your kids together?

Is there a special IRS gifting loophole that allows participants of a pyramid scheme to sign a waiver so they won't be legally liable when things inevitably go south? And if so, why would you consider signing such a thing?

Are you morally obligated to tell someone their mother once slept with their fiancé? And if you do spill the beans, how do you do it without revealing yourself as the source?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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728: Maria Konnikova | The Confidence Game

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 22 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Maria Konnikova (@mkonnikova) shows us how we can defend ourselves against would-be con artists and use the same principles for more benign purposes in her book The Confidence Game. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Maria Konnikova:

As it turns out, you can fool an honest man. But cynics — by their own overconfidence in being savvy and “scamproof” — are just as susceptible to deception.

Technology and the abundance of information most of us freely surrender to the Internet makes the con artist’s job easier than ever before.

What type of person becomes a con artist?

How can we avoid getting scammed?

How belief works, why we over-believe in some things (even when we have no evidence for them), and how this plays into our susceptibility to deception.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/728

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Miss the two-parter we did with Instagram founder Kevin Systrom? Get caught up by starting at episode 335: Kevin Systrom | Life Lessons from an Instagram Founder Part One!

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727: Neil deGrasse Tyson | Cosmic Perspectives on Civilization

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Sep 2022 00:23:16 PDT

Neil deGrasse Tyson (@neiltyson) is the Frederick P. Rose Director of the Hayden Planetarium, host of StarTalk Radio, and author. He is kind enough to rejoin us and discuss his latest book, Starry Messenger: Cosmic Perspectives on Civilization.

What We Discuss with Neil deGrasse Tyson:

The problems society faces when average citizens lose their ability to distinguish between facts and opinions — and how this can be remedied.

What some of our dearest opinions look like under the scrutiny of scientific literacy — and why we should feel relief at being proven categorically wrong about some of them.

As an educator, what Neil's first urge is when he hears people spreading patently false "information" that can be easily dispelled by basic scientific awareness. (Surprisingly enough, it's not to bop them on the head!)

What the history of mathematics might hint about the average human brain's tendency to avoid thinking statistically and probabilistically.

Things pondered: Are you a GMO? Eating how many pints of ice cream will kill you? For the benefit of all humanity, who would Neil send into space first? If technology common to us in the 2020s would be unrecognizable to someone from 1990, what will the world look like in 2050?

And much more...

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Miss any of the conversations we've had with famed science guy Bill Nye? Start catching up with episode 366: Bill Nye | Radical Curiosity Saves the World!

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726: Helping a Guy Whose Wife's an Escort on the Sly | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Is your 10-year marriage worth saving when you've just discovered your wife has been working as a "non-intimate" escort behind your back? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/726

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is your 10-year marriage worth saving when you've just discovered your wife has been working as a "non-intimate" escort behind your back?

You and your significant other live together and work from home together, but you find the way he spends his downtime questionable. How can you overcome the frustration this creates for you?

Is it wrong to skip sending a gift to your estranged daughter for her wedding to which you've suddenly been invited after she's avoided communication with you for years?

What can you do to help a significant other who's dealing with debilitating depression? [Thanks to Haesue Jo, Head of Clinical Support at BetterHelp, for helping us with this one!]

While you've always been focused on building your business and a better life, your mother's unexpected death has left you making numerous erratic, short-term decisions. How can you regain your can-do mindset and get back on a productive, long-term-oriented track?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with Arthur Brooks about the merits of learning to love your enemies (especially during these divisive times)? Catch up by listening to episode 211: Arthur Brooks | How Loving Your Enemies Can Save America here!

725: Paul Holes | Solving America's Cold Cases

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Paul Holes (@PaulHoles) is a former investigator known for his contributions to solving the Golden State Killer case using advanced methods of identification with DNA and genealogy technology, and he is the author of Unmasked: My Life Solving America's Cold Cases.

What We Discuss with Paul Holes:

Why do some serial killers take breaks between their murder sprees or even quit killing altogether?

Why does it seem like there were so many serial killers in the '70s compared to today? How rare are they, really?

What psychological toll does intimately working homicides and cold cases take on investigators?

Why cases commonly go cold, what gets them flagged for reexamination, and how the passage of time can actually work in favor of solving them.

What makes cold case investigators like Paul so good at noticing evidence and crime scene details others miss?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/725

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Miss our conversation with the American photographer who survived seven months under captivity by Al-Qaeda? Catch up with episode 217: Matthew Schrier | How to Survive in a Secret Syrian Terrorist Prison here!

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724: Bill Nye | The End is Nye

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Bill Nye (@billnye) is a lifelong champion of science who is determined to teach you something today that you didn’t know yesterday — whether it’s from a television screen, the pages of a book, or next to you at a dinner party. He can be found hosting his new series, The End Is Nye, on Peacock TV.

What We Discuss with Bill Nye:

The environmental changes that currently threaten humanity and much of life on Earth.

How to maintain childlike curiosity as an adult.

If you believe everything happens for a reason, what if that reason is just physics?

What can just one individual do to make the big changes necessary for properly addressing climate change?

The promising renewable energy source Bill would put his money behind.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/724

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Miss the conversation we had with science champion and astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson? Make sure to catch up with episode 327: Neil deGrasse Tyson | Astrophysics for People in a Hurry!

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723: Should I Relive the Drama of Childhood Trauma? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

It didn't bring back any particularly traumatic memories when your older brother confessed that he molested you when you were children. Would it be worth the possibility of dredging up a painful past through therapy to heal wounds you aren't even aware you've been carrying, or should you just shut this confession out of your thoughts and hope the memories remain unattainable? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/723

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is it worth dredging up repressed memories of childhood abuse in therapy, or should such trauma stay buried and forgotten?

Is it unreasonable that the respect you've had for your friend of 20 years dwindles the further down the woo-woo rabbit hole she falls?

You inappropriately used humor in an attempt to defuse a traumatic event from your coworker's past. Now this person will barely speak to you, and you've even gotten the cold shoulder from some of your shared peers. You feel guilty; how can you make this right?

You married the mother of your children for the sake of convenience and health insurance, but you've never been a good fit for each other — and the situation's not improved over time. A divorce would be ideal for you, but would it be right for the kids?

One of your wife’s friends from high school just died. You want to be supportive of her in her time of grief, but you're not sure how to authentically mourn someone you don't even know.

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss the conversation we had with Hollywood leading man and musician Dennis Quaid? Catch up with

722: Brian Brushwood | Scam Your Way into Anything

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 08 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Brian Brushwood (@shwood) has spent the last 20 years entertaining and teaching people how to harness the deceptive (and self-deceptive) skills of scientists, spies, criminals, and con artists. He is the author of Scam School: Your Guide to Scoring Free Drinks, Doing Magic, and Becoming the Life of the Party. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Brian Brushwood:

Why being interesting isn’t a gift — it’s a practice.

How fixed action patterns help us get others to do what we want them to do. (Important note: for good — not evil!)

How to control a conversation by asking the right questions.

The best way to convince someone to help us? By making it their idea.

Why we’re all susceptible to being duped in spite of our highly developed human brains — and how practicing magic can train us to be more resistant to the fraudulent.

And so much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/722

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Miss our two-parter with former Westboro Baptist Church spokesperson Megan Phelps-Roper? Make sure to catch up starting with episode 302: Megan Phelps-Roper | Unfollowing Westboro Baptist Church Part One here!

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721: Jason Feifer | Build for Tomorrow

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 06 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Jason Feifer (@heyfeifer) is the editor in chief of Entrepreneur magazine, host of the Build for Tomorrow podcast, and author of Build for Tomorrow: An Action Plan for Embracing Change, Adapting Fast, and Future-Proofing Your Career.

What We Discuss with Jason Feifer:

How the bubonic plague that killed 60 percent of Medieval Europe forever changed the way we work, and the lessons from this tragedy we can apply to our own collective COVID experience.

The pros and cons of the four-day work week that companies around the world are trying on for size.

Why we should treat failure as valuable information that informs our next steps rather than accepting it as a death knell.

What the erroneous but popularly repeated prediction that "nine out of ten businesses fail" leaves out of the equation.

Why we should (and how we can) use the onset of major changes to the status quo as opportunities to address problems in need of solutions rather than taking the traditional approach of panicking as if society is collapsing all around us.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/721

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Miss our conversation with world champion boxer and entrepreneur Laila Ali? Catch up with episode 309: Laila Ali | Finding Strength, Spirit, and Personal Power here!

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720: Should You Confess You Know He's Not Your Dad? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Sep 2022 00:31:53 PDT

You recently discovered that the person you've always thought was your uncle is actually your biological father, and suddenly it makes sense why you never really bonded with the man who raised you as his own. Now that he's on his deathbed, is it worth clearing the air and letting him know that you know the truth? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/720

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You just found out the man who abusively raised you isn't your biological father — the person you've always thought was your uncle is. Now that he's on his deathbed, should you tell him that you know the truth?

Circumstances have made it necessary for your mother to move in with you until she can get back on her feet after being laid off, but you're in your 30s and it's really cramping your ability to date. How can you find a balance that benefits you both?

After hitting rock bottom, you've visualized various ways to harm yourself. And even though you've never acted on them, should you take these intrusive thoughts as some kind of warning sign of problems you're not equipped to handle on your own? Or does everyone have these kinds of thoughts?

How do you break the news to your old mentor that they've created a toxic work environment and earned a bad reputation for treating employees poorly when they try to leave?

It turns out someone you've formed a serious relationship with once matched with your sister on a dating app, but they got into an argument before they could ever meet in person. Now she insists that you break up with him, and is making your life difficult for refusing. What's the right move here?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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Miss our interview with Find Your Why, Start with Why, and The...

719: Reid Hoffman | Adaptability Is the New Stability

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 01 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Reid Hoffman (@reidhoffman) is a co-founder of LinkedIn, investor at Greylock Partners, host of the podcast Masters of Scale, and co-author of the fully revised and updated bestseller The Start-Up of You: Adapt to the Future, Invest in Yourself, and Transform Your Career.

What We Discuss with Reid Hoffman:

Why you should think of your career as a startup — from the perspective of an entrepreneur rather than an employee.

What it means to evoke a permanent beta mindset in which you treat every day like day one and commit your life to personal growth.

Why it’s important to continually generate professional opportunities even if you're happy where you are.

Why you should ignore hacky influencers who tell you to "begin with the end in mind" when it comes to your career (and what you're better off doing instead).

The soft and hard assets you should be tracking to make yourself, as friend of the show Cal Newport has famously said, "so good they can't ignore you."

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/719

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If you missed our earlier two-part interview with Reid Hoffman, don’t panic! You can catch up by starting at episode 207: Reid Hoffman | Mastering Your Scale for the Unexpected Part One!

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718: Barbara F. Walter | How Civil Wars Start (And How to Stop Them)

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Barbara F. Walter (@bfwalter) is the Rohr Professor of International Affairs at the School of Global Policy and Strategy at the University of California, San Diego, and the author of the NYT bestseller How Civil Wars Start: And How to Stop Them.

What We Discuss with Barbara F. Walter:

What does Barbara's research into causes and warning signs of civil wars around the world portend for the chances of such a conflict in the United States?

What is an anocracy, and have you ever lived under one?

Why societies transitioning toward or away from democracy are especially vulnerable to the threat of civil war.

What makes some countries survive political instability without the violence of civil war while others rapidly succumb to it?

Who is most actively pushing for civil war in the United States, and what are their grievances?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/718

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Miss our conversation about national security, strategic empathy, and the societal benefits of immigration with former National Security Advisor H.R. McMaster? Catch up with episode 410: H.R. McMaster | The Fight to Defend the Free World here!

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717: Coming Out as Polyamorous to My Family | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

While you're in the most fulfilling relationship of your life, how do you let your fairly conservative family know it's not quite what they'd consider traditional? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/717

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you let your straight-laced family in on the fact that you're in a fulfilling, polyamorous relationship with two other people you love dearly?

You're a teenager whose parents never allowed you to go to public school, but they never homeschooled you, either. How can you be expected to make it in the outside world and improve yourself without an education?

You recently lost your battle with a gambling addiction and blew far more money than you had. Two questions: are there legitimate debt relief companies, and how can you build positive habits to make you more resistant to your unhealthier impulses?

Inviting your girlfriend and her daughter to live with you has turned into a nightmare. If you break up with her, you have to face the guilt of throwing a depressed single mother with a suicidal daughter out of your house and deal with the emotional pain of losing someone you care about. But are you being fair to yourself if you remain in this relationship?

Your evangelical ex left you because his faith has convinced him that your gay relationship is a sin, but now he wants you back — even though he still holds these beliefs. Is there any scenario where this could actually work?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our first interview with

716: Jo Marchant | Placebos and the Science of Mind over Body

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 25 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Jo Marchant (@JoMarchant) is an award-winning journalist, speaker, and author of The Human Cosmos, The Shadow King, and the New York Times bestseller Cure: A Journey into the Science of Mind over Body. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Jo Marchant:

How to understand the power of placebos.

How your immune system can be trained.

Why stress kills and how to beat it.

The importance of social relationships and how to boost them.

Does believing in God make you live longer?

And so much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/716

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Did you hear our conversation with Desmond Shum, the former CCP insider and former husband of disappeared Chinese billionaire “Whitney” Duan Weihong? Catch up with episode 684: Desmond Shum | Wealth, Power, Corruption, and Vengeance in China here!

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715: Cindy Otis | Spotting Fake News Like a CIA Analyst

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Cindy Otis (@cindyotis_) is a former CIA military analyst specializing in disinformation threat analysis and counter-messaging, and is the author of True or False: A CIA Analyst’s Guide to Spotting Fake News.

What We Discuss with Cindy Otis:

What is fake news, and why does it spread six times faster than real news?

How is fake news different from satire?

How does misinformation differ from disinformation?

The historical consequences of using fake news to influence a population.

How to spot fake news and inoculate ourselves (and our children) against its intended impact.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/715

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Miss the conversation we had with Tristan Harris, a former Google design ethicist, the primary subject of the acclaimed Netflix documentary The Social Dilemma, co-founder of The Center for Humane Technology, and co-host of the podcast Your Undivided Attention? Catch up with episode 533: Tristan Harris | Reclaiming Our Future with Humane Technology here!

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714: How "Real" Is a Dad Who Denies You Exist? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Adopted and raised by a loving family, you were still curious enough to seek out your biological parents and learn their story when you reached adulthood. It turns out you were the result of a forbidden tryst between a traveling American woman and the married Australian man who briefly employed her on his farm. When you reached out, your biological mother was happy to make contact, but your biological father? Not so much. In fact, he's been "happily" married for 50 years and refuses to admit he had any part in your existence -- probably because he'd then have to confess everything to his family. Now you're conflicted. Should you just let it go, or should you fly to Australia and surprise him at his front door where he can't continue denying that you're real? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/714

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Sure, social media is just algorithmic-enabled immaturity that is almost guaranteed to dampen whatever good mood you had going into it. But what's the good news? Nobody's forcing you to participate. [Thanks for the reminder, Ryan Holiday!]

Should you force your biological father — who refuses to admit he had any part in your creation — to confront you in person and confess everything to the family he's had for 50 years?

Your significant other of five years refuses to acknowledge their social anxiety as a problem, but it's always used as an excuse to get out of doing things with you in public. They say they're happy to stay in -- but you're definitely not. What do you do?

Is "manifesting" just a woo-woo mental model used by successful people as an excuse to deal with the guilt of success or a way to explain their sheer luck in a cold universe that doesn't care if they live or die?

Your last two relationships ended badly and bitterly. But now that you're in your 30s and dating someone you consider to be potential marriage material, you realize you've always been a serial monogamist and never really experienced the life of a freewheeling bachelor. Is it foolish to consider losing somebody who might be "the one" just to explore what you might be missing out on?

How does Jordan retain all the information he takes in while reading and researching the work of guests ahead of interviewing them?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect...

713: Marion Nestle | How Companies Skew the Science of What We Eat

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 18 Aug 2022 00:01:26 PDT

Marion Nestle (@marionnestle) is the Paulette Goddard Professor in the Department of Nutrition, Food Studies, and Public Health at New York University, and the author of Food Politics, Soda Politics, and Unsavory Truth: How Food Companies Skew the Science of What We Eat.

What We Discuss with Marion Nestle:

How food companies pay for research studies that distort science in their favor — at the expense of even the most health-conscious consumers among us.

Why it's important to remember that food companies are businesses geared toward making money for their stockholders -- not service agencies operating in the public's best interests.

Food companies band together to lobby Congress for laws that allow biased, industry-funded "research" to influence consumer habits with deceptive marketing language.

When Marion tracked 168 food company-funded studies, she discovered that 156 concluded with results favorable to the sponsors' interests, and only 12 ended up with unfavorable results.

The many ways food marketers mislead consumers and how to protect yourself and your family from this never-ending barrage of deception.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/713

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Miss the show we did with Dennis Carroll, the former USAID director for pandemic influenza and emerging threats? Catch up with episode 320: Dennis Carroll | Planning an End to the Pandemic Era here!

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712: Brad Klontz | Harnessing the Power of Financial Psychology

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Aug 2022 00:05:59 PDT

Dr. Brad Klontz (@drbradklontz) is a financial psychologist, Managing Principal at Your Mental Wealth Advisors, and co-author of six books on the psychology of money, including Money Mammoth: Harness The Power of Financial Psychology to Evolve Your Money Mindset, Avoid Extinction, and Crush Your Financial Goals.

What We Discuss with Dr. Brad Klontz:

If the United States is the wealthiest country on Earth, and it's one of the most prosperous times in human history, why does 45 percent of the population decide to wing it with no savings?

Why do so many of us buy the hype that bringing in barely enough money to survive from certain professions is somehow noble — and that making a living wage in service to others is akin to moral failure?

How parents who have spent their lives carefully growing and saving their own money instill lousy financial habits in their offspring.

Why financial planning should be a basic part of the public education curriculum alongside reading, writing, and arithmetic.

How social media contributes to a gross misunderstanding of the way wealthy people (the ones who stay wealthy, anyway) really spend their money.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/712

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Miss our interview with Austin Meyer, the man who leads a valiant crusade against patent troll dirtbags? Catch up with episode 326: Austin Meyer | Slaying the Patent Scam Trolls here!

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711: Prankster Precariously Pushing Partner's Patience | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your prankster partner is precariously pushing your patience by habitually heaping his hazardously humorless hijinks on you. How can you reclaim some peace before he ends up deceased? We'll help you find a way here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/711

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you stop your prankster partner from precariously pushing your patience by habitually heaping his hazardously humorless hijinks on you?

Have we ever regretted the advice we've given in past episodes of Feedback Friday? Are there any interviews we wish we could take back?

As extensive travelers who have been to some pretty hair-raising places, are there any countries we'd think twice about visiting now?

Your friend's husband drunkenly said some unforgivable things to her at a party. How do you support her while making it clear you never want to see him again?

Can Jordan please stop saying "doozy?" We don't know. Can he?

How is a modern family expected to stock the home without products that have microplastics, endocrine disruptors, and other harmful relics of short-sighted manufacturing processes?

What are the pros and cons of interviewing actual friends on this show?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with Somali pirate hostage Michael Scott Moore? Catch up with episode 115: Michael Scott Moore | What It’s Really like to Be a Pirate Hostage here!

710: Sebastian Junger | How War and Crisis Create a Tribe

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 11 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Sebastian Junger (@sebastianjunger) is a journalist, filmmaker, and bestselling author of The Perfect Storm: A True Story of Men Against the Sea. He joins us to discuss his book Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging and what he's learned by covering war for the past 20 years. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Sebastian Junger:

Why do some people get addicted to war and recall times of crisis with fondness?

Does an affluent society free of hardship and danger deprive its citizens of an intrinsic need to be useful?

Are war journalists armed, and do they contribute to group defense in the field?

What happens when someone who’s been through war comes home, and why is it often so difficult for them to reintegrate into society?

Why is there a phrase for “going native” but not “going civilized?”

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/710

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Miss the show we did with Molly Bloom — the woman behind the most exclusive, high-stakes underground poker game in the world? Catch up here with episode 120: Molly Bloom | The One Who Makes the Rules Wins the Game!

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709: John Abramson | How Big Pharma Broke American Health Care

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 00:49:41 PDT

Dr. John Abramson (@drjohnabramson) is a physician, lecturer of health care policy at Harvard Medical School, and author of Overdosed America: The Broken Promise of American Medicine. His latest book is Sickening: How Big Pharma Broke American Health Care and How We Can Repair It.

What We Discuss with Dr. John Abramson:

Despite spending an excess $1.6 trillion on healthcare per year compared to other wealthy countries, the amount of time that Americans live in good health ranks a lowly 68th in the world.

The pharmaceutical industry, aka Big Pharma, is more focused on making money for its shareholders than maintaining or improving the health of those who rely on its products.

Big Pharma funds most clinical trials, controls the research agenda, withholds real data from those trials as corporate secrets, and shapes most of the information relied upon by health care professionals.

The US and New Zealand are the only two countries in the world that allow pharmaceutical companies to advertise. The difference: Big Pharma doesn't have to endure the same level of oversight in the US as it does in New Zealand.

While healthcare reform may seem like an uphill battle against an entrenched infrastructure of corruption, John does offer hope that it can be overhauled to benefit people over profits.

And much more...

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Miss the interview we did with sleep doctor Matthew Walker? Catch up with episode 126: Matthew Walker | Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams here!

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708: Familiarizing Family with Your Felonious Fella | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your new beau served five years in prison for being tangentially connected to a non-violent, but high-profile crime. You love him, trust him, and believe he deserves a second chance, but there's one problem: you still have to introduce him to your friends and relatives. What's the best way to familiarize your family with your felonious fella? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/708

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What's the best way to familiarize your family with the felonious fella you favor without ruffling feathers?

What's the best way to learn the ins and outs of running and leading a business quickly before the owner of your company hands you the keys in five or so years when he retires?

It's clear your marriage isn't working out, but you're hesitant to leave so long as your soon-to-be ex-wife is more addicted to her phone than paying attention to the needs of your children. What's your most responsible move here?

Your new girlfriend is amazing, but her father is ill and likely on death's door. Is there a way to find a balance in the relationship that allows you to be there for her while giving her the space she needs to be with family and ensure your own needs aren't neglected?

You've always picked up complex topics without much effort and learned at an accelerated rate, but lately, you feel like you have to dumb yourself down to talk to your friends. The question that really worries you: are you just being a pretentious douchebag?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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707: Johann Hari | Why You Can't Pay Attention—And What to Do About It

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 04 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Johann Hari (@johannhari101) is a New York Times best-selling author and top-rated TED speaker. His latest book is Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention—And How to Think Deeply Again.

What We Discuss with Johann Hari:

It's not just your imagination: attention spans are shortening, and finding the mental state that fosters deep thinking is increasingly elusive.

It's not just kids: college-age people switch tasks, on average, every 65 seconds. Adults? Every three minutes. We've become accustomed to interrupting ourselves when external distractions aren't there to do it for us.

It's not your fault: your inability to focus isn't a personal failure; your focus has been stolen from you by powerful external forces that have left all of us uniquely vulnerable to corporations determined to raid our attention for profit.

It's not just the internet and technology: our lack of focus has actually been happening for generations.

Discover what Johann learned about reclaiming this focus—as individuals, and as a society—on a trip that took him around the world.

And much more...

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Miss the conversation we had with Tristan Harris, a former Google design ethicist, the primary subject of the acclaimed Netflix documentary The Social Dilemma, co-founder of The Center for Humane Technology, and co-host of the podcast Your Undivided Attention? Catch up with episode 533: Tristan Harris | Reclaiming Our Future with Humane Technology here!

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706: Tessa West | How to Deal with Jerks at Work

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Tessa West (@tessawestnyu) is a social psychology professor at New York University and the author of Jerks at Work: Toxic Coworkers and What to Do About Them.

What We Discuss with Tessa West:

The seven types of jerks at work: the kiss up/kick down, the credit stealer, the bulldozer, the free rider, the micromanager, the neglectful boss, and the gaslighter.

Why prioritizing conflict management as a skill is crucial for identifying and coexisting with jerks at work.

How to stop the jerks at work from taking credit for all of your good ideas.

Have mercy: jerks at work aren't necessarily villains -- their poor patterns hurt them just as much as they hurt everyone else.

What we can do to ensure that we're not the jerks at work.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/706

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Miss the first show we did with Pivot co-host and NYU Stern School of Business professor Scott Galloway? Catch up here with episode 204: Solving the Algebra of Happiness!

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705: Gabe’s Front-Row Seat to Florid Psychosis | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

On this Feedback Friday, Gabe relays the tragic story of a paranoid schizophrenic neighbor that illustrates just how destabilizing unchecked mental illness can be for family members, friends, neighbors, and the patients themselves.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/705

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Gabe relays the tragic story of a paranoid schizophrenic neighbor that illustrates just how destabilizing unchecked mental illness can be for family members, friends, neighbors, and the patients themselves.

In spite of having a dream job and a significant other who checks most of your boxes, current circumstances make imagining a future in your native Russia difficult. Unfortunately, this significant other comes from a conservative family and doesn't understand why you'd ever want to move abroad. Are your differences too radical to build a life together?

Your boss is an incredible leader who commands respect across the board. Unfortunately, a family tragedy has overwhelmed her with grief. How can your team offer support without intruding on her personal life?

Your significant other is great in every respect -- except for when he gets in a "mood" and resorts to calling you names and putting you down. Where do you draw the line on verbal abuse?

Is it possible to profit from selling your business idea when you don't have the financial means to create your own startup around that idea?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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704: Robert Greene | The Emotions Behind Success, Mastery, and Power

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 28 Jul 2022 00:24:07 PDT

Robert Greene (@RobertGreene) is the author of multiple New York Times bestsellers on power and strategy, including The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. His latest book is The Daily Laws: 366 Meditations on Power, Seduction, Mastery, Strategy, and Human Nature. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

How to learn multiple languages and maintain their use throughout your life.

Why it's important to apprentice, and how you can find the right mentor to guide you.

How to find your life's task -- even if you think you're too young, too old, or already established in your field.

Why social intelligence is crucial on the path to mastery.

How keen observation of others serves to sharpen our own skills.

And much more...

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Miss one of our earlier shows with The 48 Laws of Power author Robert Greene? Catch up here with episode 117: What You Need to Know about the Laws of Human Nature!

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703: Benjamin Hardy | How to Be Your Future Self Now

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 26 Jul 2022 00:06:28 PDT

Benjamin Hardy (@BenjaminPHardy) is an organizational psychologist and author of books about willpower, self-limiting beliefs, teamwork, and the pursuit of happiness. He returns to the show to discuss his latest offering: Be Your Future Self Now: The Science of Intentional Transformation.

What We Discuss with Benjamin Hardy:

Prospection: rather than remaining tethered to a past over which we no longer have any control, we can visualize a number of possible futures and choose the course of action that guides us toward the one we find most desirable.

Most of us don't guide ourselves toward our most desirable future because we're too busy coping with the immediate concerns of daily life to clearly see the course that would take us there.

Are you committing yourself to avoidance-driven goals (like doomscrolling through the news) that serve to distract and knock you off course instead of approach-driven goals that nudge you toward your ideal future self (like learning more about your chosen career so you can do your best work and get promoted)?

Connecting with your long-term future self to make the decisions that speed you toward this person may require extra effort because humans are living longer than ever before and probably didn't evolve to think far beyond immediate survival.

Why it's important to envision your future self as an actual different person -- with different thoughts and motivations -- than you are today rather than just a later iteration of your current self.

And much more...

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702: Atheist Teen Stressed by Mom's Church Scene | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 22 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

As a closeted, bi, teen atheist, it's a bummer your mom makes you go to a church — three times a week — that has a problem with your very existence. On top of this, she insists you're being overly dramatic about the depression, anxiety, and insomnia you experience every day. How do you even consider coming out to a mother who can't seem to empathize with your most basic needs? We'll try to help find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/702

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

As a closeted, bi, teen atheist, how do you even begin the conversation of coming out to your mother when she regularly downplays the depression, anxiety, and insomnia you're going through and forces you to go to her church (which rejects your very existence) three times a week?

You were dismayed to learn that your husband (with whom you work) isn't very popular at the office. While you know it's due to his difficulty reading social cues rather than any serious character flaws, you're not sure if telling him will help him improve or completely crush his confidence.

You've made the decision not to be bullied by your emotionally manipulative, sometimes violent QAnon-corrupted parents whose values, to put it kindly, do not match your own. The problem: you also happen to work for them. How do you make a clean break from them and their business?

As a 73-year-old delver into family secrets lain bare by the modern wonder of DNA testing, you'd like to have a relationship with a few of your newfound relatives. Unfortunately, some people in your family have threatened to cut you out of their lives if you reveal their part in covering up this shared history. What should you do?

You're excited about a new relationship that budded from an old friendship. But how do you foster a healthy bond without falling into the rut of codependency you each experienced with prior significant others?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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701: Ioan Grillo | How America Arms Gangs and Cartels Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 21 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Ioan Grillo (@ioangrillo) is a contributing writer at The New York Times specializing in crime and drugs. He is the author of El Narco: Inside Mexico's Criminal Insurgency; Gangster Warlords: Drug Dollars, Killing Fields, and the New Politics of Latin America; and Blood Gun Money: How America Arms Gangs and Cartels. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part one here!]

What We Discuss with Ioan Grillo:

The Iron River may sound like something you'd find on a map of Westeros, but it's just a quaint term for the 200,000 guns manufactured or sold in the US moving across the border to Mexico every year.

The private-sale loophole that allows "collectors" in the US to sell guns without requiring identification, background checks, or paperwork — often to criminals and cartels at a tidy profit.

How "straw buyers" — that is, people with clean records — are paid by gun traffickers to pass background checks and buy firearms en masse without raising any red flags. If they are arrested in the act, however, their punishment rarely exceeds probation.

There are 130,000 licensed firearms dealers in the US from which ill-intentioned gun traffickers can make their shady purchases. If that doesn't sound like that many, consider that there are only 14,000 McDonald's restaurants.

Thanks to a Reagan-era law enacted ostensibly to protect the privacy of gun owners, the ATF finds its ability to efficiently trace guns hobbled because it can't use searchable, digital databases of sales.

And much more...

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Miss the conversation we had with behavioral economist Dan Ariely about the invisible (and often frustrating) clockwork that makes us tick? Catch up with episode 417: Dan Ariely | The Hidden Logic That Shapes Our Motivations here!

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700: Ioan Grillo | How America Arms Gangs and Cartels Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 19 Jul 2022 00:16:32 PDT

Ioan Grillo (@ioangrillo) is a contributing writer at The New York Times specializing in crime and drugs. He is the author of El Narco: Inside Mexico's Criminal Insurgency; Gangster Warlords: Drug Dollars, Killing Fields, and the New Politics of Latin America; and Blood Gun Money: How America Arms Gangs and Cartels. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Ioan Grillo:

How did Ioan Grillo -- a journalist from the UK -- find himself covering the illicit guns and drugs trade from behind the scenes in cartel-controlled Mexico and other pockets of Latin America?

The opulent cemetery where narcos are buried in multi-leveled, air-conditioned mausoleums that would make the ancient pharaohs blush.

The most devastating examples of human catastrophe Ioan has witnessed while reporting narcos-related crimes over the past two decades.

How much danger is a journalist like Ioan really in while reporting from the thick of such unfettered violence?

How thousands of children are recruited or forced into doing the cartels' most bloody work.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/700

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Miss our interview with Freeway Rick Ross, the crack empire kingpin gone good? Catch up with episode 121: Freeway Rick Ross | Life in the Crack Lane here!

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699: Can An Open Marriage Be Anxiety-Free? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 15 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your wife and you agree that introducing BDSM and ethical non-monogamy into your marriage has brought you some of the happiest and closest times in your relationship. On the other side of the coin, this new level of communication and honesty has made her more vulnerable than ever to the anxiety and depression she's suffered since childhood. Is there a way to get past the bad without giving up the good this lifestyle provides, or should you just go back to the way things were before? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/699

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Opening your marriage and indulging in BDSM fantasies have brought you and your wife closer than ever, but there's a big downside: it sometimes triggers the anxiety and depression she's experienced since childhood. Is this lifestyle worth the trouble, or should you consider this a failed experiment and go back to the way things were before?

Growing up without much in the way of money or luxury, you can't get past feeling guilty now that you have a well-paying job and can finally afford some of the nicer things you've missed out on -- especially when so many of your peers are in debt. Do you deserve to feel guilty for having it good when others don't?

Your mother-in-law is a pathological liar. When she's not telling blatant untruths, she's omitting important details -- like your father-in-law's cancer. Worse, a lifetime spent with her seems to have rubbed off on your husband, who clearly has a problem with honesty. Is it possible to break this cycle and actually trust your family?

You've decided to seek help for your addiction by going to rehab, but how do you break the news to your employers -- at a job you find fulfilling and don't want to lose -- that you'll need to be gone for six weeks?

Your husband has never been emotionally available, and even warned you at the start of your relationship that he'd probably never be able to really open up to you. After a conversation with his sister, you discovered he was bullied as a child by his alcoholic father to the point of self-harm that landed him in the hospital. Do you patiently wait for him to tell you this huge secret, or do you confront him and disclose that you know this piece of his puzzle?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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698: Sam Harris | Rationally Confronting the Irrational

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 14 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Sam Harris (@samharrisorg) is a neuroscientist, author, and philosopher; he’s also a staunch critic of religion (while being an advocate of mindfulness) who joins the show to discuss some views that — fair warning — many may find controversial. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Sam Harris:

When does stubbornness stop being a virtue and become a confession of intellectual dishonesty?

In what ways does Sam consider himself a bit of an Anti-Trump?

Why do so many people subscribe to the package beliefs of their political parties or religions even when clearly proven scientific facts prove contradictory to these beliefs?

If Sam Harris considers himself primarily a philosopher, how did he wind up with a PhD in neuroscience?

Why do we lie — even when we know how destructive it can be?

And much more...

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Miss our two-part conversation with the Danish family man who infiltrated the illicit North Korean arms trade? Catch up beginning with episode 527: Ulrich “The Mole” Larsen | Undercover in North Korea Part One here!

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697: Peter Santenello | Inspecting Perspectives the Media Neglects

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 12 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Peter Santenello (@petersantenello) is a videomaker, traveler, and entrepreneur whose videos shine a light on the world the media fails to capture -- without political polarization.

What We Discuss with Peter Santenello:

Why Ukraine was an ideal base of operations for Peter's immersive, culture-hopping videos -- and what made him move to the US just before Russia decided to invade.

For all the problems the US faces on the home front, what do Americans take for granted that people from other countries notice and appreciate right away?

What video equipment does Peter use to stay as mobile (and non-threatening) as possible while maintaining fairly professional quality?

As an American, how does Peter navigate travel in countries with governments that have a less-than-friendly relationship with the United States?

What does Peter do to ensure he doesn't cross any boundaries when interviewing people whose cultures and experiences differ radically from his own -- while keeping his videos interesting for fellow outsiders?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/697

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Miss our conversation with tech entrepreneur Rob Reid about the potential for synthetic biology to be leveraged for very good -- and very bad -- outcomes in the not-too-distant future? Catch up with episode 244: Rob Reid | Synthetic Biology for Medicine and Murder here!

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696: You Can't Part from His Cheatin' Heart | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 08 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your spouse is a louse with a heart that's been cheating. Though you long to leave him, your resolve has been fleeting. You know you should go, so what's making you stay? We'll try to find out on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/696

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Did you know The Jordan Harbinger Show not only helps cure cancer, but it safeguards you against being kidnapped in foreign lands? It's true!

When his cheatin' heart has told on him, what's really keeping you from leaving the sneaky snake in the dust where he belongs?

As the cool uncle, would it be appropriate for you to guide your college-age nieces and nephews toward the relief CBD can offer while warning them of the risks to avoid should they seek their kicks with harder drugs typically available on campus?

As a young woman, you're happy the coworkers at your new job don't treat you with blatant disrespect and subject you to emotional abuse like the male-dominated team at your last place of employment. Unfortunately, you find yourself expecting mistreatment and don't want it to become a self-fulfilling prophecy. How can you leave the baggage of the old job behind?

You'd think your spouse might have matured over 10 years of being together and raising three kids, but nope. He still acts like he's 21 -- with the lack of personal responsibility this suggests (for most people). Do you dare hope he'll evolve into an equal partner, or should you look toward moving on?

You want to level up in life, but you struggle to find a way there in spite of doing all the "right" things. How do you handle surrounding yourself with the successful people who might be able to help when they often cause you to feel completely inferior?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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695: Malcolm Gladwell | Imperfect Puzzles and Mismatched Demeanors

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Malcolm Gladwell (@gladwell) has written multiple bestsellers that are probably on your shelf right now, including The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, What the Dog Saw, and Talking to Strangers. His latest book is The Bomber Mafia: A Dream, a Temptation, and the Longest Night of the Second World War.

What We Discuss with Malcolm Gladwell:

Why you're probably worse at detecting when other people are lying to you than you think you are (but at least it's for a good reason).

We judge people's honesty based on their demeanor, but not everyone's behavior matches what is expected of them -- which often leads to false impressions.

Why do we trust some institutions and people in authority almost without question, and what happens when that trust is (or is perceived to be) violated?

How does Malcolm decide what to explore and study for his next book or podcast, and what happens to the ideas that get discarded along the way?

Why Malcolm finds storytelling that assembles an imperfect puzzle more satisfying than a flawless conclusion.

And much more...

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Miss our episode with nonverbal communication expert Joe Navarro? Catch up with episode 135: Joe Navarro | How to Identify and Protect Yourself from Harmful People here!

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694: Carole Hooven | How Testosterone Dominates and Divides Us

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 05 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Carole Hooven (@hoovlet) teaches and co-directs the undergraduate program in the Department of Human Evolutionary Biology at Harvard University, and is the author of T: The Story of Testosterone, the Hormone that Dominates and Divides Us.

What We Discuss with Carole Hooven:

What creates differences between the sexes?

How testosterone is at the core of who we are, regardless of gender.

The ways testosterone shapes our minds and bodies in the womb and beyond.

What we've learned about testosterone from people who have transitioned between genders.

How politics is affecting science and research in testosterone.

And much more...

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Miss our interview with entrepreneur, actor, producer, reality TV personality, and former professional skateboarder Rob Dyrdek? Catch up with episode 498: Rob Dyrdek | Manufacturing Amazing with the Dyrdek Machine here!

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693: Lottery | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Millions of people play the lottery every day. Is it just a harmless game, or something more insidious?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/693

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

How much do people really spend on lottery tickets, and who does most of the buying?

Winning an Oscar, being struck by lightning, or becoming an astronaut are just three things you're more likely to do than win the lottery.

What do governments do with the money brought in by lottery sales? At least some of it is put to good use, right?

Why winning the lottery isn't a guaranteed way to fulfill your dreams -- and is more likely to turn your life into a nightmare.

Why you're better off using the money you'd spend on lottery tickets on almost anything else.

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

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692: Self-Defense Against Ex Led to Unjust Arrest | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your faith in the justice system has been shaken because you were arrested for defending yourself against a gun-wielding ex who was threatening to end your life. Now you want to use what you have left of your GI bill to become a criminal defense attorney to help others, but you're still struggling to overcome the trauma you endured from the system's unjust actions against you. What can you do to move on? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/692

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your ambition to become a criminal defense attorney to help others seems to be on hold until you can trust the system that had you arrested for defending yourself against a gun-wielding ex who was threatening to end your life. What can you do to move on?

You had a dream job in the medical field, but proximity to opioids proved too tempting and it led to termination and a criminal record. Now on the path to recovery, you're in search of work you find fulfilling that won't coax you back into the arms of addiction. But where do you even begin?

Your kind and hardworking mother-in-law nearing retirement could be renting out her spare house to help pay mounting medical bills, but instead, it's occupied by her deadbeat nephew who contributes nothing. How can you intervene on her behalf to ensure he starts chipping in without stirring up family drama (and sticking you with the eventual bill)?

Now in your 30s, you'd like to have a baby sooner rather than later. Unfortunately, your husband seems content to keep stalling and you worry that maybe he never really wants to have kids at all. It doesn't help matters that you've found flirty messages between him and his coworker, but you feel like leaving him to find someone new to start a family is risking time you don't have. What do you do?

A decade ago, you and your best friend were very much of the same negative, expect-the-worst mindset. Since then, you've lucked out with a great partner who's been supportive, and your trajectory has been on the up and up. Your friend, however, remains stuck struggling with many of the same problems you once shared, and you find it harder to be there for him in a way that's helpful. What's the best tack to take here?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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691: Shaquille O’Neal | Circling Back on Flat Earth Theory

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 30 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Shaquille O'Neal (@SHAQ) has been retired from basketball for years, but he’s still got his irons in plenty of fires. Here, we’ll discuss everything from superheroes to law enforcement to business to sports to podcasting to — yes — the Flat Earth Theory. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Shaquille O'Neal:

The real-world experience Shaq endured preparing for a political race in 2020.

How Shaq assembled what he calls The Panel to help manage not only his career but all his important life decisions — and how you can do the same.

Why Shaq doesn’t consider himself a celebrity (and why that still isn’t a good reason to bug him in the middle of dinner).

How Shaq manages his emotions so he stays non-reactive on and off the court.

Does Shaq really believe in the Flat Earth Theory?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/691

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Miss the show we did with the late and sorely missed Kobe Bryant — basketball legend, family man, and multimedia mogul? Catch up here with episode 249: Kobe Bryant | Dissecting the Mamba Mentality!

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690: Jane McGonigal | How to See the Future and Be Ready for Anything

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Jane McGonigal (@avantgame) is a futurist who specializes in designing games that challenge players to tackle real-world problems, and is the bestselling author of Reality is Broken and SuperBetter. Her latest book is Imaginable: How to See the Future Coming and Feel Ready for Anything ? Even Things That Seem Impossible Today.

What We Discuss with Jane McGonigal:

Why it is more important to be imaginative and insightful than to be 100 percent right when trying to predict what the future has in store for us.

How do we embrace problem scenarios and their solutions ahead of actual emergencies with an attitude of motivation and hope rather than dread?

The imaginative value of scheduling personal and professional plans on your calendar 10 years in advance.

How you can train yourself to spot signals of change that give you an edge on foresight (without falling down conspiracy theory rabbit holes), and imagine the ways anything can be different in the future.

The First 5 Minutes of the Future: a game Jane developed that helps you consider what to do when the next "unthinkable" change happens.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/690

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Miss the show where we interviewed Google’s Eric Schmidt? Catch up by listening to episode 201: Eric Schmidt | How a Coach Can Bring out the Best in You here!

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689: Her Beau is Faux, But She Doesn't Know | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 Jun 2022 00:19:11 PDT

You were happy for your roommate's sister when it seemed her new boyfriend was a keeper who made her happy. Unfortunately, it's become obvious he's a dangerous manipulator who has her under his spell as he drains her savings and threatens to propose to her while claiming to be the second coming of the region's top La-Z-Boy salesman with a net worth of $16 million. How can you get her to see him for what he is before it's too late? We'll look for answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/689

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your roommate's sister's swain spouts delusional claims that mark him as either a master manipulator or clearly insane. Either way, how can you get her to see through the spell he's cast over her before she falls further into his maniacal machinations?

Your boss is an intimidating menace whose incompetence makes you work twice as hard, and HR doesn't take your complaints about him seriously. Is it time to find a new job, or should you just deal with it?

You've learned your wife cheated on you while you were away in the military, and you would leave her if you weren't dependent on the contribution of her salary to buy a house in this inflated market. How do you do what’s best for your kids without trapping yourself in a loveless relationship?

Some might see your tendency to prepare for every possible emergency as a sign of chronic anxiety, but you see it as being ready for anything. Are you simply thinking ahead, or are you living in dread?

Recent feedback from your boss has made you aware of your tendency to make impulsive decisions. What can you do to slow down and better weigh your options before committing to a subpar course of action?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

688: A-Rod | Still Having a Ball After All

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 23 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

A-Rod (aka Alex Rodriguez) (@AROD) is a 3x MVP, 14-time All-Star, and World Series champion. As of 2016, he was the highest-paid player in major league baseball history. After 23 years in the game, he's an investor and business mentor preaching the gospel of financial literacy for all.

What We Discuss with A-Rod:

The concept of VCP: vision, capital, and people.

What Alex has learned about business from mentors like Warren Buffett and Magic Johnson, and what he hopes to pass on to his own mentees.

How growing up as a poor kid in Miami informs the way Alex treats people today.

The need for financial literacy to become part of the American education system's core curriculum.

The "Breakfast Club" that keeps Alex's relationship with his daughters real.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/688

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Miss our conversation with world champion boxer and entrepreneur Laila Ali? Catch up with episode 309: Laila Ali | Finding Strength, Spirit, and Personal Power here!

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687: Amy Webb | Changing Lives with Synthetic Biology

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 Jun 2022 00:30:21 PDT

Amy Webb (@amywebb) is an author and the founder and CEO of The Future Today Institute -- a leading foresight and strategy firm that helps leaders and their organizations prepare for complex futures. Her latest book is The Genesis Machine: Our Quest to Rewrite Life in the Age of Synthetic Biology.

What We Discuss with Amy Webb:

Synthetic biology will change the world in three key areas: medicine, food, and the environment.

How pandemics might be wiped out by engineering immunity to deadly diseases on demand before they have a chance to take hold. (Alternatively, how pandemics might be created by engineering new diseases against which we have no defense.)

Forget waiting your turn on the donor list: we'll be able to print new vital, life-sustaining organs from scratch instead of relying on unpredictable supply.

When we have the ability to resurrect extinct species, will we possess the wisdom to prudently decide what lives again and what stays dead forever?

How meat can be grown from cells in labs without slaughtering animals and consuming the resources necessary to sustain them.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/687

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686: An Abuser's Dead: Get Him Out of Your Head | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your uncle abused you when you were very young, and now he's on death's doorstep. You've resolved not to attend his funeral, though this may raise eyebrows among family who don't know the full story. So what's the least awkward way to tell your family not to expect you at the funeral? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/686

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What's the least awkward way to tell your family not to expect you at the funeral of the uncle who molested you when you were very young?

How do you let a toxic employee go in the most respectful way without making enemies in the process?

You find yourself easily distracted from the only boyfriend you've ever had. Even though you love him dearly, you question the sustainability of your relationship when your eye wanders so easily. Is your future with this man doomed?

The sister you once considered a bit of a superhero has fallen on hard times. How can you help her?

It's hard to have faith in your countrymen and women when they keep voting in representatives who don't have their best interests at heart. What can you do to help them see the light?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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685: Steve Rambam | The Real Life of a Private Investigator

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 16 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Steve Rambam (@stevenrambam) is the founder and CEO of Pallorium, Inc., a licensed Investigative Agency with offices and affiliates worldwide. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Steve Rambam:

Prime bank guarantee fraud: what is it and how does it work?

Why is the US a “Garden of Eden” for bad guys in general?

How Steve's TV show Nowhere to Hide came to be.

Why Steve's business doubled within two years following a bogus arrest.

Are there scam lists, and are you on one?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/685

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our interview with Freeway Rick Ross, the crack empire kingpin gone good? Catch up with episode 121: Freeway Rick Ross | Life in the Crack Lane here!

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684: Desmond Shum | Wealth, Power, Corruption, and Vengeance in China

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Desmond Shum is the former husband of arrested Chinese billionaire "Whitney" Duan Weihong and the author of Red Roulette: An Insider’s Story of Wealth, Power, Corruption, and Vengeance in Today’s China.

What We Discuss with Desmond Shum:

Why Desmond's intellectual schoolteacher parents were treated as undesirables by the CCP, and how this led to his family's self-exile to then-British Hong Kong when he was 10.

What the CCP does to keep evidence of events like the 1989 Tiananmen Square Massacre out of the public eye -- and what Desmond's impression of this particular event was like.

How the economic necessity of corruption to make business sustainable under the watchful eye of the CCP is used as a bargaining chip to keep the operators of these businesses in line.

The path that led Desmond and his wife Whitney to the inner circle of the CCP and allowed them to make billions with the government's blessing -- and the amount of work that went into maintaining the network that allowed this to continue.

The circumstances of Whitney's disappearance, and the eerie phone call he received from her four years later urging him not to publish his tell-all book.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/684

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Missed our conversation with Annie Duke — World Series poker champion and author of Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts? Catch up by listening to episode 40: Annie Duke | How to Make Decisions Like a Poker Champ here!

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683: Mad Lad Hates Dad and Treats Whole Family Bad | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Can there be reconciliation with an estranged son who hates the way his father treated him as a kid and takes it out on the whole family? We'll seek answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/683

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you reconcile with an estranged son who hates the way his father treated him as a kid and decides to take it out on the whole family?

How can you move past the resentment you feel over your husband's inaction when you needed help coping with postpartum depression after the birth of your son?

Your parents reneged on their promise to pay for your college, leaving you stuck with massive debt that you only discovered after graduating. What's your best next move?

Your son is legally an adult, but you're concerned about the evidence of vaping you've found in his room -- especially since he wants to be a professional athlete and he grew up with asthma. Worse, he's lying to you about it. What should you do?

You've been (perhaps mistakenly) forwarded part of a conversation with another applicant for the job you're going for. Should you do some research on your competition before your interview, or is it better not to psych yourself out by possibly discovering they're more qualified than you?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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682: Hustle Culture | Deep Dive

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabe (@GabeMizrahi) take a deep dive into the toxic cesspool of hustle culture and emerge with better alternatives you can use to break free from its seductive but icky grip and write yourself a meaningful success story!

What We Discuss:

Hustle culture makes you miserable because it sells you the destination without the journey.

Hustle culture is a toxic sham because it operates like an emotion-manipulating pyramid scheme that pits you against your peers instead of encouraging you to work together.

How you can spot the sure signs of hustle culture and avoid its sticky, wicked clutches.

What you can do to break free of hustle culture if it’s already got its hooks in you.

Better alternatives that will enrich your journey toward success instead of guilting you, shaming you, pressuring you, and making you co-dependent on hustle culture’s empty promises.

And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/682

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681: Bill Browder | Surviving Vladimir Putin's Wrath

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Bill Browder (@Billbrowder) pioneered a brand-new market after the fall of The Iron Curtain while making powerful enemies — including Vladimir Putin. He is the author of Red Notice and Freezing Order: A True Story of Money Laundering, Murder, and Surviving Vladimir Putin's Wrath.

What We Discuss with Bill Browder:

The real purpose of disinformation: not to convince you that it's presenting accurate facts, but to cast a seed of doubt over the credibility of the position it's opposing.

How a timely tweet upon being arrested by potentially Russia-corrupted police officers in Spain may have saved Bill Browder's life.

How the Magnitsky Act came about and what it does to sanction Russian human rights violators and kleptocrats.

How the power of Interpol is regularly abused by genocidal policymakers to retrieve escaped prisoners from "safe" havens.

Bill's thoughts on why Putin is making his move in Ukraine now, and what he hopes to accomplish there.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/681

See Jordan (with Ryan Holiday) Live in L.A. June 13th!: Go to jordanharbinger.com/tickets for more info

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680: Recycling | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 05 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Between climate change, global pollution, and a spiraling amount of waste created every single day, we all want to find ways -- even small ways -- to help. And for some people, the easiest way is to recycle. You have a house, plenty of room to separate your garbage, and your city provides different color bins so you don’t get confused between pizza and the box it comes in. And everything works out, right? Well, of course not! Here, we'll weigh the pros and cons of recycling and make sure you're not doing it all wrong.

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/680

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Does recycling really help save the planet? Only if you do it the right way (which we'll discuss).

What would be the unintended consequences of banning plastics entirely?

Why some materials that could be recycled aren't.

What are the massive benefits of recycling metals?

How many resources are saved when we recycle paper?

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with David at his website, on Twitter, on Instagram, on TikTok, and on YouTube, and make sure to check out The David C. Smalley Podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts! If you like to get out of your house and catch live comedy, keep an eye on David's tour dates here and text David directly at (424) 306-0798 for tickets when he comes to your town!

See Jordan (with Ryan Holiday) Live in L.A. June 13th!: Go to jordanharbinger.com/tickets for more info

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

679: Mom's Bigotry Makes Romantic Future Hard to See | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

It's difficult to plan for a future with your long-term partner when their mother refuses to entertain the idea of getting to know you. In fact, you've never even met face-to-face because she doesn't like your race. So how do you get your significant other to address the reality that their mom's bigotry makes a romantic future together hard to see? We'll try to get to the bottom of this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/679

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You've never met your partner's mother face-to-face because she doesn't like your race. How do you address the reality that this bigotry makes a future together hard to see?

How do you get over a lifelong reluctance to speak out and get help before your poor performance due to work-related stress takes away your dream career?

You can openly support your Ukrainian coworkers as Putin's aggression against them drags on, but how do you show your Russian colleagues who don't support the war that you recognize their uncertainty and sadness during this difficult time without prompting them to say anything that could get them in trouble with their government?

You were a childhood victim of sexual abuse, and now find yourself as an adult with an addiction to porn and massage parlors that fills you with shame and massive debt. How can you break free from this self-destructive pattern of behavior? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us field this one!]

You regret the generosity of offering your ne'er-do-well brother-in-law a job reference because you've come to realize that you can't, in good conscience, vouch for his reliability. What do you do when being generous and making the right call don’t quite line up?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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678: Chris Voss | Hostage Negotiation Tactics for Everyday Life

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 02 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Chris Voss (@VossNegotiation) is a former FBI hostage negotiator and author of Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depended on It. He joins the show to discuss how we can be more effective negotiators by using hostage negotiation techniques.

What We Discuss with Chris Voss:

The principles behind negotiation and emotional persuasion.

Three types of negotiators you’ll encounter — The Analyst, The Assertive, and The Accommodator — and how to size them up.

How to influence the way people size you up.

Defusing negative emotions.

Generating rapport in difficult situations.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/678

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677: Sam Cooper | How the West Was Infiltrated by Its Enemies

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 31 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Sam Cooper (@scoopercooper) is a national investigative journalist for Global News and co-author of Wilful Blindness, How a Network of Narcos, Tycoons, and CCP Agents Infiltrated the West.

What We Discuss with Sam Cooper:

How -- and why -- is the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) directly responsible for waging a reverse Opium War from China against the West?

How does the CCP operate in tandem with criminal organizations to further its interests in the West?

What does the CCP do to entice and recruit Westerners to become mouthpieces of government propaganda?

How the CCP uses gangsters, gambling, drugs, and real estate to launder massive amounts of money in the West while simultaneously undermining the democratic societies in which they operate.

What is the Five Eyes alliance, how is interference by the CCP jeopardizing its stability, and why is this something the West needs to worry about sooner rather than later?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/677

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Miss our conversation with David Kilgour, author of Bloody Harvest: Organ Harvesting of Falun Gong Practitioners in China? Catch up with episode 497: David Kilgour | The Heartless Art of Forced Organ Harvesting here!

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676: The Olympics | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 29 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

The Olympic games hold a place of reverence in the hearts of people around the world. But for the athletes who wreck their bodies and their bank accounts training for years to compete in the Olympics for glory and national pride -- especially the ones who hail from Team USA -- are the games kind of a sham?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/676

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

In spite of the PR boost nations get whenever their teams win medals and the influx of cash brought in by the games, the United States is one of the few countries that doesn't spend a dime supporting its Olympic athletes.

A so-called non-profit, the US Olympic & Paralympic Committee brought in $317 million in revenue in 2018, including $122 million in broadcast revenue, which resulted in $48 million in profit. The CEO made $800,000 in compensation.

60% of the athletes who train full-time for years to have a chance at competing in the Olympics do not consider themselves financially stable, often relying on low-paying gig economy jobs to fund their journey.

For Team USA athletes who win medals, the USOPC pays out $37,500 for gold, $22,500 for silver, and $15,000 for bronze. In contrast, Singapore rewards its athletes with $1 million for gold, $500,000 for silver, and $250,000 for bronze.

In 2012, half of the track and field athletes made less than $15,000 per year, while the track and field CEO earned $1.2 million in 2018. In 2012, US News and World Report found it cost around $100,000 per year to be an athlete in the Olympics.

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675: A Tenant, Psychotic, Makes Your Life Chaotic | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 27 May 2022 00:12:55 PDT

You invited a friend to rent one of your rooms for a year. Only five months in, she's having delusional psychotic breaks in which she claims to be God, purports to read minds, and accuses your fiance and numerous others of raping her. Under the circumstances, your family doesn't feel safe having her in your home anymore, and you've let her know she's not welcome back. Now she's calling you incessantly and making you feel guilty for not supporting her as a "friend." Do you have a responsibility to help her, or -- for the sake of your family's safety -- are you right for cutting her off? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/675

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Do you have a responsibility to keep renting a room to a friend who had a psychotic break, or does your family's safety come first? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us field the legalities of this one!]

The private school where you teach is rife with corrupt policies. Should you try to change the system from within, or find another job before an inevitable lawsuit brings the whole place down?

Because you're young and you want to be free to explore your romantic options, you may have been too hasty when you agreed to date your college girlfriend exclusively. Is there a way to back out of the arrangement without being a complete heel?

A recent miscarriage seems to be just the tip of a cascading torrent of misfortune and tragedy that has you experiencing frequent anxiety attacks and a constant state of fight or flight. What can you do to turn things around?

How can you make sure your good work is rewarded by the entrenched corporate hierarchy at your office when you have an incompetent manager taking credit for everything you and your team have done? [Thanks to executive coach and From Start-Up to Grown-Up author Alisa Cohn for helping us field this one!]

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674: Ken Croke | Undercover in an Outlaw Biker Gang Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 26 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Ken Croke is a retired ATF agent who worked undercover for years to bust numerous criminal organizations, and is the co-author of Riding with Evil: Taking Down the Notorious Pagan Motorcycle Gang. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure you've had a listen to part one here!]

What We Discuss with Ken Croke:

How did Ken (and his wife, who was also a federal agent) keep their undercover lives separate from their home lives without jeopardizing either?

Working undercover over the course of two years, what were some of Ken's closest calls that almost compromised his cover -- and possibly his life?

How is evidence gathered in a way that will hold up in court without blowing an undercover agent's cover?

What signals that it's time for an undercover operation to end?

Does Ken worry about what his former gang associates might do if their paths should ever cross again?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/674

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673: Ken Croke | Undercover in an Outlaw Biker Gang Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 24 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Ken Croke is a retired ATF agent who worked undercover for years to bust numerous criminal organizations, and is the co-author of Riding with Evil: Taking Down the Notorious Pagan Motorcycle Gang. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Keep an eye out for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Ken Croke:

What's the hardest part about keeping an undercover identity intact while under heavy scrutiny by some of the world's most paranoid and dangerous miscreants?

How does the hierarchy of an outlaw biker gang work, and what does the process of becoming a trusted member entail?

What does an undercover agent do to pass among criminals without actually committing crimes (or stepping outside the boundaries of what's been cleared in advance)?

How do outlaw bikers really feel about the way their subculture is portrayed in popular media (e.g., Sons of Anarchy)?

What did Ken's wife and kids do while he was undercover for two years?

And much more...

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672: Toothpaste | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 22 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Two or three times a day, every day, for most of your life, you use toothpaste. But what’s in it? Is it actually good for you? And why is there a scary label on the back warning you not to swallow it? If you want to know the answers to these questions and more about toothpaste, nine out of 10 dentists (might very well) recommend this episode!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/672

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

If toothpaste is supposedly safe enough to put in your mouth three times a day, why is there a warning to call your local poison control center if you happen to swallow it?

Fluoride can strengthen teeth and reduce the risk of cavities, but too much exposure can cause problems from bone disease to certain cancers. So why is it in most toothpaste and 70% of our drinking water, and how is it regulated?

What sneaky loophole allows toothpaste manufacturers to bypass the legal disclosure of certain ingredients in their products that might cause us to think twice about using them?

What are some of these rarely listed ingredients, and what are the hazards of using them?

How can we keep our teeth and gums clean and healthy without exposing ourselves to potential toxins?

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671: Cheating Husband Caught in His Own Clap Trap | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 20 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

When you determined the strange numbers on your husband's phone connected to escort services, he immediately told you not to worry -- he was just seeking inexpensive massages for back pain he'd been having. And when he went to the hospital to find relief from another kind of pain, his innocent explanation didn't match with the doctor's summary that it was an STI-related condition. So now that his cheating ways have caught him up in a clap trap of his own design, what are you going to do with this information? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/671

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

First off, we have a heartwarming update from a Feedback Friday listener who was going through tough times back in episode 478!

Your husband always has a convenient way to explain away his obvious infidelities. But now that there's evidence of an STI on his latest medical summary, what are you going to do with this information?

How do you politely turn down a work acquaintance's request for a donation to his crowdfunding cause?

How can you maintain a healthy relationship with your mom without letting her addiction to alcohol get in the way? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and addiction specialist Dr. Rubin Khoddam for helping us field this one!]

The fact that your 22-year-old girlfriend still tacks up magazine cutouts of pop stars she swoons over like a high school girl makes you more than a little jealous. Are you overreacting?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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670: Vanessa Van Edwards | The Science of Succeeding with People

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 19 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Vanessa Van Edwards (@vvanedwards) is the lead investigator at human behavior research lab Science of People and the author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People and Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Vanessa Van Edwards:

How can nonverbal communication affect the first impression you make to someone — even if they’re just hearing your voice over a telephone call?

Explore the science of popularity — what makes the cool kids so cool?

Understand the difference between social attraction and romantic attraction — and why they both matter.

Find out what we can learn about people from their photographs — especially on dating sites.

What interesting patterns turn up in researching episodes of reality television shows Blind Date and Shark Tank?

And much more…

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Miss our conversation with FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss? Catch up with episode 165: Chris Voss | Negotiate as If Your Life Depended on It here!

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669: Dallas Taylor | The Psychology of Sound Design

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 17 May 2022 00:22:07 PDT

Dallas Taylor is the host and creator of Twenty Thousand Hertz, a podcast revealing the stories behind the world’s most recognizable and interesting sounds. He is also the Creative Director of Defacto Sound, a TED mainstage speaker, a regular contributor to major publications, and a respected thought leader on the narrative power of sound.

What We Discuss with Dallas Taylor:

How sound designers create audio more in line with what our brains expect to hear when capturing it in reality would fall short.

How the tricks of sound design are akin to a magician's ability to invisibly manipulate our emotions.

Why we hear certain sounds recycled in movies and trailers to the point of cliché.

With the perspective-bending nature of sound design occupying so many of his waking hours, does Dallas find elements of the job extending into off-the-clock parts of his life?

Analog vs. digital (and why many prefer to rely on the older technology).

And much more...

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Miss the show we did with Moby — musician, singer, songwriter, producer, animal rights activist, and author? Catch up here with episode 196: Moby | What to Do When Success Makes You Miserable!

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668: Tipping | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 15 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Tipping isn't a city in China. But it is a shameful institution that encourages racism, sexism, harassment, and exploitation of low-income workers while placing the burden of compensation on customers instead of business owners. If most restaurants and service-based industries in the world can exist without relying on tipping, why does the custom persist in the United States, and what would be a fairer, more sustainable alternative?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/668

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

The federal minimum wage for tipped workers is $2.13 per hour -- the same as it was 31 years ago (though it can be even less in some states under certain circumstances). Why is it the customer’s responsibility to pay these workers a fair wage?

Why, contrary to the protests of whoever happens to be holding the purse strings, raising the minimum wage for the person serving you will not make your burger cost $25.

How tipped workers are still expected to fulfill untipped tasks during their "down" time, but without a raise in compensation to make up for it.

Why the institution of tipping encourages racism, sexism, harassment, and exploitation of low-income workers.

How the custom of tipping came about, why it persists in places like the United States, and what we should be doing to replace it with something that would better serve the server and served, alike.

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667: Friend's Sicko Spouse Keeps Infecting Our House | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 13 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your inseparable friend's perpetually ill spouse seems to get a sick kick out of infecting your family on the regular and refuses to respect any boundaries you've tried to establish that might keep her and her nasty cooties at bay. If you didn't know any better, you'd suspect she was doing it on purpose! What can you do to protect the health of your household from this physically -- and perhaps mentally -- unwell woman? We'll try to find a remedy to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/667

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your friend's perpetually ill spouse seems to get a sick kick out of infecting your family on the regular. How can you keep her and her nasty cooties at bay?

Must you bid your love adieu to dodge her herpes simplex 2?

Is it time to cut loose the "friend" who ghosts you profusely?

How can you remain an influential, vital part of your child's life when they live with your ex on the other side of the world?

You suspect you're clinically depressed, but how can you ask for help when the thought of therapy just adds to your stress?

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666: How to Ask for a Promotion | Deep Dive

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 12 May 2022 00:06:16 PDT

Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabe (@GabeMizrahi) take a deep dive into their tried-and-true approach to asking for a promotion, maximizing your chances of landing it, and building on it to create a thriving career.

What We Discuss:

The important questions to ask yourself before approaching your boss for a raise or a promotion.

What you can start doing to ensure you get a raise or promotion next time around if you can't quite justify one yet.

How to build your case for a raise or promotion when you're ready to take one on.

The best practices for negotiation when the floor is yours.

What to do if you don't get the raise or promotion on the first try.

And much more...

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Did you miss our deep dive into what you should do if you’re looking for a new job or relationship and you want to know how to get your foot in the door — while avoiding the mistakes that are liable to get that door slammed in your face? Catch up with episode 629: Getting Your Foot in the Door | Deep Dive here!

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665: Luis Navia | 25 Years Inside the Narco Cartels

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 10 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Luis Navia worked for nearly 25 years as a cocaine trafficker for the deadliest Colombian and Mexican cartels until the law caught up with him in 2000. He is the co-author (with Jesse Fink) of Pure Narco: One Man's True Story of 25 Years Inside the Cartels.

What We Discuss with Luis Navia:

Why did Luis Navia -- a Georgetown student and the privileged son of an affluent sugar trader -- get involved in the illicit international cocaine trade with the most ruthless and infamous Mexican and Colombian drug cartels?

How did Luis move between 200 to 300 tons of cocaine (roughly worth $10 billion) over the course of 25 years -- and live to tell the tale?

Why did Luis insist on carrying out his business without a weapon -- in spite of being regularly surrounded by the perpetrators of unimaginably brutal violence?

What are the logistics for smuggling massive amounts of cocaine over international borders with limited space and personnel?

How did Operation Journey, an anti-narcotics effort coordinated across 12 nations and led by the United States and Great Britain, finally put an end to Luis' lucrative cocaine trafficking career?

And much more...

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Miss our two-part conversation with the Caravaggio of currency counterfeiting? Catch up by starting with Episode 488: Frank Bourassa | The World’s Greatest Counterfeiter Part One here!

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664: Reiki Healing | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 08 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Is Reiki -- the not-so-ancient Japanese energy healing technique by which your psychic empath aunt swears -- a legitimate way to treat ailments like cancer, diabetic neuropathy, anxiety, lactose intolerance, and cooties? Or is it nothing more than a placebo that, at best, might offer you a relaxing way to spend an hour of your day -- and a day of your savings? Here on Skeptical Sunday, it's all hands on deck to discover the truth about the controversial practice of Reiki healing.

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/664

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

How "ancient" is the hallowed practice of Reiki healing?

With over 800 hospitals in the world offering Reiki -- including Johns Hopkins and the Mayo Clinic -- there must be some tangible benefit to this energy healing technique, right?

What scientific evidence do we have to support the efficacy of Reiki healing?

How [much] does someone [have to pay to] become a Reiki practitioner?

What can (and what can't) Reiki do for you?

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663: Thinking of Another Dude: Is Marriage Screwed? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 06 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Celebrating only the second anniversary with your wonderful husband, you've found yourself wondering what life might be like if you'd, instead, pursued a relationship with a certain unrequited crush. Does having these thoughts make you an unfaithful, horrible person, or is this a normal adjustment to married life -- for better or for worse? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/663

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is your marriage screwed because you've been having thoughts about another dude on your second anniversary?

Should you give your estranged family -- who abused you and worked hard to slander your name when you broke free -- a second chance just because tragedy has forced you to interact again?

You run successful social media pages reviewing a certain company’s products, and it seemed to be a win/win situation -- until you received a cease and desist letter from said company. How can you safely move forward without losing your business entirely?

You feel obligated to be there for a new friend who's going through some tough times, but you're concerned that some of your own negativity may be residual from this friendship. Should you stay in their life and risk your own mental health to be the voice of reason, or would it be best just to cut them out of your life entirely?

You're resentful that your peer got the promotion you wanted and is now your direct manager, and you feel like your manager isn't trying hard enough to help you get ahead. Should you raise a stink about the unfairness of it all, or learn from this teachable moment and grin and bear it until your next review?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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662: Daniel J. Levitin | How to Think Critically in the Post-Truth Era

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 05 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Daniel J. Levitin (@danlevitin) is a cognitive psychologist, neuroscientist, musician, record producer, and author of Weaponized Lies: How to Think Critically in the Post-Truth Era. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Daniel J. Levitin:

The most important quality for anyone who wants to be an evidence-based, critical thinker.

Why even society’s smartest people fall victim to misinformation.

The first step to making good decisions.

How to dismantle bad arguments on the fly.

Why you need to look beyond averages when making a case.

And much more…

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/662

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Miss the show we did with award-winning cybersecurity journalist Nicole Perlroth? Catch up with episode 542: Nicole Perlroth | Who’s Winning the Cyberweapons Arms Race? here!

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661: Rachel Zoffness | Managing Pain In Your Body and Brain

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 03 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Dr. Rachel Zoffness (@DrZoffness) is a pain psychologist, international speaker, medical consultant, educator, and author of The Pain Management Workbook: Powerful CBT and Mindfulness Skills to Take Control of Pain and Reclaim Your Life.

What We Discuss with Dr. Rachel Zoffness:

Pain lives in the brain, not the body (which is why amputees often report sensing it in limbs they no longer have).

The overlap between physical and emotional pain, and why they co-occur 100% of the time.

How the "pain dial" in your brain works: what turns it up, and what turns it down.

The ways in which trauma, anxiety, and depression amplify pain.

Why pain medicine is broken and how we can fix it.

And much more...

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Miss the show we did with Jack Barsky — author of Deep Undercover: My Secret Life and Tangled Allegiances as a KGB Spy in America? Catch up here with episode 285: Jack Barsky | Deep Undercover with a KGB Spy in America!

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660: Chemtrails | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 01 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Look! Up in the sky! It's a bird! It's a plane! It's a chemtrail of dihydrogen monoxide, known to cause suffocation as well as accelerated corrosion in certain circumstances, and now it's in the very air you're breathing! But to what end? What nefarious plot has the government hatched to control the lives of you and your loved ones this time? Listen on as we get to the bottom of this chemtrail conspiracy!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/660

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

What is dihydrogen monoxide, and why are aircraft continually depositing it into the air we all breathe?

Are government scientists really geo-engineering our weather? If so, to what end?

If we're supposed to believe so-called chemtrails are just condensation-created contrails, why did a weatherman admit on live television that the military was spraying chemicals into the atmosphere?

If chemtrails are just contrails, why are there sometimes breaks in the streams? Wouldn't the temperature difference between an airplane's exhaust and the air create consistently solid trails?

Aluminum found in the soil proves beyond a doubt that the government is spraying us with toxic chemicals to control the population -- or something -- right?

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659: Her Spouse Raped You. Can Friendship Stay True? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Can your friendship with the woman whose husband raped you on their wedding day ever recover? Perhaps a better question to ask is: should it? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/659

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Can your friendship with the woman whose husband raped you on their wedding day ever recover? Perhaps a better question to ask is: should it?

How can you communicate with your Russian parents when they've been brainwashed by state propaganda?

Are your friends trying to grow their network, or are they trying to clandestinely rope you into their undercover MLM?

If management and law enforcement don't want to protect you and your coworkers from the dangerous, mentally unstable members of the homeless community camped across the street from your office, what can you do to ensure your safety?

When your last five roommate situations ended on a sour note, are you wrong to wonder if you might be the common denominator that invites neverending chaos into the equation?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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658: Shanna Swan | The Reproduction Crisis and Humanity's Future

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 28 Apr 2022 00:12:42 PDT

Dr. Shanna Swan (@drshannaswan) is the Professor of Environmental Medicine and Public Health at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai, and the author of Count Down: How Our Modern World Is Threatening Sperm Counts, Altering Male and Female Reproductive Development, and Imperiling the Future of the Human Race.

What We Discuss with Dr. Shanna Swan:

Why has sperm count among men in Western countries decreased by over 50 percent in the past four decades?

What can increasing reproductive problems in the animal kingdom tell us about diminishing human fertility?

The same chemicals that cause reproductive decline are responsible for the obesity epidemic.

What are some of the best practices we can personally observe for recovering from some of the most common fertility issues we face?

What steps can society take today to ensure we have enough of a population to constitute a society tomorrow?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/658

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with Ishmael Beah, a former child soldier and New York Times bestselling author? Get caught up with episode 622: Ishmael Beah | Memoirs of a Boy Soldier here!

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657: Josh Peck | Happy People Are Annoying

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 26 Apr 2022 00:40:34 PDT

Josh Peck (@ItsJoshPeck) is an actor (currently appearing as Drew on How I Met Your Father), comedian, YouTuber, and author of Happy People Are Annoying.

What We Discuss with Josh Peck:

Why Josh considers it a blessing he grew up before social media dominated the landscape of adolescence.

How Josh went from wild child to grounded, friendly father (instead of becoming some kind of "drunk Hollywood jerkface") without knowing his own father until later in life.

What Josh did to overcome the food addiction that once had him tipping the scales at 297 -- when he was just a kid.

How Josh became a standup comedian at the tender age of 11, and what he did to relate to his significantly older audience.

How ego can turn someone into an imposter -- and how this is different from the common phenomenon of imposter syndrome.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/657

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Miss our episode with spooky mentalist Derren Brown? Catch up with episode 150: Derren Brown | Using the Power of Suggestion for Good here!

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656: Your Stalker's Sister is Dating Your Brother | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Having a stalker is bad enough. But what happens when that stalker starts showing up at family functions because their sister is now dating your brother? Is it possible to ensure your safety without infringing on your sibling's relationship? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/656

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A testimonial from a listener who secured a great job after following advice from our deep dive on how to get your foot in the door!

How can you help the people of Ukraine as they continue to suffer the atrocities of invasion by Russian forces? Here’s a list.

What do you do when confronted with a romance like no other: your stalker's sister is dating your brother?

Your significant other hates their job, feels stuck because their current skill set doesn't offer any alternatives, and brings this negativity home every night. How can you address the effect their work is having on your relationship without making them feel even more hopeless?

You fear your tendency to cry when discussing things that are unfair or unjust may be holding you back and keeping others from taking you seriously, but therapy has thus far been unsuccessful in keeping these involuntary tears in check. So what can you do? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Your spouse once lived a chaotic life of addiction and sometimes homelessness in her hometown, but found the road to recovery that led to you and an amazing job in another state. Now her lonely father is encouraging her to move back, but you worry that leaving her job and relocating to the very place that marks her troubled history could trigger a relapse. What's the best way to guide her in the right direction?

When your bosses constantly ignore your advice that turns out later to have been the right course, how can you resist saying "I told you so" and, instead, use these incidents to reinforce their confidence in what you suggest?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger...

655: David Eagleman | How Our Brains Construct Reality

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 21 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

David Eagleman (@davideagleman) is a Stanford neuroscientist, host of Emmy-nominated PBS/BBC series The Brain, and author of many leather-bound books, including Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain, The Brain: The Story of You, and Livewired: The Inside Story of the Ever-Changing Brain. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with David Eagleman:

Why our conscious brain should be grateful for its separation from the subconscious brain.

What is sensory substitution, and how might it allow the blind to “see,” the deaf to “hear,” and create completely new, superhuman senses altogether?

Your umwelt is not my umwelt: a shared environment is several realities, depending on how it’s being sensed.

Alien hands, intellectual flexibility, zombie routines, and smartphone symbiosis.

How might technology augment our brains in the not-too-distant future?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/655

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Miss our conversation about the spooky nature of perception with world-renowned neuroscientist Beau Lotto? Catch up with episode 177: Beau Lotto | Why You See Differently When You Deviate here!

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654: Chris Miller & Brandon Wheeler | News from Ukraine's Warfront

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 19 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Former US Secretary of Defense Chris Miller and Freedom Research Foundation's Brandon Wheeler join us after meeting with Ukraine President Volodymyr Zelenskyy's top general and intelligence officers to share fresh perspectives from the war front.

What We Discuss with Chris Miller & Brandon Wheeler:

Putin's unintended consequence: how Russia’s actions have consolidated the entire Western world.

Why isn't there a no-fly zone over Ukraine?

Are sanctions against Russia working?

What else can the West do to contain Putin’s Russia?

Predictions about Russia's plans and strategies moving forward, and what Putin's likely ambitions beyond this invasion entail.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/654

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Have you heard our interview with Yuriy Matsarsky, a Ukrainian journalist turned civilian fighter against the Russian invasion? Catch up with episode 638: Yuriy Matsarsky | Fighting for Ukraine here!

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653: Ear Candling | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 17 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Is ear candling -- the practice of inserting a lit, hollow candle in your ear to remove earwax -- a safe, practical way to get the job done? If you have a burning desire to discover the truth, listen on!

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

Where did the practice of ear candling originate? It's got to come from a noble, ancient, shamanic tradition and not some hippies out to make a buck, right?

Ear candling is a thriving industry that rakes in about $1.2 million a year.

Are there risks to placing a hollow, burning candle in your living human ear canal?

In spite of any of its potential dangers, at least ear candling gets rid of excess earwax and other debris like it's supposed to, right?

If ear candling is so hazardous to your health, the FDA or some governmental agency is on the case to have it banned, right? Right?

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with David at his website, on Twitter, on Instagram, on TikTok, and on YouTube, and make sure to check out The David C. Smalley Podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts! If you like to get out of your house and catch live comedy, keep an eye on David's tour dates here and text David directly at (424) 306-0798 for tickets when he comes to your town!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/653

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Miss our conversation with behavioral expert Thomas Erikson?

652: Sad About Dad's Sexist Thoughts Re: Assault | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 15 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your father's never been abusive, but you were recently disheartened when he referred to a child sexual assault survivor and advocate who's been in the news lately as a "media-hungry slut." And when you brought up how this made you feel to your mother, she dismissively suggested you should just let it go because he's always been supportive of you. Is there another approach you can try with your parents to make them understand they're missing the whole point about why you're upset? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/652

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Why does Jordan crusade hard against MLM scams while giving infomercials that peddle shoddy goods a pass?

How can you help the people of Ukraine as they continue to suffer the atrocities of invasion by Russian forces? Here's a list.

How do you make your father understand why you're so upset about dismissive, sexist remarks he casually made regarding a sexual assault survivor who's been in the public eye?

Your father and older sister have serious health issues that require constant care. How can you handle feelings of wanting to run away at a time when you're needed the most?

A creative project on which you collaborated with your significant other fell by the wayside when you had a very bitter breakup. Is there a way to finish the project -- giving your ex credit and a share of the profits for their contributions -- without actually bringing this person back into your life? [Thanks to Cypher Content founder Edward Sabin for helping us with this one!]

Your friend's brother died in a car crash when their sister, who survived, was texting behind the wheel. As the maid of honor for this friend's wedding, you want to honor the memory of their late brother in your speech, but you don't want to exacerbate the guilt, shame, regret, and PTSD of the surviving sister, who will be present. What's the right thing to do here?

When you have a little extra to give and want to donate to a charity that is working to make the world a better place, how do you decide on the right charity?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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651: Anja Shortland | How Kidnap Insurance Works

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 14 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Anja Shortland is a professor of political economy at King’s College, London who specializes in the economics of crime. She is the author of Kidnap: Inside the Ransom Business and Lost Art: The Art Loss Register Casebook Volume One.

What We Discuss with Anja Shortland:

How many people are kidnapped every year for ransom, and how many actually return from the ordeal alive?

What incentives do kidnappers have to treat hostages nonviolently and bargain for their release in good faith?

How do insurers keep vulnerable clients from letting down their guard once a policy has been obtained?

The protection theory that explains how crime organizations (e.g., the mafia) effectively stabilize the kidnap-for-ransom industry.

Why offering a higher ransom than demanded is the worst strategy for ensuring a hostage's safe release.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/651

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with Somali pirate hostage Michael Scott Moore? Catch up with episode 115: Michael Scott Moore | What It’s Really like to Be a Pirate Hostage here!

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650: Brian Klaas | The Corruptible Influence of Power

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 12 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Brian Klaas (@brianklaas) is an associate professor in global politics at University College London, host of the Power Corrupts podcast, and author of Corruptible: Who Gets Power and How It Changes Us.

What We Discuss with Brian Klaas:

How accurate was historian Lord Acton's assessment that "power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely"?

Why do people become corrupt? Is it the system working on them from the outside or something in human nature working on them from within?

What kind of people become corrupt? Is everyone susceptible to corruption's temptations?

When it comes to corruption, should our leaders be held to higher standards than the rest of us?

How can we create fair systems to incentivize people to resist corruption in favor of the straight and narrow?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/650

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649: Arranged Marriage Threatens Lesbian Couple | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 08 Apr 2022 08:31:24 PDT

Parental plans for an arranged marriage threaten a lesbian couple's future. Welcome to Feedback Friday!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/649

648: Susan Cain | Introverts Unite for a Quiet Revolution

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 07 Apr 2022 00:49:35 PDT

Susan Cain (@susancain) is, in her own words, an "unlikely" award-winning speaker, and bestselling author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking. Her latest book is Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Susan Cain:

How “quiet” came to be a pejorative term as the West urbanized and placed more value on personality (extroversion) over character (introversion).

Better ways to understand our introverted friends (or selves).

Action steps for introverts to become more social.

Why being an introvert might actually be an advantage — in social situations, negotiation, and creative pursuits.

Why brainstorming doesn’t work and is mostly a social exercise vs. a creative one.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/648

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with producer, author, and Academy Award-winning actor Matthew McConaughey? Catch up with episode 455: Matthew McConaughey | Following Life’s Greenlights to Success here!

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647: Karim Hijazi | When Cyber War Goes Kinetic

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 05 Apr 2022 00:18:22 PDT

Karim Hijazi (@karimhijazi) is the founder, chairman, and CEO of cyber intelligence company Prevailion, and creator and host of The Introverted Iconoclast podcast.

What We Discuss with Karim Hijazi:

How vulnerable is the Internet and how much of our current infrastructure would suffer if it were to go down tomorrow?

What are the biggest threats to the security of your privacy, your bank account, your company, and your country?

How cyber warfare can lead to kinetic (i.e., real) warfare with physical consequences.

Why the current efforts of companies and governments to mitigate digital security risks are woefully insufficient.

What are our best practices for staying as safe from cyber attacks as possible?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/647

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss the show we did with award-winning cybersecurity journalist Nicole Perlroth? Catch up with episode 542: Nicole Perlroth | Who’s Winning the Cyberweapons Arms Race? here!

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646: Expiration Dates | Skeptical Sunday

info@podcastone.com — Sun, 03 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

How concerned should you be about expiration dates stamped on items you buy from the grocery store?

Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition of The Jordan Harbinger Show where Jordan and fact-checker, comedian, and podcast host David C. Smalley break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions.

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/646

On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

What really determines the expiration date that gets stamped on an item from the grocery store?

Is there a difference between "sell by," "buy by," and "use before" expiration warnings?

What federal regulations dictate expiration dates for the protection of the consumer?

How dangerous is it to ignore an expiration date on something like a gallon of milk, and what variables might change this?

Why most cases of food poisoning have very little to do with the lackadaisical observance of expiration dates, and how you should really be gauging if something is still fit for consumption.

And much more!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter, on Instagram, and on YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!

Connect with David at his website, on Twitter, on Instagram, on TikTok, and on YouTube, and make sure to check out The David C. Smalley Podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts! If you like to get out of your house and catch live comedy, keep an eye on David's tour dates here and text David directly at (424) 306-0798 for tickets when he comes to your town!

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss the show we did with Molly Bloom — the woman behind the most exclusive, high-stakes underground poker game in the world? Catch up here with episode 120: Molly Bloom | The One Who Makes the Rules Wins the Game!

645: Is a Bridesmaid Fight Worth a Disinvite? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Apr 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Everyone knows that when tweetle beetles fight, it's called a tweetle beetle battle. But bridesmaids brawling at a bachelorette bash just make wedding plans more of a pain in the ass. Now, to fend off further fighting, the bride must decide who she's disinviting. Boo, hoo! But who? Which one gets the axe; which one gets to stay? We hope to find out this Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/645

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

After a brawl between two bridesmaids at the bachelorette bash, the bride now has to disinvite one to the wedding. But who should she choose?

Does Jordan Harbinger ever get tired of saying "Jordan Harbinger?"

Aside from this one, have Gabe or Jordan ever done any weird jobs?

Just because an oil is classified as "essential" doesn't mean it's necessary to put it on your family's food, right? Right?

Do we ever get generous offers from shady sponsors?

What’s the most embarrassing thing that's ever happened to Jordan and Gabe (that they're willing to fess up to)?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our interview with Bar Rescue‘s Jon Taffer? Catch up with episode 142: Jon Taffer | Raising Your Bar and Crushing All Excuses here!

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644: Laowhy86 | How the Chinese Social Credit Score System Works Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 31 Mar 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Laowhy86 (@laowhy86) -- aka Matthew Tye, aka C-Milk -- shared the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects of life as an American in China on his YouTube channel for 10 years until he caught the attention of the CCP and barely escaped. This is his story. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to listen to part one here first!]

What We Discuss with Laowhy86:

What the Chinese social credit system is, the factors that increase or diminish someone's score, and the consequences someone with a low score faces.

How the Kremlin is cribbing the Chinese Communist Party's propaganda playbook for its own nefarious purposes.

Why, after 10 years of having mostly positive things to say about life in China, Laowhy86 suddenly found himself on the run from the authorities and barely escaping the country.

How Laowhy86 went from lifestyle vlogging to covering things mainstream journalists couldn't (or wouldn't) touch.

Myths perpetrated by the CCP that need to be dispelled.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/644

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our two-parter with wrongfully imprisoned Erik Aude? Catch up by starting with episode 147: Erik Aude | Imprisoned in Pakistan for a Crime He Didn’t Commit Part One here!

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643: Laowhy86 | How the Chinese Social Credit Score System Works Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Laowhy86 (@laowhy86) -- aka Matthew Tye, aka C-Milk -- shared the good, the bad, and the ugly aspects of life as an American in China on his YouTube channel for 10 years until he caught the attention of the CCP and barely escaped. This is his story. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for the second part later this week!]

What We Discuss with Laowhy86:

What the Chinese social credit system is, the factors that increase or diminish someone's score, and the consequences someone with a low score faces.

How the Kremlin is cribbing the Chinese Communist Party's propaganda playbook for its own nefarious purposes.

Why, after 10 years of having mostly positive things to say about life in China, Laowhy86 suddenly found himself on the run from the authorities and barely escaping the country.

How Laowhy86 went from lifestyle vlogging to covering things mainstream journalists couldn't (or wouldn't) touch.

Myths perpetrated by the CCP that need to be dispelled.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/643

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss the conversation we had with scambuster Coffeezilla? Catch up with episode 368: Coffeezilla | How to Expose Fake Guru Scams here!

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642: Living In Fear of the Fiend Who Lurks Near | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 00:21:00 PDT

Several violent encounters with your erratic, mentally ill neighbor over the years leave you constantly in fear of his return. In spite of being a repeat felon, the law doesn't seem to be doing much to keep him in check -- leaving him to run loose as a danger to himself and others. What can you do to keep your family safe from this menace to your community? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/642

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you keep your family safe from the violent maniac who lives in your neighborhood when the long arm of the law seems short-handed? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us field this one!]

How can you enjoy your passion for travel while maintaining strong relationships and creating new ones?

While you fear being alone, is it worth staying in a relationship that's guaranteed to lead to marriage when your partner's many flaws -- including that time they cheated on you -- give you cause for concern?

When faith forbids your attraction to people of the same sex, is it possible to "pray the gay away?"

You've been following along with the lessons from Six-Minute Networking, but you're only 16. Do the same strategies for networking as an adult apply to teenagers?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our two-part conversation with North Korean defector and activist Yeonmi Park? Start catching up with episode 578: Yeonmi Park | A North Korean Girl’s Journey to Freedom Part One here!

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641: How to Quit Your Job the Right Way | Deep Dive

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 00:43:36 PDT

Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabe (@GabeMizrahi) have helped a lot of people optimize their chances at landing dream jobs, but this is only half of the equation. It's also important to consider the way you end things with your soon-to-be ex-employer so you don't needlessly burn bridges you've built along the way. Don't be that person! Here's a deep dive into how to quit your job the right way.

What We Discuss:

The important questions to ask before making the commitment to quit your job.

How to break the news to your employer in the right order.

How to set your team up for success long after you've made your exit.

Why you should take the time to craft a great goodbye email to your peers, and what you might say.

How to make quitting a transition to a new phase of your relationship with former employers and colleagues rather than a final farewell -- and why you should stay close and connected long past the time you've collected your last paycheck.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/641

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss the show we did with prolific art forger Ken Perenyi? Catch up here with episode 282: The Secret Life of an American Art Forger!

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640: Peter Zeihan | Why the World Should Care About Ukraine

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Peter Zeihan (@PeterZeihan) is a geopolitical strategist and author of The Absent Superpower, The Accidental Superpower, Disunited Nations, and the upcoming The End of the World is Just the Beginning: Mapping the Collapse of Globalization.

What We Discuss with Peter Zeihan:

How did the Russian invasion of Ukraine become a "now or never" scenario for Putin?

Even if Russia "wins" this conflict by sheer numbers, how difficult will it be to maintain control of Ukraine -- and what can we expect Putin's next move to be?

What the US and its NATO allies are doing to keep the desperation of a nuclear confrontation at bay.

Why Peter believes Putin's ruthless pruning of threats to his personal power -- leaving no competent next-generation successors -- will ensure he's the last president of the Russian Federation as we know it.

Are China's designs on Taiwan likely to be deterred by the difficulty faced by Russia's forces in Ukraine?

And much more...

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Miss the show we did with award-winning cybersecurity journalist Nicole Perlroth? Catch up with episode 542: Nicole Perlroth | Who’s Winning the Cyberweapons Arms Race? here!

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639: Dealing with Your Darling's DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 18 Mar 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Your significant other has DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder), a mental health condition where a person has two or more separate identities. These personalities, or “alters” control the person’s behavior at different times, and each alter often has its own history, traits, likes, and dislikes. It's a very complex disorder — one that clinicians are still coming to understand — and it makes relationships quite hard. So what can you do to be supportive to your loved one as well as yourself? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/639

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What can you do to empower your significant other as she struggles with DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder), while ensuring you're not neglecting your own needs in the process??

You never took the chance to communicate with someone you matched with on a dating app a few years back, but now you see them on LinkedIn and would like to make a networking connection. How can you do so without being awkward about it?

You're losing respect for the person you once saw as future spouse material because their tendency to procrastinate is derailing and delaying their academic and career paths and straining your finances. On top of the frustration this makes you feel, you've recently been diagnosed with bipolar II. How do you walk the line between being caring partner while also maintaining your own mental health and financial well-being?

You're only 16 years old, and your dad's work has relocated your family 10 times. You've never really settled anywhere long enough to build strong friendships or feel like you can call anywhere "home" until you arrived at your current residence. Now, it's your mother who's rallying to move again after some disagreements with the neighbors. What can you do to convince your parents to come to an agreement with the neighbors and just stay put?

Your grandmother has always been verbally and physically abusive to your mom, going as far as faking heart attacks whenever the inheritance your grandfather left behind when he passed away 30 years ago is brought up. You think the healthiest thing to do would be to cut her out of your life completely, but your mother pleads with you to maintain a connection. What's the right call here?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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638: Yuriy Matsarsky | Fighting for Ukraine

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 17 Mar 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Yuriy Matsarsky is a Ukrainian journalist turned civilian fighter against the Russian invasion of Ukraine. Since the incursion began, he's been keeping the world updated with events as they happen as the host of the daily podcast Fighting for Ukraine.

What We Discuss with Yuriy Matsarsky:

Why did Yuriy -- and so many of his civilian countrymen and women -- turn in the tools of their trades for assault rifles to defend their homeland against the professional army tasked with invading it?

Why Yuriy considers these Russian invaders more heartless and brutal against civilians -- including women and children -- than even ISIS terrorists he's encountered in war zones.

What Yuriy hopes Westerners come to understand about this conflict sooner rather than later that often gets missed by mainstream media.

What day-to-day life and overall morale are like for Ukrainian defenders, and how Yuriy sees this conflict ultimately playing out.

Short of picking up a rifle and heading to Kyiv, what can you do to help Yuriy and his fellow defenders keep resisting the advances of their uninvited neighbors?

And much more...

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Miss our interview with Read & Riot: A Pussy Riot Guide to Activism author Nadya Tolokonnikova? Catch up with episode 118: Pussy Riot’s Nadya Tolokonnikova | How to Read and Riot here!

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637: Bill von Hippel | Where the Social Leap Lands

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Bill von Hippel (@billvonhippel) is a professor of psychology at the University of Queensland and the author of The Social Leap: The New Evolutionary Science of Who We Are, Where We Come From, and What Makes Us Happy.

What We Discuss with Bill von Hippel:

What our eyes tell us about how humans evolved to cooperate with one another.

How a psychological phenomenon called the theory of mind makes us aware that mental states of others don't match our own, and why this trait gives human beings a unique advantage in the animal kingdom.

Why hunter-gatherer societies are more egalitarian than what we see in modern Western civilization.

Why so many of us hate the way we look in photographs.

Can animals lie?

And much more...

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Miss the conversation we had with scambuster Coffeezilla? Catch up with episode 368: Coffeezilla | How to Expose Fake Guru Scams here!

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636: Is It Wrong to Decline Guardianship of Family? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 11 Mar 2022 01:00:00 PST

You and your spouse made the decision long ago not to have children of your own. So was it wrong to hesitate when your brother-in-law asked you to assume guardianship over his children should the unthinkable happen to him? We'll try to get to the bottom of this conundrum and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/636

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

First off: the good pastor from episode 571 shares what he's been up to since we last spoke.

Are you wrong to decline your brother-in-law's request to assume guardianship over his children should the unthinkable happen?

By happenstance, you did a favor for someone who turns out to be a bigwig at a company where your son would like to apply for a job. Is there a non-awkward way to approach this person for a possible lead?

Can there be such a thing as closure when a seemingly dandy keen college romance ends in a sudden, inexplicable breakup?

You adopted a puppy just a few weeks after losing the family dog you'd known since childhood. Now you find yourself having full-blown panic attacks worrying about all the things that could go wrong with the new pet. What can you do to ease this ever-present, crippling anxiety sooner rather than later?

You and your spouse speak multiple languages, and you'd like to pass them along to your newborn daughter. What can you do to ensure you're not unintentionally overwhelming her in the process?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss the conversation we had with counterfeiting investigator Kris Buckner? Catch...

635: Joe Barone | Living in Dread Between the Mob and the Feds Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 01:00:00 PST

Joe Barone was born into a life of crime from both sides of his family, became the longest-running mafia informant in the history of the FBI when his father was killed, and now lives in hiding from people in both camps who want him dead or behind bars. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part one here!]

What We Discuss with Joe Barone:

The many reasons Joe now considers the FBI to be more treacherous than the mob.

What Joe was allowed and not allowed to do by the FBI while blending in with the mob.

How Joe prevented the murder of a federal prosecutor and a US district judge.

How Joe's relationship with the FBI soured after 18 years of being its top informant.

The consequences Joe continues to suffer as a result of this soured relationship, and what he hopes the future brings.

And much more...

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Miss our two-parter with former mobster Anthony S. Luciano? Get caught up by starting with episode 425: Anthony S. Luciano Raimondi | The Mob Enforcer Part One here!

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634: Joe Barone | Living in Dread Between the Mob and the Feds Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 08 Mar 2022 01:00:00 PST

Joe Barone was born into a life of crime from both sides of his family, became the longest-running mafia informant in the history of the FBI when his father was killed, and now lives in hiding from people in both camps who want him dead or behind bars. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Joe Barone:

What it was like being born into -- and growing up in -- a crime family, and how Joe was swayed into the life in spite of aspiring to become a postman.

The real glue that ties mob families together has nothing to do with honor or unity.

How his father's murder was used to turn Joe into an FBI informant for 18 years.

What it was like for Joe to live a double life among mobsters -- keeping his cool while fearing for his life -- during those 18 years as an informant.

How much does it cost to hire mafia "assistance" in intimidating or eliminating a personal archnemesis?

And much more...

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Miss our two-parter with Sammy “The Bull” Gravano, former second-in-command of the Gambino organized-crime family? Start catching up with episode 587: Sammy “The Bull” Gravano | Mafia Underboss Part One here!

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633: Finding Work Fast with a Criminal Past | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 04 Mar 2022 01:00:00 PST

Getting your record expunged after the embarrassment of earning a DUI can take years, but you need to land a job today. So how do you find work fast when you have a criminal past? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/633

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Getting your record expunged after the embarrassment of earning a DUI can take years, but you need to land a job today. So how do you find work fast when you have a criminal past? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us field this one!]

Despite working in tech -- arguably the most optimistic field there is -- you find yourself battling a constant wave of hopelessness over the escalating climate crisis and the future of the planet. What can you do to keep your eco-anxiety in check?

When confronting your fiancée with text messages suggesting she's been cheating on you with a co-worker, she insists it never got physical and she wants to reconcile. But can you ever trust her enough to carry on with the wedding you've been planning?

As an experienced world traveler on a gap year before college, you've researched places you want to visit that your very concerned parents have "forbid" you to consider -- like Iran, Turkmenistan, Iraqi Kurdistan, Lebanon, and Russia. You believe the benefits of seeing these destinations up close outweigh the risks and are determined to go, but how can you alleviate your parents' worry and depart with their blessing?

As a third-year medical student, you'll be graded on your performance under pressure working full time in a hospital. The problem? You're a very feminine female with a petite build and a soft voice, and getting peers and patients to take you seriously has been an issue. How can you thrive in a field where masculinity is deemed equal to competency?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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632: Jon Acuff | Give Yourself the Gift of Done

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 03 Mar 2022 01:00:00 PST

Jon Acuff (@jonacuff) is the New York Times bestselling author of seven books, including his Wall Street Journal #1 bestseller, Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Jon Acuff:

Why are only eight percent of new year’s resolutions realized? (Incidentally, that’s the same percentage of applicants accepted to Juilliard.)

The harm perfectionism causes and what we can do to navigate through it.

The Planning Fallacy and how it causes overachievers to fail before even beginning.

Strategic Incompetence: why you should deliberately be terrible at some things.

Secret Rules: what they are, how they’re made, and how these invisible scripts affect our lives (and what we can do about it).

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/632

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Every week on My First Million, hosts Shaan Puri and Sam Parr dive deep into different business opportunities and explain how to pounce on them — basically spoon-feeding you interesting businesses you can start tomorrow. Check it out at HubSpot or wherever you listen to fine podcasts!

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631: Amanda Catarzi | Overcoming Cult Life and Sex Trafficking

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 01 Mar 2022 01:00:00 PST

Amanda Catarzi survived a cult-dominated childhood and abuse at the hands of sex and labor traffickers. In the years since, she has helped law enforcement bust trafficking rings, written federal anti-trafficking legislation, and worked to save countless victims.

What We Discuss with Amanda Catarzi:

70 percent of human trafficking victims are women, and 30 percent are men. They usually die (overdose or violence being primary causes) within seven years.

How Amanda's upbringing in an isolated cult that matched teen brides with middle-aged men and preached absolute male dominance over them programmed her to consider abusive relationships normal.

Why moving to the other side of the country didn't turn out to be an escape from the childhood traumas that haunted Amanda, but just the next chapter of her abuse by expert manipulators.

How training as an MMA fighter was the perfect cover for this abuse as no one questioned Amanda's bruises and black eyes when her "coach" trafficked her out to violent johns.

How Amanda escaped this dire situation and has used her experience to help legislators and law enforcement save other trafficking victims (especially children), and what we can do to help stem the tide of abuse that may be going on in our own neighborhoods in plain sight.

And much more...

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Miss our conversation with Mosab Hassan Yousef, the son of a Hamas co-founder who worked undercover to thwart terrorist plots? Catch up with episode 407: Mosab Hassan Yousef | The Green Prince of Hamas here!

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630: When the Law Puts You In a Catch-22 | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

A well-intended law in your state makes it impossible for victims of sexual abuse, or their loved ones, to get psychological help without triggering a mandatory report. In your situation, such a report would ruin the life of the offender -- who was a minor at the time and may not even remember committing the crime. How can your family seek the help it needs without initiating legal complications that will only make the overall situation worse for all parties -- including the victim?

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/630

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A well-intended law in your state makes it impossible for victims of sexual abuse, or their loved ones, to get psychological help without triggering a mandatory report. Is it wrong to seek loopholes when this would hurt the family it's intended to help?

Surprisingly, your new company accepted the highball offer you proposed during negotiations, and now your salary is twice what you'd ever hoped to land. So how can you shake the guilty feeling that you don't really deserve it? You wanted to be a jazz guitarist, not an oligarch, for goodness' sakes!

Should you take it as a bad omen that your fiancée doesn't post about you on social media, or are you just reading too much into it?

Is there a way to turn an insensitive racist comment into a teachable moment for the offender...inoffensively?

As a manager, how can you address the deteriorating performance and poor attitude of an older employee who's worked for the company for decades?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss our two-part conversation with ex-Al-Qaeda spy Aimen Dean? Catch up by starting with

629: Getting Your Foot In The Door | Deep Dive

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabe (@GabeMizrahi) take a deep dive into what you should do if you're looking for a new job or relationship and you want to know how to get your foot in the door -- while avoiding the mistakes that are liable to get that door slammed in your face.

What We Discuss:

How to make sure you're aligning the job you want to do with the employer who needs you to do it -- without wasting everyone's time in the process.

Why you should use Ramit Sethi's Briefcase Technique to anticipate what someone needs before you meet, and up the stakes when it comes time to negotiate terms.

The best resources to use and questions to ask yourself when you're doing research on someone in anticipation of a meeting.

A cold email script you can adapt for your purposes to maximize the chance of landing that crucial meeting.

How to create a relationship that will generate business for years to come even if your pitch doesn't close at the first meeting.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/629

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Miss our interview with entrepreneur, venture capitalist, and Kernel founder and CEO Bryan Johnson? Catch up with episode 223: Bryan Johnson | A Plan for the Future of the Human Race here!

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628: Amanda Montell | Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 22 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Amanda Montell (@amandamontell) is a language scholar and author of critically acclaimed Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language. Her latest book is Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism, which explores how cults co-opt the words we use in order to control us and affect our behavior.

What We Discuss with Amanda Montell:

How the uncertainty of current times drives people toward the solace of community — and the sights of aspiring cult leaders and con artists.

What personal experience drew Amanda, a language scholar, to explore how language is one of the most powerful tools of manipulation cults use to exploit their victims?

What thought-terminating cliches are and why they're so effective at shaping behavior.

How MLMs operate like cults and who they predominately target with empty promises of wealth and prestige.

How to tell if your language is being taken over by cultish manipulators.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/628

Miss our conversation with the American photographer who survived seven months under captivity by Al-Qaeda? Catch up with episode 217: Matthew Schrier | How to Survive in a Secret Syrian Terrorist Prison here!

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627: Would I Be Insane to Report from Ukraine? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 18 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

You're an American citizen living and working in Kyiv, Ukraine. The embassy just released a statement recommending you evacuate as the situation with Russia escalates, but you've considered staying there and becoming an independent journalist to cover what happens should armed conflict come to pass. Is this a foolhardy death wish disguised as a passion project, or a perfect time for a prudent career pivot? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/627

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're an American currently living and working in Ukraine, considering a pivot to war reporting should the situation with Russia escalate. Is this flirtation with danger a death wish in disguise, or a perfect time for a prudent career pivot? [Thanks to seasoned war reporter Danny Gold for helping us tackle this one!]

You're a 37-year-old married man who's come to realize you don't really have any male friends your own age. What can you do to change this?

How do you establish healthy boundaries with the sister who mistakes your support system role as an invitation for constant abuse?

You and your spouse went into marriage with a noncommital attitude about having kids. Eight years on, you've decided you'd like to try having some, but your spouse does not. Is there a win/win way to work through this?

You took a 50% pay cut to join a startup making a product you strongly believe in. But the pandemic happened, and now your pay cut is 100% as your company struggles to regain momentum. What are your options for seeking job opportunities in your network without simultaneously signaling there's something wrong with your current company's product?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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626: Adam Grant | Why Helping Others Drives Our Success

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Adam Grant (@AdamMGrant) is Wharton’s top-rated professor, the host of podcast WorkLife with Adam Grant, and the author of several New York Times Best Sellers. Here, he joined us to discuss Give and Take: Why Helping Others Drives Our Success. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Adam Grant:

How to give to someone you don’t know without being awkward and transactional.

What stage gates are and how you should use them.

How to avoid committing social capital suicide.

What Abraham Lincoln could teach us about the power of powerless communication.

Why you'll be a better, more effective giver if you practice chunking rather than sprinkling.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/626

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Miss our conversation with actor, producer, and Scientology survivor Leah Remini? Get caught up with episode 485: Leah Remini | Surviving Hollywood and Scientology here!

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625: Dan Pink | The Power of Regret

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 15 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Daniel Pink (@DanielPink) is the NYT-bestselling author of When and Drive. His latest book is The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us, about the transforming power of our most misunderstood yet potentially most valuable emotion: regret.

What We Discuss with Daniel Pink:

As uncomfortable as it can make us feel, regret is a universal, healthy part of being human.

Understanding how regret works can help us make smarter decisions, perform better at work and school, and bring greater meaning to our lives.

The four core regrets we each have, and the insights they give us for finding a better path forward.

How we can reimagine regret as a positive, propelling force rather than an anvil of shame we have to carry around in perpetuity.

How regret works like a photographic negative: knowing what we regret most allows us to focus clearly on how to avoid repeating whatever got us there.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/625

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Miss our two-part conversation with former gangster, pimp, and mob enforcer Mickey Royal? Get caught up by starting with episode 548: Mickey Royal | A Pimp’s Secrets of Mind Manipulation Part One here!

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624: Is She Moving Abroad for a Friend or a Fraud? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

You're concerned your 21-year-old daughter is making a mistake by moving abroad to be with her Bahrain beau of five years -- especially since they've only corresponded remotely and have never been face-to-face in real life. You can't outright forbid her to leave as she's an adult now, but is there any way you can get her to reconsider the gravity of what she may be getting herself into? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/624

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you convince your 21-year-old daughter she may be making a huge mistake by moving abroad to be with the Bahrain beau she's never actually met in real life?

How can gently turn down writing a letter of recommendation for someone whose countless character flaws make them someone with whom you don't want your name associated?

Over the past 10 years, your once-athletic spouse has become clinically obese. The doctor has warned that this is a perfect recipe for diabetes and heart disease, but to no avail. How can you bring up losing weight and leading a healthier lifestyle without sounding like a superficial a-hole?

You have an offer for your dream job, but it would mean a $40,000 pay cut and a move across the country -- something your significant other is dead-set against. And if you turn down the offer, you'll likely be barred from joining the organization in the future and lose some valuable links in your network. What's your best option?

You know therapy might be effective in helping you through your depression if you could only find the right therapist. How do you go about finding someone who's the right fit?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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@Ludacris) is a Grammy-winning rapper, a SAG award-winning actor known for roles in Crash, The Simpsons, and the Fast & Furious franchise, and the philanthropic founder of Kid Nation and The Ludacris Foundation.

What We Discuss with Ludacris:

Does Ludacris really own a car from every Fast & Furious movie in which he's appeared?

What was Ludacris' initial rap name?

Is Ludacris the Where's Waldo of hip-hop history?

How has Ludacris maintained much of the same support team over the past couple of decades -- all without written contracts?

The pandemic's silver lining for famous people: it's a lot easier to maintain anonymity in public when you're encouraged to wear a mask everywhere.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/623

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Miss our two-part conversation with the Danish family man who infiltrated the illicit North Korean arms trade? Catch up beginning with episode 527: Ulrich “The Mole” Larsen | Undercover in North Korea Part One here!

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622: Ishmael Beah | Memoirs of a Boy Soldier

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 08 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Ishmael Beah (@IshmaelBeah) is a former child soldier, UNICEF Goodwill Ambassador, and the New York Times bestselling author of A Long Way Gone: Memoirs of a Boy Soldier and Radiance of Tomorrow: A Novel. His latest book is Little Family: A Novel.

What We Discuss with Ishmael Beah:

What the volatility of life in a warzone is really like from the perspective of a child.

How desperation drives human beings to rationalize committing any number of atrocities to survive.

Why trusting old neighbors, friends, and even family in the midst of a civil war can arouse suspicion and cost you your life.

The choice for all too many children in an area embroiled in armed conflict: accept recruitment into one of the factions as a soldier, or be killed before someone else can recruit you.

How rap music saved Ishmael's life.

And much more...

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Miss our two-parter with professional pickpocket Bob Arno? Start catching up with episode 530: Bob Arno | Schooled by the Professor of Pickpocketry Part One here!

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621: Are You at Fault for Being Sexually Assaulted? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 04 Feb 2022 02:18:19 PST

A "friend" who once admitted to having a crush on you came over to continue a night of drinking and crash on the couch. You pushed him away when he tried to kiss you because the crush isn't mutual and you have a boyfriend. Then you woke up in the middle of the night to him spooning, touching, and trying to make out with you. You pushed him away again and went back to sleep. Is this a form of sexual assault, or did you cheat by allowing yourself to get drunk and winding up in this situation? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/621

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Were you sexually assaulted by the "friend" who kept trying to make out with you one drunken night, or did you cheat by allowing yourself to get drunk and winding up in this situation?

You feel like the past two years of the pandemic have dulled your ability to converse smoothly with other human beings, and you worry this is damaging your relationships. What can you do to regain what used to come so naturally?

Your young, sweet neighbor is a stay-at-home mom of four kids, and married to a teacher. She's also embroiled in an MLM scheme and you want to help her see a way out before her family's modest savings are emptied by shysters. What can you do?

You've never gotten along with your snarky mother-in-law, and the tension has only increased since you gave birth to your son. On top of this, your husband takes her side in any disputes, and you're mentally exhausted by all of it. What should you do?

You're an in-house art director for an advertising company, where people are so competitive and credit-hungry that stealing work is not uncommon. You've collaborated with partners who completely dismissed and gaslighted your contributions. How can you nip this behavior in the bud before you're actually driven to kill somebody at your office?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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620: Richard Clarke | Warnings, Cassandras, and Catastrophes

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 03 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Richard Clarke (@ghsrm) is the former National Coordinator for Security, Infrastructure Protection, and Counter-Terrorism for the United States, and is the co-author of Warnings: Finding Cassandras to Stop Catastrophes. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/620

What We Discuss with Richard Clarke:

What is the Cassandra Coefficient?

Discover how to use the Cassandra Coefficient to filter signal from noise when it comes to warnings.

Understand how to spot your own cognitive biases and what you can do to diminish their effect on your decisions.

Learn to persuade people to see things from your perspective and motivate them to take action.

Find out what someone at the top levels of government does when their personal politics don’t agree with those of the current administration.

And so much more…

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Miss the conversation we had with Gift of Fear author and security legend Gavin de Becker? Catch up with episode 329: Gavin de Becker | The Gift of Fear Part One here!

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619: Danny Gold | Breaking News from the Underworld

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 01 Feb 2022 01:00:00 PST

Danny Gold (@DGisSERIOUS) is a journalist, documentary filmmaker, long-form writer, and co-host (with Sean Williams) of the Underworld podcast, which covers organized crime around the world -- from Balkan warlords to Brooklyn wiseguys.

What We Discuss with Danny Gold:

How coming from a family of Holocaust survivors inspired Danny to pursue journalism and keep an eye on the world's most unsavory and unreported misdeeds.

What it's like to get caught red-handed trying to secretly record a violent human trafficker on his own turf.

How Danny finds ways to relate on a human level to people who may be responsible for committing unfathomable atrocities.

Why assuming everything is going to go wrong -- and preparing accordingly -- is the best way to survive as a freelance reporter in the field.

How even the darkest shadows cast by the human experience can bring out the brightest and best facets of humanity.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/619

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Miss our conversation with elite counterterrorism undercover agent Tamer Elnoury? Catch up with episode 572: Tamer Elnoury | Undercover with a Muslim FBI Agent here!

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618: Prescription for Friction: Marry into Addiction | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 28 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Your fiancée knows her weed habit triggers your own addictive tendencies, but keeps it in her daily routine anyway. Now she's giving you flak for your recent lapse in sobriety, and this is making you wonder if getting married next month is really the best move for both of you. What should you do? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/618

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Should you proceed with the marriage next month when your fiancée refuses to quit her weed habit even when she knows it triggers your own addictive tendencies?

Your mother's always fawned over babies, but expresses indifference once they get older. As a result, you feel like you were neglected through most of your childhood and never fully developed. Now, at age 30, you've discovered you were conceived via a sperm donor, and suddenly the dots connect. How should you approach your mother about this?

Your international long-distance relationship of several years was disrupted by COVID. And even though you've both agreed to date other people, you still hold onto hope that you might someday be able to work things out and resume a life together. Is this at all realistic, or is it just time to move on?

You don't mind having a reputation for being nice, but it seems to be a green light for some people to habitually take advantage of you. How can you find the right balance between kindness and assertiveness?

This past year, you've been surrounded with reminders of the impending death of loved ones, and what’s to come once they’re gone. How do you stop planning for the inevitable and start enjoying the time you have with those close to you while you still can?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss the interview we did with sleep doctor Matthew...

617: Daniel Levin | Finding a Missing Person in the Middle East

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 27 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Daniel Levin is an attorney, political commentator, and author of Nothing but a Circus: Misadventures Among the Powerful and Proof of Life: Twenty Days on the Hunt for a Missing Person in the Middle East.

What We Discuss with Daniel Levin:

How the Syrian regime kidnaps westerners and blames the opposition, keeping them in captivity -- often for years -- as bargaining chips.

How Daniel became the go-to person for hunting down a missing person in Syria when no government, embassy, or intelligence agency would help.

What proof of life means in a kidnapping scenario, and how someone in search of a missing person goes about finding this.

How people use leverage to get what they want from one another in a place where no one does a favor without wanting something in return.

The nuances of negotiating with criminals.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/617

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Miss our episode with FBI hostage negotiator Chris Voss? Catch up with episode 165: Chris Voss | Negotiate as If Your Life Depended on It here!

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616: Martin Kove | Kicking It in the Cobra Kai Dojo

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 25 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Martin Kove (@MartinKove) is a prolific actor best known for his portrayal of the evil karate sensei, John Kreese, in The Karate Kid trilogy and Netflix's Cobra Kai series. Be on the lookout as he hosts the upcoming Kicking It with the Koves podcast with his kids Jesse and Rachel.

What We Discuss with Martin Kove:

How Martin nailed his audition for The Karate Kid by channeling his anger at not having ample time to prepare for it.

Why we need more role models for leadership and personal responsibility in popular culture -- in the western genre, if Martin had his way.

How Martin finds common ground with the hard-to-love characters he sometimes portrays in order to make them relatable.

Does playing villains for months on set ever rub off on Martin's real-life behavior (and does this tend to work for or against him)?

How does Martin look so young and stay in shape as a 74-year-old?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/616

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Miss the show we did with Jonathan Haidt — the social psychologist who studies the American culture wars and is widely considered to be one of the world’s leading experts on the psychology of morality? Catch up with episode 90: Jonathan Haidt | The Danger of Good Intentions and Safe Spaces!

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615: Need Wedding Free from Dad's Drunken Spree | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

You'd love to invite your dad to your wedding, but he has a habit of getting drunk at gatherings and making a spectacle of himself. Is there a way to politely request sobriety as a condition of his invitation? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/615

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your dad loves to hit the sauce and cause a scene whenever there's a gathering, which makes you hesitant to invite him to your wedding. Is there a way to politely request his sobriety for your special day?

Your job burdens you with cripping depression and dissatisfaction that even the fattest of paychecks can't outweigh, but quitting now would have a dire impact on your career. How can you summon the motivation to power through this soul-sapping, meaningless job for the time being?

With as little awkwardness as possible, how can you get your coworker to understand that the Ukrainian model Internet "girlfriend" he's never met in person is scamming him to the tune of $1,000 a month?

Is it wrong to continue a relationship with someone whose romantic past triggers suicidal ideation in you, courtesy of your recently diagnosed borderline personality disorder?

Your enthusiasm for weed has outlived the reasons you once had for using it as a coping mechanism. How can you quit it in secret before it hurts your career, love life, and relationship with your aggressively judgmental family?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Missed the episode we did with Annie Duke — World Series poker champion and author of Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts? Catch up by listening to episode...

614: Shawn Achor | Leveraging the Happiness Advantage

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 20 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Shawn Achor (@shawnachor) is one of the world’s leading experts on the connection between happiness and success, and is the author of Big Potential, Before Happiness, and The Happiness Advantage: How a Positive Brain Fuels Success in Work and Life.

What We Discuss with Shawn Achor:

What did Shawn have to teach Pentagon bigwigs about happiness?

The science behind the contagiousness of happiness.

The importance of mirror neurons.

What is the 10-5 Way, and how can it improve your life?

At what point in her career was Oprah most depressed, and why should you care?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/614

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Miss our conversation with Arthur Brooks about the merits of learning to love your enemies (especially during these divisive times)? Catch up by listening to episode 211: Arthur Brooks | How Loving Your Enemies Can Save America here!

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613: Ray Dalio | Why Nations Succeed and Fail

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 18 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Ray Dalio (@RayDalio) is the founder of Bridgewater Associates — the largest and best-performing hedge fund in the world — and author of New York Times bestseller Principles: Life and Work. His latest book is The Changing World Order: Why Nations Succeed and Fail.

What We Discuss with Ray Dalio:

What an investor like Ray Dalio is uniquely poised to observe about the ebb and flow of history and the repeating patterns that make the future somewhat predictable.

Why transitional (and often painful) cycles -- like recessions, pandemics, and wars -- are necessary to reset and change the rules.

How studying these cycles as symptomatic of larger problems is the best way to heal and grow from their discomfort.

What the current state of political polarization in the United States bodes for our collective future.

How our rivalry with China differs from our Cold War rivalry with the Soviet Union and what Ray sees as our best way of managing it.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/613

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If you missed the last time Ray Dalio was on the show, make sure to catch up with episode 491: Ray Dalio | The Changing World Order here!

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612: Cautioning Creepy Dad's Current Clan | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 14 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Your mom and stepdad split up when she caught him trying to take pictures of you -- at age 16 -- in the shower. Now he's remarried with new stepchildren and a baby on the way. How can you warn his new family about his predatory proclivities before he ruins their lives too? This and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/612

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The stepdad who was caught trying to take pictures of you in the shower when you were a teenager now has a new family, new stepchildren, and a new baby on the way. How can you prevent him from preying on them?

You've discovered hard evidence that your toxic, soon-to-be-ex-business partner is guilty of fraud. The vengeful part of you really wants to report her to the authorities, but you don't want your other partner, who you like and respect, to suffer blowback. What's the right thing to do?

Your significant other's anxiety has only gotten worse over the years, and their constant need for validation and reassurance is draining. How can you support their quest to become mentally healthier without becoming emotionally exhausted yourself?

You consider yourself a strong, knowledgeable, take-no-crap woman, but you've been fired from two jobs this year for "not fitting with company culture." So you started your own business, which you love, but you can't overcome the guilt of providing less for your family than you did as someone else's unsatisfied employee. What should you do?

You really do love your future mother-in-law, but you're not jazzed about her plans to live in your backyard guesthouse permanently when you tie the knot with her son. Is it wrong for you to want boundaries between yourself and your extended family while building a family of your own?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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611: Reid Hoffman | Surprising Entrepreneurial Truths

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 13 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Reid Hoffman (@reidhoffman) is a co-founder of LinkedIn, investor at Greylock Partners, host of the podcast Masters of Scale, and co-author of Masters of Scale: Surprising Truths from the World's Most Successful Entrepreneurs.

What We Discuss with Reid Hoffman:

What Reid means when he calls himself a "six-person-or-less extrovert."

Why fostering diversity is important for any company that wants to be relevant tomorrow.

How to identify the five kinds of "no" and what they can each teach you.

Why unanimous consent in a pitch meeting is a concerning sign.

The best and worst ways to pitch ideas to venture capitalists.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/611

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Miss our conversation with comedian, actor, and director Bob Saget? Catch up with episode 372: Bob Saget | How Comedy Continually Changes His Life here.

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610: Bill Sullivan | Pleased to Meet Me

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 11 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Bill Sullivan (@wjsullivan) is a professor of pharmacology and microbiology at the Indiana University School of Medicine in Indianapolis, an award-winning researcher, teacher, science communicator, and author of Pleased to Meet Me: Genes, Germs, and the Curious Forces That Make Us Who We Are.

What We Discuss with Bill Sullivan:

What we're just now learning in the field of epigenetics -- the study of how your behaviors and environment can cause changes that affect the way your genes work.

Why twins who are genetically identical look less alike as they age -- or if they've been raised apart from one another.

How the overabundance of plastics and other endocrine disruptors in our environment are affecting not only our bodies on a molecular level, but the physical and mental development of generations down the line.

How kids -- even the unborn -- are epigenetically altered by the social and economic status of their parents.

What we're learning about the role of the teeming millions of microorganisms that live inside of us -- collectively known as the microbiome -- on our overall mental and physical health.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/610

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Miss our interview with Find Your Why, Start with Why, and The Infinite Game author Simon Sinek? Catch up with episode 300: Simon Sinek | How to Play the Infinite Game here!

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609: Evicting a Boarder with a Dangerous Disorder | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 07 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

The tenant renting your upstairs room has become so paranoid and delusional that you and your spouse no longer feel safe in your own home. On top of this, he has no job, no car, and he's behind on the rent. You don't want to be the heartless landlord who evicts someone so clearly in need of help, but you also don't want to wait until his erratic outbursts become violently directed toward you or your wife. So what's the right thing to do here? We'll try to find answers to this and more on this, our first Feedback Friday of the new year!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/609

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you evict the mentally unstable boarder who makes you feel unsafe in your own house without also being heartless? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us field this one!]

With a desire to "fix" the problems of others where you find them, you seem to get romantically involved with a lot of emotionally dysfunctional narcissists. What can you do to break this lamentable pattern? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

In conversation, you often find yourself thinking of something to say before the other person has finished talking. And when it is your chance to speak, you're painfully aware that you're speaking too much. How do you strike a better balance of active listening and speaking succinctly?

In your senior year of high school, you're hopelessly overwhelmed. If you crush one deadline, another one looms nearby to crush your spirit. Your willpower is low, you're neglecting basic self-care, and procrastination is always more appealing than productivity. Do you truly need a break, or are you just being lazy?

As an underling ascending the corporate ladder, you found certain aspects of company culture a bit cringy and borderline cult-like. Now that you've started your own business, you want to create a company culture that builds rapport and teamwork while avoiding these pitfalls. But how?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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608: Jocko Willink | The Winning Example of Extreme Ownership

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 06 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Jocko Willink (@jockowillink), commander for the most highly decorated special operations unit of the Iraq War, joins the show to talk about taking responsibility, discipline, intensity, and leadership to the next level as outlined in Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Jocko Willink:

When making a decision, worrying about variables that can’t be controlled is a waste of time. A better outcome is likely if we learn to focus that wasted effort on factors that can be controlled.

Understand why taking ownership of your mistakes, personal issues, and outcomes gets better results than trying to pass the blame to someone else.

What does discipline = freedom mean?

How do you stop small weaknesses that sometimes permeate discipline from having a negative impact on significant decisions?

Is there such a thing as a natural leader?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/608

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Miss our conversation with accidental international poker champion and human motivation expert Maria Konnikova? Catch up with episode 371: Maria Konnikova | Pulling Off the Biggest Bluff here!

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607: Dwyane Wade | A Life Bigger Than Basketball

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 04 Jan 2022 01:00:00 PST

Dwyane Wade (@DwyaneWade) is a retired NBA All-Star, host of The Cube on TBS, and author of Dwyane and A Father First: How My Life Became Bigger Than Basketball.

What We Discuss with Dwyane Wade:

How to know the difference between giving your kids the opportunity to excel in areas that will enrich their lives versus pushing them into things they don't want to do.

Lessons Dwyane learned from the basketball court that he now applies to his most important job: parent.

How Dwyane dealt with imposter syndrome on the cusp of signing to the NBA.

On the stigma of athletes seeking help for mental health, and why Dwyane encourages them to do it anyway.

How Dwyane encourages his kids to be the best versions of themselves, strives to see the world from their unique perspectives, and doesn't shy away from consulting professional help when they pose questions he's unable to answer on his own.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/607

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Miss our conversation with rapper, singer-songwriter, and record producer T-Pain? Catch up with episode 551: T-Pain | You Can’t Auto-Tune Your Way to Happiness here!

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606: David Rubenstein | Patriotic Philanthropy and Leading Large

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 30 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

David M. Rubenstein is co-founder and co-executive chairman of The Carlyle Group, host of The David Rubenstein Show, and author of How to Lead: Wisdom from the World’s Greatest CEOs, Founders, and Game Changers and The American Experiment: Dialogues on a Dream.

What We Discuss with David Rubenstein:

Why David was one of the original signers of The Giving Pledge, a promise to give away the majority of his wealth instead of just building a stockpile of money for his heirs.

The many ways David gives back to the United States for the privilege of growing up here, but why he eschews the idea of running for office.

Why David finds giving away his money more rewarding than making it.

The key errors people commonly make when fundraising for their business (and what they should be doing instead).

How David raised his kids to develop the skills and strong work ethic to succeed without spoiling them.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/606

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Miss our interview with Freeway Rick Ross, the crack empire kingpin gone good? Catch up with episode 121: Freeway Rick Ross | Life in the Crack Lane here!

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605: Aaron Levant | NTWRK Shopping with Culture's Creators

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Aaron Levant is the founder and CEO of NTWRK, the curated livestream shopping company some have called "QVC for the YouTube Generation."

What We Discuss with Aaron Levant:

What drew Aaron to graffiti art counterculture in his rebellious youth, and how he pivoted this interest into wildly successful streetwear entrepreneurship.

What society loses when it underestimates the intelligence and educational capacity of people -- like Aaron -- who struggle with dyslexia, and why we need to support their development rather than shame them toward failure.

How Aaron fell into the trade show game by making a stand to defy The Man and accidentally starting a viable business.

How having an archnemesis in his industry to duke it out with feeds Aaron's competitive spirit and motivates his drive to push harder.

"Ignorance is rich": The chaos theory by which Aaron decides where to put his investment dollars.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/605

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Build for Tomorrow with Jason Feifer is a podcast about the crazy, curious things from history that shaped us, and how we can shape the future. Each episode is deeply researched, fast-paced, funny, and aims to answer big questions about ourselves. Check it out here or wherever you listen to fine podcasts!

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604: Put Your Best Foot Fetish Forward | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

You're concerned that your foot fetish betrays the dedication you have to your significant other and makes you some kind of pervert in waiting. Is there anything you can do to course-correct your way back to decency, or should you just embrace this as an indelible part of yourself that you have the power to control? Or maybe no one should judge you for your foot fetish until they've walked a mile in your shoes? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/604

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is your foot fetish really a problem as long as the way it makes you feel doesn't intrude on the way anyone else feels?

Is your roommate just wagging the dog when she insists her pooch got fleas from your apartment instead of the other way around?

Was there a better way to make it clear you and your significant other want to get married on your own terms than refusing to participate in the garter/bouquet toss at their pushy family's wedding?

Would it be rude of you and your siblings to request your historically terrible gift-giving mother instead direct her resources to charity?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss our interview with Jonna Mendez, the CIA’s former chief of disguise? Catch up with episode 344: Jonna Mendez | The Moscow Rules here!

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603: Mike Rowe | Dirty Jobs and Peripatetic Moments

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 23 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Mike Rowe (@mikeroweworks) of Dirty Jobs and The Way I Heard It podcast (and book) fame joins us to talk about the skills gap, The mikeroweWORKS Foundation, authenticity, and life experiences possible outside the comfort zone. Just don't tell him he's following his passion. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh pass through your earholes!]

What We Discuss with Mike Rowe:

Did you know Mike Rowe started his show business career in opera — to get women?

What are Anagnorisis and Peripeteia?

Discover how Mike broke a pattern of commodity hosting by approaching the profession as a tradesman.

Bromide busting and the problems with conventional wisdom.

Why finding and filling a niche may ultimately be better than chasing what you think is your dream job.

And much more...

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Miss the other show we did with Mike Rowe — the Dirty Jobs host working to close the skills gap in the US? Catch up here with episode 264: Mike Rowe | The Way I Heard It!

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602: Tom Wright | Billion Dollar Whale

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Tom Wright (@tomwrightasia) is an award-winning journalist, co-author of the New York Times bestseller Billion Dollar Whale: The Man Who Fooled Wall Street, Hollywood, and the World, co-founder of journalism studio and production company Project Brazen, and host of the Fat Leonard podcast.

What We Discuss with Tom Wright:

A deep dive into the shadowy world of corruption, money laundering, and embezzling by the shadiest shysters among the elite.

How does an investigative journalist uncover misdeeds by the rich and powerful without winding up on someone's hit list?

How did Jho Low, a charisma-free, second-generation fraudster, siphon billions of dollars from a Malaysian sovereign wealth fund -- with the aid of Goldman Sachs -- right under the nose of global financial industry watchdogs?

How many ways are there to launder this kind of money without being detected by the authorities?

Where is Jho Low today?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/602

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Miss the show we did with Shark Tank heavyweight Mark Cuban? Catch up with episode 362: Mark Cuban | Tales from the Shark Side here!

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601: Should I Marry My Dying Girlfriend? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

You've met someone who checks your boxes for marriage material, but there's one problem: medical issues may mean they've only got three years left to live. Should you propose and hope for a miracle? We'll examine this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/601

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You've met someone who checks your boxes for marriage material, but there's one problem: medical issues that may mean they've only got three years left to live. Should you propose and hope for a miracle?

Your spouse went on a quest of self-improvement, and now follows a so-called "life coach" who dispenses what certainly seems to be a steady buffet of snake oil with an exorbitant price tag. How can you wake them up to the fact that this is probably a scam?

You have three years before you're able to retire from teaching -- a job you once loved, but students, parents, the community, and the administration are more entitled and demanding than they were when you first started. Three years seems like forever to endure a job you now hate. What can you do to make it to the finish line intact?

You've received a sizable inheritance, but you understand how quickly money dissipates when you try to throw it at every problem you want to solve. Are you wise for wanting to use the money to create multiple streams of income so you are able to help people more confidently in the future, or just stingy?

As a freelance consultant, how can you set boundaries that ensure you're not working for hours more than clients are willing to pay?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Miss our two-parter with former Westboro Baptist Church spokesperson

600: Metta World Peace | Mettaphorically Speaking

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Metta World Peace (@MettaWorld37) (aka Metta Sandiford-Artest, aka Ron Artest) is a former NBA All-Star, author of No Malice: My Life in Basketball or: How a Kid from Queensbridge Survived the Streets, the Brawls, and Himself to Become an NBA Champion, and host of the Mettaphorically Speaking podcast.

What We Discuss with Metta World Peace:

How did Ron Artest become Metta World Peace, what were some of the considered alternatives, and why did he later change his name to Metta Sandiford-Artest?

Growing up with anger management problems that arguably culminated in the infamous Malice at the Palace Pacers–Pistons brawl, how does Metta positively channel his passion these days?

Why Metta chose to work a part-time job at Circuit City after practice while pulling in a million dollars a year (albeit before taxes) for the Chicago Bulls.

Why Metta made a point to thank his shrink when he was playing for the Lakers and they won the 2010 championship.

How Metta has advocated for mental health awareness by donating a portion of his NBA salary and auctioning off his 2010 championship ring.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/600

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Miss the show we did with Dennis Rodman — one of the greatest rebounders ever to play professional basketball? Catch up here with episode 258: Dennis Rodman | The Worm Is Back!

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599: Spencer Roberts | The Dirty Truth About Corporate Greenwashing

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Spencer Roberts (@Unpop_Science) is an ecologist, photovoltaic engineer, musician, and writer who specializes in exposing corporate science propaganda and greenwashing.

What We Discuss with Spencer Roberts:

Is there really such a thing as sustainable seafood in industrial nations?

Logistically, how "dolphin safe" can a can of tuna be (and how endangered is that tuna)?

Will the escalating amount of microplastics found in seafood lead to human extinction?

Is the climate-rescuing promise of "regenerative" ranching a complete racket?

Is your fish dinner financing slave labor?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/599

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Miss the conversation we had with scambuster Coffeezilla? Catch up with episode 368: Coffeezilla | How to Expose Fake Guru Scams here!

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598: Gently Sequestering a Questionable Counselor | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

A medical issue has rendered your therapist colleague mentally (and ethically) incapable of providing care for others, but she hasn't accepted this. How can you support management's efforts to establish reasonable cause for termination without feeling so guilty? This and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/598

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you get better at your job when the boss is afraid to constructively criticize your performance just because you're the heir apparent to the family business?

A medical issue has rendered your therapist colleague mentally (and ethically) incapable of providing care for others, but she hasn't accepted this. How can you support management's efforts to establish reasonable cause for termination without feeling so guilty?

You're at a lucky point in your life where everything seems to be falling into place, but you can't curb the urge to shop impulsively and worry this could be the domino that brings all good things down. How can you keep your sticky fingers off your credit cards before catastrophe strikes?

On the job hunt after learning a new skill set, you've noticed that listing pronouns on LinkedIn profiles has become pretty common and you support the idea. But you happen to live in a conservative-leaning state and worry that prospective employers in your area might not be as open-minded if you chose to observe this practice. What's the right move here?

Nearing 30, you and your long-term significant other own an investment property together and run your own business, but you live with your parents because it's culturally acceptable and it allows you to build capital for the future. However, you've been feeling social pressure to move out and you're wondering if it's finally time. Should you stay or should you go?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

597: Gary Vaynerchuk | Leadership, Social Media, and Self-Awareness

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Gary Vaynerchuk (@garyvee) is the chairman of VaynerX, the active CEO of VaynerMedia, and the author of several bestselling books, including #AskGaryVee: One Entrepreneur's Take on Leadership, Social Media, and Self-Awareness.

What We Discuss with Gary Vaynerchuk:

With so many platforms at his disposal, why does Gary continue to write books?

Where does a workaholic like Gary stand on the concept of work/life balance?

When do we quit if something isn’t working?

How do you know if you’re hard-wired to be an entrepreneur?

How do we balance the hunger required to achieve Plan A while not taking too much comfort in Plan B?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/597

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Miss the show we did with Vince Beiser — author of The World in a Grain: The Story of Sand and How It Transformed Civilization? Make sure to check out episode 97: Vince Beiser | Why Sand Is More Important Than You Think It Is!

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596: Andrew Gold | Exorcisms On the Edge

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Andrew Gold (@andrewgold_ok) is an award-winning BBC and HBO journalist who interviews the world's most controversial and inspiring figures in his On the Edge with Andrew Gold podcast.

What We Discuss with Andrew Gold:

What Andrew discovered while making a documentary about someone claiming to be a modern-day exorcist.

Is professional wrestling "real?"

What you can buy in an exorcist's gift shop to keep the "demons" at bay.

The multitude of benefits Andrew enjoys when making documentaries about people who natively speak a language different from his own.

How Andrew handles the blowback from making documentaries addressing taboo subjects like pedophilia and abortion.

And much more...

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595: My Bi Guy: Am I Enough to Satisfy? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

When your significant other confessed his bisexual tendencies, you began to wonder: can you ever really give him everything he needs to be satisfied in a relationship? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/595

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

When your significant other confessed his bisexual tendencies, you began to wonder: can you ever really give him everything he needs to be satisfied in a relationship?

Losing all your hair to Alopecia Universalis is ruining your confidence on a personal as well as professional level. What can you do to bring that confidence back?

Your relationship with someone from a radically different cultural background has become more serious. How do you integrate respectfully and smoothly into the experience with as few hiccups as possible?

Bad people taking advantage of the perks of your friendship in the past have made it difficult to open up to new, more deserving friends. How can you lower your defenses enough to make new friends without being a sucker to the undeserving?

You love the feeling of being counted on and wanted by your employer, but you worry that you're a little too accommodating. How can you draw healthy boundaries and avoid being a yes man?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.

Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

Miss our conversation with behavioral expert Thomas Erikson? Catch up with episode 465: Thomas Erikson | How to Protect Yourself from Psychopaths here!

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594: Joshua Fields Millburn | Love People, Use Things

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 02 Dec 2021 01:00:00 PST

Joshua Fields Millburn (@JFM) is best known as one half of The Minimalists, where he and Ryan Nicodemus write about living a meaningful life with less stuff. Their latest book is Love People, Use Things: Because the Opposite Never Works.

What We Discuss with Joshua Fields Millburn:

How Joshua found that having more stuff -- including more money -- really isn't the key to success or happiness.

The average American throws away 81 pounds of clothing every year when 95% of that can be reused or recycled. How can embracing minimalism help solve this problem?

'Tis the season -- to ask yourself if you're overdoing it on consumption and indulging in a little too much when just a little might go a long way.

Why being a minimalist involves more than just waking up one day and getting rid of a bunch of things you don't need -- it's a process of constant evaluation.

How can you allow yourself to let go of things that have sentimental value?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/594

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Missed our conversation with Daniel Pink in which we discussed the psychology, biology, and economics behind scheduling for optimal effect (including sleep) — and why your ideal time to get something done may widely differ from someone else’s? Catch up with episode 63: Daniel Pink | When Is the Best Time to Get Things Done?

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593: Steven Pinker | Why Rationality Seems Scarce

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Steven Pinker (@sapinker) is a psychology professor at Harvard, one of the world's leading authorities on language and the mind, and an author of several bestsellers. His latest is Rationality: What It Is, Why It Seems Scarce, Why It Matters.

What We Discuss with Steven Pinker:

Why, by most metrics, older generations are mistaken when they proclaim: "Things were better back in my day!"

Alternatives we might consider if Universal Basic Income can't sustainably solve the problem of housing and feeding a workforce increasingly unemployed by automation.

Why nostalgia is overrated, and how criticizing the present is very often a way of criticizing your rivals.

If we're really living, as Steven says, in "the most peaceable era in our species’ existence," how does he explain why we still have wars, famines, uprisings, and genocides?

What sentiment mapping shows us about the power of the media to manipulate us into seeing the world in a heavily negative light even as it's improving constantly on every measurable level.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/593

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Miss the last time we had Navy SEAL leadership authority and Extreme Ownership co-author Jocko Willink on the show? Make sure to check out episode 93: Jocko Willink | Leading on the Line Between Extreme and Reckless!

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592: Do the Math: Am I a Psychopath? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Thinking back on how you've navigated your life, you're concerned that certain human interactions reveal a tendency toward behavior that our former guest, behavioral expert Thomas Erikson, might categorize as psychopathic. Weighing the evidence for and against, you really want an answer to this question: "Am I a psychopath?" We'll try to get to the bottom of this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/592

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Weighing the evidence for and against, you really want an answer to this: "Am I a psychopath?" [Thanks to behavioral expert Thomas Erikson for helping us field this one!]

Now in your thirties, you gathered the courage to tell your mother about the sexual abuse your stepfather inflicted on you as a teenager. Her response was to take his side and now they've moved out of state, essentially cutting you off entirely. You're rightfully devastated. How can you move on from this? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Your otherwise model spouse has one or two episodes a year when overdrinking prompts him into hurtful ranting for which he'll apologize the next day and all is forgiven. But what if he mouths off to the wrong person or says something that is truly unforgivable next time (like the upcoming holidays)? Is there anything you can do in the moment to bring him back to his senses?

As a factory supervisor, you expect to hear certain blue-collar perspectives aired that would be considered unprofessional (or grounds for termination) in other fields, but it's only gotten worse in today's divisive political climate. Sadly, objecting to the employees and HR has gotten you nowhere. Hunting for another job during the pandemic would set you back in several areas of your life, but you feel powerless to improve conditions at your current position. What should you do?

You're an overwhelmed teenager in a rural community who has found solace in the act of cutting yourself with a razor blade. You know it's dangerous and you told your parents you're over it after they caught you, but you still crave the feeling. How can you actually get over the urge to cut yourself? [Thanks to Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one, too!]

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to...

591: Chase Jarvis & Jordan Harbinger | Your Network Insurance Policy

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 25 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Jordan digs into what it takes to push past the mental boundaries that keep you from realizing your full potential — with Chase Jarvis (@chasejarvis) of The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show.

What Jordan and Chase Discuss:

Handling debt after graduation.

Zooming out on the timeline of your career and understanding why patience is key in the long term.

Why nothing you do is ever wasted. Even if you’re working as a barista at Starbucks, you are building skills that can be applied in other areas later on.

Why the phrase “Burn the boats” is misleading and unnecessary.

How to overcome feeling “unemployable” because you have taken a non-traditional path.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/591

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590: Andy Norman | The Search for a Better Way to Think

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Andy Norman (@drandyno) directs the Humanism Initiative at Carnegie Mellon University, is the founder of CIRCE, and is the award-winning author of Mental Immunity: Infectious Ideas, Mind-Parasites, and the Search for a Better Way to Think.

What We Discuss with Andy Norman:

Like our bodies, our minds and cultures have immune systems, and they can break down under certain conditions.

How the root cause of contemporary divisiveness is a compromise of these mental and cultural immune systems.

What it takes for certain ideologies to weaken our mental and cultural immune systems.

Why, if you want to effectively persuade others, you must also show your willingness to be persuadable.

How you can inoculate your mind (and help others protect themselves) against divisive ideologies to build the mental rigidity to withstand their influence.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/590

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589: Persevering Past Paranoid Parental Persecution | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

You dared to set a boundary with your parents: you would only communicate with them if they were respectful to you and your family. This means zero tolerance for name-calling, swearing, threatening, or yelling at you or your husband whenever there's a disagreement. Now they've leveled false accusations against your husband for being abusive, going as far as involving the CEO of your company and the police department! Of course you've cut them off completely since then, but you're wondering: will this be enough to protect your family against them? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/589

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Cutting off your parents for their never-ending disrespect to you and your husband is the only way you can think of to protect your family against their paranoid delusions and abuse. But is it enough?

After being married for 10 years, you and your partner have come to an amicable agreement that you can no longer meet each other's emotional and romantic needs. You want to hold off on your divorce until an adoption in the works has been finalized, but until then, how do you break the news of this complicated situation to any date that could potentially become a significant other?

What's a good, useful second language for an English-speaking kid to start picking up now?

You had a challenging adolescence, and lost your youth to anxiety and depression. How can you make up for this lost time as you approach your thirties?

As a recently graduated engineer who started working at the company where you interned, you've inherited a seemingly cursed project that's been foisted upon numerous employees before you. What can you do to instill confidence in your teammates that you're the one who will finally lead this thing to the finish line?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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info@podcastone.com — Thu, 18 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Sammy "The Bull" Gravano (@gravanothebull) is the host of the Our Thing podcast, former second-in-command of the Gambino organized-crime family who played a major role in prosecuting "Teflon Don" John Gotti, and subject of Peter Maas' Underboss: Sammy "The Bull" Gravano's Story of Life in the Mafia. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part one here!]

What We Discuss with Sammy "The Bull" Gravano:

How does someone growing up in a relatively "normal" family get involved in a life of crime?

What compels someone entrenched in the comforts of the gangster lifestyle to reject it?

How has the code by which the mafia lives changed over time?

What kinds of people do you meet when you spend half a decade behind bars?

How true does on-screen gangster life ring to reality?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/588

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587: Sammy "The Bull" Gravano | Mafia Underboss Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Sammy "The Bull" Gravano (@gravanothebull) is the host of the Our Thing podcast, former second-in-command of the Gambino organized-crime family who played a major role in prosecuting "Teflon Don" John Gotti, and subject of Peter Maas' Underboss: Sammy "The Bull" Gravano's Story of Life in the Mafia. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Be on the lookout for the conclusion later this week!]

What We Discuss with Sammy "The Bull" Gravano:

How does someone growing up in a relatively "normal" family get involved in a life of crime?

What compels someone entrenched in the comforts of the gangster lifestyle to reject it?

How has the code by which the mafia lives changed over time?

What kinds of people do you meet when you spend half a decade behind bars?

How true does on-screen gangster life ring to reality?

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/587

Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!

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586: Guarding Grandpa from a Grubby Grift | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Your grandpa is allowed to cope with the grief of recently losing your grandma in any way he sees fit, but you're concerned that the young woman he's about to marry is part of a larger plot to grift him out of his life savings. What can you do to protect him? This and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/586

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you guard your grandpa against what seems to be a classic young woman marrying an older man for his life savings grift? [Once again, thanks to Corbin Payne (aka C-Payne) for helping us with this one!]

You've caught wind that your father is preparing to file for a divorce from your mother, but you're not sure if she even knows yet. What's the best way to be supportive of her if this comes to pass?

You've only been working for your "real" employer for a month, but your side hustle is far more profitable, enjoyable, and fulfilling. So how do you jettison the day job so soon after accepting it without feeling like a jerk?

You've been out of the dating scene for a while and the whole thing can tug at your insecurities, but how do you avoid sabotaging a new relationship with your tendency to be too clingy?

Since you were bullied early on, you've never really been the "school" type, but you know getting a higher education gives your future path a wider set of options. How can you summon the motivation to go back to school?

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585: Timothy Snyder | Twentieth-Century Lessons on Tyranny

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 11 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Timothy Snyder (@TimothyDSnyder) is the Housum Professor of History at Yale University and author of Black Earth: The Holocaust as History and Warning and On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century.

What We Discuss with Timothy Snyder:

Democracy has to be an ongoing activity — not a waiting game for the next election cycle.

How fragile a democratic republic can be against the concentrated efforts of would-be tyrants — and that the United States is not immune to their strategies.

The small actions we can take every day to ensure we’re doing our part to maintain an open and free society.

How to consume information critically in a “post-fact” world.

Recognize the scary parallels between historic catastrophes and current events.

And much more...

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584: Anderson Cooper | The Rise and Fall of an American Dynasty

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Nov 2021 01:00:00 PST

Anderson Cooper (@andersoncooper) is a broadcast journalist, political commentator, 18-time Emmy Award winner, and author of Vanderbilt: The Rise and Fall of an American Dynasty.

What We Discuss with Anderson Cooper:

How Anderson got his start in broadcast journalism without relying on his famous, wealthy family connections.

Why experiencing the loss of a parent early in life drew Anderson toward learning how to survive in extreme circumstances and report in places torn by conflict.

What growing up scrutinized by media in the wake of family tragedy taught Anderson about being an empathetic journalist from the other side of the lens.

How Anderson harnesses his self-described innate awkwardness for establishing rapport with people who have already been interviewed from every angle (like Eminem).

What a real journalist is prepared to do during a breaking news segment when the teleprompter goes dark.

And much more...

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583: Mentor-Mentee Fantasy Can Only End In Misery | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Nov 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Happily married for 20-something years, you've started to fixate on what it might be like to be married to someone you've been mentoring, instead. And even though you know this mentor-mentee fantasy could only end in misery, you're having a hard time putting it to rest. What can you do? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/583

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Happily married for 20-something years, you've started to fixate on what it might be like to be married to someone you've been mentoring, instead. And even though you know this mentor-mentee fantasy could only end in misery, you're having a hard time putting it to rest. What can you do?

Your 18-year-old stepson is ambitious, with a well-paying job he's been using to save for university. But now his deadbeat mom is hitting him up for cash, which you know he'll never see again. How can you gently encourage him to stand up to her before he's as broke as she is?

You recently discovered that a toxic higher-up in your company is returning to the office after leaving for some time. How can you set boundaries and signal that you won't tolerate his toxic behavior this time around?

You and your ex-wife divorced when your son was only 11, and you've each moved on to more positive relationships while remaining amicable in the aftermath. But now that your son is 19, you wonder if he's owed a fuller explanation of the circumstances around the breakup lest he carries some of the burden himself?

Your dad can't seem to enjoy retirement because he's the kind of person who fills every moment of his days with charities, soup kitchens, chores, video chats, bible study, visits to friends, and more. He's tried counseling, medicine, meditation, yoga, breathing exercises, and books, but with no luck. How do you teach him to be retired and just relax?

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582: Robert Greene | The Daily Laws Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 04 Nov 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Robert Greene (@RobertGreene) is the author of multiple New York Times bestsellers on power and strategy. His latest book is The Daily Laws: 366 Meditations on Power, Seduction, Mastery, Strategy, and Human Nature. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part one here!]

What We Discuss with Robert Greene:

The benefits of cultivating profound dissatisfaction with your own work while it's still in the process of being created.

Why the attitude you have of the world has a feedback effect on the way the world sees you (and how you can change that attitude if it doesn't serve you).

The emotional self thrives on ignorance: how focusing on the rational instead of succumbing to your feelings deprives those who prey on your emotions of their power.

How you can balance the need to be rational, cautious, and skeptical with the benefits of being curious and open-minded to new ideas.

What you can do to train yourself to see past the front that people put on and discover the signs of their true character.

And much more...

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581: Robert Greene | The Daily Laws Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 Nov 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Robert Greene (@RobertGreene) is the author of multiple New York Times bestsellers on power and strategy. His latest book is The Daily Laws: 366 Meditations on Power, Seduction, Mastery, Strategy, and Human Nature. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Robert Greene:

The one simple reason why Robert Greene's work resonates among the hip-hop community's most accomplished artists.

How seeing the world through a lens of radical realism allows you to be prepared for the worst life can throw your way.

What we can do to uncover a career path that aligns with what has brought us joy in the past (hopefully before working 80 jobs we hate like Robert did prior to writing his first bestseller).

Why we shouldn't fret if we haven't found our calling early in life -- the experiences we've had and lessons we've learned along the way combine to give us a unique edge when we finally do find it.

Always stick to what makes you strange and weird. What made you a "weird" kid makes you an interesting adult.

And much more...

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580: Seeking Relief from Your Unending Grief | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Grieving the loss of a sibling while still finding your footing at a new job is making it impossible to perform optimally, and you're worried your employer -- while overwhelmingly supportive of your plight -- may be forced to let you go. Is there anything you can do to manage your grief and find a way forward before it comes to this? We'll try to help with this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/580

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What can you do to manage the grief of losing your sibling and find a way forward before you're fired from your new job for subpar performance?

Your nephew made an escalating series of bad choices, and now he's serving hard time for the next few years. A recent letter indicates he's adjusted his attitude and wants to turn his life around. How can you be supportive while he waits to be released?

You work with a fellow salesperson who takes the spirit of friendly competition into the realm of petty high school rumormongering and character assassination. What can you do to keep your sanity while the boss gaslights the notion that this is even happening?

You overcame poverty and work in finance, so your boyfriend's nonchalance over $20,000 in credit card debt and fuzzy details about future income give you pause about your future together. But can his good qualities cast aside the red flags you're seeing?

Someone who once referred to you as one of his best friends has taken to completely blowing you off now that his girlfriend's moved to town. You've tried to connect a few times in the past few months only to be completely ghosted. This guy might not be the friend you thought he was, but it still puts a dent in your psyche. What can you do?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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579: Yeonmi Park | A North Korean Girl’s Journey to Freedom Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 28 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Yeonmi Park (@YeonmiParkNK) is a North Korean defector and activist whose harrowing experiences are chronicled in her book In Order to Live: A North Korean Girl's Journey to Freedom. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with Yeonmi Park:

Why there's a black market for poop in North Korea.

How the people of North Korea are kept isolated from the outside world to the extent that they use a different calendar, have never heard of Shakespeare, and don't even have words for "oppression" or "love."

How North Korea's guilt-by-association policy can carry punishment for people who are within several generations of someone perceived as offensive to the regime.

Why Yeonmi finds being on the North Korean regime's official kill list to be "liberating."

How long it might take to watch Titanic in a country that only turns on the electricity for State holidays (and the ultimate penalty for getting caught doing so).

And much more...

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578: Yeonmi Park | A North Korean Girl's Journey to Freedom Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Yeonmi Park (@YeonmiParkNK) is a North Korean defector and activist whose harrowing experiences are chronicled in her book In Order to Live: A North Korean Girl's Journey to Freedom. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Please stay tuned for the conclusion later this week!]

What We Discuss with Yeonmi Park:

Why there's a black market for poop in North Korea.

How the people of North Korea are kept isolated from the outside world to the extent that they use a different calendar, have never heard of Shakespeare, and don't even have words for "oppression" or "love."

How North Korea's guilt-by-association policy can carry punishment for people who are within several generations of someone perceived as offensive to the regime.

Why Yeonmi finds being on the North Korean regime's official kill list to be "liberating."

How long it might take to watch Titanic in a country that only turns on the electricity for State holidays (and the ultimate penalty for getting caught doing so).

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/578

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577: I Wish It Were Cheaper to Be My Sister’s Keeper | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 22 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your narcissistic sister with special needs thinks nothing of "borrowing" thousands of dollars from you to invest in every sure-to-lose scam that comes her way, and now she wants to "borrow" more to check herself into an assisted care facility (which would make your life easier if you knew that's where the money was actually going). What should you do? This and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/577

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your narcissistic sister with special needs thinks nothing of "borrowing" thousands of dollars from you to invest in every scam that comes her way, and now she wants to "borrow" more to check herself into an assisted care facility. What should you do? [Thanks to cult and scam expert Dr. Steven Hassan for his help with this one!]

You moved back home to accept what turned out to be a crummy job. The good news: your old, better-paying job in a city you actually like wants you back. The bad news: your girlfriend might not be able to make the move with you for a year and a half. Should you stay or should you go?

Your brother and his wife are lazy, negligent parents to your nieces, aged four and six, allowing them free range of the neighborhood until 11 p.m. You fear for the children's safety, but you're not sure how to bring up solutions without starting a huge hullabaloo.

You strive for excellence in all you do, but you want to do a lot. A wide range of hobbies keep you mentally stimulated, but you don't feel like you're able to focus on any one thing in order to excel. Is now the time to switch gears and leave some of your interests by the wayside to really shine at your career?

Your little brother gets bad anxiety and overreacts to everything. You know that therapy could really improve his quality of life, but your mother is involved in politics and worries about what effect this would have on her image. How can you convince your parents to get your little brother therapy without it sounding like they're failing as parents? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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576: General Michael Hayden | American Intelligence in the Age of Terror

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 21 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

General Michael Hayden (@GenMhayden) is a retired United States Air Force general, former Director of the NSA and CIA, and author of Playing to the Edge: American Intelligence in the Age of Terror. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh listen!]

What We Discuss with General Michael Hayden:

How does an intelligence agent view cognition, cognitive bias, and psychology differently from a policymaker?

What is The Unpleasant Fact an intelligence agent brings to the briefing table?

General Hayden gives us a rare glimpse of working for two very different presidents and conveys the importance of adapting to their particular learning styles.

Find out what it’s like to present new intelligence to an administration that forces it to change policy. (Awkward!)

Get General Hayden’s take on the Orlando shootings and the difficulty of balancing security with liberty.

And much more…

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575: Benjamin Hardy | Minding the Gap and the Gain

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 19 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Benjamin Hardy (@BenjaminPHardy) is an organizational psychologist and author of books about willpower, self-limiting beliefs, and teamwork. His latest offering (co-authored with Dan Sullivan), is The Gap and the Gain: The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success.

What We Discuss with Benjamin Hardy:

If you measure your current self against your ideal (often chosen and defined by other people rather than yourself), you’ll never be happy because there will always be a gap. Unsuccessful people primarily focus on this (but we all wind up here sometimes).

If you measure your current self against your previous self — and notice the gain you've made between yesterday and today — you’ll experience happiness, satisfaction, and confidence. The most successful people understand this.

The difference between ideals (general, immeasurable, and constantly changing) and goals (specific, measurable, and time-bound) -- and why your ideals shouldn't be your benchmark for achievement, but merely the source from which your goals are inspired.

How you can weed out the arbitrary reference points with which you've been burdened by external sources and choose ones that are actually meaningful -- not just constant reminders of what you don't have.

How the increased confidence that comes from living in the gain allows you to set bigger and more imaginative goals to truly tailor the fabric of your own life.

And much more...

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574: Can There Be Merit in the Extramarital? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 15 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You've been secretly chatting with an old flame whose torch you still carry, and you even met in person to discover that these feelings are mutual. But there's a big hitch: while you're now single again, she's in what seems to be an otherwise happy marriage and is mother to three. Now you feel frustrated, jealous, and even heartbroken because you can't be with her. Or can you? We'll try to help you find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/574

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Rekindling with an old flame whose feelings are said to be mutual should fill you with joy, but her current marriage to another man and motherhood to his children is a bit of a downer. Can there be merit in pursuing something...extramarital?

You share custody of two children with a narcissistic ex -- one is hers by a father who was out of the picture by the time you came along, and the other was adopted. The problem: she shamelessly plays favorites and clearly favors her biological kid. Are you hurting your adopted child by allowing her to go to your toxic ex's every other week?

You're blind and working toward certification in a well-paying field, but it involves visual math concepts and a lot of the instructional material is inaccessible. On the other hand, your interest in languages makes a career as an interpreter appealing -- and it's much easier to accomplish. Should you finish the certification you've spent so much time and money pursuing, or just cut your losses and take the lower-paying but potentially more satisfying path?

You have well-off parents who let you live rent-free in a house they own while you finish school, but you think your roommate may be taking advantage of the situation by mooching free food without asking and even offering it to guests. What can you do to set better boundaries without creating an awkward living environment?

Working the night shift doing repetitive work wasn't really what you signed on for, so you've been looking for a new job. Now you've been informed you're on deck for training in a more challenging task that's more up your alley, but you're not sure you can work three more months of overnights before this is slated to happen. What are your best options here?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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Connect...

573: David Buss | When Men Behave Badly

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 14 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

David Buss (@profdavidbuss) is considered the world’s leading scientific expert on the evolutionary psychology of human mating strategies. He is the author of several books on the subject, most recently When Men Behave Badly: The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault.

What We Discuss with David Buss:

Why, from an evolutionary standpoint, the reproductive interests of males and females sometimes diverge.

Why metabolizing alcohol differently makes women more susceptible to an expectation of bonding (and how some men exploit this).

The Dark Triad traits that mark the men most likely to have short-term relationships and cheat.

How do women use active signaling to show they're more open to short-term relationships?

She's not playing hard to get. If she rejects you softly, it isn't an invitation to try harder -- it's a survival tactic meant to avoid prompting a violent reaction.

And much more...

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572: Tamer Elnoury | Undercover with a Muslim FBI Agent

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 12 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Tamer Elnoury is an Arabic-speaking Muslim American, a longtime elite counterterrorism undercover agent, and co-author of American Radical: Inside the World of an Undercover Muslim FBI Agent.

What We Discuss with Tamer Elnoury:

What unique psychological skills (and desire for thrills) drew Tamer to the exciting and dangerous life of undercover law enforcement work?

Why, when working undercover, you're only as good as your informant.

How an agent is trained to work undercover (and why the FBI undercover school only has a 50 percent graduation rate).

How an undercover agent blends in with criminals without breaking the laws they've been recruited to enforce.

What an undercover agent does to hook a mark into noticing and eventually confiding in them.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/572

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571: Pastor Past Makes You An Outcast | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 08 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

As an exemplary member of the clergy for 29 years, you'd think honesty to your superiors would be rewarded unconditionally. Alas, when you disclosed a need to seek counseling during a rough patch between you and your spouse (which resulted in a stronger relationship), you were unceremoniously booted from your position. Now you can't find work at another church because you've been unfairly branded a pariah among those of your faith, and you can't find a job among the secular because your clerical past seems to be a turn-off to potential employers. What can you do? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/571

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Honesty got you kicked out of the clergy, and the seculars seem turned off by your pastor past. Who will hire you now? [Thanks to Pastor Brad Mortensen for helping us with this one!]

Thanks to an accidental pocket dial after calling your parents to ask for a loan, you overheard exactly what your mother thinks of you -- and it wasn't favorable. Yet she's never hesitated to call you when she needs help. Is it unreasonable to cut toxic family members out of your life?

You're a fully booked hairstylist at your sister-in-law's salon, and feel it's time to branch out on your own after 20 years. But you'd be bringing along another fully booked stylist, which would ultimately hurt your sister-in-law's business. Is there a way to follow opportunity without leaving family in the lurch?

You love your job, but you find the constant interruptions that come with it challenging your ability to stay on task. What can you do to stay focused?

You run a junior developer meetup; most people come through, build technical and interpersonal confidence, and leave when they get jobs, but there are some people who have been coming back week after week for years. These folks are generally technically proficient, but lack in the social skills department. How can you proactively add social skills training without coming across as some kind of jerk?

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570: Marc Fennell | Cracking California's Nut Jobs

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 07 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Marc Fennell (@MarcFennell) is an award-winning journalist, interviewer, author, and documentary maker. He is also the writer and narrator of Audible Original Nut Jobs: Cracking California's Strangest $10 Million Dollar Heist.

What We Discuss with Marc Fennell:

Who stole $10 million in nuts (specifically almonds and pistachios) from California's Central Valley farmers -- and why?

Why are nuts (and prepackaged food in general) such ideal targets for theft, and how do current security protocols make it so temptingly easy for thieves with the means to haul them away?

What makes nuts grown in California's Central Valley valuable enough for organized criminals to take notice, and where do they go?

Who wins and who loses when hot nuts change hands?

What will it take to stop these heists from continuing?

And much more...

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569: Rick Ross | How to Boss Up and Build an Empire

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 05 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Rick Ross (@RickRoss) is a multi-platinum-selling, multi-Grammy-nominated rapper, artist, songwriter, investor, and author of The Perfect Day to Boss Up: A Hustler's Guide to Building Your Empire.

What We Discuss with Rick Ross:

Why Rick, in spite of growing up middle class with a computer programmer father, got involved with dealing drugs in his early teens.

Where Rick's "no complaints" policy originated and how it keeps him focused on what's important.

How embracing the difficulty of the process that allows Rick to acquire, enjoy, and manage his success builds resilience.

The dangers of hustling backwards.

How taking Rick's calendar audit exercise can help you keep your schedule lean for the things that matter and trim away the things that don't.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/569

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568: Sugar Daddy's Ambition is a Savory Transition | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 01 Oct 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You're a bit embarrassed to say you went through a debaucherous sugar daddy phase, but your sweet tooth for the lifestyle turned sour and left you feeling empty. Now you're in a more confident headspace to pursue regular dating, but should you disclose this part of your life to a hypothetical significant other should things turn serious? We'll try to find a good answer (devoid of any candy coating) to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/568

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

After going through a sugar daddy phase, you're ready for regular dating. But should you disclose your past if a relationship gets serious?

Jordan. Jen. Jayden. Is the Harbinger family alliteration premeditated, or purely happenstance?

You were recently offered the position of Assistant Grand Master in your Masonic District -- a huge honor -- but what they don't know is you may have to move for a job offer you're pursuing. How do you break the news without offending your fellow Stonecutters?

Showers: is it best to take them in the morning or at night?

Your profession makes you highly visible in your cozy, rural community, so you're finding it hard to date online without stumbling across the profile of someone who would definitely recognize you. What are your options for keeping romance on the DL without driving 250 miles outside of town? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

As a novice, what's the best way to start building your podcast?

What happens to the Feedback Friday questions that don’t make it on the show?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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567: Kai-Fu Lee | Ten Visions for Our Future with AI

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 30 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Kai-Fu Lee (@kaifulee) is an AI expert, CEO of Sinovation Ventures, former President of Google China, and co-author (with Chen Qiufan) of AI 2041: Ten Visions for Our Future.

What We Discuss with Kai-Fu Lee:

How AI will magnify the effects of the energy revolution, materials revolution, and life science revolution currently under way.

How can we keep the data that trains AI to operate free from human and cultural biases and other inaccuracies?

The four waves of AI and where we are on the path to truly autonomous AI that frees humans to do more worthwhile work.

How human beings can avoid displacement when all the repetitive, soul-crushing tasks are being done by robots, and what society must do to keep this from widening the gap in economic inequality.

How AI might be used to optimize the educational experience and make it engaging for every child by tailoring it to their individual interests.

And much more...

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566: Brian Chesky | Lessons Airbnb Learned to Survive the Pandemic

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 28 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Brian Chesky (@bchesky) is co-founder and CEO of the peer-to-peer lodging service Airbnb, named as one of Time magazine's 100 Most Influential People of 2015.

What We Discuss with Brian Chesky:

How Airbnb not only survived the pandemic after losing 80 percent of its business during the first eight weeks, but is now thriving like never before.

Why a company that still conducts itself like a startup is better poised to withstand and grow from business crises than the behemoths who have everything to lose.

What was going through Brian's head when he got the news on live television that Airbnb shares were trading at twice their IPO price.

How does a company leader become successful without losing their mind along the way?

What Brian sees for the future of travel, and how it's changed as a direct result of the pandemic.

And much more...

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565: My Manipulative Sister: How Can We Resist Her? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You have a manipulative half-sister who disrespects your father by referring to him as "bio-dad" and ghosts him when it suits her, but never hesitates to contact him when she needs money. Your attempts to salvage a relationship with her always go unanswered, yet your father believes she should still be invited to your wedding next year. Should you cut her out of your life for good, or try to make nice with her again for your dad's sake? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/565

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Should you delay career training or investing in yourself because it will take "too long?"

Should you cut the half-sister who manipulates your family out of your life, or should you keep trying to build a relationship with her for your father's sake?

To an outside observer, you appear to have a perfect life. But here's the secret you haven't told anyone: you're a high-functioning alcoholic. How do you even start dealing with this?

Marrying a successful businessperson will allow you to retire from a job you don't really want and pursue your own interests. But you've spent your whole life working multiple jobs to get by and you're frozen by the overwhelming possibilities ahead of you. How can you be sure you're spending all of this "free" time wisely and with purpose?

You're invited to be in a groomsman party with a contractor who stiffed you on a job. How can you conceal or eliminate your resentment so everyone can have a good time, and how do you deal with this person at the bachelor party and wedding?

You learn best by being hands-on and watching others, but your new job is 100 percent remote until the pandemic is better contained. How can you learn, improve, and stay focused in this role when you're working from home?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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564: A.J. Jacobs | It’s All Relative

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

A.J. Jacobs (@ajjacobs) is a New York Times best-selling author who went on a quest to help build the biggest family tree in history, as detailed in his latest book It’s All Relative: Adventures Up and Down the World’s Family Tree.

What We Discuss with A.J. Jacobs:

What did A.J. Jacobs learn by following every rule of the Bible literally for one year?

How much do you really know about your heritage?

See how relating to one another on a family tree of millions is a step toward overcoming the ills of modern tribalism and race relations.

Why acknowledging the bad as well as the good revealed by digging into family history is important.

The disciplined daydreaming of A.J.’s brainstorming sessions and how we can cultivate our own big-picture thinking.

And much more...

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563: Bobby Hall (aka Logic) | This Bright Future

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 00:29:32 PDT

Bobby Hall (aka Logic) (@Logic301) is a Grammy-nominated, platinum-selling recording artist, actor, streamer, film producer, and author of NYT best-seller Supermarket and his latest, This Bright Future: A Memoir.

What We Discuss with Bobby Hall (aka Logic):

Why Logic's good memories of childhood make him sad.

The challenges of living with cervical dystonia.

Why Logic was suicidal when his song 1-800-273-8255 became a big hit (and what stopped him from going through with it).

How Logic got his career started like so many of us: in a '90s rap battle chat room.

Why Logic found the story about Helen Keller's education to be particularly inspiring.

And much more...

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562: Old Ex-Con Mister Eloped with My Young Sister | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 17 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your family helped a 62-year-old convict who was "wrongfully convicted" of the statutory rape of his stepdaughter get back on his feet -- until he went off and eloped with your 23-year-old sister. Now that conviction seems like it might not have been so wrongful after all, and you're wondering how you can protect your sister if he's just been on the hunt for another victim. We'll try to help find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/562

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Why did our advice to the job negotiator in episode 553 seem counter to our usual stance on negotiation?

How can you make sure your 23-year-old sister is safe now that she's eloped with a 62-year-old ex-con?

You're vaccinated and set to be the maid of honor at a wedding, but you're uneasy because the groom's family doesn't even believe in COVID -- and will be taking zero precautions to protect themselves and others (in spite of the recent surge in delta variant deaths). How do you express your concerns to the bride-to-be without losing your lifelong friend?

You're a busy stay-at-home mom and newly full-time student trying to stay focused, but your husband has gotten in the habit of calling you from work -- sometimes for an hour at a time. Is there a nice way to convey that when he's working, you're working, too, and he should reserve these calls for emergencies?

Your teen daughter suffered a brain injury that has left her with daily headaches, nausea, dizziness, and head fog. Now she's under pressure to apply to colleges, but she's angry and behaving like a victim instead of doing the necessary work to regain her cognitive performance. How can you help her make progress instead of enabling her inaction?

You're eager to start your own business as a wedding coordinator after hiring one for your own wedding and realizing your company vastly underpays you. Is there a protocol for asking this person for advice even though they would technically be your competition?

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561: Charles Duhigg | The Secrets of Being Smarter Faster Better

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 16 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Charles Duhigg (@cduhigg) is a Pulitzer prize-winning reporter at The New York Times and author of Smarter Faster Better: The Secrets of Being Productive in Life and Business and The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh listen!]

What We Discuss with Charles Duhigg:

What’s the difference between what we think and how we think?

Learn more about the science of motivation and what makes us tick.

Compare the internal vs. external locus of control.

What is cognitive tunneling and when does it affect us? Discover how we can use mental models to avoid it.

Find out how to increase creativity even when we hit a block.

And much more...

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560: Dan Carlin | Apocalyptic Moments in Hardcore History

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 14 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Dan Carlin (@hardcorehistory) is the host of the wildly popular Hardcore History and Common Sense podcasts, and author of The End Is Always Near: Apocalyptic Moments, from the Bronze Age Collapse to Nuclear Near Misses.

What We Discuss with Dan Carlin:

Do tough times make for tougher people? How do we define what "tough" means?

Will war ever become obsolete, or will we always need to be prepared to engage in military force on some level?

Why do the people who are best qualified to lead rarely get elected, and how does this hurt us all (even if "our" candidate wins)?

How denying the cultivation of skills, talent, and opportunity to the poorest members of the population underserves society as a whole.

Is a de-escalation of our current political polarization possible, or have we passed the point of no return?

And much more...

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559: How to Say Yes to Post-Traumatic Success | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 10 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

How do you find your way back to high achievement when coping with the aftermath of extreme trauma keeps you low? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday! We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/559

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How do you find your way back to the hallowed halls of high achievement when the trauma you're trying to work through is doing its best to keep you low? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

How do you break off a friendship with someone who's way more into it than you are without hurting their feelings? [Many thanks to From Start-Up to Grown-Up author Alisa Cohn for helping us answer this!]

How can you get your lyin' and cheatin' ex-spouse to change their no-good behavior for the sake of your angelic offspring?

You recently finished the novel you've been working on for five years and discovered along the way that writing it was a process you enjoyed far more than your day job. Should you dive in and become a full-time, professional writer, or just keep at it as an inspiring hobby?

Your mom has been diagnosed as seriously mentally ill (SMI) and in treatment for half your life. Her psychiatrist of the past 17 years doesn't seem to be doing much to help -- in fact, her behavior's only gotten worse. As her medical power of attorney, you're considering a court order for a new mental health evaluation, but she lives in another state and you don't know where to begin. What can you do? [Once again, thanks to Corbin Payne (aka C-Payne) for helping us with this one!]

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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558: Jack Schafer | Flipping the Like Switch Part Two.

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 09 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Jack Schafer (@jackschafer) is a retired FBI special agent, current assistant professor at Western Illinois University, and co-author of The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with Jack Schafer:

How undercover cops get made just by the way they look at people.

The spotlight effect: why we all overestimate how much other people notice about us, and how we can use this to our advantage when trying to spot a lie (or not get caught in a lie ourselves).

What Jack has to gain by making minor mistakes deliberately when he's teaching a class.

What people are really telling us when they're angry, and how we can stealthily defuse them before they go off.

If you make people feel good about themselves, they will seek to be around you to get those feelings again.

And much more...

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557: Jack Schafer | Flipping the Like Switch Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 07 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Jack Schafer (@jackschafer) is a retired FBI special agent, current assistant professor at Western Illinois University, and co-author of The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Keep an eye out for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Jack Schafer:

Why happy people make terrible spy recruits.

How the Friendship Formula (Friendship = Proximity + Frequency + Duration + Intensity) can be used to build rapport in every human interaction.

How to "name it and claim it" when manipulative techniques are being used against you to withstand and resist their effects.

How to recognize friend and foe signals in others and make sure you're not inadvertently broadcasting the signals that mark you as an easy target for manipulation.

What's really going on when someone grabs food from your plate without asking, or takes their sweet time getting out of the parking spot you're clearly waiting for.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/557

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556: How Can I Expunge the Family Sponge? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 03 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You live in an extended family situation and the only contribution one member makes to the collective is drinking, smoking pot, eating your food, stealing your old phones to pawn, and making messes they can't be bothered to clean up. Since they're not liable to move away from free room and board of their own volition, is there anything you can do to expunge the family sponge and restore sanity to the homestead? We'll try to find a solution to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/556

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

When one member of your extended family is allowed to live in the house rent-free while eating your food, making messes, and contributing nothing, what can you do to expunge this family sponge?

After numerous disappointments trying to conceive a baby through natural and scientifically enhanced means, you can't help but wonder if you're just ignoring something the universe is trying to tell you.

Your in-laws' free-range cats have fleas, and now, after a recent visit, your home is infested with them. How can you fix this problem without making it seem like an attack on your wife's family?

Your brother has been working with/hanging out with d-bag bros for so long that he's become one. You know deep down he's a great, thoughtful, and grounded person, but you're worried you may never see this side of him again. How can you nudge him away from this wretched d-baggery?

You've been working hard at your high-paying, high-stress job through vacations and holidays for years that you think you may be burning out. In your 30s with unfulfilled career ambitions, would it be imprudent to take a gap year off to go traveling -- an almost guaranteed remedy for the depression you've been feeling?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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555: Jessica Tracy | Why Pride is the Deadly Sin of Success

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 02 Sep 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Jessica Tracy (@ProfJessTracy) is a professor of psychology at the University of British Columbia in Vancouver, where she also directs the Emotion & Self Lab. She is the author of Take Pride: Why the Deadliest Sin Holds the Secret to Human Success. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh listen!]

What We Discuss with Jessica Tracy:

Pride is a universal human emotion and a force that can be harnessed to help humans succeed — it’s a key ingredient to confidence.

Understand the difference between hubristic and authentic pride — why you should seek out one but try to minimize the other.

Learn how pride intersects with grit.

Identify pride to gain an advantage in shifting your own behavior and knowing how to react to others.

Discover how the statuses of dominance and prestige are affected by pride.

And much more...

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554: Laurie Santos | Practical Lessons from The Happiness Lab

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Laurie Santos (@lauriesantos) is a professor of psychology at Yale University, instructor of Coursera's The Science of Well-Being course (adapted from her popular Psychology and the Good Life course at Yale), and host of The Happiness Lab podcast.

What We Discuss with Laurie Santos:

Happiness is actually a set of skills we can learn and master as opposed to some ideal state of being.

While there's no denying that genetics and circumstances play a role in happiness, the good news is that we're in control of developing the mindset and behavior to mobilize it.

The mechanisms by which people become happy (or miserable), and some tools we can use to to hack our own happiness.

The bad news: we outgrow the rush of the happiest days of our lives; the good news: we outgrow the anguish from the worst days of our lives.

Why Olympic bronze medalists are often happier than silver medalists.

And much more...

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553: Is Friend's Fiancé Despotic or Simply Erotic? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 27 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your best friend speaks glowingly about her fiancé, but she lives far away and your recent communications have only taken place by text and telephone. The thing is, this fiancé seems to be ever-present and listening in the background whenever she's in contact, and she let it slip that he's fantasized about seeing her lick from a dog's dish. You're worried he might be controlling every aspect of her life, but she doesn't seem to be distressed. Could what you perceive to be tyrannical oversight just be part of a consensual power dynamic they've established in their relationship? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/553

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Why are height and salary correlated? [Thanks to Scott Galloway for this one!]

Is your best friend really being controlled by a domineering fiancé, or is this just a consensually kinky aspect of their relationship?

Your ex-husband swapped out libido-killing medication (that treated his anxiety and depression, but contributed to your divorce) for cannabis and junk food. This seems to leave him with a loss of appetite, but how can you find reliable information to confirm what's really going on and help him out of his funk?

Should you file an ethics complaint against your neighbor who's trying to sabotage your home sale -- after refusing your initial, generous offer to sell to them first? [Once again, thanks to Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

How do you know when it's time to stop negotiating and accept the terms of a job offer without feeling like you've left some unknown variable on the table?

You now make even more money in 10 hours or less per week than you did in 70 hours working for someone else. But how can you dispel the anxiety and guilt you feel because your supportive partner is still grinding out 60-hour workweeks?

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552: Will Storr | Understanding Social Position and the Status Game

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 26 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Will Storr (@wstorr) is an award-winning investigative journalist and best-selling author. His latest book is The Status Game: On Social Position and How We Use It.

What We Discuss with Will Storr:

The evolutionary purpose of status and why it's always been important for human survival.

How seeking status spurs innovation.

The three kinds of status games we've been playing throughout human history: dominance, virtue, and success.

The connection between low status and depression: why Will believes that Jeffrey Epstein did kill himself.

Why you might choose a higher status title at work instead of a pay raise.

And much more...

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551: T-Pain | You Can't Auto-Tune Your Way to Happiness

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

T-Pain (@TPAIN) is a rapper, singer-songwriter, record producer known for popularizing auto-tune in modern music, and host of the Nappy Boy Radio podcast.

What We Discuss with T-Pain:

Why T-Pain will wear a Fitbit over a Rolex, and why there's no shame in wearing fake jewelry in public.

T-Pain's tattoo goals and the meaning behind the ones he already has.

What T-Pain learned after avoiding time with his own family pursuing the ambition to be #1.

How T-Pain went from having $90 million in the bank to $0, and how he climbed his way back.

How a musician's life really changes once they earn a Grammy award (let alone two).

And much more...

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550: Conscience Contorted by Dad’s Abuse Unreported | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your father was physically violent toward you and your brother on at least two occasions that would have warranted police intervention, but your also-abusive mother begged you not to call them. Years later, how can you reframe the anger you have toward yourself for putting up with your mother's manipulations and not reporting your father's abuse to the police when you had a chance? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/550

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Thought exercise: If you met someone exactly like yourself, what advice would you give them?

How can you stop hating yourself for not calling the police on your physically abusive dad -- at the behest of your also-abusive mom -- years ago?

How can you stick to your own weight loss goals when the people surrounding you (including your obese spouse) keep enabling you to make every day a cheat day?

Are our review instructions clearer than they were? Please let us know!

A friend passed away recently, and her husband (who wasn't on good terms with her parents) isn't on the deed to their house. Are there any spousal rights that could entitle him to the equity? [Once again, thanks to Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

As a college student, it seems difficult to develop valuable professional connections if you don't already have a job or internship, and it’s hard to get jobs or internships if you don’t have the connections. What can you do?

When you've got a somewhat high-profile Internet presence, how should you deal with the inevitable (and anonymously cowardly) haters?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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549: Mickey Royal | A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Mickey Royal (@mickey_royal) is a former gangster, drug dealer, pimp, mob enforcer, and bestselling author of The Pimp Game: Instructional Guide and The Pimp Guide: Secrets of Mind Manipulation. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with Mickey Royal:

How Mickey's pseudobulbar affect and bipolar disorder came in handy as advantages in his line of work.

What being deemed "capable" in certain circles means -- and why it's a networking mistake among criminals to turn your back on the type of job this entails (even if you've since moved "up").

How Mickey established The Royal Family -- an organized stable of prostitutes that ran with the efficiency of a Fortune 500 company.

Why someone who's smart enough to make money through illicit entrepreneurial means would probably find outstanding success in the mainstream under different circumstances.

How the mental toll of seeing people only from the levers by which they can be manipulated adds up and makes "normal" relationships difficult to impossible.

And much more...

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548: Mickey Royal | A Pimp's Secrets of Mind Manipulation Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Mickey Royal (@mickey_royal) is a former gangster, drug dealer, pimp, mob enforcer, and bestselling author of The Pimp Game: Instructional Guide and The Pimp Guide: Secrets of Mind Manipulation. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Mickey Royal:

How Mickey's pseudobulbar affect and bipolar disorder came in handy as advantages in his line of work.

What being deemed "capable" in certain circles means -- and why it's a networking mistake among criminals to turn your back on the type of job this entails (even if you've since moved "up").

How Mickey established The Royal Family -- an organized stable of prostitutes that ran with the efficiency of a Fortune 500 company.

Why someone who's smart enough to make money through illicit entrepreneurial means would probably find outstanding success in the mainstream under different circumstances.

How the mental toll of seeing people only from the levers by which they can be manipulated adds up and makes "normal" relationships difficult to impossible.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/548

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547: Stopping a Swami from Swindling Our Mommy | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 13 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

When your stepfather passed away and your mother posted about it on Facebook, an old friend -- a self-described "swami" who claims to be psychically linked to her -- called to reconnect. Now, he seems to be taking advantage of her grief and loneliness to get closer, and based on a number of his wild, unlikely claims, you're worried that his end game may be less than altruistic. What can you do to stop this "swami" from swindling your mommy? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/547

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You worry that your mom's "swami" friend may be trying to take advantage of her grief and vulnerability since your stepfather's recent passing. How can you keep her safe from his less-than-altruistic intentions?

You squandered a financial windfall in college on partying and substance abuse, which led to hurting a large number of friends and family along the way. Now you've been sober for years and you want to recover these relationships, but it's clear from attempts to reach out that many of the people you left behind are content to leave those bridges burned. What can you do to move on and let things go?

Your brother, who died by suicide, should be remembered for how he lived his life rather than just how it was ended. You want to start a foundation in his name to help your community learn skills as he loved doing, but where do you begin?

You worked hard to advance in your career, but a recent merger no longer allows you to work from home and care for your daughter. As a result, you've decided to quit and become a stay-at-home dad, but you eventually want to return to the workforce. How can you network and stay relevant during this time away and ensure your time is spent as productively as possible?

You worry that your tendency to procrastinate could cost you your dream job. How can you stop putting things off and causing yourself unnecessary stress and exhaustion?

Documentary of the Week: The Dissident

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546: Scott Adams | Persuasion in a World Where Facts Don't Matter

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 12 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Scott Adams (@ScottAdamsSays) of Dilbert fame revisits us to discuss his book Win Bigly: Persuasion in a World Where Facts Don't Matter. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh listen!]

What We Discuss with Scott Adams:

Is Scott Adams a Trump supporter?

People don’t use facts to make decisions. They use emotion.

Learn the three types of persuaders and how they operate.

See how master persuaders move the topic to things they understand and can dominate (regardless of facts and details).

Find out why master persuasion is effective even if the subject or target sees the technique.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/546

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545: Rachel Nuwer | Inside the Dark World of Wildlife Trafficking

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Rachel Nuwer (@RachelNuwer) is an award-winning freelance journalist who reports about science, travel, food, and adventure for The New York Times, National Geographic, Scientific American, and more. Her multi-award-winning first book, Poached: Inside the Dark World of Wildlife Trafficking, is out now.

What We Discuss with Rachel Nuwer:

What drives the global demand for resources cruelly derived from endangered wildlife.

Why poachers and smugglers are willing to risk their own lives to meet this demand.

The pros and cons of solutions proposed to stem the tide of this illicit trade -- from legalizing it for sustainable sourcing to synthesizing alternatives.

Why governments are shy to throw the book at the worst offenders, and how the most clever, wealthy, and well-connected usually (but don't always) bypass legal repercussions for their trafficking transgressions.

What we can do here and now to promote policies for preserving these species before they vanish forever.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/545

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544: Psycho Scammer Landlord Alert | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 06 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You stopped renting from a violent, paranoid landlord as soon as you saw the warning signs, but you fear a future tenant may not be so lucky. Can you publish some kind of APB as a heads up to potential victims without getting in legal trouble? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/544

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You stopped renting from a violent, paranoid landlord as soon as you saw the warning signs, but you fear a future tenant may not be so lucky. Can you publish some kind of APB as a heads up to potential victims without getting in legal trouble? [Thanks to Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

How can you overcome a lifelong tendency to be late for everything that infuriates everyone you know -- most of all you?

How can you best encourage your friend get help for her recently developed eating disorder when her own family is not only unsympathetic toward her condition, but actively exacerbating it?

You're a paralegal who enjoyed working at Firm A -- until the pandemic hit. So you took a position at Firm B, but find it less than enchanting after just six months. Now there's an opening in your old department at Firm A, but you're worried about being seen as a firm hopper if you apply. Should you go for it anyway?

You've kept the stupid tattoo you got on a drunken night of college debauchery secret from your mom for 13 years. But now you're going on vacation together and you're liable to reveal all when you take your shirt off poolside. Is there any way to minimize the inevitable awkwardness of the moment?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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543: R. Douglas Fields | Understanding Why We Snap

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 05 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

R. Douglas Fields (@RDouglasFields1) is a neuroscientist specializing in the cellular mechanisms of nervous system development, plasticity, and memory, and author of Why We Snap: Understanding the Rage Circuit in Your Brain. [Note: This is a previously broadcast episode from the vault that we felt deserved a fresh listen!]

What We Discuss with R. Douglas Fields:

What is rage, and what evolutionary purpose does it serve?

What makes ordinary people “snap” — that is, react violently when triggered by rage?

Can we control our urge to snap when rage overtakes us?

Understand the nine triggers of rage.

LIFEMORTS: the mnemonic that helps us identify when rage intrudes so we can get a rational handle on it preemptively.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/543

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542: Nicole Perlroth | Who's Winning the Cyberweapons Arms Race?

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 03 Aug 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Nicole Perlroth (@nicoleperlroth) is an award-winning cybersecurity journalist for The New York Times and bestselling author of This Is How They Tell Me the World Ends: The Cyberweapons Arms Race.

What We Discuss with Nicole Perlroth:

The startlingly simple reasons why most nation-states now resort to using cyberwarfare tactics before conventional weaponry in acts of aggression -- to increasingly devastating effect.

How industries are so interconnected that there's almost no way for a cyberattack to target one victim without endangering countless others on all sides of a conflict (which is why you may have Putin to blame if there's a Cadbury chocolate egg shortage next Easter).

Why leaving the security of 85 percent of its critical infrastructure up to privatization makes the United States especially vulnerable to cyberwarfare attacks.

The massive amount of intellectual property that's been lost to hackers -- from the formula for Coca-Cola to information that would allow China and other rival nations to catch up with the United States in the nuclear arms race.

What Nicole believes the US should do to push back against these threats and the governments that perpetrate them -- and ensure that it's not inadvertently one of them.

And much more...

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541: Spare the Pity Party; My Life is Just Restarting | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Four years ago, you lost your spouse and child in a tragic car crash that you barely survived. Now, with a supportive partner and a toddler by your side, you're determined to move on with your life. Unfortunately, it's hard to meet new people who can see past what you've endured without pitying you. How can you truly enter your next chapter when well-meaning but oversympathizing strangers keep reminding you of your last one? We'll try to get to the bottom of this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/541

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Trying to move on from the loss of your family in a car accident years ago is difficult when everyone new you meet wants to throw you a pity party. How can you become more than the suffering sum of your tragic past's parts?

You and your fiancé called it quits when she had a hallucinatory episode, wound up in the hospital, and came out with a bipolar disorder diagnosis. But you've each spent the past year coming to terms with who you are and you've considered getting back together. Could this work, or should you consider it a relationship that's sailed?

A company hired you for one thing, then it turned out they needed you for something else, and their needs aren’t in alignment with your interests. Should you express your dissatisfaction to your boss, hope your next project is more to your liking, or just start looking for a new job?

You've discovered that the work you love to do isn't the same as the subject you loved learning about at university. Should you feel guilty or ashamed for not using your master's degree, even though you absolutely adore your current, but completely unrelated position?

How do you invite your parents' best friends to your wedding without them bringing their disruptive, social misfit adult child?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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540: Daryl Davis | A Black Man's Odyssey in the KKK Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 29 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Daryl Davis (@realdaryldavis) is a musician, author, lecturer, host of the Changing Minds podcast, and anti-racism activist featured in the documentary Accidental Courtesy: Daryl Davis, Race & America. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part one here!]

What We Discuss with Daryl Davis:

How Daryl Davis, a black musician who was once told by a Ku Klux Klansman that he played piano "just like Jerry Lee Lewis," leveraged the encounter into a teachable moment that has led to more than 200 KKK members hanging up their robes for good.

Why racism was such an unfathomable concept when Daryl first experienced it as a 10-year-old Cub Scout.

How traveling around the world as a child with his diplomat father gave Daryl the tools he needed to sit down and relate to people vastly different from him.

Why Daryl considers a missed opportunity for dialogue to be a missed opportunity for conflict resolution.

The five values all humans have in common that Daryl uses to positively navigate (almost) any conversation.

And much more...

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539: Daryl Davis | A Black Man's Odyssey in the KKK Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Daryl Davis (@realdaryldavis) is a musician, author, lecturer, host of the Changing Minds podcast, and anti-racism activist featured in the documentary Accidental Courtesy: Daryl Davis, Race & America.

What We Discuss with Daryl Davis:

How Daryl Davis, a black musician who was once told by a Ku Klux Klansman that he played piano "just like Jerry Lee Lewis," leveraged the encounter into a teachable moment that has led to more than 200 KKK members hanging up their robes for good.

Why racism was such an unfathomable concept when Daryl first experienced it as a 10-year-old Cub Scout.

How traveling around the world as a child with his diplomat father gave Daryl the tools he needed to sit down and relate to people vastly different from him.

Why Daryl considers a missed opportunity for dialogue to be a missed opportunity for conflict resolution.

The five values all humans have in common that Daryl uses to positively navigate (almost) any conversation.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/539

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538: Already Dreading Your Abusive Brother's Wedding | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

It's not a request; it's a demand from the brother who sexually abused you when you were eight in a family that gaslighted you about the whole thing: "You will speak at my wedding." Maybe he thinks you're too spineless to say anything that will embarrass him, but the truth is that you've been diagnosed with complex PTSD and the thought of speaking at his wedding at all fills you with dread. On the other hand, being the only sibling to refuse would also cause drama you don't want to deal with. How do you balance being genuine with not calling someone a cruel person on their wedding day? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/538

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Should you speak at the wedding of your brother who sexually abused you when you were eight, or be the only sibling to refuse and cause unwanted drama? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

If you have a physical feature that might surprise someone you're meeting for the first time (like, say, type IV radial club hand), how can you put everyone at ease and defuse any potential awkwardness ahead of such a meeting?

In spite of going above and beyond in your leadership role during the pandemic, your boss "doesn't believe" in giving you a 5/5 star rating on your review because there's always room for improvement. On the other hand, you've been criticized for giving a subordinate a 3/5 for meeting expectations. If 4/5 is the best you can expect for exceeding expectations, how is such a system fair for anyone?

Your dad spent 10 years in prison. You'd enjoy making up for that lost time by watching movies and other low-key activities together, but he wants to party and go bar hopping (even though you're under the legal drinking age). How can you get him to reel in his wilder tendencies that make you uncomfortable without hurting his feelings?

At the end of the month, you'll be laid off from the company where you've worked for 15 years. If you're able to secure interviews for future job prospects before then, would it be dishonest to negotiate from the more powerful position of being currently employed?

Documentary recommendation of the week: Made You Look: A True Story About Fake Art [Many thanks to Fruit of the Loom for its sponsorship of this segment!]

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537: Kevin Kelly | 12 Technological Forces That Will Shape Our Future

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 22 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Kevin Kelly (@kevin2kelly) is the founding editor of Wired magazine and author of The Inevitable: Understanding the 12 Technological Forces That Will Shape Our Future.

What We Discuss with Kevin Kelly:

Technology is an extension of the natural process of evolution.

What’s driving technology; what will the future look like?

Why Artificial Intelligence (AI) is the biggest thing since electricity.

Ways humanity will interact with future technology and AI — and how it will change our lives in ways we can scarcely imagine.

How technology will actually make us better humans.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/537

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536: Julia Galef | Why Some People See Things Clearly and Others Don't

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Julia Galef (@juliagalef) is the host of the Rationally Speaking podcast, co-founder of The Center for Applied Rationality, and author of The Scout Mindset: Why Some People See Things Clearly and Others Don't.

What We Discuss with Julia Galef:

How to spot bad arguments and faulty thinking -- even when the source is you.

The difference between having a soldier mindset that defends whatever you want to be true, and a scout mindset that's motivated to seek out the truth regardless of how unpleasant it might be (and which you should try to cultivate).

How to tell if you're making reasonable mistakes or foolhardy leaps of faith that carry consequences far outweighing the value of the lesson.

The best ways to manage and respond to uncertainty.

How your brain matches arguments you misunderstand with ones you've already decided you don't agree with -- and what to do about it.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/536

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535: Should Siblings Unite to Confront Abusive Parents? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You and your five siblings aren't close, but you all have one thing in common: you endured a childhood marred by abusive parents who played you against each other. Now that you're all adults, you'd like to unite your siblings to confront your parents as a group for some closure -- but you're not sure they're all on board with the idea. Is there a good way to convince them, or might it be possible to get the closure you're looking for without their help or even a confrontation at all? We'll get into this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/535

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Is it worth trying to unite your siblings for a confrontation with your abusive parents to gain a sense of closure? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

You've postponed your wedding twice due to the pandemic, but two very close people in your life have passed away in the interim -- and it's hard to imagine having this wedding without them. Is there a way to somehow include and honor them in the ceremony?

As a middle manager, you rely on your second-in-command to lead the department so you can focus on admin. Unfortunately, he fails at every step and creates more work for you than he saves. He can't be fired, transferred, or demoted, and he refuses to improve. What can you do?

You're a teenager living in a household with your father and a verbally abusive stepmom who doesn't like teens. You'd prefer to live with your biological mother, but the custody agreement as it stands wouldn't allow it. How can you convince your dad and stepmother that changing the agreement would be the right move for everyone?

You consider your current sales job as a placeholder until you can get your master's degree in mental health counseling. The hitch is that your program requires your completion of a nine-month internship that would fall during your busy season in two years. What's the least awkward way of bringing this up to your boss -- who doesn't yet know about your aspirations in a completely different field?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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534: Greg McKeown | How to Make What Matters Effortless

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 15 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Greg McKeown (@GregoryMcKeown) is the host of the What’s Essential podcast, and author of the New York Times bestseller Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less. His latest book, Effortless: Make It Easier to Do What Matters Most, is out now.

What We Discuss with Greg McKeown:

If you want 10x the results of any endeavor without putting in 10x the effort, it's important to understand your ROE (return on effort).

How the disciplined pursuit of less keeps you from getting overwhelmed with unexpected options and opportunities that come from what should be the good news of success.

Why, if you find yourself procrastinating on a project because it's not perfect enough to your liking, you should delay a bad first draft and create a truly awful zero draft.

Why "easy" does not (always) equal "lazy" and what you can do to work smarter rather than harder to avoid earning the meaningless badge of honor that burnout has become in the modern workforce.

Five questions to ask yourself before taking on a project that's in danger of being overthought, overwhelming, and anything but effortless.

And much more...

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533: Tristan Harris | Reclaiming Our Future with Humane Technology

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Tristan Harris (@tristanharris) is a former Google design ethicist, primary subject of the acclaimed Netflix documentary The Social Dilemma, co-founder of the Center for Humane Technology, and co-host of the podcast Your Undivided Attention.

What We Discuss with Tristan Harris:

Why we're worth more to social engagement platforms as manipulatable slabs of predictable human behavior than as free-thinking individuals.

How the social networks of the early 2000s so quickly turned from places where we could keep in touch with friends, family, and colleagues into disinformation amplifiers that contribute to the destabilization of democracies.

Why your algorithm-tailored online experience so radically differs from that of your closest friends and loved ones, and why this is a problem when the public good is cast aside in the interest of keeping us engaged and enraged.

The unintended consequences of allowing an algorithm to bring people together by what it sees as similar interests, and how this has thrown fuel on the disinformation fire.

How attempting to outthink a social media algorithm is like trying to play chess against a computer that can look ahead and counter every move you could possibly make.

And much more...

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532: A Veteran Fights to Be Free from Smack and PTSD | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You're a veteran who's been lucky enough to return home from war in one piece only to fight a new battle on two fronts: heroin and PTSD. How are you going to fight your way free of this doubly dangerous burden? We'll try to help with this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/532

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're a veteran who's been lucky enough to return home from war in one piece only to fight a new battle on two fronts: heroin and PTSD. How are you going to fight your way free of this doubly dangerous burden? [Many thanks to Dr. Rubin Khoddam of COPE Psychological Center and Dr. Jennifer Mitchell, Deputy Associate Chief of Staff for Research and Development at the San Francisco VA Medical Center, for help with this one!]

Your long-term partner has recently made it clear that he never wants to get married, which is at odds with your own expectations. It's an otherwise ideal, supportive relationship, but disagreeing on this subject casts a shadow over your future together. What should you do?

You're a teenager attending a boarding school with peers you've known your whole life, but their toxic jockeying for position in the social hierarchy goes against your positive, perhaps more mature nature. Is there anything you can do to lift them up without being brought down in the process?

You come from a family in which expressing feelings is forbidden, and problems are ridiculed or ignored rather than talked through. After 15 years of living abroad, you just can't deal with them like you used to. Now that you're visiting for the first time since the pandemic, you want to keep the trip shorter than they were expecting. Should you feel guilty?

Your aunt makes a good living from her small business and wants you to take over when she retires in the next couple of years. But you have very little experience with running a business and you're not positive she's been on the level with her tax obligations -- which you don't want to get stuck dealing with down the line. How do you minimize your risk should you choose to go through with it?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at Bob Arno is a comedy pickpocket and criminologist specializing in global street crime, is the co-author of Travel Advisory: How to Avoid Thefts, Cons, and Street Scams While Traveling, and was featured in National Geographic's Pickpocket King documentary. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to catch part one here!]

What We Discuss with Bob Arno:

How Bob, the son of a judge, got involved in social engineering and pickpocketing for the purpose of entertainment.

Why pickpockets are commonly targeted by terrorist organizations for radicalization efforts.

How diversionary crime like pickpocketing has changed just like every other profession during the COVID-19 pandemic.

How Bob is able to get close to real-life criminal pickpockets and learn their tricks of the trade without winding up in the hospital -- or worse.

The psychology of a pickpocket -- what they're looking for in an ideal victim and what you can do to ensure you're not that victim.

And much more...

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530: Bob Arno | Schooled by the Professor of Pickpocketry Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 06 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Bob Arno is a comedy pickpocket and criminologist specializing in global street crime, is the co-author of Travel Advisory: How to Avoid Thefts, Cons, and Street Scams While Traveling, and was featured in National Geographic's Pickpocket King documentary. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Bob Arno:

How Bob, the son of a judge, got involved in social engineering and pickpocketing for the purpose of entertainment.

Why pickpockets are commonly targeted by terrorist organizations for radicalization efforts.

How diversionary crime like pickpocketing has changed just like every other profession during the COVID-19 pandemic.

How Bob is able to get close to real-life criminal pickpockets and learn their tricks of the trade without winding up in the hospital -- or worse.

The psychology of a pickpocket -- what they're looking for in an ideal victim and what you can do to ensure you're not that victim.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/530

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529: Qualms about QAnon Mom and Her Starseed Schtick | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Jul 2021 00:06:46 PDT

Your conspiracy-minded Mom subscribes to the tenets of QAnon, believes she's a half-human/half-alien starseed, and thinks Jim Carrey is playing Joe Biden in real life, and not just SNL. She's tough to take, and never respects the boundaries you try to set. Is there still room in your life for her? We'll try to get to the bottom of this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/529

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your conspiracy-minded Mom subscribes to the tenets of QAnon, believes she's a half-human/half-alien starseed, and thinks Jim Carrey is playing Joe Biden in real life, and not just SNL. She's tough to take, and never respects the boundaries you try to set. Is there still room in your life for her? [Thanks to cult expert Steven Hassan for helping us with this one!]

The closest friend you've ever had passed away earlier this year, and you've noticed yourself, against character, succumbing to overwhelming feelings of anger at unexpected moments. Does the rage from grief ever go away, or is this just who you are now?

Disgruntled in your current leadership position, you've considered taking a lower stress, lower responsibility role where you don't have to hold people accountable. How do you know if you're making a wise move for your own mental health or throwing away an opportunity that will become manageable over time as you learn to adapt?

You fell for your roommate. After a period of intimacy, she withdrew, citing a series of toxic relationships and a need to focus on her own self-discovery before committing to anything serious. You're trying to take this as an opportunity to work on your own issues, but the rejection still hurts. What can you do?

You've recently applied for a job within your company. The thing is, a number of your contacts have applied for the same job and asked you for referrals. You don't want to damage your network by not responding at all, but it seems awkward to recommend other people for a job you want. How can you handle this delicately without sounding selfish or self-conscious?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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528: Ulrich "The Mole" Larsen | Undercover in North Korea Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 01 Jul 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Ulrich "The Mole" Larsen (@UlrichTheMole) is a family man from Denmark who spent 10 years undercover in North Korea infiltrating its illicit arms trade. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Part one can be found here!]

What We Discuss with Ulrich "The Mole" Larsen:

How did a young Danish chef and family man wind up working undercover in North Korea to disrupt its illicit arms trade?

Why would the repressive regime that runs North Korea trust a young Danish chef and welcome him with open arms?

How some low-status Westerners cozy up to the North Korean regime for the chance to boss around other Westerners visiting the country and the illusionary rush of power it gives them.

The natural qualities and easygoing talents that made Ulrich such an ideal mole in a place where every move is surveilled and analyzed by invisible eyes from every nook and shadow.

Why operating clandestinely in the DPRK is no job for a teetotaler.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/528

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527: Ulrich "The Mole" Larsen | Undercover in North Korea Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Ulrich "The Mole" Larsen (@UlrichTheMole) is a family man from Denmark who spent 10 years undercover in North Korea infiltrating its illicit arms trade. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for the second half later this week!]

What We Discuss with Ulrich "The Mole" Larsen:

How did a young Danish chef and family man wind up working undercover in North Korea to disrupt its illicit arms trade?

Why would the repressive regime that runs North Korea trust a young Danish chef and welcome him with open arms?

How some low-status Westerners cozy up to the North Korean regime for the chance to boss around other Westerners visiting the country and the illusionary rush of power it gives them.

The natural qualities and easygoing talents that made Ulrich such an ideal mole in a place where every move is surveilled and analyzed by invisible eyes from every nook and shadow.

Why operating clandestinely in the DPRK is no job for a teetotaler.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: https://jordanharbinger.com/527

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526: What to Do When Your Teen Attempts Suicide | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 25 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

While you're beyond grateful she survived, your teenager's attempted suicide came as a heartbreaking shock. Now what can you do to address the root causes and make sure she doesn't try again? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/526

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

While you're beyond grateful she survived, your teenager's attempted suicide came as a heartbreaking shock. Now what can you do to address the root causes and make sure she doesn't try again? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

After listening to our episode with Thomas Erikson, you think you've got a psychopath or two in your life. How can you really be sure, and how should you handle the situation? [Thanks to Thomas Erikson himself, who was kind enough to help us answer this one!]

After finding out your significant other (with whom you have a child) had a Tinder account for nine months of your relationship, you're not completely on board with trusting him. Now his ex-girlfriend (with whom he also has a child) has offered him a job. Should you be concerned?

You're a bit burnt out after traveling for work five days a week for the past two months, but you've been with your company for a few years and you don't want to leave. How might you ask for a new job within the company without being completely sure what you want to do (or initiating your own layoff)?

An amazing job opportunity means you may be moving your family to another country in a few months, but it means leaving behind the network and support system you've had for years. How do you start and grow a new network from scratch, and is there anything you can do to give you a head start in the months before you move?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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525: Robert H. Frank | The Myth of Meritocracy

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 24 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Robert H. Frank (@econnaturalist) is the HJ Louis Professor of Economics at Cornell University and author of Success and Luck: Good Fortune and the Myth of Meritocracy. [Note: this is a rebroadcast from the vault.]

What We Discuss with Robert H. Frank:

As we strive to achieve success, there are natural limits on how hard we can work and how smart we can be. There’s no denying that luck plays a part in this achievement.

Understand the role of luck, talent, and hard work in the overall formula.

Discover why we tend to minimize the role of luck in our success.

Find out how to maximize our luck in life by way of context outside of talent and work.

Learn new ways to look at the luck factor and turn it to our advantage.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/525

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524: Nicholas Christakis | Pandemic Impacts and Contagious Behavior

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 22 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Nicholas Christakis (@NAChristakis) is the Sterling Professor of Social and Natural Science at Yale, a physician, and author. His latest book is Apollo's Arrow: The Profound and Enduring Impact of Coronavirus on the Way We Live.

What We Discuss with Nicholas Christakis:

What social science tells us about our best shot (pun moderately intended) at achieving herd immunity from COVID-19.

How social networks allowed the virus to spread and reinforced mistrust of well-known science among certain politically oriented segments of the populace.

What the lessons of past disasters can teach us about the road ahead.

Why the bad (and good) habits of our friends' friends can have an impact on our own behavior from across vast social networks.

What we can do to best defend ourselves against the unwanted influence of these unseen members of our network.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/524

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523: Defusing the Drama Around Your Intoxicated Mama | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 18 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You're raising your teenage sister to keep her out of the cycle of neglect and abuse she was exposed to at home with your alcoholic mother and her sociopathic boyfriend. Now you're struggling to reconcile your relationship with your mom before her toxic beau completely blows through her savings and leaves her destitute. Is there anything you can do at this point to defuse the drama around your intoxicated mama? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/523

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're struggling to reconcile your relationship with your mom before her toxic beau completely blows through her savings and leaves her destitute. Is there anything you can do to defuse the drama around your intoxicated mama?

As a new recruiter for a high-growth startup tech company, you feel like you're getting the brush-off whenever you bring up the need to diversify personnel to the higher-ups. What can you do to get the issue taken more seriously? [Thanks to executive coach Michelle Lederman for helping us with this one!]

Through therapy and medication, you've overcome decades of anxiety, depression, and financial problems, and you're ready to date after losing 140 pounds you gained when you were at your lowest point. But now you've got a lot of loose skin; how do you pre-empt any worries you have about being seen naked by a possible partner?

You fought your way through stage four breast cancer, but you still have to go to the doctor for time-consuming checkups and scans regularly. Now you're looking for a job and don't want to mislead a potential employer by omitting this information, but you don't want to lose out on a lead because they decided to hire someone who doesn't have these issues. What should you do?

How do you politely get your extremely chatty client to shut up?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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522: Daniel Pink | To Sell Is Human

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 00:00:09 PDT

Daniel Pink (@DanielPink) is the author of To Sell Is Human: The Surprising Truth About Moving Others, which uses social science, survey research, and stories to offer a fresh look at the art and science of sales. [Note: this is a rebroadcast from the vault.]

What We Discuss with Daniel Pink:

What’s the best way of dealing with an “off” day?

Learn why sales and a sales skillset are a part of our lives — whether we like it or not.

Understand the concepts of irritation versus agitation (and how to use both to motivate others).

Attunement: what it is and how it can make you more persuasive.

Tips for both introverts and extroverts to improve a social skillset and build better rapport.

And so much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/522

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521: Neil deGrasse Tyson | Cosmic Queries for the Acutely Curious

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 00:00:29 PDT

Neil deGrasse Tyson (@neiltyson) is the Frederick P. Rose Director of the Hayden Planetarium, host of StarTalk Radio, and author. He rejoins us to discuss his latest book, Cosmic Queries: StarTalk's Guide to Who We Are, How We Got Here, and Where We're Going.

What We Discuss with Neil deGrasse Tyson:

How Neil learned to explain scientific complexities in layman's terms.

Why you should always take advantage of an opportunity to engage with an expert.

How opportunity comes from embracing the unknown rather than shying away from it.

Why, when it comes to learning something new, understanding is far more important than memorizing facts.

How Neil has mastered the art of ending any Q&A with the perfect answer -- no matter the question.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/521

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520: Medical Meddling's Wack from Bipolar Hypochondriac | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 11 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Enduring your bipolar mother's hypochondria your entire life has made you neglectful of your own health. Now she won't stop meddling in your medical business since you were recently sent to the ER with an undiagnosed condition. How can you get your mother to back off without completely ruining your already strained relationship? We'll dig into this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/520

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Have you played The Jordan Harbinger Show Bingo yet? Thanks to the work of a fellow dedicated listener, now you can!

Your bipolar hypochondriac mom won't stop meddling in your medical affairs. How can you get her to back off without completely ruining your already strained relationship? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us field this one!]

You've noticed the bad influence of an older neighborhood kid rubbing off on your six-year-old daughter, and having met his emotionally volatile parents, you see the bad apple didn't fall far from the tree. How can you minimize the effects of this negative behavior without being needlessly punitive toward these children?

Are you experiencing "early-onset imposter syndrome" because you're worried about lazy habits picked up during quarantine stunting the level of overachievement that got you into law school?

You were laid off one day before your last retirement accrual through the company's employee stock ownership plan. You're doing well enough financially, but you're rightfully angry to have been cheated out of this benefit in such an underhanded manner. Do you have any legal recourse, and should you pursue it? [Thanks to once-adversary, now-friend, and attorney Jeremy Golan for helping us with this one!]

Your late father was a much-loved pillar of the community, and everyone in town had their own story about how he had come through for them in their time of need. Does Six-Minute Networking advise a way to responsibly enjoy this inherited social capital without coming off like a petulant so-and-so?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at

519: Dacher Keltner | The Power Paradox

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 10 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Dacher Keltner is a professor of psychology at University of California in Berkeley, one of the world’s foremost scientists specializing in the study of power, and author of The Power Paradox: How We Gain and Lose Influence. [Note: this is a rebroadcast from the vault.]

What We Discuss with Dacher Keltner:

You don’t have to be Machiavellian to appreciate that Niccolo Machiavelli was the OG power scientist.

What is The Power Paradox, and how does it affect us and society at large?

The imbalance of power is the greatest threat to society (just after climate change).

Powerlessness can literally be lethal.

Learn how we can increase our power relative to others in a healthy way.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/519

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518: Daniel Kahneman | When Noise Destroys Our Best of Choices

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Daniel Kahneman is a celebrated psychologist, economist, Nobel Prize winner, and author of the much-lauded Thinking, Fast and Slow and his latest, Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgment.

What We Discuss with Daniel Kahneman:

Why we don’t always produce the same results when faced with the same facts on two different occasions.

How noise -- in this context, variability in judgments that should be identical -- influences our choices.

How the detrimental effects of noise in medicine, law, economic forecasting, forensic science, bail, child protection, strategy, performance reviews, and personnel selection can ruin (and even end) lives.

How to tell the difference between noise and good old-fashioned bias.

How we can reduce the role of noise and bias in our lives to make our best choices.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/518

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517: Trouble Runs Deep with the Neighborhood Creep | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 04 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

The pedophile psychopath who lives across the street has made your life hell for more than a decade, to say nothing of the catastrophic damage he's caused to your loved ones and the community. But how can you prove it to the authorities who continue to protect him? We'll try to find a resolution to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/517

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The pedophile psychopath who lives across the street has made your life hell for more than a decade, to say nothing of the catastrophic damage he's caused to your loved ones and the community. But how can you prove it to the authorities? [Special thanks to Thomas Erikson and George Grant for helping us with this one!]

When you've finally found a partner who could be "The One" with whom you see yourself starting a family at the same time you've finally found your dream job -- nine hours away -- how do you choose between them? Or is there a way you don't have to?

Your friend at school has only been in the country for three years and struggles with English, so you help him every night with his homework. The problem is, this leaves you with no free time to pursue extracurriculars or even get a full night's sleep during the week. How can you set boundaries that are reasonable for both of you?

At your corporate job, you regularly have to report to people who are senior to you. How do you strike the right balance between confidence and humility without being either cocky or unsure of yourself?

Someone taking our free Six-Minute Networking course wants to know: how can you grow your network through cold contacts?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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516: Mike Massimino | Unlocking Science Secrets with an Unlikely Spaceman

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 03 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Mike Massimino (@Astro_Mike) is the astronaut who sent the first tweet from space and one of the few spacefarers we’ve had on this show! He’s the author of Spaceman: An Astronaut’s Unlikely Journey to Unlock the Secrets of the Universe. [Note: this is a rebroadcast from the vault.]

What We Discuss with Mike Massimino:

How is bedtime on a space shuttle mission a lot like a slumber party?

Why assembling a team around you is crucial for success — whether orbiting or staying on the surface of the planet.

Why it’s important to take small, deliberate steps in the right direction for the sake of your own happiness.

How to stay focused on the task at hand in the face of disaster by thinking like an astronaut.

Why even astronauts have imposter syndrome.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/516

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515: James Jani | Repelling the Law of Attraction Myth

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 01 Jun 2021 00:00:00 PDT

James Jani (@jamesvjani) is a YouTuber who makes documentary-style videos about money, business, and life, including The Law of Attraction: Fact or Fiction? and The Dark World of New Age Gurus.

What We Discuss with James Jani:

Why "hustle culture" is a bankrupt paradigm that makes it easy for fake gurus to prey upon society's very young and very desperate.

Why the so-called Law of Attraction that tells you you only have to think positive thoughts to "manifest" the good things you want out of life is bunk.

How studying philosophy exercises your grey matter and sharpens your critical thinking skills (so you can better resist nonsense like the Law of Attraction).

Why the Just World Fallacy that explains away suffering as a deserved consequence of wrongdoing is just a dangerously convenient way for people to bypass empathy for the world's unlucky have-nots.

How we can use street epistemology to help people question their unfounded beliefs.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/515

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514: Distancing from Junkie Sibling's Self-Jinxing | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 28 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

In spite of what you've done to help your addiction-prone sibling stay off of hard drugs, he keeps relapsing. When is it time to let a self-jinxing junkie suffer for the consequences of their own actions? This and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/514

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

When is it time to let your self-jinxing junkie sibling face the music for their never-ending relapses that perpetually endanger you and your family?

You're in a relationship with someone who would be a perfect match -- except that you've never found them physically attractive. This is unlikely to change, but it's hard to imagine a life without them. Should you stay or should you go?

You're an ambitious, multilingual 19-year-old in a managerial position, about to enlist in the Navy as a translator. It should be cause for celebration that you've recently been selected as a congressional advisor, but imposter syndrome has hit you like a train. What should you do?

You've been responsible for dramatically increasing your department's efficiency, and your supervisor relies on you to keep things running smoothly. Nevertheless, the higher-ups recently denied you a promotion or raise, and it's hard not to take it personally. What's really holding you back?

A Six-Minute Networking question: how do you deal with a double opt-in introduction when one party makes it clear they're not interested in meeting the other party?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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513: Charlamagne Tha God | The Opportunities of Black Privilege

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 27 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Charlamagne Tha God (@cthagod) is a radio presenter (The Breakfast Club Power 105.1 FM), television personality (Uncommon Sense Live), podcaster (The Brilliant Idiots), and author of Black Privilege: Opportunity Comes to Those Who Create It. [Note: this is a previously broadcast episode from the vault. For our most recent interview with Charlamagne, check out Episode 171: Charlamagne Tha God | Turning the Tables on Fear and Anxiety!]

What We Discuss with Charlamagne Tha God:

What transformed Lenard McKelvey from Moncks Corner, South Carolina into Charlamagne Tha God?

How Charlamagne went from selling crack in a small town to becoming a radio and television personality — and now author.

Why the moment you think you can’t transcend your circumstances — whatever they may be — is the moment you won’t.

How Charlamagne reframed his background to become an advantage rather than a hindrance.

Why it’s important not to live someone else’s expectations — and how to figure out when expectations are actually your own.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/513

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512: Michio Kaku | The Quest for a Theory of Everything

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 25 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Michio Kaku (@michiokaku) is a theoretical physicist, famed futurist, on-air personality, professor of physics, and bestselling author. His latest book is The God Equation: The Quest for a Theory of Everything.

What We Discuss with Michio Kaku:

Why do we need a theory of everything, and what set a young Michio Kaku on the path to search for it?

How we're all born scientists with a yearning to understand the world around us, and what tends to dampen this enthusiasm for most of us before we even make it to adulthood.

Why physicists seeking to wrap their minds around a universal string theory are more like daydreaming composers than academic blackboard warriors.

The four fundamental forces of a universe governed by string theory, and the challenge of discovering how they fit together -- and proving it.

What makes the human brain so unique in the animal kingdom, and why Michio thinks IQ is a woefully incomplete way of measuring intelligence.

And much more...

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511: Does a Reformed Abuser Deserve a Second Chance? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 21 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You cringe when you think back to the toxic, abusive person you used to be, but a traumatic experience forced you to change for the better. However, it's difficult to form close friendships or seek a relationship because you feel unworthy of connection with others. Do you deserve a second chance? If so, how do you prove it to yourself and others who know about your past? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/511

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You cringe when you think back to the toxic, abusive person you used to be, but a traumatic experience forced you to change for the better. However, it's difficult to form close friendships or seek a relationship because you feel unworthy of connection with others. Do you deserve a second chance? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us field this one!]

You're a 20-something "internet personality" whose bad choices (and poor judgment of character) have led you to do things you're not proud of. Sponsors and investors are dropping off, and your livelihood is in danger with no other prospects on the horizon. More than financial ruin, you fear reputational damage from which you'll never recover. You want to take responsibility for your actions; what can you do to see light at the end of this tunnel?

You and your partner have been married for 11 years and have no kids. You met at a Christian camp, you both took your faith very seriously, and you built your relationship on that faith. Fast forward 10 years, and you no longer believe in the "Christian" God. Your partner wants to raise a family, but you know you can't be the role model they have in mind without that faith. Should you work on the marriage with the possibility of greater hurt down the road, or free your partner to find someone else still aligned with their faith?

You and your partner are ready to adopt a child, but you're pondering how much involvement the birth mother should be allowed to have in this child's life. Is it selfish to apply with the stipulation that contact would only be allowed after the child's 18th birthday? Would this really be fair to the child? What option is ultimately the healthiest for all parties?

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510: Rob Reid | Why the Future is a Good Kind of Scary

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 20 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Rob Reid (@Rob_Reid) is a tech entrepreneur, early-stage tech investor, author of After On: A Novel of Silicon Valley, and host of the After On Podcast.

What We Discuss with Rob Reid:

While COVID-19 has been devastating on a global scale, it's comparatively benign when we consider how bad it could have been with a deadlier, more transmissible virus and a decimated infrastructure without access to basic necessities.

What gain of function research is, and why it's so dangerous in a world where even the most secure laboratories can leak pathogens into the general population.

The death toll inflicted by society's suicidal mass murderers is limited only by the weapons they have available -- whether they're guns, knives, airplanes, or synthetically manufactured superviruses created by soon-to-be commonplace genetic manipulation technology.

The steps we can take as an international community to fend off the malevolent efforts of a few bad actors by creating an infrastructure that can detect and prevent the spread of any potential future pandemic.

How DNA printers with the ability to create pandemic-defying vaccines on demand may become as common in the home as smoke alarms.

And much more...

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509: Sam Harris | Making Sense of the Present Tense

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 18 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Sam Harris (@SamHarrisOrg) is a neuroscientist, philosopher, and author of five New York Times bestsellers. He is the host of the Making Sense podcast and his latest book is Making Sense: Conversations on Consciousness, Morality, and the Future of Humanity.

What We Discuss with Sam Harris:

How can someone in the public eye speak freely without worrying about being canceled?

How to keep an open mind when debating someone with whom you disagree vehemently.

What it really takes to get people to behave ethically.

How to resist the distorting effect of social media's "funhouse mirror" on reality.

Why, if you choose to participate in social media, you should make sure to follow at least some (preferably many) people who don't share your views.

And much more...

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508: Shaking an Unsuitable Stalking Suitor | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 14 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your sister's (now former) boyfriend might be a legitimate psychopath, but he's definitely a stalker who's threatened her for breaking up with him after she discovered his unfaithfulness. How can she best protect herself from his deranged promises to ruin her life? We'll look for the best answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/508

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can your sister best protect herself from a stalker ex-boyfriend's deranged threats to ruin her life? [Thanks to George Grant and Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

What are the pros and cons of working with your significant other?

How can your friend protect her job and sanity against harassment from a senior co-worker? [Thanks to Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

Your rental property has neighbors who are a nuisance to your tenants. You're losing money because your tenants don’t want the hassle of the weekend parties, and you're not on premises to document the neighbors' transgressions. What can you do? [Thanks to Brandon Turner for help with this one!]

Even though there seems to finally be light at the end of the tunnel, what's the best way to network during the COVID-19 pandemic?

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507: Robert Cialdini | A New Look at the Science of Influence

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 13 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Robert Cialdini (@RobertCialdini) is widely regarded as the “Godfather of influence” for his groundbreaking work in ethical persuasion. An update of his bestseller that started it all, Influence, New and Expanded: The Psychology of Persuasion, is out now.

What We Discuss with Robert Cialdini:

Cialdini’s Universal Principles of Influence that turn you into an unstoppable persuasion machine (and allow you to defend yourself against the unethical influence of others).

Why it’s a bad idea to accept a gift or favor from someone we don’t like or trust, and how we can reject such a gift or favor gracefully.

How to become more likable (without being a smarmy weirdo about it).

Why social proof is powerful for positive and negative outcomes and how we can leverage this.

The most ideal time to disclose a negative for maximum damage control.

And much more...

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506: Tim Grover | The Unforgiving Race to Greatness

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 11 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Tim Grover is the preeminent authority on the science and art of achieving physical and mental dominance relied upon by legendary athletes like Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant at the top of their game. He's also an author, and his latest book is Winning: The Unforgiving Race to Greatness.

What We Discuss with Tim Grover:

Putting aside inspirational Internet meme bromides, what does it really mean to be relentless?

Why you can't even access the upper limits of the physical without putting the mental blocks in place first.

Why the intangibles -- like commitment and resilience -- are more important than the measurable -- like strength and speed.

The paradigm-shifting thought patterns that go into becoming a world-class champion.

Why top performers aren't looking for motivation -- they're looking for elevation.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/506

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505: Special Needs Son Seduced by Psycho Siren | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 07 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your adult son has Asperger Syndrome, which has contributed to his naïveté in social situations and led to others taking advantage of him. Now he's married to a woman who has served time in prison for smothering her own mother with a pillow and attempted to do the same to her ex-husband. On top of this concerning history, she also falsely accused your son of rape and assault when he tried to leave her. What can you do for your special needs son who's been seduced by this psycho siren? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/505

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your adult son with special needs has been tricked into marriage with a legitimate psycho killer and accused by her of rape and assault when he tried to end it. How can you help him pry free from this murderous harpy before it's too late? [Thanks to attorney Corbin Payne, Surrounded by Psychopaths author Thomas Erikson, and clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us field this one!]

How do you politely decline an offer to "catch up" with an old co-worker who doesn't seem to understand that you never particularly cared for them?

After doing a payscale salary comparison, you estimate that you make $15-20k less than the median salary for your qualifications. Would it be best for you to attempt to negotiate a raise at your current job, or bite the bullet and try to find a new job with better pay?

Your usually non-dramatic wife has taken to breaking into tears for seemingly no reason at least once a week or so (that you know of). Could it be due to her obsession with picture-perfect Instagram influencers making her feel bad about herself?

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504: Lt. Col. Oliver North | Lessons from the Tragedies of War

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 06 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Lt. Col. Oliver North (@OliverLNorth) is a political commentator, military historian, and retired United States Marine Corps lieutenant colonel. He is the author of many leather-bound books, and the host of Oliver North's America and Oliver North's Real American Heroes.

What We Discuss with Oliver North:

An Oliver North's-eye view of the Iran–Contra affair after 30+ years in the rearview mirror.

Using SMEAC (Situation, Mission, Execution, Admin and Logistics, and Command and Signal) for making decisions in high-pressure situations.

Why Oliver still recalls one day as a Marine machine-gunner during the Vietnam conflict as the worst in his life.

What it's like to survive an assassination attempt (and outlive its bumbling perpetrators).

Why Oliver considers "servant leaders" to be the best leaders.

And much more...

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503: Cal Newport | Reimagining Work in a World without Email

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 04 May 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Cal Newport researches cutting-edge technology and writes about the impact of these innovations on society. He is the New York Times bestselling author of Deep Work, So Good They Can’t Ignore You, Digital Minimalism, and his latest, A World without Email: Reimagining Work in an Age of Communication Overload.

What We Discuss with Cal Newport:

What is the hyperactive hive mind, and how did the collaborative nature of email communication give rise to it?

Why checking our email an average of every six minutes is, as Cal puts it, "a terrible way to extract value from human neurons."

How so-called multitasking takes its toll not only on our individual capacity to focus, but on the prosperity of society as a whole.

Why debuzzing the hyperactive hive mind can't be done from the inbox, but by replacing the rules for how we collaborate.

How we can set the rules, guidelines, and systems by which we agree to communicate without succumbing to the collective pull of the hyperactive hive mind.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/503

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502: How Do I Tell Daughter Her Dad Is Dying? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

The father of your eight-year-old daughter has been given six months to live. How much do you tell your daughter -- and how soon? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday.

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/502

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

The father of your eight-year-old daughter has been given six months to live. How much do you tell your daughter -- and how soon? [Thanks to clinical psychologist and friend Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]

Career circumstances drove you and your ex-girlfriend apart a few years ago. And while she thinks you and her new fiance would be fast friends, you don't need a constant reminder of what might have been. How do you get her to respect your boundaries on this matter?

A recruiter told you that a misdemeanor DUI from 2013 makes your chance of becoming an Air Force officer "nearly zero," but it's a dream you've had since you were seven. You couldn't forgive yourself for not giving it a shot anyway, but are you just wasting your time? [Thanks to Evil Genius Jason LeDuc for helping us field this one!]

You've been on a revolving door basis with college admissions for years, never really nailing down a course plan that suits you before you drop out and try something else. You've spent countless hours and dollars without credentials to begin a professional career, much to your parents' shame as well as your own. How can you just choose a path and stick to it?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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501: Ed Calderon | Survival Secrets of a Drug War Veteran Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Ed Calderon (@eds_manifesto) is a non-permissive environment specialist and combatives instructor with over 10 years of experience in counter-narcotics, organized crime investigation, and public safety in the northern border region of Mexico. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Find part one here!]

What We Discuss with Ed Calderon:

Three things that kept Ed from choosing the cartel life over law enforcement when it became a very real option.

Why there’s an eerie devotion to blasphemous, Church-condemned figures like death icon La Santa Muerte by the dispossessed and the deadly on both sides of the law.

What happens when different factions of law enforcement in the same area work for different cartels.

How occult practices that combine Catholic symbology with Aztec beliefs adapt to changing times and desperate characters.

Is Ed worried for his life after crossing some of the world’s most dangerous and vindictive people?

And much more…

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500: Ed Calderon | Survival Secrets of a Drug War Veteran Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Ed Calderon (@eds_manifesto) is a non-permissive environment specialist and combatives instructor with over 10 years of experience in counter-narcotics, organized crime investigation, and public safety in the northern border region of Mexico. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stick around for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Ed Calderon:

How drug cartels infiltrate and take over towns, cities, and entire regions without fearing local law enforcement or even the military.

How US taxpayers fund limitless government corruption south of the border without any real accountability.

2020 has been the most deadly year in Mexico for cartel-related violence, and it's getting worse.

Not all mass graves found in Mexico are the result of cartel atrocities. The reality could be even more sinister.

Why cracking down on cartel crime is such a difficult (and life-threatening) proposition for would-be crusaders.

And much more...

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499: Preparing a Polyamorous Protection Plan | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 23 Apr 2021 00:00:31 PDT

You're in a relationship with someone who's in an open marriage and all parties consent -- for now. But you want to be sure you don't get stuck with your state's tricky alien of affection law that could ruin your life if someone changes their mind. Aside from documenting all communication, how can you best prepare a polyamorous protection plan should your love triangle get bent out of shape and leave you and your property legally in peril? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/499

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you best prepare a polyamorous protection plan should your love triangle get bent out of shape and leave you and your property legally in peril? [Thanks again to attorney and friend Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

Your intense, old-fashioned dad doesn't approve of your brother's girlfriend, which makes the arrival of their first child (and his first grandchild) somewhat bittersweet. On top of all this, he's hurt he was the last to find out. What can you do to facilitate communication between your dad and brother so this doesn't sour what should really be a happy occasion for the family?

How do you remain professional and open to networking when you've got annoying, creepy, and clueless clients abusing your business relationship as an unwelcome excuse to pursue something more intimate?

With some of our episodes including less-than-complimentary critiques about the governments of North Korea and China, are we ever worried about being targeted by their agents, and would we ever travel to either country again?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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498: Rob Dyrdek | Manufacturing Amazing with the Dyrdek Machine

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Rob Dyrdek (@robdyrdek) is an entrepreneur, actor, producer, reality TV personality, and former professional skateboarder. He's the founder of venture creation studio Dyrdek Machine and host of the Build with Rob podcast.

What We Discuss with Rob Dyrdek:

How Rob negotiated with his parents to let him drop out of high school and become a professional skateboarder at age 16.

The lesson veteran skateboarder Neil Blender taught young Rob about knowing his range when taking a shot at doing something extraordinary.

How Rob hones the clarity to operate in what he calls "kill mode" by eliminating the stressors that keep him from living optimally.

What venture creation studio Dyrdek Machine is and how it's been built to efficiently launch meaningful businesses that stand the test of time and have an impact on the world.

How Rob has the uncanny ability to, as his friend Shane Nickerson says, put himself in a position where luck hits him.

And much more...

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497: David Kilgour | The Heartless Art of Forced Organ Harvesting

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

David Kilgour is a human rights activist, former lawyer, and Canadian politician. He is a Senior Fellow to the Raoul Wallenberg Centre for Human Rights, and co-author of Bloody Harvest: Organ Harvesting of Falun Gong Practitioners in China.

What We Discuss with David Kilgour:

Who is targeted by the Chinese government for forced organ harvesting, and why?

How long has this illicit trade been going on, and who does it benefit?

How much does a healthy kidney, heart, or lung go for on this immoral market?

Who is Gao Zhisheng, and why is his story important?

How these atrocities have been brought to light and what efforts are being undertaken by the international community to put an end to them.

And much more...

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496: Schizophrenic Mother a Duty Like No Other | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 16 Apr 2021 00:00:47 PDT

The schizophrenic mother with whom you've never had a great relationship is out of hospital and probably in need of high maintenance care. You feel guilty for saying so, but just being around her makes you want to leave town and disappear without leaving a forwarding address. Is there a way to ensure she's taken care of without taking on the burden of providing that care, and does it make you a terrible person for even wondering? We'll find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/496

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

How can you ensure your schizophrenic mother gets the care she needs without taking on a burden that eclipses your entire life?

Your cousin is in the middle of a divorce from an emotionally manipulative woman who is threatening to lie to the police that he's been abusing her -- which would threaten his DREAMer status and potentially send him back to the country where he was born but hasn't seen since he was nine (he's 29 now). Is there any legal protection he can pursue?

You're getting a divorce from your husband, who also happens to be your business partner. You don't want a stake in the business you helped build from the ground up, and you don't want money; you just want your dog and your truck, and you want to start a new life. But are you making a mistake to walk away with nothing?

As a high school teacher, you're worried the kids you teach to live in today's world won't have a place in a tomorrow operated increasingly by artificial intelligence. What will the future of work look like, and how can you best prepare your students for this potentially dystopian future? [Thanks to Allen and Shane from Allen Gannett and Shane Snow from the Creative Hotline podcast for helping us with this one!]

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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495: Jon Acuff | The Surprising Solution to Overthinking

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 15 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Jon Acuff (@jonacuff) is an Inc. Magazine Top 100 Leadership speaker, host of the All It Takes Is a Goal podcast, and author of multiple bestsellers. His latest book is Soundtracks: The Surprising Solution to Overthinking.

What We Discuss with Jon Acuff:

Jon defines a soundtrack as those repetitive thoughts that play automatically in your head that shape more of your choices than you know -- and this is why you need to curate your soundtrack.

Three questions to ask yourself if you want to identify a broken soundtrack that derails your ambitions -- and change it into one that goads you into action.

How you can flip a worry-inducing soundtrack into one that instills confidence.

Being prepared always leads to an action; overthinking always leads to more overthinking.

Something better to tell yourself than "Fake it 'til you make it" from the son of the guy who coined that phrase.

And much more...

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494: Rutger Bregman | Humankind: A Hopeful History

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 13 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Rutger Bregman (@rcbregman) is a historian and author who has published five books on history, philosophy, and economics. His latest is New York Times bestseller Humankind: A Hopeful History.

What We Discuss with Rutger Bregman:

How crises like the London Blitz during WWII and the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina tend to bring out the best in people rather than the worst.

Why a crisis that forces us to isolate rather than connect with each other as a way to cope (like the COVID-19 pandemic) may make some of us behave counter to this tendency, but not most.

The evidence that prevails against veneer theory -- the idea that humanity is only buffered from acting on its vilest and most selfish instincts by the thin veneer of civilization (perpetrated by those in power throughout human history).

The negativity bias vs. contact theory: how we can counter the effects of past bad experiences with others by increasing our exposure to diversity.

How a real-life Lord of the Flies incident disproved the thesis of William Golding's fictional counterpart and showed how six shipwrecked schoolkids cooperated to thrive on a remote island for more than a year.

And much more...

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493: Should You Sue Uncle Sam for Allegation Sham? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 09 Apr 2021 00:00:32 PDT

Your promising military career was derailed when former colleagues falsely accused you of wrongdoing to cover their own misdeeds. Even though the timeline proved that your alleged malfeasance would have been impossible and you were cleared of all charges, you missed promotions, eligibility cutoffs, special pay, and accompanying bonuses over the course of the lengthy investigation. Adding insult to these injuries is the message that your higher-ups have elected "not to go forward" with reinstating your qualifications and reimbursing you for your losses. So now you're wondering: should you sue Uncle Sam for this allegation sham?

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/493

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your military career was derailed by accusations of misconduct proven untrue, but you've been denied back pay or promotions due. Should you sue? [Thanks to attorney and friend Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

In an out-of-character lapse of judgment, your girlfriend got drunk, drove, hit a car, and got arrested. As a result, she may spend a year in prison. While you feel bad for her, you don't want to be pulled down by her bad choices. Should you stay or should you go?

In spite of the pandemic, your new business is thriving. Unfortunately, your mental health isn't, and establishing self-care boundaries with your workaholic business partner isn't panning out. Should you try to navigate the partnership for the sake of all you've built, or let it go for the sake of your sanity?

What's the best way to get your child to learn a second language at a young age?

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492: Michael Shermer | Why We Believe Weird Things

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Michael Shermer (@michaelshermer) is the founder of Skeptic magazine and several books on the nature of belief. He’s the Director of The Skeptics Society, a non-profit dedicated to the promotion of science, reason, and critical thinking. He joins us to discuss why people believe weird things. [This is a rebroadcast that originally aired in 2016.]

What We Discuss with Michael Shermer:

How do beliefs form and persist even when we know they’re wrong?

Why do skeptics (and restaurant owners) scowl at the mention of Uri Geller?

Why are smart people even more susceptible to faulty beliefs?

How do our genes influence our political and religious beliefs?

What’s the difference between a skeptic and a cynic?

And much more...

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491: Ray Dalio | The Changing World Order

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 06 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Ray Dalio (@RayDalio) is the founder of Bridgewater Associates — the largest and best-performing hedge fund in the world — and author of New York Times bestseller Principles: Life and Work. His latest book is The Changing World Order: Why Nations Succeed and Fail.

What We Discuss with Ray Dalio:

What history can tell us about the cycles our society has endured before and what we should expect from the cycles to come.

The cycle we're currently experiencing in terms of our economy and security as a country (and as a planet).

What Ray sees as the way forward to ensure these cycles serve as warnings -- not just echoes of past disasters.

What the West needs to do to remain competitive with China and other emerging world powers.

What Ray has learned from grieving the recent loss of his son.

And much more...

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490: Boo's Rightful Vexation Over Frightening Fixation | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 02 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You love jumping out of random hiding places in your house to startle your fiancée, but your fiancée does not share your enthusiasm for this "hobby" and wants you to knock it the heck off. You understand your boo's rightful vexation over this frightening fixation, but you can't seem to stop. Is this a common problem? We'll tackle this and more here on our special Day-After-April-Fool's-Day episode of Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/490

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Jordan shares a story about the time he thought he was going to get arrested at the donut shop in the middle of the night.

You think you might be addicted to the thrill of jumping out of random hiding places in your house to startle your fiancée, because now you can't stop (even though she really, really wants you to). Is this a "normal" problem?

Do Jordan and Gabe brush their teeth and floss every day?

What have been Jordan's best and worst interviews? Does he stay friends with any of them afterward?

What are the strangest things Gabe and Jordan know how to do?

How do Jordan and Gabe feel about psychedelics?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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489: Frank Bourassa | The World’s Greatest Counterfeiter Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 01 Apr 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Frank Bourassa counterfeited and sold $250 million in fake US currency until he was nabbed in an undercover operation. Now he runs a security company and works with the police to catch other counterfeiters.

What We Discuss with Frank Bourassa:

How someone creates a quarter of a billion dollars in American $20 bills that not only look genuine, but feel genuine even to experts.

The hours of research that Frank spent learning how to create counterfeit money that would pass most muster without immediately going to jail on his first attempt.

The catalyst that drove Frank to pursue a life of crime in the first place (and has probably tempted most of us to consider it from time to time).

It takes money to make money: Frank reveals the startup fees that went into his operation to literally print the perfect $20 bills en masse.

How much labor actually goes into a counterfeiting project at this scale -- once you find a crew you think you can trust.

And much more...

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488: Frank Bourassa | The World’s Greatest Counterfeiter Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 30 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Frank Bourassa counterfeited and sold $250 million in fake US currency until he was nabbed in an undercover operation. Now he runs a security company and works with the police to catch other counterfeiters.

What We Discuss with Frank Bourassa:

How someone creates a quarter of a billion dollars in American $20 bills that not only look genuine, but feel genuine even to experts.

The hours of research that Frank spent learning how to create counterfeit money that would pass most muster without immediately going to jail on his first attempt.

The catalyst that drove Frank to pursue a life of crime in the first place (and has probably tempted most of us to consider it from time to time).

It takes money to make money: Frank reveals the startup fees that went into his operation to literally print the perfect $20 bills en masse.

How much labor actually goes into a counterfeiting project at this scale -- once you find a crew you think you can trust.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/488

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487: Connect with Cult Father, or Don't Even Bother? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

You basically grew up in a cult, and following your own path as an adult was seen as an act of "rebellion" in the eyes of your dad, from whom you've been estranged ever since. He's even forbidden you from setting foot on his property until you "repent, return, and remain." Now, years have passed and it doesn't sit well with you that your relationship is so strained. Should you try to reconnect with your cult father, or is it even worth the bother? We'll try to find answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/487

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

After "rebelling" against the cult in which you were raised, should you try to reconnect with your estranged father, or is it even worth the bother? [Thanks to cult expert Steven Hassan for helping us with this one!]

You fell behind on paperwork your job legally requires, and even though you provided it to the inspectors before the pandemic lockdowns began, you've yet to hear back from them. Now your wife says if it causes you to lose your job, she'll never forgive you. Is she overreacting? How do you handle this?

You've got a new, cushy job that pays handsomely, but you're unfulfilled because it's not the work you signed up for. Quitting now means you'd have to pay off thousands in sign-on bonuses, but you feel like you're doing your career a disservice by sticking with it. Should you just shut up and be grateful, or cut your losses and find something that better suits you?

Over the past year, you’ve become obsessed with learning. You read books, consume newsletters, and listen to hours of podcasts every day. The bad news: you can't seem to retain any of it. Are you just overloading your brain circuitry, or is there a trick to getting all this new info to stick?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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486: Nina Schick | Deepfakes and the Coming Infocalypse

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 25 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Nina Schick (@NinaDSchick) specializes in how technology is transforming geopolitics and society in the 21st century. She is the author of Deepfakes: The Coming Infocalypse.

What We Discuss with Nina Schick:

What deepfakes are and how they're created using technology that is getting exponentially more sophisticated every year and accessible to anyone.

How deepfakes go beyond novelty and into dangerous territory occupied by blackmailers, propagandists, terrorists, conspiracy theorists, and other unsavory ne'er-do-wells who profit by making the rest of us doubt what we can trust as reality.

Why deepfakes are so much more concerning than reality-bending manipulations of the past.

The potential positive uses of AI-assisted deepfake technology that will change our world as dramatically as the advent of the Internet.

How we can discern between real photo, video, or audio footage and imposter deepfakes to avoid being duped by 21st-century technoshysters.

And much more...

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485: Leah Remini | Surviving Hollywood and Scientology

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Leah Remini (@leahremini) is an actor, producer, co-host of podcast Scientology: Fair Game, and co-author of Troublemaker: Surviving Hollywood and Scientology.

What We Discuss with Leah Remini:

What Scientology is, how it came about, and why it's so dangerous.

The lengths the Scientology organization has gone through to protect itself from the government and its disillusioned apostates.

How Leah and her Fair Game co-host Mike Rinder have survived the stalking, harassment, and threats of post-Scientology life.

What die-hard Scientologists really believe.

How Scientology recruits and retains its A-list celebrity lineup.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/485

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484: Give Bridesmaid the Boot for Political Dispute? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Your BFF was slated to be a bridesmaid at your wedding, but she can't resist the urge to argue about politics with you, your fiance, and anyone with whom she disagrees. Now you're wondering: should you even invite her to the wedding at all? We'll dig into this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/484

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your BFF bridesmaid insufferably loves to argue politics to the point that your fiance can't stand the sight of her. Now you're wondering: should you even invite her to your wedding?

Even though you helped your dad build a multi-million dollar business, your long-distance girlfriend's old-fashioned parents don't approve of your relationship. They don't see what you've done as an accomplishment, just that you "work for your dad." What can you do to improve your relationship with people who might someday be your in-laws?

You tend to interact with people in a way that some consider being too informal or familiar. Sometimes your sense of humor just doesn't seem to hit the right note and you wind up offending more often than making people laugh. Is there anything you should be doing to make a better impression?

Your girlfriend is a magnificent writer, with a master's degree in English, pursuing a career in publishing. Unfortunately, her lack of success in landing a job has sapped her confidence; she won’t reach out to friends and family for support, and is terrified to ask for help. She's even opposed to therapy thanks to bad experiences in the past. What can you do?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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483: Drew Binsky | Vicarious Trips and Travel Tips

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 18 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Drew Binsky (@drewbinsky) has been to 194 countries (probably more by the time you're done reading this sentence), shares his prolific adventures on YouTube, and hopes to inspire us all to become better world travelers. Take in the vicarious trips and travel tips with him here!

What We Discuss with Drew Binsky:

What it's like to spend 24 hours with an isolated tribe of pygmies in the middle of a forest in Africa.

The story of Zablon Simintov, the last and only remaining Afghan Jew in the country of Afghanistan.

What Drew considers to be the most dangerous country in the world (without even a close second), and how he fared during his six days there.

Why the most expensive countries in the world are ones you've probably never heard of.

How Drew protects himself when he's traveling in war zones and countries that are particularly hostile toward journalists.

And much more...

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482: Adam Grant | The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 00:00:00 PDT

Adam Grant (@AdamMGrant) is Wharton’s top-rated professor, the host of podcast WorkLife with Adam Grant, and the author of three New York Times Best Sellers: Option B (with Sheryl Sandberg), Originals, and Give and Take. Adam revisits the show to discuss his latest book, Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know.

What We Discuss with Adam Grant:

Why being open to changing your mind is a huge advantage in your personal and professional life -- and not weakness, as your ego is urging you to believe.

The criteria by which Amazon's Jeff Bezos makes big decisions quickly while allowing room for a change of mind when new information is revealed.

How you can use brainwriting instead of brainstorming to come up with the best ideas from within your organization without losing them to the hazards of dreaded groupthink.

Why your network could do with a "disagreeable giver" (or several) to tear your ideas apart and point out the holes in your thinking -- not to bring you down, but to help you improve.

How to preface criticism so that other people really hear it (in only 19 words or so) without taking offense.

And much more...

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481: Custody Battle Rattles Disproven Dad | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 01:00:00 PST

When a father is unbothered by the results of a paternity test that disproves a biological connection to the daughter he's raised since birth, what can he do to win a custody battle against the uncooperative mother who's considered a more "real" parent by the state? We'll seek the answers to this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/481

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Can a dad who's raised a daughter as his own win custody after a court-ordered test disproves his paternity? [Once again, many thanks to attorney and friend Corbin Payne for helping us answer this one!]

A new job with amazing opportunities for growth means leaving behind a team you've come to admire. What's the most graceful way to exit while remaining on good terms?

A simple request for a textbook refund has led to erroneous, uninvited emails from the publisher containing private information of other customers, which means someone else probably has your "private" information. On top of this, you still don't have a refund. Is threatening legal action your most reasonable next step? [Yep. The Payne Train helped us with this one too! Thanks, Corbin!]

For years, you've been happily married to the love of your life, but they've become politically active to a hostile degree on social media and condescending toward you for being "uninformed" when you want to talk about something -- anything -- else. What can you do to bring the boiling point down a bit?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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480: Roger Atwood | Stealing History

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 01:00:00 PST

Roger Atwood (@rogeratwood) knows where priceless antiquities are buried, who is digging them up, and who is fencing and buying them, as described in his book Stealing History: Tomb Raiders, Smugglers, and the Looting of the Ancient World.

What We Discuss with Roger Atwood:

How abhorrent colonial looting practices of the past pale in comparison to the streamlined, market-driven illicit antiquities trading of today.

Contrary to popular depiction, illicit antiquities traders aren't marginalized hustlers scrambling to put food on the table, but savvy businesspeople following the demand that leads to a hefty payday.

How well-connected and wealthy collectors perpetuate this market by requesting and purchasing relics on demand in the same way most of us would order pizza.

Why this on-demand artifact mill irrevocably destroys more than it rescues from the unknown past and ruins sites beyond the context of legitimate archaeological salvageability.

On a positive note: what can be done to stem the tide for this wasteful demand so future generations might still enjoy what's yet to be discovered.

And much more...

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479: Lisa Feldman Barrett | Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 01:00:00 PST

Lisa Feldman Barrett (@lfeldmanbarrett) is among the top one percent most-cited scientists in the world for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. Her new book, Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain, is out now.

What We Discuss with Lisa Feldman Barrett:

Our brains evolved to keep our bodies alive -- thinking is just a bonus by-product.

Why the lizard brain theory is a myth.

More like companies than computers, our brains reorganize themselves when the situation calls for adaptation to survive.

How our brains predict what we think we’re hearing and seeing, and how this affects our behavior.

Why you're not really left-brained or right-brained.

And much more...

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478: Will Suing Abusive Father Bring Mother Peace? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Mar 2021 01:00:00 PST

Your mother and aunt have suffered lifelong trauma from your grandfather's physical, mental, and sexual abuse of them when they were children. The family has been considering legal action against him, but it would be difficult for your mother and aunt to repeatedly relive this abuse in court, and the strength of the case is in question because this happened over 30 years ago. Should they pursue it anyway? This and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/478

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Should your mother and aunt sue their father 30 years after he physically, mentally, and sexually abused them? Would justice -- or at least telling their story in court -- bring them peace? [Thanks again to Corbin Payne for helping us with this one!]

You're an ex-con whose rough childhood and over 10 years in prison have taught you some hard but valuable lessons, and you've earned a uniquely valuable skill set. So how do you market this experience in a way that will serve you in the outside world?

You and your significant other have been living with their mother for much of the pandemic. While you get along, she can be passive-aggressive, petty, and dramatic. You try to sympathize, listen, and help her out when possible, but it's stressing you out. What else can you do to maintain a good relationship without sacrificing your own sanity?

You’ve been passed over for a promotion twice in a year and a half, and you suspect the reasons might be more personal than professional. Should you lodge a complaint at the risk of a hit to your reputation, or should you just take it on the chin and hope a third time will be the charm? Bottom line: how can you be truly proactive about advancement?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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477: Peter Diamandis | Creating a Future Bold in Abundance

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 04 Mar 2021 01:00:00 PST

Peter Diamandis (@PeterDiamandis) is the founder of the XPRIZE Foundation, co-host of the Exponential Wisdom Podcast, and co-author of Bold: How to Go Big, Create Wealth and Impact the World and Abundance: The Future Is Better Than You Think.

What We Discuss with Peter Diamandis:

What does the future hold for human longevity, space colonization, artificial intelligence, and beyond?

How can we adapt — individually and as a society — to deal with increased automation in the workforce?

What is linear thinking and why does it cause us to miss the mark when coping with technology, innovation, and the advancement of the human race?

If you don’t know your calling in life, your calling in life is to discover what that is.

What experiments can kids curious about science do that won’t get them put on a no-fly list for the foreseeable future?

And so much more…

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476: Dan David | Putting Muscle on the China Hustle

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 Mar 2021 01:00:00 PST

Dan David (@Dan_David44) is an investor, activist short-seller, and whistle-blower. He is the founder of Wolfpack Research, host of the I Hung Up On Warren Buffett Podcast, and is featured in The China Hustle documentary.

What We Discuss with Dan David:

Dan defines what it means to be an activist short-seller, and how his research discerns between legitimate but worthwhile risks in the market and outright criminal fraud.

How Chinese companies use reverse mergers to trade on US markets without oversight and siphon hundreds of billions of dollars from the economy without accountability or criminal consequences.

Why the US government allows this legalized corruption to continue (with the blessing of investment banks).

In the end, who really suffers in the fallout of these reverse takeover (RTO) scams.

The long-term dangers of allowing this fraud to continue, and what Dan sees as our way out of this mess.

And much more...

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475: Is It Possible to Assuage Narcissistic Rage? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 26 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Your significant other of six years has a narcissistic personality disorder and an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. Even when sober, she can turn on a dime and engage in narcissistic rage, which includes venomous, disrespectful rants and the destruction of expensive artwork. It seems obvious that you should break up with her, but she's unemployable and unable to care for herself, and living arrangements for whoever leaves would be difficult to secure in the midst of the pandemic. What's your next move? We'll do what we can to help assuage narcissistic rage and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/475

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

What are you avoiding just because the desired outcome would take longer than you'd like?

What do you do when your significant other ruins your stuff in fits of narcissistic rage but breaking up is logistically difficult? [Thanks to friend and therapist Kim Seltzer for helping us field this one!]

You're excited about becoming a first-time parent, but you're worried it won't allow you the time to do your full-time job and pursue a career in competitive golf. Does this make you a selfish jerk?

An opening for advancement has come up at your company, but you're not sure you're ready for it just yet. Should you go for it anyway, or wait until you've got more experience under your belt and hope that opportunity knocks again?

While you're not currently disabled, you do have multiple sclerosis that will gradually incapacitate you to some degree over time. Are you obligated to disclose this on a job application? [Thanks to once-adversary, now-friend, and attorney Jeremy Golan for helping us with this one!]

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474: David Eagleman | The Inside Story of the Ever-Changing Brain

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

David Eagleman (@davideagleman) is a neuroscientist at Stanford, CSO of sensory substitution technology company NeoSensory, host of Emmy-nominated PBS/BBC series The Brain, and author of Livewired: The Inside Story of the Ever-Changing Brain.

What We Discuss with David Eagleman:

Like organisms in a forest, the multicellular components of your brain are as much in competition with one another as they are in cooperation.

How your sensory landscape adapts to utilize what's useful and discard what's not as you learn new skills.

Why David believes the nature vs. nurture debate is dead (and that Darwin might owe Lamarck a bit of an apology).

How neglect can irreparably shape the brain of a child, and what this can teach us about the way different generations learn about, process, and behave in the world.

How senses like sight and hearing can be translated by technology for people without a native ability to process them, and why we'll be able to invent entirely new senses with the help of technology.

And much more...

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473: Scott Galloway | From Crisis to Opportunity Post Corona

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 23 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Scott Galloway (@profgalloway) cohosts Pivot with Kara Swisher, publishes the No Mercy/No Malice newsletter, is a professor at NYU Stern School of Business, and is the author of Post Corona: From Crisis to Opportunity.

What We Discuss with Scott Galloway:

How the pandemic has accelerated changes already in the making: it only took 40 weeks to lose the jobs that it took 20 years to create, and only eight weeks for e-commerce to experience a decade's worth of growth.

The industries most poised to thrive in the post-pandemic world.

Why it's never been easier to become a billionaire, and it's never been harder to become a millionaire.

How education will change as a result of pandemic upheaval and the technology created to match its demand -- likely for the better.

How to make sure these dramatic changes work for you instead of against you.

And much more...

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472: When Your Employee Defrauds the Government | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 19 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

In spite of not being financially affected by the pandemic, you know an employee of yours and his wife have been gaming the system and taking unemployment benefits and PPP loans from the government to the tune of tens of thousands of dollars. While you're deeply bothered by their gleeful boasting about these fraudulent actions, you also don't like meddling in other people's business. Should you file a complaint to the proper authorities anyway, or just hope that karma will come around someday? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/472

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

Your well-paid employee boasts about fraudulently receiving COVID relief from the government to the tune of tens of thousands of dollars. Should you report this or hope karma intervenes? Another ponderable: if he's regularly and remorselessly stealing from Uncle Sam, what's he been stealing from your company?

Your irresponsible sister parties and spends beyond her means while neglecting her daughter. You want to be supportive of your niece's well-being, but you also don't want to take her off your sister's hands and enable more bad behavior. How do you find a decent middle ground without also neglecting your own family?

As a Westerner teaching English in Japan, how do you get past the point of being a tall, freakish curiosity to the locals in order to build deeper relationships with new friends?

Would getting a text message from a person you spent a total of eight hours with over a year ago mean anything? Or would it just be a weird, semi-unnecessary gesture?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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471: Steven Hassan | The #iGotOut Guide to Quitting QAnon

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 18 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Steven Hassan (@CultExpert) has helped thousands of individuals and families recover from undue influence (authoritarian control). With over 40 years of experience, he is sought after as one of the foremost authorities on undue influence and controlling groups and individuals. He is the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center, and a founding collaborator of the #iGotOut movement.

What We Discuss with Steven Hassan:

How a disinformation crusade like QAnon takes root and thrives in the politically polarized petri dish of modern America (with a little help from its outside adversaries).

Why the trope of non-human elites ritualistically sustaining themselves on the essence of innocent children should seem familiar -- because this blood libel has been most famously used to normalize the persecution of Jews from the Middle Ages to the Holocaust and beyond.

How QAnon appeals not only to the predictable dumber-than-a-box-of-rocks demographic, but a surprising number of seemingly otherwise intelligent people who are counterintuitively more susceptible to its influence than most.

How Steven’s BITE model applies to QAnon's manipulation of behavior, information, thought, and emotion among its followers to show it for what it is: a destructive cult with elements of psyops thrown in for good measure.

What we can and should do when people we care about have been sucked down the QAnon rabbit hole and we want to see them safely tethered back to reality.

And much more...

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470: Bruce Sackman | A Glimpse Behind the Murder Curtain

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 16 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Bruce Sackman (@bts1811) is a renowned investigator specializing in tracking down medical serial killers. He is the co-author of Behind the Murder Curtain: Special Agent Bruce Sackman Hunts Doctors and Nurses Who Kill Our Veterans.

What We Discuss with Bruce Sackman:

How Bruce first became aware of the MSKs (medical serial killers) who were operating for years, undetected, in our veterans hospitals.

Why it's so difficult -- even for medical professionals -- to spot their colleagues who kill in a hospital environment (and why it's often covered up when they do).

How the monstrously prolific body count of a quietly efficient MSK makes the serial killers who wind up famous as household names and true crime documentary subjects seem like amateurs in comparison.

What motivates an MSK to murder the people who trust and rely on them for care?

How Bruce's experience with tracking, exposing, and catching MSKs have helped investigators and forensic nurses throughout the world put a stop to these formerly unchecked murder sprees.

And much more...

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469: Should a Cheater Get a Second Chance? | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 12 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Should a cheater get a second chance? Like most of us, you probably have an instant answer to that question. But what if the cheater happened to be you? Should the ex you cheated on give you a second chance? We'll tackle this timeless question and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/469

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

A listener shares their own false confession story after hearing episode 456 with Laura Nirider, and Corbin Payne reminds us why we should never talk to the police without an attorney present whether or not we're guilty.

Should a cheater get a second chance? What if you're the cheater? Does that change your answer? Should the ex you cheated on give you a second chance?

Your idealist sibling can't seem to get his life together unless the "perfect" opportunities present themselves, and your family has had enough. How can you gently nudge him toward the path of progress he needs to take?

Your former boss turned hostile when you gave your two-week notice, and now you're worried she'll give you a bad reference as you seek employment elsewhere. How do you prepare for this possibility as you interview for future positions?

Your grandma's struggles with seasonal depression are exacerbated by her quarantine-era hobby of doomscrolling the news and posting on Facebook. What can you do to help her get unstuck from her own gloomy thoughts during this time?

What systems do we have in place to ensure we answer all the messages that come our way?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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468: Jack Schafer | Getting People to Reveal the Truth Part Two

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 11 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Jack Schafer (@jackschafer) is a retired FBI special agent, current assistant professor at Western Illinois University, and co-author of The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth. [This is part two of a two-part episode. Catch up with part one here!]

What We Discuss with Jack Schafer:

Elicitation versus interrogation: why one is usually more effective in extracting truth than the other.

How the elicitation techniques used by the FBI to uncover secrets from foreign spies can be applied to buying used cars, negotiating better salaries, and finding out if your teenager is throwing parties when you're out of town.

Three friend signals we display when we want to establish rapport and trust with someone we've just met (and might be used against us by con artists and other disreputable types).

How presumptive statements can be used to play upon our insecurities and get us to easily reveal truths we'd otherwise keep guarded -- and what we can do to avoid spilling the beans when they're used against us.

How to use a third-party perspective to discover what people are really thinking.

And much more...

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467: Jack Schafer | Getting People to Reveal the Truth Part One

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 09 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Jack Schafer (@jackschafer) is a retired FBI special agent, current assistant professor at Western Illinois University, and co-author of The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth. [This is part one of a two-part episode. Stay tuned for part two later this week!]

What We Discuss with Jack Schafer:

Elicitation versus interrogation: why one is usually more effective in extracting truth than the other.

How the elicitation techniques used by the FBI to uncover secrets from foreign spies can be applied to buying used cars, negotiating better salaries, and finding out if your teenager is throwing parties when you're out of town.

Three friend signals we display when we want to establish rapport and trust with someone we've just met (and might be used against us by con artists and other disreputable types).

How presumptive statements can be used to play upon our insecurities and get us to easily reveal truths we'd otherwise keep guarded -- and what we can do to avoid spilling the beans when they're used against us.

How to use a third-party perspective to discover what people are really thinking.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/467

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466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 05 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

In order to preserve your own sanity, you cut off all contact with your covert narcissist mom a few years ago. But now that she's dying, you wonder if you should reconcile for the short time she has left -- or regret not doing so once it's too late. What's the right thing to do here? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/466

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

In order to preserve your own sanity, you cut off all contact with your covert narcissist mom a few years ago. But now she's dying and you wonder if you should reconcile for the short time she has left -- or regret not doing so once it's too late.

You've become a perpetual shoulder to cry on for someone who never follows your advice no matter how much time you devote to trying to help them. How do you gently quit the job of being this person's informal (and free) therapist?

You've been at your current job for seven years with no advancement in your pay or position in spite of exceeding expectations and never receiving a negative performance review. Your boss promised a raise two and a half years ago, but it still hasn't surfaced. What should you do?

You're 50 years old and have worked in the same industry for most of your adult life. You're interested in transitioning to a different career, but you're starting to wonder if your age is a help or a hindrance. When you show up to interviews with grey hair, does it communicate "experienced and reliable" or "old and obsolete?"

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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465: Thomas Erikson | How to Protect Yourself from Psychopaths

info@podcastone.com — Thu, 04 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Thomas Erikson is a behavioral expert, active lecturer, and bestselling author of Surrounded by Idiots and Surrounded by Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Being Manipulated and Exploited in Business.

What We Discuss with Thomas Erikson:

Not all narcissists are psychopaths, but all psychopaths are narcissists. So how can you identify the psychopaths in your life who don't act like the ones you see in slasher flicks and psychological thrillers?

What psychopaths have to gain from manipulating and destroying other people.

The insidious tactics psychopaths use to sow doubt and reap chaos in others.

How you can resist these tactics before they're used to ruin your life.

What to do if you suspect that you might be a psychopath.

And much more...

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Thomas Erikson is a behavioral expert, active lecturer, and bestselling author of Surrounded by Idiots and Surrounded by Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Being Manipulated and Exploited in Business.

What We Discuss with Thomas Erikson:

Not all narcissists are psychopaths, but all psychopaths are narcissists. So how can you identify the psychopaths in your life who don't act like the ones you see in slasher flicks and psychological thrillers?

What psychopaths have to gain from manipulating and destroying other people.

The insidious tactics psychopaths use to sow doubt and reap chaos in others.

How you can resist these tactics before they're...

464: Ramit Sethi | I Will Teach You to Find Your Dream Job

info@podcastone.com — Tue, 02 Feb 2021 01:00:00 PST

Ramit Sethi (@ramit) is the bestselling author of I Will Teach You to Be Rich: No Guilt. No Excuses. No B.S. Just a 6-Week Program That Works, and now he's applied the same no-nonsense approach to his latest program, Find Your Dream Job.

What We Discuss with Ramit Sethi:

Many people are underpaid, often by $10,000 per year. How can you make sure you're not one of them?

What hiring managers are really looking for in job candidates, and how to refrain from disqualifying yourself before you've even applied simply because you lack a prerequisite mentioned in the listing.

Throwing your resume on a stack with the rest of the candidates and hoping for the best is probably a wasted effort -- because most of the best jobs are filled through backdoor introductions, often before they're ever made public.

By the time you've been granted an interview, the hiring manager doesn't want a generic rehash of your credentials -- they're more interested in knowing how well you'll fit in with the team and if you can be counted on under pressure.

The three parts of the negotiation power dynamics framework that will help you maximize the outcome of your negotiations by understanding your leverage.

And much more...

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/464

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463: Saying Sayonara to Sister's Swindling Sweetie | Feedback Friday

info@podcastone.com — Fri, 29 Jan 2021 01:00:00 PST

While your sister's history of bad beaus continues to sap her self-esteem and savings, her current companion's cons are preying upon your parents' provisions. What's the surest way of saying sayonara to your sister's swindling sweetie? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/463

On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

While your sister's history of bad beaus continues to sap her self-esteem and savings, her current companion's cons are preying upon your parents' provisions. What's the surest way of saying sayonara to your sister's swindling sweetie?

As a young, caucasian, cisgender, heterosexual, and relatively fit male with no real health issues (or even allergies), you recognize your privilege and genetic luck. How do you most responsibly support those who are less privileged as an ally who amplifies their messages, educates yourself, and stays mindful of your impact on others?

You're teaching at a run-down school where a gaslighting principal is in charge. You love your underserved students and don't want to abandon them, but you're finding the work environment too toxic to be sustainable for your sanity. What are your best options here?

You’ve been introducing people to each other when you've thought the connection would be mutually beneficial, but these introductions have gone awry more often than not. What's our advice for preventing this from happening (or mitigating its damage to your reputation when it does)?

Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!

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